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From Rocket Man
I love getting off with my various aids first of which is online porn like lesbian, bi-sexual mmf, MILF, sexy cartoons about incest, and women with huge boobs. I also use a prostrate vibrator, a cock ring and a fake pussy.

I get my cock and balls all wet with Hot Licks warming lotion, and Astro Glide. Since, I've masturbated since starting puberty around 10 or 11, I can control my dick very well which means I can make these experiences last a long time!

From karmakonchog
You must forgive me for chuckling when I think about this but many years ago when I was in my formative years I worked away from home often and like most in this situation a young person's mind turns to the top shelves in the motorway services. 

So there I am alone in bed, magazine in one hand and an erection in the other. The build up is very horny but which image would accompany my ejaculation? Often I never made it to that perfect image and ended up climaxing to an advert for Marlborough cigarettes or something. It often seemed such a let down. 

Anyway if we fast-forward to the new millennium, in fact right up to 2007. I have bought a Fleshlight and it's great. Still have difficulty finding the right page on the WWWank. But along with a fulfilling relationship with my beautiful wife, my Fleshlight, my wife and me are having a great time

From Roy
To me, there's nothing like getting out on our land and stripping completely naked under the blue sky to hang on a cross that I built. I love to tie a sheet, rope or whatever around the cross over my swollen penis as I ride it up and down to come. The cool feeling of the wind sweeping over my balls and nipples is tremendous as I'm stretched out.

From Paul Schuman
It is definitely the middle of my bed, I put two pillows between my mattress and box spring get undressed and get down on my knees. I put lubricant in a vinyl glove and slip it over my dick, lift the mattress up and stick it between the mattress and the pillows. I play "beach baby" by first class and imagine myself fucking the blonde named Anne.

I imagine her laying there looking at me intensely, her tits shake as I thrust into her. The sensation of the mattress against my dick feels like I'm really fucking her. Then comes the best part at the end of the song they're singing "beach baby beach baby beach baby" and I'm just gripping the mattress tightly pretending it's Anne. Then I fall forward as I come, 4 spurts into the glove, I lay there on my knees for a minute to catch my breath. I get up, pull off the glove and throw it away. I recommend it to anyone!

From Sam
My favorite masturbation aid is, without a doubt, the Fleshlight. I use it for a quickie when my sife isn't into sex (like when she has her period), or a prolong slow sexy session while reading an erotic book or watching a hot movie. It's the best masturbation aid ever, better then my own hand, and ain't that saying something! 

I have two Fleshlight toys, one with a pussy type entrance and another with a butt type entrance. One with ribs on the inside, the other with bumps. Yowie!

From Lawrence
A lot of times I use a penis pump that expands my entire penis (from tip to base) to a cylinder shape that is 10 inches long and three inches wide - then I masturbate.

I cruise the web or watch TV instead of playing with myself. I pump it up... surfing porn is great because my penis will expand. After two to four hours of the pump my penis is really sensitive, even for several days. I have to be careful if i go out, because people give my crotch strange looks.

I have been using the pump for 11 years and with a girlfriend of mine we almost gave up trying to fit me in. Sometimes I take the pump off and it's full of cum that I pour out... I didn't even orgasm.

From William
As a child our beds were covered (under the sheets) with shower curtains to keep them dry so my first orgasms came from vinyl. As a teenager, women in raincoats would get me hard but I did not know why. When I got a hold of one it all came back to me. Raincoats were hard to come by, American women don't or won't wear them: (Being a little horntoad I looked for vinyl and the only place I could find it was in the bathroom (shower curtains again). 

I have masturbating with vinyl down to an art form. I come almost every day. I have over 50 curtains I use thick, thin, one sided, two, smooth and rough. I have old ones from the 50's. Each a different feel each a different orgasam. I tried latex for something new but nothing beats soft vinyl.

From William John
I beat off while listening to tv show themes. My favorites are the Love Boat, Magnum P.I, A-Team, Dallas, Trapper John MD and Airwolf. I've masturbated to the 1970 version of the Monday night football theme. While most of these themes only last 2 or so minutes, I find myself having to play these themes over and over again in order to come.

It's something new to me, but these themes are sort of arousing to me, and I've been able to use them to help me get an erection and it's something that pleases me every time.

From Anonymous
This my sound kind of weird. But I've found a good way to get ones self off, if a guy, using a Ziploc bag, lube, and a bed. Put some lube in the bag, put the bag between the mattress and what ever happens to be under the mattress and insert erect penis in to the bag. You can vary the pressure by leaning on the mattress different amounts as you thrust. 

This is the  thing that I have found comes closest in feeling to the real thing. And the thing I like the most is it mimics doggy style, which is my favorite position. the nice thing too is it's very cheap to do, the items are easily available. And any mess is contained to the bag. 

