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Watched a programme whilst on nights about women who have plastic surgery on their large labia: "labiaplasty" (nipping women's genital lips), "vaginal rejuvenation" (tightening the vaginal muscles) and "vaginal reconstruction" (tightening, shaping, sculpting). Now I can understand this being done for comfort/post baby tightenings, but some of these women were having it done for completely cosmetic reasons.

Do they have a fashion parade of pre and post? Open crotch jeans to show off whilst shopping? Question: guys, do you have a preference for size and shape of labia? Would you leap out of bed if they didn't suit you? Tell us please, it's interesting I think. Ladies, would you contemplate this surgery at all? Me?....<shudder> No.  —JoJo


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Editor's note: For an interesting article on this subject, please read Love Your Genitals by Anne Semans



From Mister Truth
I am a guy. There is NO bigger sexual turn-on in the entire world to me as much as women with Big Pussy Lips! As in long, thick, meaty and dangling labia minora. I often wonder what is beneath the clothing and/or jeans of women in general, that I walk around in a day. 

I absolutely LOVE Big Pussy Lips on women, that is the number one physical-sexual turn-on to me. Women with huge, long and meaty pussy lips represent the highest lot of femininity. The longer and thicker the labia minora and clit hood labial structure, the more feminine and erotic she is. I say this based on physiological fact as well as observation and experience. Women with very well-endowed labia, tend to be laid-back and fun women too. I can see why, since their very selves are at a high level of sensuality, pleasure and continuity of female-ness. I don't know why any woman who has a large labia would feel insecure of anything. Since most women who don't have big labia would be jealous of them, and most men if they caught a peek at their treasure would have a hard time walking normally and have issues with drool. 

Anyways, I absolutely LOVE women with large labia!

From Anonymous
Well, I have a large clit, and when I wear underwear you can see it a little. It (at least to me) is embarrassing. I'm very young and a virgin but am afraid to have sex because it's so large, about an inch. Well correction, I have a large clit hood that covers my clit. That's what sticks out and also have large labia. I think this might have something to do with being pre-mature.

From WP
My wife was put on the usual HRT but it left her without much response. So the doc put her on a pill that includes a bit of testosterone. One the the feared side effects was listed as 'irreversible clitoral enlargement'. Indeed, her clit grew to the size of a garbanzo and ever since, she has orgasms that top out the open-ended Richter scale. The main difference is that I can get my tongue underneath, and when that happens, it's all over for her.

From Filmprofessional
Women should feel good about larger labia as men are very visual and we prefer larger lips. I have asked many men and they are agree that larger labia are MUCH more appealing on a woman then small labia. I personally think women should celebrate their body and find more stimulation in having larger lips due to the higher sensitivity. Larger lips excite guys more since we can actually see them.

From Charlie
Well I am decidedly on the fence with this one. I have an average sized clit, but quite big outer lips. That's ok with me, but one side is MUCH bigger than the other and has been stretched since I hit puberty as it gets in the way. I once measured it out of curiosity (yeah, I was bored) and when stretched out it is 1.5 inches longer than the other one! It is very uncomfortable and sore at times (especially during my period) and I would happily cut it off myself if I knew I wouldn't bleed to death or something.

It is nothing to do with appearance as I have had nothing but praise from guys/girls I've been with, but if I could afford to get surgery then I would just to stop the constant soreness. I would still keep my lips big though as that is how I was made and I don't want to change that.

From Anonymous
For many years I have not paid any attention to my womanly parts but within this year I have noticed women more, so that I have way larger lips. I am in my 30's and more of an open person about my body and I have never been scared of showing it off but when I came across many pictures of these "perfect pussies" I became a bit shy about my body.

I am married and want to be comfortable in my skin with my husband, really it wasn't until now reading the posts, did I realise I am not alone. Hearing from woman who have personally enjoyed their bodies, and men who enjoy women who have larger lips made me realise that surgery would not be for me.

Three posts really stuck out for me, Pete's, Amanda's and Don's , [entries on page 5] which I know follow each others but they really gave me confidence as a woman. Pete is so right about everything he said and I thank him for his post. So much in his post that I just couldn't argue with and made me glad to be me.

From Barbie girl
I also have a large clitoris and inner labia that protrude through my outer lips at all times.. even when I am not aroused.. I have always been self conscious about the look of my vagina and have had a number of sexual partners. However only one has negatively commented on the size of my clit. That was a bit of a put down for me.

Before I lost my virginity my vagina was like this due to masturbation (I think).

I want to be a glamor model someday but I am afraid that the adult entertainment industry will think that my big clit and labia is not suitable for the job as men don't always find it attractive.. what should I do?

I don't know anyone else personally (e.g friends etc..) my age who have a large clitoris. I really want to know if there are any other young people who are like me .. I am only 16! Please reply.

From Francis Musoke
For all my adult life, I have admired and respected girls with fat, giant vaginal lips. its such a glory to gaze at, a divine endowment to the lucky girls who have them, a crown of honor to her womanhood.

A girl with giant fat labias is so appealing and satisfying to eat her pussy, because its so fleshy, plentiful in the mouth as you browse her thing. Girls with large pussies tend to enjoy cunnilingus more than those with small ones and most often they can experience very powerful orgasms as a result of oral massages.


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