Erotica Readers & Writers Association
Home | Erotic Books | Erotica Authors Resources | Smutters Lounge | Inside The Erotic Mind
Erotica Galleries | Adult Movies | Sex Toys | Erotic Music | Links




OCTOBER MUSE

Jewelry
Is bling a turn-on?



ARCHIVES

CyberSex

Is Cybersex Cheating?
A complex issue

Real Cyber Experiences
Share your story

The Global Village
Love in cyber-Ssace

Is Phone-Sex Cheating?
Your opinion please


Fantasies

Men's Fantasies
Men dare to reveal

Women's Fantasies
Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some
MMF or FFM?

The Doctor is IN
Imagination gone wild

Forced Fantasies
Right or wrong?


Masturbation

Masturbation Memories
First experiences

Mutual Masturbation
Doing it alone, together

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?


Oral Pleasures

Choking, Gagging Blow Jobs
What is your reaction?

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
How to blow his mind

Spicy Sex!
Altoids, schnopps, chili?

Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?

The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?


Orgasmic Pleasures

Come on Command
Fact or fiction?

Cum Shots
Messy liquid darts

Describe Your Orgasm
How does it feel?

Faking It
Why the deception?

Female Ejaculation
Penis envy or truth?

Your Best Orgasm?
Color us curious


Sex Toy Topics

Ben Wa Balls
Bliss or fizzle...

Curious About Vibrators
Tell us about yours

Men's Sex Toys
Got any?

What About Strap-ons?
Everyone's doing it!


Keeping Abreast..

Breast & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?


The Porn/Erotica Debates

Erotica For Men
Beer & tits?

Erotica vs Porn
Are they the same?

Porn on His Computer
why am I so jealous?

Porn Movie Concerns
Enjoyment or discomfort?

Porn for Women
Is there such a thing?


Relationship Woes

Married And Gazing
Does looking = cheating?

Men & Women Revealed
What you ought to know

Older Women, Younger Men
Why rob the cradle?

Porn and Relationships
Hot or not?

Why Do People Cheat
Is one not enough?

Younger/Older Relations
What are the issues?


The Daily Grind

Blind Dates
A quick look...

Losing Your Virginity
Fiction versus reality

Meaningless Sex
Indulge or avoid?

Peeing in Public
Bashful or bold?

Sexy Mainstream Movies
Your choices are?

Swing Clubs
What's going on?

Sympathy Fuck
Nasty or noble?

Plain Vanilla Sex
Hmm, what exactly is that?

Do Passionate Kisses Ignite Your Libido?



Explore passion and lust...

Hot Movies For Her is the answer to your dirty prayers. Tired of being left out of the adult market, the ladies at Hot Movies For Her created the ultimate porn movies site for women. Watch videos online with no monthly or recurring charges, just pay for what you want. Features include a blog of movie reviews, sex tips, erotic stories, interviews with the biggest and brightest women in the industry, and lots more. HotMoviesForHer.com is more than a movie site, it's a community for women who enjoy porn their way.

The Liberator cushions are designed to help people of all sizes and shapes, even those with back injuries and other medical conditions, find comfortable ways to connect. Shapes like the ramp, the wedge, and the stage are excellent tools for elevation, comfort, and creativity. Turn up the heat with Liberator's sexy Black Label cushions equipped with restraints for bedroom adventurers and seasoned spank artists.




From Justin
I recently had a first kiss with the young lady I am dating. I know that the first kiss is the defining moment that tells me if there is any future for the relationship. Well, if there is anything more sensually stimulating than that kiss, I haven't experienced it. I loved the feeling of her lips on mine, and even more the chills I was getting and feeling her shake made this kiss the most sensual kiss ever. 

So, yes, a kiss can be and is one of the most satisfying feelings in the world and anticipating one is just as exciting.

From Anonymous
I love kissing. I think its the most sensual of all pleasures and I have the most amazing orgasms when I'm kissing someone during sex - feeling their quick breathes on my lips and in my mouth.. yum yum. My partner also gets very turned on too by my breathing my orgasm into his mouth.

From Lizbeth
Ahhh. I remember my first kiss like it was yesterday. It was my seventeenth birthday and it lasted eight hours. It was the first for both of us so it was a bit sloppy, but I loved all the wetness and desperation. I've never again felt quite as wonderful as I did that day, but kissing is still my favorite thing to do.

But, sadly, as many of you have already mentioned, those kind of kisses tend to taper off in long relationships. I spent years mourning them. then something fabulous happened. After having my daughter, sexual activity was limited for six weeks.

Having just had a baby I really wasn't feeling up to doing anything too strenuous, so we kissed. and kissed. and kissed. It was amazing. Why had we stopped?

I'm happy to say that was a year ago and we are still kissing passionately and we've vowed never to stop again.