The only issue I have found is that beds of different heights can be somewhat difficult to use and depending on the floor surface it can be a bit rough on the knees. But its easy to overcome these by propping yourself up and using some sort of padding under your knees. It's worth the effort.

From Anonymous
I started "riding" my stuffed animals before I was 3, every night, and even had a game I played with a friend of mine when I was about 9, where we played "house" only we would lay on top of each other and hump the other girl's pussy. I now do it up to 10 times a day.

From Ronni
I usually just fantasize to masturbate. I usually think of different ways fucking with my husband, sometimes I think about having another woman suck my tits and eat my pussy and me sucking her tits, sometimes I think about having my husband watch me and another woman or doing it with both him and my ex-husband. 

Although my husband and I have made videos and taken digital photos before, I just took some more that I've been masturbating to. I love my tits -- they're huge -- and I took a bunch of pics of them that I like to masturbate to. I also sucked my husband off and took some digital stills of his cock and some video of me sucking him off that I like to masturbate to. 

I think I like our stuff better than the porn DVDs we have. Sometimes I like to watch lesbian porn and masturbate, but I usually cum to quick that way. My mind is really my favorite way to go -- I can usually fantasize about all sorts of stuff and get off.

From Cara
I usually start out by looking at pictures of pregnant woman or watching videos of them having sex. I get so wet by then! I use a small finger vibe for my clit. I am so ready to be fucked by anything - I have used dog toys, vibrating baby teethers, kid's bead necklaces, mousse cans, bananas, and my favorite...a long, THICK carrot that I heat up in the microwave so it is soooo hot. I penetrate myself until I come, then I lick my sweet warm cum.. 

I am going to try the vibrating toothbrush and an ear of corn next, any other weird ideas...I am pregnant and so horny I play with my wet self a few times a day. I cannot get enough!

From Cute Toes
I am a guy with a double fixation: my (and other people's) feet and my ass. So my sessions of self-pleasure usually involve something in my ass - a dildo or butt-plug, a cucumber, my own fingers... and my bare feet. I masturbate looking at my feet and wiggling, curling and spreading apart my cute little toes.

I am uncircumsized, so I have the ability to pull my foreskin up over the head of my cock while I come, so as to capture all of my thick, warm cream. What I then often do is let it drop down on my feet and watch it run in between my toes and, to top things off, I will lick and suck them clean.

From Sarah Day
I masturbate twice a day, right before I go to sleep. It takes me about ten minutes manually but usually I use things like my faveorite teddy bear.

From Tony M
I masturbate by using porn (books, internet and dvd's) The subjects I like are "Girls first time" and Lesbianism. I hardly look at men fucking women or pix of women having oral sex with men. I collect a lot of books with pictures of cunts with big flaps and clits and "woman sucking pussy" and this gets me off in no time although I can prolong. 

My computer is the same. Although I am married for over twenty years, I still do this especially when the wife holds out on me if we have a quarrel. She knows I do this and she gets a kick out of it after she caught me one late night on the computer stroking my cock to some porn. We occasionally indulge in mutual masturbation since then as part of our foreplay before sex.

From Steve
I am turned on by bondage and speedos. The most bizarre thing I ever did with someone was allow him to tie me spread eagled on some rr tracks. I was wearing only a red speedo, was gagged and totally helpless. The tracks were used often by Amtrack trains. he sucked me and then untied me flipped me over and tied me back up face down. he then slit a hole in the crack of my speedo and fucked me.

During this time we could hear the sound of an approaching train and it got both of us off. he untied me in plenty of time and we both sat alongside the track as the eastbound train finally passed by 12 minutes later. I would love to have a repeat of this.

From Anonymous
Love the website, at last thought provoking subjects and the ability to comment. Masturbation, yep doin' it to ourselves, long may we continue, in my early fifties and at the moment partner and relationship-less, it fulfills a basic need. In fact any guy who says he doesn't is either brain dead or a liar. And let's face it, whatever you wank to is doing it for you or why would you be, you get the point.

A plus side for me is being able to ''hold off'' when having sex with a partner, either to be a gentleman and wait for the lady, or better still hold her right on the edge and watch her moan, writhe and see just how crazy I can drive her! Which in my meager experience often makes them very um? appreciative. Keep doin' it guys, use it or lose it.

From Bruce
I usually fantasize about another man or men. I have never really had a gay experience but would like to. I have started shaving below and it is quite the turn on. I also have a fetish with men's underwear. I love pictures with men in the skimpiest. The web has been great for this. Wouldn't it be nice if all your commenters could get together on some desert island. What a party.

From Richard
I love to masturbate thinking about the guys at work. I am bi-sexual and very straight looking. Just about all the guys and girls at work know about me. I just enjoy touching them and grabbing their asses while no one is watching. They enjoy it as well. 

I can jack-off for about an hour just thinking about all those married men at work and other places I have given head too. Then I love to tell girls about it while I am sucking on there titties and I am working my way down to there creamy wet pussies. Man Life is great.

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