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Inside the Erotic Mind
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The G-Spot & The Clit
From Ms. M'ville Girls--don't settle for sex w/out your partner paying attention to your g-spot. Guys--if you don't know where or what the g-spot is or what to do with it, you can google it (the topic, I mean) and learn everything you need to know after spending 5 minutes on the Internet. From Lost In Pleasure From Lisa I can also be brought to a G-spot orgasm with manual stimulation but that's a little bit harder for me (it might be easier for some people). But then it's still the same pattern that gets me there - gently stimulation until I'm primed and sensitive, then firm, rapid stimulation to make me come. From Susie While I enjoy sex almost anyway, G-Spot orgasms are a quick way for me to instantly be interested. They also keep going. I don't feel a beginning and an end with them. I could keep going all night and not feel like it was time to stop. Yes, clit orgasms are great. G-Spots are too, they're just different. From Meri During sex, it seem to be best if done from behind, or missionary with my legs up, over his shoulders, or with my butt lifted. I hear a lot of women say they can only have a g- spot orgasm when they're on top, but I find I have to lean really far back and it's tough to get the hard and fast thing going that way. Overall, g-spot orgasms are so rapid (immediate and ongoing as long as the stimulation continues) for me, that if I had no clit stimulation at all, I would still be totally satisfied. On a related note, I don't believe it is necessary to see a woman ejaculate fluid to be convinced that a g-spot orgasm has occurred. I've never actually ejaculated and I can feel them in every nerve ending in my body. At any rate, I'm sure your wife won't mind if you keep trying! From Carla I immediately fell in love with this man! Or was it what he'd done to awaken my body? Anyway, we only saw each other once after that, and the explosion didn't happen again, which was an extreme disappointment. I think internally, I realized I was not physically attracted to him to continue the relationship. But, I will never forget my 'first' time. I have, however found a lover who stimulates my 'spot'. He loves for me to sit on him, facing him, he clenches his dick and makes me ride it hard, until my gspot screams for relief! All the while he encourages me to 'squeeze it out'...awesome! From Tamara I find that the best position is with him on top, and my legs wrapped around his waist. If he comes down really close, so that our chests almost touch, and thrusts really fast and deep, the pleasure builds really fast. So then I raise my hips towards him, and I can have g-spot orgasms that seem to last forever. Try it - it works for us every time! From Vic Secret From Anonymous He'll stroke and press my gspot until it responds by swelling and filling with fluid, this feels so good, the orgasms from this feel like waves of pleasure just washing over me, non-stop, I'm literally in another dimension and can't think about anything except the intense pleasure he is bringing me. My gspot literally doubles in size from the swelling of fluid, and gets so sopping that he just needs to intensely thrust against it with his fingers and I spray all over him, this drives him wild. This can sometimes take up to 1/2 hour or so, but it is so worth it. It takes time, love, a man that knows what he's doing, but if you can manage to have a gspot orgasm, you're blessed. From Nica From Ninad That night I had managed to build up the tempo really well. I was doing everything possible with my tongue around her pussy. After maybe 30 minutes, I managed to insert almost the whole of my tongue inside her opening and then gave her some powerful thrusts all the time ensuring that there was no contact with the clit. After maybe a about 40-50 thrusts, she came .That's an understatement. she really orgasmed very hard. Since I hadn't touched her clit, I think it was tongue having its magic on the roof of her vagina where I believe the g spot is located. After that night, I tried this with her several times, but no luck. We still have great sex, but it's always the clitoris that gets her going now. Can anybody out there relate to my experience ? Please do write back as I honestly want to give her a g spot orgasm again (not that she is bored with clitoris orgasms). From Anonymous We ran into an article somewhere several years ago about the clitoris and how most of it is inside you. For me the G-spot seems to be the inside end of my clitoral shaft. When my partner stimulates this area while sucking the exposed part of my clit it seems like he is working the whole length of my clitoris. It drives my to multiple orgasms. It seems analogous to giving a man a blow job by sucking the head of his cock and the top of the shaft, while working the base of his cock with my hand. In fact sometimes I ask my lover to suck deeply down on the base of my clitoris and find that I respond by sucking at the base of his cock at the same time. It certainly seems like we are feeling the same thing! From Dave O
As her movements and her sounds increase, I slowly let my tongue tease her clitoris, just enough to graze the tip and I wait and then slowly move back into her arms to tell her something special and sometimes we just use non-verbal communication. I want to hold her close. Then I move downward and begin to very gently at first lick up and down both sides of the labia with just a glancing blow to the clitoris with my tongue. As her wetness increases I begin to treat the clitoris as my object to pleasure; softly and then increasing the pressure of my tongue on it. I try to pluck it from its hood completely with my lips using a sucking motion and slowly move my fingers one at a time to the entrance of her vagina inserting one and then two to satisfy her pleadings by now. The G-Spot I don't always find the exact spot in her soaked vagina but when I do combined with clitoral stimulation, Kathy can wake the neighbors up, and we live out on a farm. My penis is rather thin so we have discovered, as I am thrusting in her, I can gently slide my middle finger in on top of my penis and then turn my finger upwards as if pulling on the wall of the vagina. I can also ease backwards allowing the increased angle of my penis to increase the pressure on of my finger. Taking my thumb, wet with her juices, I can use whatever motion she prefers to