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Gentlemen, there is a part of most of us that has been missing since birth. (No, girls, not the brain). The foreskin. Shortly after birth the male baby's penis actually looks like a tiny cannoli, with the tip of the fresh penis nestled unsuspectingly in a cuddly wrap of loose fleshly cover, known as the foreskin. Then when we young lads are just getting our bearings, there is a brief swish of the surgeon's blade and about a quarter inch or so of the foreskin is removed in a process chillingly entitled circumcision. Has my circumcised tribunal been missing something all these years (I mean besides regular, wild passionate intense sex), because of the foreskin snipped and tossed in one of those hospital '"medical waste bags?"

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From Anita
A few years out of high school, I worked at a factory around many other women mostly older than me. One day a woman was telling how her daughter was taking her new grandson in for his circumcision. I did not have any children at that time and I asked her some questions about what exactly happens during the procedure. She told me in detail and added that she wouldn't ever be with a guy who still had a foreskin. All those women agreed with her that its just better in every way to have a boy snipped. It seemed to me that these older women strongly believed sex was far better for the woman if their partner had the "Bare knob" as they called it. That year was 1965 and many things have changed. This is the reason that the vast majority of men have been cut. That same woman convinced her husband to be cut at 29 years old, she told him that if he liked regular sex then he should do as she said.

From Anna (UK)
As a sex counselor in the UK, I hear stories from quiet a lot of disgruntled circumcised males, although most of them now are in their late fifties and upwards. Circumcision stopped here back in the 1950s/60s With the exception of those where there was no choice due to medical conditions. I believe due to better ways to treat most conditions which affect the penis, that rates are now down excluding those done for religious reasons to around 1 in 700. So we do not have that many circumcised males around now.

I for one and all my female friend who have encountered the circumcised penis wholeheartedly agree that it is a massive "NO" to circumcision. Fine if the guy you fall in love with has had it done, then so be it, but as a matter of choice; sorry guys but not my first choice or any of my considerable circle of female friends.

One. It is just there, nothing moves, nothing to explore. Two. Awkward to play with, constant need for lubrication and often penetration just drags on too long, resulting in sore and tenderness of the vagina. (painful and boring)

To those who read these letters it is quiet apparent that many of these "posts" by females, are actually written by males promoting their circumcised state with widely held mythology, propagated by those who have a vested interest (often unhealthy or financial ) in prompting this outdated procedure.

From Anonymous
I was brought up in California and most of the guys were cut so I was happy my ex-husband was cut, great sex. When I was younger I didn't like having sex with some men who were uncut until I had a serious relationship with someone who was uncut and wow, then I realized how much better "natural" sex can be plus you don't need lube. I also got educated about how later in life men who are uncut are less likely to have erectile dysfunction (I guess because they retain more sensitivity?) so when my grandsons were born, my daughter and I did a lot of research and decided not to circumcise them. (I did circumcise my son) If they want to get cut later, they can.

I think as far as enjoying sex, its doesn't matter, either way is good. But I get really turned on pulling back the foreskin to expose the head of the cock and giving head to someone whose not circumcised, I like the feeling of the extra skin against my lips. One reason I posted here is to discourage men from getting cut to please their girlfriend because I known someone who did that and then she broke up with him and I thought he was really misguided, but I couldn't say anything to him at the time. We are born the way we are for a reason, maybe nature knows best. I also found a place online where men were trying to regrow their foreskin so they must be really serious about thinking it would benefit them.

From Anon
I'm in the US, so most of the men I've been with have been cut.  But I've had one uncut boyfriend.  Sex was really good with him and the foreskin was fun to play with using my fingers and tongue.  He seemed to enjoy it too. I actually prefer uncut after that, but it's not as common here.

From Clarissa
If baby girls had part of their clitoral prepuces routinely excised at birth, leaving their sensitive clitorises permanently exposed for the rest of their lives, for religious reasons, for cosmetic conformity, or to pad the ob/gyn's bill, I wonder if anyone would be asking - Clitoral hoods, hot or not?

From Carol
I separated from my husband for a short period. He's circumcised and has a great cock that I've always enjoyed sucking. While apart I had two sexual partners, both uncut, and I did not enjoy sucking their cocks one iota! Probably more to do with being married to hubby for twenty years or more (and being used to his cock almost exclusively) but sucking on uncut cock and jerking off uncut cock was very unappealing with too much lose flesh, although I admit that both uncut cocks in either my pussy or anus was an experience really no different to hubby's cut cock.

From Anonymous
I am an uncut teenager. When I shower after gym in communal showers, some guys look at me with astonishment when I retract foreskin to wash and soap glans and all the penis. Once when doing so I got a very hard erection, and to the surprise of two guys which were making jokes about the whole thing they didn't understand how come the foreskin disappear. They don't know how an uncut penis works, since they are all cut. My doctor has explained to me that a foreskin has many thousands of nerve endings, adding sensitivity to the penis, more pleasure during sexual intercourse, and making masturbation much easier. Sex with my girlfriend is fantastic, and blowjobs are wonderful. She enjoys both very much.

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