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Is Cybersex Cheating?
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Your Fantasy 3some
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The Doctor is IN
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Masturbation

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Oral Sex for Her
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Swallow or Spit
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The Taste of Cum
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Orgasmic Pleasures

Come on Command
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Describe Your Orgasm
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Faking It
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Female Ejaculation
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Your Best Orgasm?
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Keeping Abreast..

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Erotic Lactation
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The Porn/Erotica Debates

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Porn on His Computer
why am I so jealous?

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Relationship Woes

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Men & Women Revealed
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Older Women, Younger Men
Why rob the cradle?

Porn and Relationships
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Why Do People Cheat
Is one not enough?

Younger/Older Relations
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The Daily Grind

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Losing Your Virginity
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Meaningless Sex
Indulge or avoid?

Peeing in Public
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Sexy Mainstream Movies
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Swing Clubs
What's going on?

Sympathy Fuck
Nasty or noble?

Plain Vanilla Sex
Hmm, what exactly is that?

Female Ejaculation
Penis Envy or Truth?



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From Enlightened
I too, had seen video's of this erotic (and so I thought mythical feat), however, I have experienced it almost every time my partner and I make love.

Most of the other writers on this subject are correct, when I penile stimulate my lover’s G spot, I can soon feel a bulge develop in the upper side of her vagina in the region of her G spot, and, as I stimulator her further, I definitely feel a gushing sensation and before I know it, my scrotum and groin is soaked in her ejaculate.

When I perform cunnilingus on her, she will gush all over me, and I have literally been forced to swallow upwards of 3 mouthfuls of this wonderful nectar. I can confirm that female ejaculate is not urine, but is discharged from the uterus. My partner tells me that female ejaculation is the natural product of correct lovemaking between two spirits in total love ­ I am more than inclined to believe her.

Female ejaculate is of a thin milky substance, slightly sweet in taste and leaves no smell when dried out, but does leave a slight brownish stain when dried out.

We too, got through loads and loads of towels during our lovemaking, but we have found the perfect solution to preventing this wonderful solution leaving a massive, happy damp area on our bed, the solution that we have found is disposable "Pampers Changemats"

From Anonymous
It for sure exists. I have perfected it by taking a brush handle, inserting it and lifting it up towards my clit. Within seconds I am over flowing. I have tried to see how many times I can come. So far its been up to twenty one.

From Bobkit
My first wife was a very horny woman and loved sex a lot. She did it all and loved it, she even had a girl friend she spent weekends with at the family cabin.

If we fucked down at the river she would get so turned on that another river would flow out her cunt. She loved it. Probably one reason she divorced me. She wanted to fuck a lot.

Many times while eating her pussy she would actually squirt girly cum into my mouth. I'd look up at her and say, "You just squirted juice into my mouth."

"I know!" she'd say and then fuck my brains out.

So there! Loved it a lot!

From Nina van der Roos
Yes women most definately can ejaculate, both myself and my girlfriend do (yes we are a les couple). It is NOT urine, its clear, slightly thicker than water I would say, has no odour but is slightly sweet to taste. 

She can squirt (and I do mean squirt - some distance at that) anything from 10mls to 50mls and I typically make anything from 20ml to 70ml. I do not squirt very far as such unless either she or I happening to be holding my large fleshy inner labia wide open at the time. She comes the most from either deep stimulation of the vagina with fingers or pyrex dildo, either on her g spot or right up near her cervix.

Surprisingly I come the most from anal penetration and the working of my g spot via my anus (yes it can be done), but I have squirted my biggest amount with being fisted vaginally.

It is something you just have to 'let yourself go' with. You need to be totally at ease with your partner and not afraid of making each other messy. It is a wonderfully liberating sensetion as you come, like I am pouring my own orgasm out over my beautiful lover, returning their lovely gift of ecstasy to them. Seeing yourself pouring out around her fingers is enough to bring on another orgasm immediately.

From Cel
Hi...hmmm..enjoyed reading the entries on female ejaculation...I actually experienced it when I was playing with myself recently. got so worked out masturbating while viewing porn mpegs of two women making out...my undies were sooooo wet, but I knew I didn't pee..Ii actually ejaculated like 4 times in a matter of seconds in between, then followed it up with a massive and I mean massive orgasm. I am single, no boyfriend (am 41)..am sure glad I had that experience with myself though.

