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From Kaycey
So my vagina is so disgusting. It hangs all down and I'm so embarrassed. I've has sex with two guys and they both are confused by it. My first boyfriend (who lost his virginity to me) asks why its like that. And another older guy who i had sex with said it is a very 'interesting' vagina and has never seen one like it. The lips hang down and have like a purplish color. I am so insecure because of my vagina. When guys want to eat me out I get all nervous and clench. I hate it so much, I am so going to have surgery. Men obviously don't like it!

From Neil
This message is for Sarah.  [see Sarah's entry below] Please, please trust than your lovers will love you just as you are.  A woman that I dated back in college...many years ago...had the same concerns and insecurities.  I thought that she was beautiful and that her genitals were too. 

Believe me, it's our differences that give us charm and make us unique.  What looks like an "imperfection" to you is not at all, but it's part of what makes you beautiful.  Remember that it's confidence that makes one sexy.  Please don't have surgery.  Try to love yourself and others will follow suit.

From Sarah
Reading these posts just released so much emotion that I had been building up for years. I'm glad to hear that I'm not alone, but it is still an insecurity that I can not move past. Many men considered me to be an attractive female, but I can't help thinking what they would think about me if they saw my labia. It does not bother me as much that it is big, but that the lips are very different in size and length. Although I can read that so many men appreciate a vagina, no matter what it looks like, I still can't help but think that I will turn a guy off. Every time I sleep with someone, I do not let them look down there. It's tearing me apart because it is hard to fully enjoy myself sexually if I can't completely relax.

I thought about surgery so many times, but I am a college student and I don't know where I would find the money to get it done. I've never told anyone how I've felt before and it hurts so much that i can't help by cry now. I want to share my feelings with my mom, but I don't even know how to bring it up.

From Molly
I am the only woman I have seen in the flesh with lips - both sets, mind you - as big as mine. When I was a child, I would pull on the inner lips for the pleasure of it, then alternately pull on the outer ones. Maybe that caused it , maybe not... water under the bridge. I've been really self-conscious about it in the past, but with little reason. I'm fairly sure the only reason most porn doesn't have women with big lips is because, well, most women don't have em!

I remember back when my now husband I had been together for only about a week, and we were house-sitting for my sister. He began to fondle my bare genitals with it, then he said, very earnestly, "you have my favorite pussy ever", and when I jokingly said "of course I do!", he just looked at me with big eyes and said "no. seriously. ever."

Of course, at this time, I did not know that most of the porn my husband had looked at was, for lack of better language, pussy-oriented. I later became familiar with his tastes in porn, and the man loves pussy. Especially shots from behind, where the lips really open up. I only now know what a compliment it was that after years of looking at all those pathetic, dinky porn-star pussy lips, he preferred my big, soft ones.

So despair not, ladies! In fact, you've been blessed with your big lips. Men like big everything - big boobs (which I do not have), big butts, and yep, big pussy - it's just more to love.

From Confused 18 yr old
Thank gosh I've came across this web page. My minoria are long, I feel so disgusted standing in front of the mirror seeing them hang loose. When I wear a bathing suit, when I wear anything, they seem to stick out. And I've honestly thought about getting them surgically removed. Now that I know I'm not the only one who's experiencing this, I am sooooo relieved. 

I still have to say that the smaller, the better. But guess what? Some people are born with bigger breasts then others, some have nicer eyes, some are tall, some are short. Who are we to say what's nice?

From Helen
Hi there, what a subject! But it moved me in a way. Small Clit, Big Clit, what is big or which one is small. I don't really care, strikes me at first. But the more I read (you) participants the more involved I became to the matter and all of a sudden I made a gist.

 If you have a clit in a bigger size and don't have the excitement? What will the feelings be? If you have a small one like that one I have and have the excitement. You do as me, masturbate in a daily needful routine and love it. If the girl with the big one have the urges, she masturbate in a daily needful routine too. 

So my humble interposition is, the sexual fantasies. The excitement which bring you to do loveable things with your pussy, Big Clit or Small Clit. Your mind as well as mine is what we are born with. And if you are the horny type which have the needs for orgasms every day (as me). Don't get involved with a person without those needs except for, having a lot of indulgent and do it by your own hands and fingers. Cause the person close to you can be Mr or Miss right anyhow. Life isn't all about sex. It's personal. The rest is the everyday act. Enjoy it! And please, you participants! Don't give up writing to this lovely site. Love You!

From Anonymous
My boyfriend loves my thick, full pussy lips, and I do, too. He was also the only lover I've had that noticed I only have one labia minora. A doctor pointed it out to me when I was around 21, during an exam. Of all the pap smears in all the years... only one doctor has mentioned this. That's what I find strange.

Anyway, my boyfriend is very gentle about it. He'll gently chide me about being one-lipped, but he really loves it's uniqueness.

I've noticed a lot of Asian women have those compact, tight looking little porn star pussies, and I think they are gorgeous, too. I guess I'm always curious about those who are different than me.

The female vulva is an art form, no matter what the shape.

From Rochelle
I noticed my labia were odd when my boyfriend asked why they hanged out. The one is a bit longer than the other but only one really sticks out. It's also dark in colour, but I'm fair in complexion. When I was younger I rode on a bicycle and knocked my lips on the bar of the bike when my foot slipped. I always thought it was that, but now I think differently.

I also feel that they shouldn't only show girls with beautiful vaginas on porn, because it makes the males think that is what it should look like. When actually everybody looks different.

From Mandy
I have large labia, and thought of surgery until i had a tummy tuck and lost feeling in my thighs and surgery site. I just want to say thank you to all the men that are so wonderfully intrigued with women's natural beauty. I guess my husband is not the only great guy out there. Thanks.

From Bill
Hi Everyone. Firstly, let me say, what a fantastic site! Absolutely brilliant! I am in the UK, and can honestly say that there is no bigger turn on than a pair of large pussy lips, the bigger the better. For me it is the ultimate in sex appeal.

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