Men & Women Revealed

What you really ought to know

We've all heard that men are from Mars, women are from Venus, and neither sex communicates well with the other. Poor communication leads to poor relationships and lousy sex. So, guys, what do you wish women knew about men? And gals, what do you wish men knew about women? Don't be shy, step up to the mike (so to speak) and tell the opposite sex what you think they really ought to know about you.   —Helen

Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.   —Katharine Hepburn

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From Anonymous
As I've gotten older I have become wiser.  I realize now when I met a woman that was willing to do things I liked just to be with me that should have been a sign that there would be issues down the road.  Now that I've been married to that person for more than 10 years my wife no longer takes an interest in things I like and vice versa.  We had infatuation when we were younger and that clouded our vision.  When the physical relationship was good we stayed connected.  As the physical relationship diminished we grew apart.

Now I find myself with someone that I can hardly talk to and when we do something together it is usually dinner and a movie and we hardly have anything to say.  Sex is no longer inviting, invigorating or exciting.  After our last lackluster attempt at sex I have given up on that.  I look at people now with whom I have similar interests and developed a great friendship and think how wonderful it would be to be with them.  That could only make the physical portion of the relationship better.

The things we learn as we get older and wiser.  I wish I had listened to my elders more before walking down the path I did. 

From Pat
For many men, I wish they knew how to find and stimulate the clitoris and the g-spot. With all the info out there on the Internet these days, it's a wonder there's any guy left out there who doesn't know this stuff.

From Anonymous
As a guy, what I would most like the woman in my life to understand is that our relationship is different from her previous relationship. I am not her ex-boyfriend, so please don't treat me like him. Women just don't seem to live in the "now". They react to everything I do or don't do based on what happened to them in previous relationships with other guys, thinking I'm just like that guy. They don't look at me as a unique individual.

From The Gray Mouser
What do I wish the opposite sex knew? That's easy, but it applies to all sexes (or shades thereof) equally.
I wish the whole ruddy lot of 'em would realize that wishing change upon 'the other side' just ain't gonna work. You want change? You work for it. That's that.

From Richard
A curious thing about this thread.  Repeatedly I have seen suggestions as to what women want of men and pretty much every time it has struck me that what they actually want of men is what men frequently want of women.  Most of us are actually more alike than we know.

From Sandi
What I wish men knew about women? We don't all want to get married. We don't all want children or have an instinctive knack for changing diapers (in fact, a man showed me how the only time I have ever attempted it).
We don't all have some house cleaning gene. We don't all prefer "family cars" over muscle cars and monster trucks. I could go on, but mostly, just throw out what you think you do know. That would be a good start.

From Jane
Why is it that many men think that when you pass by, you want to be mauled?  Intimacy can be non-sexual.  Random human touching doesn't have to lead to sex.

From Zillah
I wish everyone knew how to take EACH person as an individual, and not lump people into categories.  Women are like this... Men are like this...  I wish that each sex could leave their generalizations at the door.

From Susan
Women want to be equals inside and outside of the bedroom. Not being treated as equals is one of the biggest factors in break ups. If dinner's over where are you? Are you watching CSI or are you helping to clean up the kitchen?If you had a bad day and would like your woman to take you to bed and take it all away, what do you do when she comes home upset?

It's the daily drudgery of running a household that gets me down personally, it is something that needs to be done, but why am I doing it alone? I hate dishes and laundry just as much as any man, I would rather be reading or playing Xbox too.

So why do women burst into tears for no apparent reason? Could it be we are tired and horny and there are tons of everyday crap to do before we can play?

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