From Anonymous
Interesting how many people have responded to this subject so warmly; as I run through all these comments I see over and over talk of the incredible bonding feeling between a woman and her lover drinking from her body. But at the same time I see another theme running through here, which is that most folks thought they were odd or the only ones who liked this! 

In all the years that I've been reading and writing erotic literature—I have only ever so rarely come across this as a story subject. Though oddly enough, I do recall a quote from somewhere in the Bible, to the effect of 'let thy wife's breasts satisfy thee always'. (I bet someone reading this can correct the quote and give me the citation—sorry, read it but didn't exactly memorize it.) 

What a shame that such a natural, loving, sensual and sexual act of intimacy has been given such short shrift. It may be due to the fact that most erotica is aimed towards younger, single people, mostly childless, and women don't come into their milk until they've had a baby. And it's something more related to ongoing loving couples who are willing to develop this as part of their lovemaking whereas most erotica focuses on a first or one-time encounter. 

In any event, my lover loves to milk me, especially when I sit straddling his lap with his cock inside me. It's been 8 years since I weaned my daughter (when she was four) so I hadn't even known I was still capable of making milk, but the more my lover's mouth is at my breast the more I'm making, and I'm starting to work at it increasing my milk when he's not with me. But as many of you have already said—the intense connection it creates is extraordinary.

From David
One particular night my friend Sarah asked if I wanted to watch her milk her breasts. I became very aroused by the sight. It was very sexually stimulating. Right before I came she squeezed her breasts and shot milk all over me I came a lot that night.

From Allie
I have recently become so curious and desirous of this. I am 36 y/o mother of three, and breast fed them all. Once past the initial soreness, I found it pleasurable and my husband tasted it once with our last and got extremely turned on. 

At the time, I couldn't switch gears, but now I am really wanting to re-establish my milk supply and add this to our relationship. I ran the idea about it to him after lovemaking and he said he would start suckling me as much as he can. I would love to talk with another wife who has been successful in getting their milk back without the help of pregnancy, and be able to communicate about this. I am afraid to leave my email address as I share computer with kids. I have been so encouraged to find I am not alone in this desire!

From Ben (South Africa)
About a year or two ago I visited an escort agency and the woman was lactating, being a mother of a year old daughter. This was my first experience. It was mind-blowing. awesome awesome! I did not need to have sex with her! Her milk flow was quite heavy and she was startled when I asked her to let me suck and drink her breast milk. Needless to say after much reluctance she allowed it and I thoroughly loved it. From sucking and swallowing it to bathing in it..there's just something about it that made me feel a way i never felt before. And it tastes divine...and healthy too...

I just wish I could meet a nursing mother who would let me do this regularly.

From Surprised
I was surprised when I met someone who requested that I look into the possibility of creating milk for him in my breasts. From surprise, I quickly went into curiosity and now I find it an immense turn on. Far beyond any sexual aspect though, the thought of nursing and nurturing him is amazing. I am now doing all I can for us to make it a reality for both of us.

From Jenny
Breastfeeding my hubby is the most wonderful and arousing sensation for both of us. My little boy is 3 years now, and since his birth I never stopped lactating. First I was embarressed by the wet spots on my shirt, when the milk is leaking out but it doesn’t bother me anymore, because it brings so much pleasure to us.

My breasts have grown a size and my nipples are much longer and always hard. It’s amazing that I have enough milk for him to suckle in the morning before he goes to work, in the evening when he comes home, etc.

We do is whenever we want and it’s possible. I go to my hubby while sitting on the computer and offer my breasts to him. I have an intense orgasm almost every time and my hubby often has spontaneous ejaculation, even if I don’t play with his penis. He gets a large erection directly when he lachted on. There is no better aphrodisiac than this.

We love very much nursing in the middle of the night or when I ride his cock. He also like squeezing my nipples an the milk is squirting out, and I like to spray the milk all over him on his penis his testicles, then lick it off. Our sex life was good before nursing him but now it is gorgeous, we are in heaven.

We fell deeper in love through that, it is so loving, tender and sensual yet spritual as someone wrote. I wish all men and women who like it find a partner for this beautiful experience.

