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Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
What do you think about?


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Fantasies

Blasphemous Fantasies
Why are they so titillating?

Could You, Would You?
3 fantasies to try on

Forced Fantasies
Right or wrong?

Men's Fantasies
Men dare to reveal

Women's Fantasies
Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some
MMF or FFM?


Masturbation

Masturbation Memories
First experiences

Taking Care of Business
On the sly...or so you think

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?


Oral Pleasures

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
How to blow his mind

Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?

The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?


Orgasmic Pleasures

Faking It
Why the deception?

Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
Pegging your partner

Sexual Positions
Let us count the ways...


Keeping Abreast..

Breasts & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?


Relationship Woes

Browsing for Cupid
Online love or heartache?

Enduring Ménage
Could it work?

Sex After Marriage
Who's doing it...or not?

Swing Clubs
What's going on?

Why Do People Cheat?
Is the grass really greener?

Younger/Older Relationships
It's complicated...or is it?


Inquiring Minds

What do Men Want
Hint...it rhymes with 'vex'

What do Women Want
Hint...it's not size

Designa Vagina

lips to die for...?



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Good Vibrations

From Anonymous
I too am blessed/cursed with larger inner labia. I actually think it may be that my outer labia are just small. I have never really liked the way my labia looked for as long as I can remember. I am now 40. After having 2 children they seemed to have gotten a little bigger. I have seriously thought of having labiaplasty. However my fiancé says if I do he will leave me. 

I have never had any man complain about them but I also haven't really displayed them. Before my fiancé I was pretty much a sex in the near dark kinda girl. He says he loves the way I look down there and that I should be happy with what God gave me.

From Bill
Hi Everyone. Firstly, let me say, what a fantastic site! Absolutely brilliant! I am in the UK, and can honestly say that there is no bigger turn on than a pair of large pussy lips, the bigger the better. For me it is the ultimate in sex appeal.

From Succulent
Wow, I'm soooo glad I found this site. My exposure to most porn mags, and pics on the internet (which I look at to see what a man's ideal is) feature women with perfect little lips. As I compare myself, I feel flawed. I was shaving today and it was so frustrating to keep those damn lips out of the way! My labia minora is small (I keep trying to stretch it to cover my full majora lips!) and the inner lips protrude. I found myself thinking, "yuck!", but I know this message of hatred toward my body is wrong! 

My vagina gives me SO much pleasure - I can have an orgasm from the stimulation any outer part of it from the clit, to over the opening, to the middle, to the sides - and they're all slightly different. Why does the media try to put women into little self-defeating boxes - let's free and enlarge our minds...love your pussy!

From Ginger Anne
Frankly, what I want to know is what asshole decided what constituted a "pretty" vagina? I will bet he has an ugly penis! So there! And, how many people are really going to see it anyway?! It is not as though any of us live in a society where we walk around with no pants and our legs spread open! I have larger labia. I love them. They are soft and full and both my boyfriend and I enjoy playing with them. Really. Haven't our insecurities gone too far at last?

From Dorothy
Frightening trend, I'd say. I have a teenager living with me who is convinced that her genitalia are ugly. I had her go to that mega-vulva web site and pick out the one that looked the most like her (she was too shy to show me). It convinced her that she isn't deformed, but she still thinks she's ugly.

Good grief. As if we were screwed enough with our breasts being too big/small, our hair being too straight/curly, etc., ad nauseum. Frankly it had never even occurred to me to be concerned about whether or not I looked good from the view up my skirt, so I asked my hubby if he had ever met a vagina he didn't like. He said all he's ever thought, as he settled in for a viewing was, "God, I'm lucky to be here." "Damn that looks tasty." "Oh boy, oh boy, oh boy, oh boy."

It saddens me that women would actually consider surgically "improving" what they got. I've never heard of a guy thinking about getting a bigger dick, although I have heard them complain. Come to think of it--isn't there some kind of operation to add fat to a penis to make it thicker? Would any of you guys consider it?

From IntriguedOne
It absolutely blows my mind that a woman would not want large labia.  Of course, I'm only one opinion, but prominent labia is a MAJOR turn-on.  I don't want to be judgmental, but I'll be honest and say a woman with just a "slit" is personally for me, a let-down, particularly when it's hairless as well.  I love to see prominent labia...the longer, the better!  It makes cunnilingus that much more enthusiastic for me.

It's truly a shame that any woman would actually pay to have a surgeon reduce them.  Something is truly wrong with their self-image and the influences around them.  That's like me having surgery to shorten my dick...why in the hell would I do that? So why reduce your labia when it's such a turn-on?  I'm baffled!

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