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From Marie
I am 23 years old and I have had enough partners to become very unattracted to my own vagina. I have large inner labias. My current boyfriend is amazing and I love him to death and there is no doubt in my mind I want to marry him but he always makes me feel horrible and I want to cry when he talks about my "pussy lips". He always says I have a fat pussy and says he likes it but then he talks about how it is not normal. He has been with almost 50 women and he has watched a lot of porn so he thinks it is normal to be small. He says he has only been with one other girl with large lips and it makes me sooo uncomfortable.

Tonight I wouldn't even let him touch me because he was talking about my "fat pussy" and it pushed me to go on here for hours trying to convince myself I wasn't ugly and I wasn't abnormal. I hate it. I have contemplated surgery for years and I can't wait to finish law school so I can afford it and I hate that I feel this way. Which unfortunately I am crying while writing this even after reading all of these comments.

I think what really gets to me is that he asked me one day if they are big and not pink because I have had to much sex, basically saying I am worn out. I told him he was ignorant because of this thought and was furious. I am so upset by my vagina I honestly am contemplating ruining my relationship because I am so uncomfortable with him when my pants are off and I have no idea what to do anymore. I even did not have sex for a very long time because of my labia. It especially hurts when I hear him talk about meat curtains and it is not just him. My two best girlfriends talk about "ugly" pussies and little do they know I have one. It seems like everyone I know makes me feel horrible without even realizing it. The talk about camel toe makes me cringe every time and just want to die.

From Di'Aire
I'm kind of baffled by some of these messages.  I'm a connoisseur of the female form and I must tell you that there's nothing like a woman who has very prominent labia.

I've seen where women actually get surgery to reduce their labia?  WTF??!!  Why would you do that?  I have nothing against the smaller labia or 'clamshells' as me and a friend refers to them, but there's nothing like large labia that hangs from the vulva.  It's such a turn-on to see an 'expressive' vulva, especially when there's a lot of hair down there.

I'm far more enthusiastic about cunnilingus when the lady I'm with has thick, prominent labia...that's incredibly hot.  You can lick, suck, nibble, stretch...you can do all kinds of things with them.

When they're wet, you can clearly see it.  In panties, big-labia looks a lot hotter because it sticks out....I LOVE IT! 

So ladies, if you have prominent labia, trust me, many of us PREFER and even seek that out.  It's absolutely gorgeous!

From Anonymous
Wow, this is interesting. I am saddened to hear anyone worry that they will not be loved if they are not "perfect" No one is.

I never really thought how different women differ in reference to their genitals. Just thought I was normal. I am a tall/built person (bigger than average women) yet I think I may be very neat and average when it comes to genitals. Boring, even. I don't think they have changed much over the past 15 years. I have only had one partner and had 4 kids.

I think its sad that people are looking to others for approval. Love who you are, you are special and unique.

From Guy
I have had the pleasure of making love with quite a number of lovely ladies, I never saw two vulvas the same . Some vaginas were large, flacid, I hardly touched the sides; some were very tight, one so muscled that she could eject me like a bullet. I love them all big or small, so beautiful. If I was to choose or design; I like to see some lips from the front, parted by a good clitoral shaft.

My wife has an almost invisible tucked away vulva, tiny inside but so pretty and daintily formed. She has suggested having an operation to enlarge her labia. I am not sure whether it is possible to enlarge, rather than trim. In any case I love her how she is and think her tiny secret parts are so beautiful, I wouldn't wish her to change anything. 

From Gourmet Lover
From a man's point of view, and one that has, I hope, pleasured hundreds of ladies, I really would like to reassure the ladies who think they have a problem if their labia are too small or too large. Please, enjoy yourselves no matter what.

No need for hang-ups, you're all unique in many ways and while guys can be less than diplomatic at times, often even, we love vaginas no matter what the decoration.

From Hank
This topic has always confused me because for some reason, women with larger labia absolutely hate it when someone says, whether it be a man or woman, that they prefer someone smaller yet they are the first to put down a woman with smaller labia.  Where's the logic there?  Not only that but men of all people should know better then to say things like "Not that tiny little pussies aren't beautiful too, but to me thin little demure lips tucked inside a crack where I can't even see them just aren't nearly as gorgeous."  yet God forbid a woman put down a man based on the size of his penis!  WTF??

I think it's great that women who are larger down there who felt self-conscious about their appearance down there are starting to feel better about themselves but if you have to put down someone who is smaller in order to boost your ego then you clearly still have a lot of issues to sort through because if you do truly accept yourself for how you look down there then you would also be able to accept how others look as well.

Small, big, whatever they may be, there is no specific one that is "better" then the other.  If the parts work then that's all that matters.  Those who say that one is better then the other is just extremely shallow and is not worth the time of day.

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