From Cris
As a male I've found lactation to be highly erotic. My wife was pregnant two months when her best friend, Karen, found out that she expecting. Karen did not marry the father and started hanging out with us a lot over the weekends. The experience was wonderful and watching the two of them blossom was exciting. Their breasts and stomachs seemed to grow daily. In fact, I was surprised at their size and how the both seemed to enjoy their expanding womanhood. They were open about the changes in their bodies, and even playfully competed about ever changing bra sizes. 

By the time my wife was nursing she was into a 36DD nursing bra. Karen followed suit and was nursing and pumping soon after giving birth. The discussions became erotic after Karen learned that I often nursed my wife in the middle of the night and during sex. Between raging hormones and swelling breasts both decided it would be erotic to nurse me at the same time. It was my wife's idea and Karen seemed eager. Karen was now wearing a 36E nursing bra and seemed a little bigger than my wife, which seemed almost impossible to me. 

The discussion heated up between the three of us but I was afraid the girls would regret it over time and did not play it out. I did enjoy it and the picture of them pumping together topless will never go away.

From Anonymous
After trying for about three months to make me squirt, my husband and I have finally perfected the technique that allows me to have the most mind blowing orgasms which end in gushes of fluid. It took awhile to learn to do this, as I never let myself relax enough and "let go". I would normally pull away from the intense feeling of it, never realizing what I was missing! I can say for certain that it is not pee. It doesn't look or smell like pee, and it definately does not come from the bladder!

After one or two "regular" clitoral orgasms, my husband will use his fingers to stimulate my gspot, sometimes for up to 45 minutes or so. It helps to have my legs in a "froggy" position, with him sitting between my legs facing me, and my feet braced on his hips. It's best if I'm sitting up a little. He uses the middle knuckles of his fingers to rub and massage my gspot firmly but slowly, with his fingers facing downward. This drives me wild! He uses a up and down stroking motion with his hand. It's very important that I relax completely and allow the intense feelings to wash over me. 

At first, it gets a sticky feeling, then soon he can actually feel my gspot fill with fluid like a full sponge or small balloon. At this point, there is no stopping it, and he will then turn his hand so his fingers are facing up now, and "pump" quickly and firmly on the spongy area, using long up and down stroking motions. I will normally reach down and stimulate my clit at the same time. 

At this point, I am soaking wet and leaking fluid whether I want to or not! It builds and builds until it feels like the most intense urge to pee (but different, not at all from the bladder!), but he taught me to relax through that feeling, push against his fingers, and OOH! I actually squirt or even gush this wonderful warm fluid all over him, all over his hand, all over me, and it gives me a deep, throbbing type of orgasm.

 It is SO GOOD! He can normally make me squirt 4 or 5 times more before I can't take anymore, and we are both soaked. There have been times where the towels we use are absolutely soaked through, it's incredible. I think the key is trust, relaxation (do not tense up or fight the feeling, just go with it!) and a man that knows how to use his fingers well. It's a wonderful gift that he gives me, as it normally takes awhile and I'm sure after 45 minutes it can be hard on his hand and forearm, but we both love it so much! 

I'm hoping by reading this, many other women will be encouraged to learn how to have these wonderful, wet orgasms. Just relax, let go, don't hold back, and enjoy! It also helps to be very well hydrated, I've found the more hydrated my body is, the more I gush. Mmmmm, so good!

From Massive Throbbing Penis
My girlfriend does this. I can make her do this by doing any one (or a combination of the following).

-Sucking or pinching her nipples (this will work alone if there has been some vagina stimulation).
-Showing her my penis. She will often be squirting just as I approach her pussy with my hard on.
-Touching her vagina. Usually works when I alternate back and forth between her clit, the massive flesh that pushes forward from inside her vagina when she gets excited and the area inside her vagina.
-alternating between touching her pussy and thrusting my penis in once. This can be done by putting her legs up and putting my arms over her legs and reaching down to her pussy. I can then alternate back and forth between pussy thrusting and touching. I can even put a finger inside her and thrust my penis at the same time.
-she can touch it and make it squirt.
-She will do this more quickly if I have not shaven. (The extra friction against her breasts or pussy seems to send her straight to heaven).
-just plain screwing.

