Meaningless Sex
Would You Indulge Or Avoid?

I have a friend who I have known since high school. He's home from college and calls me up, looking for a little piece of ass and not much else. I'm debating about whether to go for it or not. I've been a little lonely lately since my steady dumped me five months ago and my 'love interest' is at war in Iraq. How many of you would take a guy up on this kind of offer?   —Megan Esoterotic

It is impossible to write about sex & not reveal too much of yourself. Whereas I think it is possible to have sex & reveal nothing of yourself whatsoever.   —Tony Kushner, author of "Angels in America"

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From P
In over thirty year of marriage I didn't know what a slut my wife (K) was or could be.  It certainly opened my eyes and has given our sex life an amazing boost and strengthened our marriage and partnership beyond measure.  It started when K and I went to a spa for the weekend, a three day program of detox treatments and tough love leaf and carrot meals.  An ice-breaker Friday evening meet up introduced us to our fellow detoxers, all thirtiesomethings, a good twenty years younger than us although we were both complimented on our good looks and slim figures (K has breast implants so has very perky boobs). 

After dinner we went for a sauna then into the Jacuzzi where we met up again with some of our new friends.  The following day the course began in earnest, the day made up of various treatments and very severe meals.  At the end of the afternoon treatments I went looking for K, eventually finding her in the Jacuzzi, sandwiched between hubby J and wife T, a couple we'd met at the ice breaker and in the Jacuzzi the night before.  Both wives were topless, quite a breakthrough for K who normally is very modest when it comes to her boobs but for me a welcome development. 

All three told me I had to go commando to get in the tub, again another breakthrough for K, her relaxed mode and happy, smiling face very encouraging.  Once naked, T gave my (semi-erect) penis (it was a very sexually arousing moment), a long hard look and greeted it with a 'Hey, Big Boy!' K adding something along the lines of 'Yep, he's not bad, eh?!'  Once in the tub alongside T we chatted while J chatted to K.  After a few minutes, without warning, I felt T's hand around my penis and it quickly went from semi-erect to fully erect.  'Well, what are we going to do with that?'  I had no answer so she asked another, 'What do you think your wife would like?'  I had no reason for saying it but I did, 'I'm sure she'd dig being fucked by your husband.  Ask her.'  T asked and K agreed but then I didn't know until later she was massaging J's penis. 

Cut a long story short and five minutes later we were in J and T's room, K on one bed her ass being fucked by J and me on the other bed, face up with T riding me, my penis fat and long inside her pussy. 

Back in our own room we discussed every last second of it, me totalled by my wife the slut, our own lovemaking that night out of this world, me very pleased at K's new found sexual confidence.  It is only meaningless sex but a few months later and I have watched my wonderfully newly sexually liberated wife being pussy and ass fucked by a succession of men, sucking them off and swallowing each last drop of their cum, inviting me to join in, either being sucked by her as our friend fucks her or a double penetration, her favorite.

From Julie
I enjoy sex, hubby and I indulging most nights. That is when I am not away presenting at conferences. I hope I'm not a sex addict but twice a year I'm away from home for a fortnight at overseas conferences with no visit home. Thanks to having a good fuck or blow job nightly with hubby when home I do miss it when away.

Yes, despite hubby's 'ok' to my having opportunistic sex when away for these long fortnights, I still feel very guilty afterwards but it is meaningless sex in that it is two people getting it on and doing something basic and natural.  Yes, he has to use protection and I do miss the rush of cum in my mouth, pussy or anus and I miss the amazing biting during the ecstasy, making very sure there is no biting of my neck or breasts. 

From Baz
It was midnight, a few months ago, post a very successful dinner party with friends, two other couples, one couple left, leaving my wife and me with what was our favorite couple, both very good looking, kind, gentle and very intelligent, and our four way conversation remained very sparkling despite the hour. 

When one of our friends indicated that it was time for them to go I suggested, my wife agreeing, we keep the afterglow and conversation going and they could stay overnight, go in the morning after breakfast. "Only if I can make ecstatic, passionate love to your wife!"  We laughed and I replied with something along the lines of it being a decision for my wife, but what did his wife have to say? My wife was probably a bit shocked at my relaxed view, calmly answered with enthusiasm, saying she had wanted to have our guest make love to her for ages.  We all looked to his wife who smiled, "yes, why don't we all go to bed together and see what happens." 

We did and had a very enjoyable time, a perfect partner swap with both wives swapping husbands and being fucked at least twice each. It was meaningless sex but very satisfying and resulted in us going away with them for a week and indulging in some fulfilling, no-strings extra-marital sex.

From Bob
I really don't think there is anything such as meaningless sex. My wife and I occasionally partner swap with some close friends and we could say it is meaningless in that neither of us is going to bring our 30 year marriage to an end with falling in love with another and going off with them. But when we swap partners with our friends our sex is not loveless. It is very physical, involving, exciting, enjoyable and very satisfying.

As my wife says, if the man she is partnering with is going to explode inside her vagina, anus or mouth with his precious seed then it doesn't happen in a cold heartless or cynical way. The mutual kissing, touching, sucking all are genuine displays of love and desire, and a deep wish to satisfy as well be satisfied. With such a lot of passion, love and ecstasy enjoyed by us and all our friends during sex then meaningless sex surely can't seriously exist as a concept.

From Liz
I recently went to a party on my own for the first time in living memory. My husband meant to accompany me but his mother had fallen ill and he wanted to spend the evening at her bedside. I'm no oil painting, but certainly not an ogre, with a slim figure, attractive face, and for the bash I wore my party gear, my lbd, perhaps a little too short for a lady in her fifties, hold up stockings, high heels.

After an hour or so chatting to friends I found myself in conversation with this very good looking young man. He was very friendly, personable, intelligent and made me laugh. When someone switched the rock music for the ballads we danced and as I became aware that he had an erection, instead of recoiling I uncharacteristically savoured his 'pleased to see me' moment, perhaps hiding in the room's dim candlelight. I put my hands around his shoulders and within a few moments we began to kiss, quite passionately. He asked if we should 'find somewhere' and I remember saying 'yes, why don't we', completely uncaring that friends of me and my husband were still at the party and might wonder what I was doing picking up a young man.

The sex was not memorable but it was my very first extra marital sex and very significant for me and returning to the party with panties soaked in semen (despite tissues) was a strangely empowering feeling. It was 'meaningless sex' but very important for me.

From Belle
If, and I mean a big if, two people can meet in the bedroom with the understanding of what their boundaries are, then meaningless sex can be the best sex one can experience.

Imagine sex where there are no feelings to be hurt. It is a complete release of one's inhibitions, no expectations of the other. Intense erotica and passion in an environment where it is safe to let go.

Don't knock it if you haven't tried it. Sex without emotion can be the most liberating and satisfying type of relationship. It doesn't demean the importance of making love with your soul mate but is on a whole different level altogether.

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