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From Shaikh
Well I am happily married for the last 15 years, and I love my wife and have never been unfaithful to her and I know for sure that she has also never been with any other man except me. Before getting married to her there was a cousin of mine who was deeply in love with me and wanted to marry me but I was not interested in her and told her that I do not love her, so I will not marry her.

Then all of a sudden after 15 years I meet her at a hotel in Dubai, and there we had a chat and then she asked me to have lunch with her. During our conversation she came to know that we were residing at the same hotel, but she was there with her family, and I was alone as it was my business trip. Anyway, I had no intention of meeting her again. Well the next day she gave me an in house call in the evening and asked me what I was doing, I told her that I was going back tomorrow to England in the early morning, so I have to take a early nap. So she asked me if she could have a cup of coffee with me, I refused as I was very tired and then put the phone down and went to take a shower.

Then there was a knock at my door and I thought that the laundry boy has brought my suit, so I just wrapped a towel around and opened the door but it was her,  I was surprised and asked her what was she doing here, she just said a cup of coffee, and in she came.  I went to the bathroom and put my bathrobe and came out called the in-house for a cup of coffee, and after 5 min the waiter brought the coffee. She started telling me about her married life that its a misery for her how her husband treats and blah blah and that her sex life is ruined as he is impotent for the last 7 years and so on and on. I consoled with her and felt sympathy for her, but nothing more then I told her that now I have to sleep, then she asked me if she could kiss me just once as I was her first love.

I do not know what happened and I said yes and then she started a wet long deep kiss and put her hands between the robe and hold my cock which started growing hard. I am good 7 inch and its also very thick, all of a sudden she went on her knees and started sucking it and from there it was point of no return and we fucked the brains out of each other till late in the morning until it was time for me to leave for the airport.

I still think of it and feel that I should have stopped her.

From Jeff
We recently swapped with another couple.  Not by design, it followed a very enjoyable meal out with them.  They, like us, send their children to a fee-paying school.  After a year or more of meeting them at school activities, we suggested we meet each other for dinner.  They were very enthusiastic, we arranged for our children to sleep over at theirs.  My wife owned up to finding the husband handsome and attractive and I owned up to finding the wife, from Hong Kong, also attractive. 

We did, unconsciously, pair off over the meal, my wife with hubby, me with wife, occupying each other with separate conversations.  I was pleasantly surprised when the wife made no move to stop me stroking her thigh (her dress had ridden up revealing her lacy-top stockings).  And I said nothing as she tended to my wonky neck chain.  We walked back from the restaurant, only ten or so minutes, but in front hubby had his arm around my wife, and I did likewise with wife.  We all had very large glasses of Southern Comfort, sat on settees in the lounge, and after some more conversation, an extremely relaxed atmosphere became very conducive to sex. 

Hubby and my wife began kissing very passionately before they eventually left for a bedroom.  Wife and I were also kissing in a similar torrid fashion and we too found a bedroom.  It was the first time my wife and I had swapped partners for sex.  It was very enjoyable, we met our couple for sex, still do, on a number of occasions.  Meaningless sex but very enjoyable and a boost to me and my wife's sex life.

From Calvin
I was very proud, and sexually aroused, when it became apparent my wife had been fucked while away at a conference. Two little bruises around her nipples led me to quiz her and I became very sexually aroused, excited, resulting in an amazing erection, when she told me the full story. 

I was very impressed that she was very adult about wanting sexual fulfillment while away from me, very proud that her lover was a younger guy (she is 57) in his thirties.  The lovemaking my wife and I experienced following her fessing up was probably the best we'd ever had.  Yes, I'm all for meaningless sex and have asked my wife to indulge again when she next goes away to a conference!

From Lesley
I was sitting in the lounge at JFK waiting for my flight back to the UK following a business trip to the west coast when the young guy (him mid-30s, me 52) next to me struck up conversation.  It didn't take me long to realise he was hitting on me, trying to pick me up. Possibly I was tired from my long internal flight from San Francisco, but I lacked the will to fight off his charms and as we moved to our seats after an hour or so of chatting we exchanged business cards.  On board we were only six rows apart so managed to speak to each other during the night flight back to London. 

No, we didn't have sex on the plane, too much of a cliche, but we did a few nights later at his place following a very enjoyable dinner.  I could easily have begun an affair with this young man but too many complications, so I left at it one very fulfilling and satisfying fuck, still remembering today his lovemaking technique, his gentle mouth at my vagina, his more than ample penis, first in my mouth and then very deep inside my vagina, his and my orgasms, the memory of feeling the flood of his (very hot) sperm inside me (can still feel it), smiling to myself as I went home with my knickers and tights completely soaked by his spunk, and the knowledge that, at 52, dismissed by too many as an old, I can still pull a thirtiesomething man and have some wonderful, if meaningless, sex.

From Beau
I brought my wife to New Orleans while I attended a number of important business meetings.  On Tuesday I had a manic day of back to back meetings, getting back to the hotel well after the agreed 5:30 p.m.  I eventually got back at almost 7, wife not in room, pissed with waiting for me she had gone off to a evening reception the hotel was holding to promote tourism.  I showered, changed and got to the reception. 

There was my wife, very smart and sexy in a white blouse, short skirt and high heels.  I immediately sensed she was 'with' the guy standing alongside her.  He was young, good looking, slim and smartly dressed, and I did not feel comfortable attempting to join her.  When the meeting finally came to an end I expected her to look for me as I moved towards her.  I was ignored as her man swept her from the room.  It was gone midnight when she returned to our room.  I was still up, working on my next presentation and I felt her anger at not being there at the beginning of the evening.  She showered and walked back into the room naked, 'I had a great evening with a charming man, very amusing guy.  We had dinner then we fucked, now I want you to fuck me!' 

Awesome!  I pulled off my PJ's and we had some of the best sex in our 13 years of marriage.  Was my wife being fucked by this guy meaningless sex?  No!  It had loads of meaning if the fabulous sex I had with my wife was the result, as it was.

From Andy
I won't name it but I am a member of a community service organization, have been in this particular club for five years or so, transferring from another club.  I am in my mid-sixties, seven years divorced, and fucking the wives of two members - with the full approval and participation of both husbands.  Both ladies are also in their 60's, very attractive and reacted very favorably to my flirting with them.  This developed when I had dinner with both wife and hubby, this allowing me to (jokingly of course) introduce the suggestion of a threesome.  Surprisingly, or not perhaps, both sets of husbands and wives agreed. 

That was a good 18 months ago and I meet with both couples at regular monthly intervals.  The pattern is the same for both couples - dinner, either at theirs or a restaurant, then to the bedroom where husband will watch me fuck wife, or watch her suck me off, he jerking off, joining in for a second round of sex.  It works since both wives are obviously very keen on sex, don't get it normally from hubbies, but seeing me with their wives results in full arousal and hubbies servicing their wives, invariably hubby fucking wife while she sucks me off, a classic threesome.  If we still have the energy (often) we will go onto a third round of sex, hubby taking a back seat to jerk off watching me and wife.

I don't talk about it publicly, and I'm sure both couples have not mentioned it to others.  Perhaps for all five of us it is meaningless sex but I know everyone is very satisfied.  I have a good sex drive, both wives enjoy their sex, certainly weren't being fucked by husbands before we got the threesome going but I know that both have got their sex lives back on track and for all I know may well be swinging with another single male or couple.

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