allow her an intense orgasm/s. Enjoy your evening and pleasure the one your with; not only with your body but with all your senses. From OTE First of all, make sure your fingernails are trimmed short and clean. Plenty of foreplay and some clitoral orgasms will make the search for her g-spot enjoyable for both of you. Her physical pleasure and your ego pleasure. You get to watch her cum. The g-spot is just inside the front wall of her vagina about an inch or two (depends on the woman). It feels bumply under your fingers. Before you go sticking any fingers in, grab the lube and get you middle finger nice and slickery. Once you find the bumpy area, use a finger motion that looks like "come here". Her first sensation will be one of pressure like she needs to go to the bathroom (good idea to go to the bathroom beforehand so she'll know it isn't that need). Continued motion will soon take her out between the stars to dance in the ballroom of the gods. Once her orgasm starts, you can keep her going for a long time with wave after wave of orgasms. Another neat method is to perform oral sex from the side and with your lubed finger stroke her g-spot at the same time. When you need a breather, just raise your head away to watch her cum and rotate your thumb to make contact with her clitty which should already be slicked up with lube. By now, you can use your middle finger or two like your penis and thrust. Each time letting your thumb either bump against her clit or rub along side it. Sometimes the woman will squirt (occasionally several feet) and other times just a steady ooze that gets the bed wet. It doesn't smell or taste to any degree unless she has a yeast infection in which case you may have been the cause with unclean fingers. Both of you get treated for the yeast infection. If you will keep it up long enough (several minutes), she will beg you to stick your dick in. Now it gets real interesting. Once a woman has had several orgasms, her PC muscles will make her have vaginal contractions with every orgasm. The orgasms can and do happen at several per minute. With a lots of experience, these contractions will become so tight that it feels like your dick is caught in a tightly closed, hot and incredibly slick fist. For actual penetration, we use a Wedge from Liberator.com and her favorite position and a fave of mine is the plow. Male superior with her legs together and supported by my shoulder. This allows the head of my dick to smack against her g-spot with every thrust. Another position with this Wedge is doggy style with her legs together and between her man's. Again there is the rubbing across her g-spot. In either position, you can modify the position to allow you to separate her legs and then use your lubed fingers or thumb to rub alongside her clitty. Another technique is to use your fingers to tap on her clit with each thrust. Yes I'm totally spoiled now and so is she. There is no going back to just sex. The key to always having an eager sex partner is to be the absolute best she could ever imagine. Then practice, practice, practice to become better. From Alchemist I find that it is good to start with a sensual massage increasing whole body arousal gradually moving into stroking the upper thighs and yoni increasing erotic tension. It's important to build a good strong base. As arousal grows stroke the inner labia and clitoris, again building the tension. Don't move too fast to clitoral orgasm. Bring her to the edge and back off a number of times, then start working the massage into the yoni, stroking all the various areas. I have found that there are often several very sensitive areas along a whole crest. Different little areas "popup" that will be very arousing. Keep building erotic tension. Some spots are best lightly stroked, others stimulate with pressure. At some point there is often a sudden urge to urinate from stimulating these points. If that is followed and the stimulation on the g-spot area(s) is maintained the orgasm follows. Now I find it very effective to alternate attention between the clitoris and the g-spot. If she starts to orgasm on clitoral stimulation, keep that going with a very light touch until it either runs out of steam or her clit becomes too sensitive. At that point turn your attention back to the g-spot. Often at that point she will suddenly have a g-spot orgasm. And we go through multiple cycles of orgasms, using everything from fingers to tongue and lips to penis. At a certain point she starts cycling though multiple stages of orgasm with different muscle groups doing various things; ie tenting, clenching, push-outs. There is a sequence of different fluids. First there is a really slippery thin liquid. Then surges of a thicker lubricating liquid, then a surge of watery non-lubricating sweet (flavored like honey or maple syrup) from multiple outlets within the vagina simultaneously and NOT from the urethra even though it comes with the urge to pee and all characteristics of g-spot orgasms. She doesn't squirt but she sure does flood. A lot of fluid is released over the course of several hours. In any case, building to a sufficiently high base before you do the gspot massage can help. From Cathy
I think that the intensity of the g-spot is stronger especially upon the release of fluid. It's almost like an itch that you can't scratch but you just Have to. My clit I can have small controllable orgasms building up until I can't breath. I have passed out. It's finding a suitable partner for all this playing around that's hard because some men are threatened by this. Right now I'm alone and though I do masturbate I enjoy sharing this part of my life with someone. From Sue
From Dick
She seems to concentrate more on her clit when she masturbates, though. Hope this helps some... From Ann
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From Julia
Every woman's sexual response is different. Some women come solely from G-spot stimulation, some like to mix in sometimes, some are indifferent, some absolutely hate it. Personally, G-spot stimulation worked in with oral sex is my sexual caviar. And I like caviar... If your partner enjoys how it feels but doesn't feel G-spot stimulation is leading toward orgasm, you might want to add in clitoral stimulation or whatever else normally gets her off and give her a few orgasms with the added sensation. Then experiment from that point forward. Good luck! Getting there is definitely at least half the fun.
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