When she squirts, she clearly really loves it. The first time she did this she was embarrassed but I cleared that up right away. She usually shrieks with pleasure and tells me to keep going (and lot of other sexy things). This usually gives me a massive hard on that feels so full it almost hurts (not really but that seems like the best way to describe it because its so intense).

I have tried to swallow the fluid. It is very lovely and has no flavour. Maybe just a slight bit sweet. I just discovered this the other day and I must have swallowed a liter if it over about 1/2 hour. We were in her car when returning from Salsa dancing and we were both really turned on.

I have a second girlfriend who always has massive orgasms (usually between 1 and 3 but sometimes 4). I've tried a few things but she doesn't seem to squirt. Doesn't bother me as we both have terrific orgasms and really enjoy the intimacy of sex.

From Dian Lunne
I for one thought every one was crazy when I herd about Female Ejaculation, I thought only men had the goopy stuff coming out there snake hole. Man was I surprised with my ex lover. He was the first guy I had that was well endowed, he was also hot! So before we Worked it in the bed I was already wet and turned on just by the site of his body.

Unfortunately he didn't start off to good cause he thought he would hurt me. So I had to get him past that. I can talk for hours about the magic he worked on me that night... it was going well until I had my first experience with the Female Ejaculation. I was so embarrassed. I thought I was moaning so loud that I had peed on my self and him. But it wasn't the same sensation and didn't have the same consistency. So I talked to a friend of mine about it and she told me what it was.

He and I experimented with it for the next year we tested how far I could shoot, how many times and how much. Sadly he lost weight and was no longer the large teddy bear I once knew, (who would thought getting a six pack and a toned body would make some one so shallow?). But it is ok. I got married and my husband loves the fact I ejaculate too. Granted at first he was jealous cause I came more than he did and it wasn't that icky phlegm texture like his, but after he got over it things have never been better.

So give it a try gurls.... you will never feel any thing like it!

From Mike
Yes it's true. My wife and I discovered it about 6 months after we met. I had managed to "hang on" for quite some time during a lovemaking session when I felt her vaginal muscles constrict around my cock and then it felt like she was peeing on it. When I withdrew there was a squirt and a flood of clear juice (No it wasn't pee) It was great.

My wife ejaculates after we've been fucking for a while and I rub the top of her vaginal opening rapidly. She will squirt 2 or 3 feet and our favourite is for her to squat on my face while she leans forward to suck my cock. Once she has ejaculated once (takes a while to get there) further ejaculations come more frequently. It's great.

From Anonymous
Most of my sexual life I have been complimented on being a very wet lover, usually when I am with a larger man. I had no idea that women could squirt. Well just over a year ago when I started sleeping with my now husband he surprised me. This wonderful man is very talented with his hands and seems to think nothing of spending hours to wear me out. Well one evening he was working his magic and started to laugh ... not the most comforting thing to have happen while having sex... when I sat up to see what happened he showed me. I had soaked not only myself but him and the bed as well. Apparently he had seen it in videos and such and wanted to know if it worked.

Needless to say it worked very well. The thing is though no matter how intense my orgasm is I still prefer a quick clitoral orgasm afterward to wind back down.

I have made attempts to explained to my best friend but as of yet she has not been able to find or enjoy this with her mate. I wish everyone the best of luck.

From Cathy
Penis Envy? What? I love my cunt and that I can ejaculate has Nothing to do with a penis. It amazes sometimes how if guys don't understand something or the how of it they twist it around. Ah, that felt good to get that off my chest. Now to the Real stuff.

It seems that most of my sexual knowledge and fun didn't happen until my forties. One evening this man I was dating were sitting on the sofa having an old fashioned make out session. His fingers started doing this dance inside me, but it felt different this time. I told him to stop (why do us girls tell guys to stop when it feels good?) and he didn't. It was sorta irritating then it changed to Big time hot. It gushed out all over my sofa and I was upset. I thought I had peed. He laughed and since then I try to enjoy that as often as I can.

Since then I have taught 4 men how to do that for me and others I'm sure. The only thing that bugs me is I can't do it to myself! I also think that it is the strongest of the orgasms we can have. Us girls are sooo lucky.

