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From Charlie
Well I am decidedly on the fence with this one. I have an average sized clit, but quite big outer lips. That's ok with me, but one side is MUCH bigger than the other and has been stretched since I hit puberty as it gets in the way. It is very uncomfortable and sore at times (especially during my period) and I would happily cut it off myself if I knew I wouldn't bleed to death or something.

It is nothing to do with appearance as I have had nothing but praise from guys/girls I've been with, but if I could afford to get surgery then I would just to stop the constant soreness. I would still keep my lips big though as that is how I was made and I don't want to change that.

From Dave
What!? Cosmetic surgery to make a pussy more visibly attractive? Utter insanity. Do any of the ladies know any guys who'd have their dicks surgically straightened or lifted or whatever except maybe to repair a serious injury. If there's anyone, male or female, that insecure about their genitals, they need therapy not surgery.

From Mel
I'm glad I found a site where men actually claim to like larger lips or any shape of the vagina lips. But, not all men have the opinions expressed in this website. I looked on a "love and relationship" discussion board, and all the men seemed to agree large lips were a turn off. All they did was make fun of women, and nickname them 'meat curtains' and how they are always grossed out by any parts that hangout as it reminds them of "female balls" from behind. They also said most men have these opinions towards women's genitalia. They said friends will ask them, after having one night stands, whether or not the women had "meat curtains" and how nasty it is.

So for the longest time I was really down about it, assuming, what I have must be a huge turn off. Thank goodness for this site because I now feel better that not ALL men think like the ones on that board.

From Anon
I'm young and I think my labia are big and I'm scared they are going to get even bigger as I get older. Some of my friends have done stuff with their boyfriends but I haven't for the reasons that 1.  I feel I'm waay to young for that stuff and 2. because I'm embarrassed to show or tell anyone about them. I can remember having big labia from when I was little when I use to come out of the bath and wonder why I could see mine from a front view and my sisters were hidden.

I've even considered surgery because of it. I'm really really embarrassed and I know that they say most men think they're sexy but teenage boys are different because they watch porn and think that small labia are the 'ideal size'. But thank you for everyone commenting, it has helped me a lot to understand that a lot of other people are exactly the same as me and that I should just be proud of who I am.

From Anonymous
It's funny to think how self conscious I used to be about my labia/pussy in general, but I now I feel pretty great about it. I always thought my labia were large based on a few comments some high school boys had said, but then again, none of their comments were ever negative, more just matter of fact. Anyway, I was very self conscious for so long, but after fooling around/being naked in some capacity with men, I'm really not self conscious at all. Not one guy has said anything negative about my pussy and many have made comments about how beautiful it is. Bottom line, I wish I was in the place I am now years ago because it really was unnecessary worry/embarrassment. Love your pussy and stop worrying so much.

From Anonymous
I'm a virgin and for as long as I can remember (since puberty) I've had large labia and I really don't want guys to think I've been used when they see my labia. It's hard enough to be self-conscious over them, let alone having to convince some guy that I haven't slept around.

[We're doing our best educate blockheads who think the size of women's labia is related to frequent sexual activity]

From Lidia
This procedure has become one of the most popular surgeries for females. Having oversized labia can be quite painful and it gives ladies an option. The important thing is to get a good and quite experienced doctor. A female should never be berated for having this done, after all, we haven't walked in her shoes.

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