Do Passionate Kisses Ignite Your Libido?

When you kiss someone (I'm covering the whole spectrum here: women kissing men and visa versa, men kissing men, women kissing women), really passionately kissing someone, what do you think about? Does your mind hone in on thoughts of 'I hope my breath is ok' or wander to 'my knees are gettin' weak'?

What about after you've been with someone for a while? Do the kisses, I'm talkin' the really good ones, stop? Is kissing just part of that 'I'm tryin' to impress' stage of a relationship? I'm just curious about your thoughts on this passionate subject. —Megan

I've kissed so many women I can do it with my eyes closed. --Henry Youngman

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From Julie
Hell, yeah -- if the guy is a good kisser!  I am currently having an affair with the most passionate man I have ever been with.  He is a fabulous kisser and a very attentive lover.  I have never felt passion like that for anyone else.  It's like combustible fire when we come together.

From San Francisco Femme
Absolutely... I've finally gotten to the point where just watching a kiss that starts tender and becomes more passionate can take me halfway to my orgasm.  Kissing is a favorite in my book and if my lover isn't an amazing kisser, well, I'm willing to play teacher.  Kissing's just that important to me.

From lady j
I once kissed a guy who's kisses were so bad, it was like kissing a pair of cardboard lips. Not a turn-on. I also kissed a guy who slobbered like a Saint Bernard. Also not a turn on. You can go to Youtube & see videos on proper kissing techniques. I like it soft, gentle with just enough moisture to keep from getting dry mouth. As I get into it, deepen the kiss & eventually tongue. What I hate is when my tongue gets sucked on or the porn kisses. Where they stick their tongues out & just roll them around or lick at each other.

I also like to have my body stroked while kissing. Don't just put a hand on my shoulder, get to touching. Nothing is more of a turn on than a first kiss done right.

From Angie
 I wish I wasn't so short, because my husband is tall and I just can't get to his mouth when we're having actual sex.  Sometimes it drives me crazy!  I just want to kiss and kiss until my lips are all fucked up and sore, because it's something sweet to remember and savor for later.

Fom D.L. Tash
Great kissing, in my opinion, is a sure sign of a great lover. Taking time, teasing, playing, slowly becoming more involved, more intimate a kiss is a microcosm of this person's way of approaching sex. Kissing can be an art form in itself spending hours kissing, touching, slowly awakening one another's mind and body until every touch is electric, every movement almost painful in its intensity. Then, finally, the transition from that intimacy to others... At least, that's my idea of a great kiss.

From Bob
Kissing! Kissing is better than fucking. Cripes, is that the sound of a hundred jaws dropping? I will endeavor to explain myself. Kissing is the most intimate sexual act. Everything begins or ends with that kiss. Everything that follows is lust and desire, but a kiss is magic. I'll wager more people recall their first kiss more fondly than their first fuck.

A kiss - and I'm talking as a guy - is the moment when you lean into the wind, stick your neck out, and expose your heart to all the possibilities, which of course have to include rejection and disappointment. So you can't start with a Rhett-and-Scarlett lip-crusher.

Uh-uh. You are tentative at first, just a brush of your lips to hers. If she doesn't tighten her jaw, or worse, turn away, you're okay. Better even if she parts her lips just a bit. So now you plant a gentle kiss to her lips, you feel her respond. Your arms close around her waist, and you venture a little lip nibble.

Keep your tongue to yourself (learned that early on). Perhaps she'll trace the rim of your lips with the tip of her tongue. Now she's given you permission for both your tongues to make their acquaintance.

BTW, you're in heaven at this point. You ain't thinking about anything. And, while tongues are fun to play with, it's those devouring lip kisses that ignite the fires that will lead to inspired sex.

And don't forget ... a kiss (and I'll toss nibbles into the mix) can go anywhere. They can travel along an elegant neck, tease a pretty earlobe, trail homage from her tailbone to the nape of her neck and back again. A kiss can anoint an ankle, and tickle a thigh. Ahh, kissing. Gawd, I love kissing.

From Amanda Earl
At this point, I'm kissing only my husband, but my usual thoughts when I was dating went from the bad breath type thoughts to ah he's slipped his tongue in, guess that means we're going to bed. My thoughts now are mostly just basic yes this feels good and let's go to bed.

From Anonymous
Absolutely YES!!! 35 years together and with more kissing it only gets better. I love foreplay and so does she. It is worth a ton of little blue pills.

From Kelcalman
I was kissing one of the most beautiful women I had ever known. Oue tongues met with a slow lick. I love kissing slowly and deeply. I looked into her eyes and was so into her until just kissing was not enough. We stopped for a minute and I asked her to make her mouth wet with saliva. She did and so did I. We kissed again and I started to drink her. I loved it so much I almost came in my pants. She love it too.

I had her at that point, so I just let it flow. I licked her face, nose, eyes, ears, chin, and neck. She just tasted so good. Women are delicious. And men are freaky, I know I am. It is to bad that the kissing tends to slow down after so time in a relationship. I miss it.

From Anonymous
If his kiss doesn't figuratively "knock my socks off" then there's no chance the rest of my clothes will be following!  For me, nothing is more arousing and guaranteed to get me wet than a good kiss.

Looking into my eyes before lowering his gaze to my lips, leaning in, the first soft contact of his lips against mine just off center, almost a nibble at the corner.  Moving to press more fully against my bottom lip, mouth slightly open with the lightest touch of his tongue inviting me to meet his with my own before slipping inside to taste.  I love a man with a wide, soft tongue!  How he treats my lips is a very good indicator of how he will treat the rest of my body...

Worst kisser for me was the jabbing poker - came at me with his mouth wide open and then his pointy little tongue was stabbing in there like a sewing machine needle...yuck!  First and LAST time I kissed him!

From Dan
Oh yes, kissing is a real turn on! It doesn't take long for me to get cranked to the hilt when my girl is receptive and shows it with her mouth.  Wow! I find I'm opening her mouth and darting my tongue inside and firmly taking control of her soft mouth. And then nibbling gently on her throat, neck and ears - another wow!  I don't know if you girls are aware of how delicious and exciting you taste, but you are, and I go nuts for it!

I also enjoy exploring her body with my mouth and tongue - what a trip!  And when she does that to me I'm over the moon!  And then there's the surprise invitation - I seem to almost always be unaware an invitation is coming - and that first, tentative and gentle kiss is sooooo nice!  Yum!

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