From StEvelites
If I have a fetish, It is the joy I feel when the women I love orgasm to the point of EXPULSION. In my experience size makes no difference, and in my opinion the large lesbian argument does not have a leg to stand on. If you are looking for the elusive but find it hard to pin down try this:

With your feet planted firmly on terra firma squat down, your hands on your lovers shoulders. Push down and out as your lover brings you to clitoral orgasm. During this the fingers should be pushed inside to feel the swelling and ridges of the G-AREA. When this feels like a balloon filled with a little water it can be pushed rhythmically. Now you can feel the watery stickiness. Back to the clitoris for moments and then back inside, the lubrication should feel less slippery and space for your two fingers at a minimum. Now is the time, go in deep and squash that bubble till it bursts. If it doesn't relax for a while go back to gentle massage until the creamy stuff comes back. Then start again. And just remember "If at first you dont succeed" Keep on Fuckin"

All my love to you all. StEvelites* Bed wetters of the world unite.

Note. A little smelly stuff is ok, it just means you're on the right track.

From StrictLove
Add me to the "yes, it's real and I've seen it" category.

My previous lover was a submissive who squirted bunches of clear, great tasting liquid when I stimulated her G-spot and clitoris at the same time.

The surprise of the first time was great, and as soon as I convinced her she wasn't peeing she relaxed and wanted to do it again.

We once tried to see how much or how often she could come, but after three times in the shower, six or more on the completely soaked bed, and another on the chair, we gave up and caught a short nap before checking out of the hotel. The bed was so wet, it looked as though a pitcher of water had been poured out. Every towel in the place met a similar fate, and to this day I mentally apologize whenever I think of the poor room attendant who was left such a sloppy mess.

My current lover does not squirt, but then again, I haven't tried. Hmmm, that gives me an idea....

From Jane Lane
It does exist! In past I've had very slow, but very nice masturbation sessions - not on my own, it wasn't my hand doing the playing. I'm a multiple orgasmer all the time, and after 3 or so, id get very intense feelings, and I thought it was pee - but it was warm and didn't smell like pee. the guy at the time was convinced that I'd gotten so pleasured that id lost control of myself totally.

From Zeke
I was first introduced to this phenomenon a few years ago while having sex with a very large Asian girl. (BBW) She warned me before moving our "event" to the bed that she thought she had a "gland" problem and tended soak the bed. She was very self conscious about this and required extra towels on the bed before we got started. She was not kidding in the least!

During out first session she produced so much juice that is indeed did seem a bit unnatural. During heaving pumping the juice was slopping, sloshing dripping all over the place. It produced a wet spot nearly three feet around and the towels turned out to be a rather futile exorcise.

On the second go around I asked her about the possibility of squirting and she had never heard of it and was apprehensive to try. After some convincing I got her to push a little during orgasm and low and behold a nice solid stream of fluid.

Has anyone noticed a correlation between larger women and wetness?

From Lisa
It happens to me. I was shown how to do it myself with fingers about a month ago and now my husband can get me there with his penis. I'm so angry that I have not heard about this before other than as a 'myth'. It is a fact. It is not urine! I don't need a scientific study to tell me that. It's more like sugar water, thank you very much.

From ElectricSoftJoy
My wife and I were riding that comfortable, slow, smooth ramp of excitement and anticipation with lots of kissing and touching. I thought "Why not just stay with the external/clitoral stroking and see where it goes?" She seemed to became more still, more "lost", more and more tense and straining. Suddenly there was much more wetness and a definite change in the character of lubrication, thinner with more friction. This happened at other times after that, so now I know why there sometimes was a great deal of fluid during sex.

From Firemermaid
I suspect it's happened in the past--but I couldn't be sure...I usually lubricate quite a bit; downright copiously when I come, always through clit stimulation. But now I know for sure...During a couple of fun, lengthy sessions w/ a digitally gifted friend, I most definitely squirted, to my surprise & his delight. It absolutely was NOT pee-- didn't feel like peeing, & this liquid was quite clear, w/ little taste or smell. It shot out of my urethra forcibly enough to soak my ankles, & quite a bit of the sheets (2d time we had a towel handy!). My friend was really concentrating on gently but firmly massaging my G spot, & earlier, I'd enjoyed some twist'n buzz dildo-type vibrators he'd brought over for my pleasure.