And as far as it igniting my libido, well we didn't make it that six weeks without the baby. We only lasted three and it took everything I had...(I don't recommend this, by the way. it could have resulted in something quite bad.)

From Tessa
My husband used to laugh about our first date. He wondered if I would kiss him, and he leaned hopefully in my direction. I almost broke his nose meeting him half- way! We were together 34 years. We dated 4 years before we married (we wanted to finish college). There was a lot of good kissing in those 4 years. We had 29 years and 10 months of marriage when he died this past summer. He had never been sick, so when he was diagnosed with cancer in April, it was a shock.

Going to grief support groups and reading about grief, I have yet to see any mention of the loss of physical contact. I'm 52 years old, and I miss sex! But most of all, I miss those heavenly deep kisses that would take my breath away, the ones I could feel through my whole body. He was a wonderful kisser, and they seemed to get better every year. If I want to go out to dinner I can call a friend. People have been wonderful helping me out since he died. But the one void they can't fill is the kisses. I always wondered before how someone could rush into a new relationship after losing a spouse, but now I know. I was spoiled before and didn't realize it.

From Dane
It is by far one of the most sensual and lasting memories for myself...the kiss given and taken slowly. The ideal passionate kiss for me involves settling down to candlelight, extra soft textures and a very, very slight smell of a cologne or perfume (or the candles). The graceful touch and smoothness of our lips connecting makes the kiss register with my intellect and appreciation of our sexuality. But the real kicker for me, is when our breathing is slowed to a surreally slow pace and the exchange of her breath and mine tells my soul that the world is ok and that I'm with my lover and soul-mate. The kiss and the breathing lingers for days afterwards. Orgasms come and go like a tidal change, but the real power, or gravity, which creates the tides is from the relationship of two bodies interacting as they live and breath. Kissing is really a great way share intimacy.

Note breathing is a very big part of the kiss for me and the only way I felt comfortable with it was knowing (and trusting my wife to tell me otherwise), that I did not have bad breath. I have worked out a routine to make sure that my breath is fresh by taking good care of the mouth, tongue and other aspects related to good breath, such as diet and hydration. Fresh breath makes other parts of the body seem fresh as well for both of us.

Take a slow deep breath and relax before kissing. Keep it relaxed while kissing and let it last as long as possible.

Page:   1  |  2  |  3
___________________

Participation Link

Interested in this topic? Share your thoughts with us.


Babeland sex toys


  E-mail this page


Copyright © 1996 and on, Erotica Readers Association, Inc.
All Rights Reserved World Wide. Reproduction in whole or in part in any form or
medium without express written permission is prohibited.

Down There Fare

Big Clits vs Small Clits
Size determines pleasure?

Clit Notes
Playing it her way

Designa Vagina
Lips to die for...

Fisting
Stretching the truth

The G-Spot & The Clit
Combo of choice

Period Protocol
That time of the month

The Scent of a Woman
Is it hot, or no?


Talking Heads

Big Dicks vs Foreplay
Which do you prefer?

Circumcision
A prickly problem

Cock Rings
Torture or pleasure?

Cut vs Uncut Foreskin
What is your preference?

Impotency
How do you handle it?

The Inside Story
How does penetration feel?

The Scent of a Man
Does semen smell?


Delectable Derrières

Anal Sex
So what's the big deal?

Anal Sex for Straight Men
A penetrating question

Butt Plugs
Are they up your alley?

Luscious Backsides
Do they incite you?


Sexy Play

Does Passionate Kissing
Ignite your libido?

Naughty Pictures or Words
What turns you on?

Nipples and Clits...
Is that all there is?

Oldies but Goodies
Sex after 60...

The Art of Role Playing
Who are you in bed?

Same-Sex Curiosity
Would you...did you?

Sexy Phone Talk
Is your phone a sex toy?

Sexy Reminiscing
Does it light your fire?

What Attracts Women?
Hint, it's not length...


BDSM

BDSM
How much & how far?

The BDSM Lifestyle
A brief intro

Bondage
Are you into it?

What is a Dom...
Lover or wife beater?

What Would Jesus Think
Is He Dom or sub?


Body Talk

Body Image
How do you see yourself

Body Piercing
The hole thing

Can Fat be Sexy?
The skinny on sex & weight

The Gaze
Thrilling or disturbing?

High Heel Fetish
Shoes! Oh my!

Lust for Lace
The allure of lingerie

Name Your Dingle
We won't laugh...

The Panty Debate
Like them on or off?

Public Nudity
Erotic, shocking, natural?

Pubic Shaving
Do you bare it all?

Sexy in Eyelasses
Do they turn you on?

Sexy Sex Cues
Visuals that Spark Interest

Speedos
Tanned or banned?

The Thong Thing
Sexy, or annoying?

Women's Hosiery
Alluring or bothersome?


Inquiring Minds...

Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
Are you thinking?

What do Men Want?
Your ideal woman

What do Women Want?
Your ideal man