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From Goldy
A woman's pussy is like a flower, beautiful to look at in full bloom. I find much delight in a lovely lotus blossom. When I see a woman with large labial folds I become aroused. I am happy that my wife has large labial lips and a large clitoris, because there is more to lick and more of her feminine flavor and scent. 

From Jane
I'm living in the US today but in 1975 I was in the UK, married, two months after the birth of my second, getting my sexual juices running again only to be bitterly disappointed with my husband's girth. My vagina was the size of the Hudson Tunnel and my husband was not overly well endowed so I did not feel anything when he entered my vagina. 

I was one of the first in the UK to have an operation to reduce the diameter of my vagina. It was painful, it was expensive (a special Christmas pressy from hubby) but once I was able to restart vaginal sex, it worked a treat! I could at long last feel him! Hubby was neither long nor fat but that was exactly the sensation I got as he rode in and out of me, his cock felt like a wine bottle in there, my orgasms had returned! 

I'm now in my early sixties, we are still married, we have big libidos, we have amazing one-on-one sex, and on high days and holidays we swing with some old horny marrieds like us, some of the very nice friends we've made in our 25 years residence in the US!

From Don
Chuckling here. I am blown away by the messages on this string from women indicating that their lips are so big that they are:

- hard to manage
- visible bulges in swim suits or tight pants.

Ladies, if you see that as a problem try managing a full cock and balls. I never even worried about it until I saw those messages. Gad! Should I be concerned that my granddaughter refers to my Speedo as a 'banana hammock'? Should I opt for cockplasty to make it more manageable and less visible? I think not.

Gosh I do wish all you women would learn that you are all beautiful just the way you are.

From Large Lipped Girl
Sam, thank you for defending the ladies and clearing up John's perception that large labia means a pussy has been 'used' a lot. [see Sam's entry below] I have large lips which developed when I went thru puberty. I swear, the guys that think this must either only see women in porn, not real life, or they've had very few partners and just haven't come across large lips when they were relatively young (and possibly were with youngish women, and therefore might think otherwise).

Haven't they noticed that after having a long relationship with a women that includes lots of sex, that small lips don't suddenly morph into large ones?!? It's not from sex! When will guys get this? Not to mention the notion of a women being 'used' a lot is just crass.

From Phil
Ladies love your lips. My girlfriend is very self-conscious, saying her vagina looks like "shredded meat". I think it's beautiful. But if she's right in that it's a good correlation to food. "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach" so bon appetit! Ladies, your labia are one of the many things that make you a woman. You are creatures who have been revered and cherished by humanity throughout history. Any one who respects and loves you will love your labia no matter how big or small they might be.

From Sam
Hmm, John {see John's entry below] you're a bit off on this 'used' look. The size of the labia or clit has nothing to do with use. If it did, porn stars would have labia hanging down to their knees. Labia size and other vagina variants are the same as penis variations; it's simply what we're born with. You know how it goes: brown eyes, blue eyes, large labia, small penis, etc.

From John
I like small ones actually, Big are ok, no problem, just I like the look of a vagina that looks as though it hasn't been used a lot.

From Sonia
I think a lot of men form these negative views on large female genitalia because they look at too much porn and don't have enough sexual experience. I also think this is probably a view of my generation(y). Just as small breast were found more attractive during the twenties, etc.

From Dionne
I am so glad I found this site. I am 24 years old with very big vagina lips and clit. I noticed that I was different after the birth of my son at 19. My vagina is lips are so big and I was self-conscious about them for ages because although I am slim and petite there is a big bulge that shows through my underwear or swimsuits. 

However the last few guys that I have been with have absolutely loved them which has made me feel better around men and sexually, however I am still very self-conscious in public and will not wear tights trousers, swimsuits etc

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