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From Kim
Like some here, both male and female (I'm a female) I honestly cannot recall ever NOT masturbating. My earliest memories are from the age of 5 or 6, and by that time, I was already very adept and regular in the practice. I have been giving myself incredible orgasms since at least that age. My nipples have always been very sensitive, and even when I didn't masturbate my genitals on a particular occasion, I would rub and play with them to sooth myself before sleep or during times of stress or even just for fun.

As someone who has worked with young children a great deal and studied the subject, I am aware that many young children masturbate. Not all do, but many. It is perfectly normal and the most common age for it to start is around 4 yrs old (which is a landmark stage of sexual identification and development) This is not to suggest that they are in any way aware of more adult sexual concepts (if they are, that can be an indication of abuse), but they ARE "sexual" beings, which many adults have a hard time accepting.

My own daughter, at 7, has long since discovered her clit, and has told me (in all innocence, since, again, for her it is not anything "dirty" or "sexual") that "it tickles and feels good when I touch it." I just agree that yes, it does, it's supposed to. (and remind her that she can touch it in private but not in public!)

I still masturbate regularly, regardless of how much sex with my partner I am enjoying. My sex drive has always been very strong, and is stronger than my (male) partner's. But even when I don't "need" the release, I enjoy it anyway. It is one of the greatest pleasures in my life. I cannot imagine feeling guilty about it or giving it up.

Also, I "discovered" masturbating with flowing water pretty early on...no detachable shower head, but I would (and sometimes still do!) position myself under the faucet in the tub, the hotter and harder the better, within reason of course, and WOW!! Good, clean fun.

From Colin
I was 6 and on holiday Jeff and his sister Amy became my friends, Jeff & Amy called me over to some bushes, once there Jeff asked me to take my bathing shorts off as they had something to show me. in my naivety I pushed my shorts down and stepped out of them, they did the same, Jeff's dick was erect, Amy naked (first naked female) do not have one, I was curious she said women were different, at that age I knew nothing. Jeff rubbed his boner, within seconds his dick jumped and milky substance came out I thought it was milk.

Amy laughed as my dick swelled up, she sat beside me hand wrapped her round my small hard dick and moved her hand on it, it felt amazing as she rubbed quicker suddenly I felt scared as she pulled my foreskin right back and it stayed back, I thought she had broken it, I remember crying.

Amy spat on my dry dick that freed the foreskin but I was too sore to let her continue, they made me promise not to tell anyone, I was our secret. we met every morning and Jeff let me rub his, Amy never let me rub her, but she and Jeff played with mine

Wish I knew where they are today.

From Franco
I don't remember exactly how old I was, but it was sometime when I was in junior high. I had just watched a movie and was very interested in the way a man and a woman had been rolling around and kissing each other. I was in bed trying to sleep when I started to pretend I was that guy in the movie and I was on top of the woman, kissing her. Before I knew it, my dick was hard. As I pretended to kiss this woman, I had started to push my dick into the mattress, in and out. 

Suddenly, I stated to feel something I had not felt before. I was feeling this intense pleasure in my dick and around my balls. I didn't know what it was, but it felt so good. I continued to push my dick into the mattress faster and faster, and I realized my pleasure was growing. Man, I did not know till then that my dick could feel so good and give me such pleasure. Then, waves of pleasure went through my dick until I felt an explosion and something come out my dick. 

Afterwards, all I could do was think about how amazing this was. One other first time I remember is when I was 20. I was in the back seat of the car of a 36 year old woman I was dating. I was against the door, with my legs spread apart and on her lap. I used my hand to masturbate in front of her. This was the first time I had masturbated if front of a woman, and the first time she had seen a guy masturbate.

From Jonathan
I just surfed into this website and thought, everyone is open, why not me? I discovered masturbation when I was only 13 years old. I was actually changed into a tight fitting bathing suit, getting ready to head out for an evening of swimming. While walking around at home getting ready, I felt a small rubbing sensation and felt much pleasure out of that. 

When I got home, I locked myself in the basement washroom and experimented with slow up and down foreskin movements. When I increased the speed and felt an unexplainable urge, I got up and ejaculated for the first time. I panicked, but resumed this same pleasure over and over again.

From Jon
When I was just over 12 years old I was the last child in the family still living with my parents, my brother and two sisters were much older than me. I slept in the middle bedroom, to get to the small spare room you had to pass through my bedroom. My eldest sister had come to stay for a few days. I went to bed at my usual time, put on my pajamas, (I now always sleep in the nude) read my comics and settled down to sleep.

I found that for some reason my penis was starting to feel strange and I touched myself and found it was becoming hard. The more I touched the better the feelings and the harder it became, I just could not let it go, had to keep touching and pulling on it. I did not hear my sister and parents coming up the stairs, but as she opened the bedroom door I came (as I now know). I wanted to cry out but of course I couldn't. 

After she had closed her bedroom door I had to explore and see just what the mess was, of course after this I just couldn't wait for the next time so that I could see just what an orgasm was and how the semen shot out.

I am now retired but will never forget this first time. My wife (who is younger than me) and I still have regular self masturbation sessions in front of each other.

From Natalie
I had my first orgasm when I was 10. My friend told me she got a prank phone call and the guy on the phone told her to rub her pussy. I was thinking about what she said one day and I started rubbing my pussy. I close my thigh very tight when I masturbate and I apply pressure on my clit.

From Anonymous
At around 11 or 12, shortly after starting secondary school, I became best friends with a rather confident, precocious girl. Sometime during the first year of that friendship, she told me about the clitoris, and how if you rubbed it you would orgasm. I don't remember if we tried it together at first, but I certainly tried at home. When she asked me if I came, I said I thought so, to which she replied that if I didn't know, I couldn't have done. I think we were together when I did experience my first orgasm, though I think I was a little too self- conscious in her presence to enjoy it fully (we only ever masturbated in the same room, under our own blankets). 

I do remember once having a masturbation session where she suggested we moan, which I seem to remember we did a little. After that first orgasm I was hooked and developed various methods. My favourites, apart from basic fingering, was the running water method by detaching the shower head, and tying up a few socks, placing them in another sock and using a scarf to firmly attach them to a teddy or pillow, I would then ride this hard bump (usually wearing knickers to avoid too much friction). Those were very intense orgasms.

I introduced another friend to masturbation, just as my friend had done for me.


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