The funny thing was, that although the sensation was enjoyable, it didn't feel like an orgasm, although I did feel rather relaxed afterwards. The 1st time, the G spot stimulation was almost irritating, & I felt that classic feel-like-i've-gotta-pee sensation, which then subsided. 2d time, was more pleasurable, & no real feeling of having to urinate. My friend seemed to take this all in stride.

Both he, & a woman I discussed this with, seemed to think the squirt could happen sans full orgasm, & that learning to come this way could take a little time. Well, gee, at 44 I'm thrilled to have this new avenue to explore & have fun with--I look forward to combining G spot & clit stimulation, & seeing just what happens...any helpful feedback on this subject would be most welcome.----Oh, found a fantastic book on women's genitals called "The Clitoral Truth". It's by the same group that put out "A New View of a Women's Body" a few years ago. It's a great, clear overview of the amazing & very extensive clitoral system; the bud we see really is just the tip of an enormous iceberg! Had some great G spot info too.

[ERWA note: We agree! The Clitoral Truth is an excellent book, as is Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot.]



From Bill
My wife and I had been having some fantastic oral sex over the last few weeks, when she began to flow in my mouth (she sits straddling my face). She freaked out thinking she had just peed in my mouth. It took some convincing on my part to get her to believe it was not.

I told her I wanted her to push the next time she had the urge, not to try and hold it back. I had heard about female ejaculation, but thought it was just something used to sell porn videos. I can say that it is somewhat sweet and creamy. Anyway, in the last week, I've eaten her to orgasm almost two times each day. Each time her orgasm is getting larger, and she is expelling more fluid. This has been such a turn on for me, I find myself ejaculating without even touching my cock.

From Soak the Bed
I am so glad there are others out there who have experienced this. I have had sex with about 25 partners but only experienced "female ejaculation" with my last partner who was amazing in bed. It would only happen when I was on top and rubbing back and forth with his penis all the way inside on my g-spot. This position would allow clitoral as well as inner vaginal stimulation and I would have a huge orgasm. When we would finish there would be a huge wet spot underneath and around him on the bed. At first, it freaked us out and I smelled it but it had no odor. Just clear...definitely not urine. I asked some of my friends about it and they thought it was pretty abnormal. So I'm glad to hear it's not!

From Chaynne
I've always been a squirter, but I didn't know it at first...whenever I was extremely turned on, I would get a feeling to push and pee at the same time, but I would always think it was only pee and hold back on it! It was only after I met my husband that he told me about female ejaculation and I started to read about it that I realized what it was. Needless to say, he's ecstatic!

From Thomas
Yes, As in many of the cases posted here, my ex and I would fool around and when ever she reached her peak she would release a warm liquid, personally I thought it was quite flattering to know that I could make a woman secrete this liquid and I was too busy rejoicing in my head that I made a girl hit peak to care enough to smell it or taste it but urine has a distinct smell that I would have recognized. So in summation yes, they do exist and you should get one Dorothy.

From Luca
I'm a massage therapist in NY, and had a client visit regularly for a massage. She had no problem being topless during the massage and it was often the one most looked forward to. But nothing ever happened. Well since she came once every few months, over a year after the first massage, we had a rather emotional session. Still nothing physical happened, but mentally it was nice. And she leaves.

she later calls near the end of my shift to say to the appointment desk that she left her earrings in my room, and left a number. A staff member came to look, but I quickly sensed what was going on so I said I would call and look for them. I called right from the front desk and she asked me what I was doing later that evening and mentioned she had not left her earrings. I started to harden right there.

Needless to say I went right over there after my shift. We fooled around and then go to her bedroom. She put down a towel over the bed linens, I thought she was simply protecting them, BUT I SOON FOUND OUT WHY. She was very much into specifics on how she got off, and I was like o.k. whatever you want. I can't remember who came first but when she did I was using my hand and nothing short 6-8 ounces came gushing out. My mouth dropped and I loved it we had a great evening, but the next time I was so focused on it that the sex from both of us was not impressive. End of that relationship.

From Bliss
I've experienced it and been accused of it! The husband of a woman who I had the pleasure of meeting at an "adult" party warned me that I would need a towel for his wife. He said "She squirts when she comes, so get a towel so you don't soak the bed." In my mind, I was like, "Yeah, right..." But it was true. She DID squirt, several times. I felt it gush out against my chin. And no, it was NOT pee.

My ex-lover and I were playing around on her bed one day and I went down on her until she came. She begged me to stop and I kept going because it was sooooo good. A few seconds after she told me to quit, I felt a warm liquid squirt into my mouth. I suspect that it WAS pee that time, but honestly, it didn't taste bad. The same lover told me (after we stopped having sex) that I squirted her all the time.

My current lover (male) told me that I squirt when I come. It's funny cuz I can't feel it at all.

From John
Yep, this thing exists alright. What it is I have no idea but I was going down on my partner of nine months and as she came I just got this warm water type effect flow out of her. It didn't exactly squirt, it just flowed. It didn't really taste of anything, just warm and wet. After five minutes and me back down oh her, it happened again and just as much. So it happens alright. Take my word for it.

From nlj
Happened with one girl I was with. she squirted when I was going down on her and I hated it. made me think of a man and I couldn't go down on her after that. interestingly enough she was one of those women who could come through straight intercourse so maybe there is some relation there?

From Keeley
I was reading about "Squirters" and how to achieve the effect when my online lover (who is 20 years younger than I) decided to show me how to achieve this...the result was I did, indeed, come all over the chair. It did feel like urine, with the heat and the amount of wetness but the feeling was incredible...a high I have never experienced.

I have learned to achieve the same affect when I stimulate my g spot with a vibrator inside me, while manipulating a small vibrator on the clit...the spasms and warmth that goes over your body is right before you literally wet the area. And folks, I'm 51, and have had a hysterectomy so it isn't the uterus that does the trick!

From Oceangirl
What a great topic! This is truly a fantastic experience. Being on top does it instantly and repeatedly for me, although only with my husband, whom is rather large compared to previous partners. Don't doubt it's existence, this is very real and very beautiful, and he adores it just as much. Just have the towels ready, you'll need them!

From Anonymous
My ex-wife was a squirter. It was the first time I had ever experienced this and she was a little embarrassed about it thinking that it was urine.

I had read about it and convinced her that it was perfectly natural and that she was actually very lucky to experience it. unlike urinating it was very explosive and did not smell like urine.

Whenever we had sex we would have to put at least a few folded towels on the bed under us to absorb all the fluids. she was able to ejaculate by just being very aroused and did not need direct clitoral/g-spot/vaginal stimulation. she once ejaculated simultaneously with me while performing fellatio on me.

My current wife and I are exploring her ability to ejaculate and although she has not yet we have fun trying and she is getting closer.

From Oh Mickey
Female Ejaculation does exist! I have known about Female ejaculation for about 20 years. About 18 months ago I started using Chat Rooms, I found a room of people who had been chatting as a small community from all over the country. These people had been chatting for quite some time, many of them were friends in real life they had regular meetings "Chat Parties" in different locations around Australia.

Anyway I was single and used to talk to many of these women on a regular basis, as I became more intimate with some of them it became apparent that hardly any of them knew about Female Ejaculation, which I thought was very sad.

Since then I have taught, either on the Net or by Phone about 10 of the women in the Room how to have a G Spot orgasm and how to ejaculate, the results are always the same, they all say they have never felt anything like it before, mind blowing beyond belief. So far I have not had any woman say that she could not achieve a result.

I joke to some of the women calling them my harem, I have met some of them in person and some of them have met each other, I do not tell the women who else I have taught, but they all have a fair idea I may have taught some of the others, but do not exactly know who, but they don't seem to sorry about it, its just an intimate inner glow we all share and smile about.

From Anonymous
My wife has never had a squirting experience. How can i get her to do this. she is shy. I bought her a g-spot toy and she said it was to big. h-e-l-p

From miss wow
I always considered that as a myth or some special effect in adult videos that doesn't apply to the average girl with the average man...I was a non-believer until last night!

My boyfriend teased me so much that I was begging him to come inside me and after a long resistance at last he came inside and I straddled him. It must have been some synchronized swaying movement in the hips, that was when I started experienced electric shock-like pulses down my spine and I went wild and came hard!

I was exhausted after my orgasm (almost like a man) I rolled over and the sheets were so wet that it was almost like someone had spilt a big glass of water on the bed. When we realised what this was, we both burst into laughter, I was shocked and amazed and I think he was pretty content with what he managed to make me do..

So its in my bag of tricks hopefully it becomes a habit not a one-hit wonder

From Gushing and loving it
Well, Dorothy, I too was a skeptic until just this week, ironically enough. I am 28 years old, and my husband and I have been married for 8 1/2 years. Having two children had put a bit of a damper on the flames of passion and desire in our relationship, so just this week I bought my first vibrator for an evening of passion I had planned as a surprise to my husband in an effort to spice up our relationship.

At any rate, I quickly found that I LOVE that little toy and found that my husband enjoys watching me play with it. The more I played with it, the more aroused I became. Then my husband joined in. With two fingers manipulating the right spot (the G spot) and the vibrator doing its thing to the clitoris as well as my own manipulation of the breasts, we received the surprise of a lifetime the first time I gushed all over my husband. Since we have found out that I am a squirter, my husband is following me around the house waiting for the opportunity to catch me alone.

From starman
My wife is a squirter, She found this out when we first started dating. She had her first one about 12 years ago. I told her that it existed, but she was skeptical. The way it works for her is when I rub my penis up and down on her clitoris. It doesn't take long before she is gushing. We use towels to keep from soaking the bed. I personally enjoy performing orally on her and enjoying the sensation that way. I have found that sometimes there is no taste, and at other times it has a sweet taste, almost like strawberry soda (if that makes sense). I have found this to be true with the different girlfriends I've had in the past also. My wife now is the one who asks for sex. She will bring a towel into the room and that is my way of knowing that THE FLOOD GATES will be opened

From Suzanna
When referring to "Squirters," or women that squirt, someone once said that they had to release at least a liter before they were considered to be such a person. The intense feelings as your insides well up and the pressure builds as your insides are on the break of release the feeling is like that of having to urinate but knowing that it is not going to happen. The urinary track is filling up with the fluids of an oncoming orgasm.

"...This liquid is not urine, or sperm and does not smell; it is simply a concentrated solution, which resembles "diluted skim milk"..." (unites.uqam.ca)

The pressure is so intense that as you begin to orgasm, a huge amount of liquid is being expelled and you find yourself shooting rather than the usual wetness that is found. As the manipulations continue so does the flow of the juice.

"The good doctor also contended that some women expelled from their urethras (the tube that carries urine to the outside) a clear transparent fluid from a gland within the tube itself. Some people call this phenomenon "female ejaculation" and maintain that it originates from the female equivalent of the prostate, the gland in men that makes fluid and lubricants for sperm..." (elysa.uqam.ca)

From Suman
Hey, this is true and real. I found it out last month and from then on it seems my inner self is always asking for more. You need to locate the right spot with the right partner in a right situation. Then just god can save you it is so exciting.

From Brianne
I've actually been able to ejaculate since I first had sex when I was 19, but I always thought it was weird and unheard of so I was always very shy and reluctant to sleep with other guys. I've still, to this day, only had 2 sex partners (I'm 27 now), but I pleasure myself on a daily basis. With just a normal session of masturbation I'll usually achieve a normal amount of squirting. But if I stimulate myself for like an hour before and then hit the "right" spot, I literally gush cum (this I discovered when I was about 24). When I do this, it comes out very thick and white too, and literally just sprays out of my vagina and all over the bed and floor. And I'm telling all of you right now, that that is THE most amazing feeling in the world!

From Voluptuous
It is my own theory that larger women (BBW's) experience stronger orgasms and more ejaculation than thinner or average women. I am lesbian and I currently have 8 female partners whom I have sex with often. First of all, I myself am about 5'7" and 190 lbs and I literally spray cum when I orgasm. My cum is often very thick and white. 6 of my female partners are also larger (most around the same as me, 1 quite a bit larger), and they all also ejaculate large amounts of cum when they orgasm. My two other partners are closer to average or thin weight, and neither of them are able to ejaculate. They do get the juices flowing when they orgasm, but no actual ejaculation. I don't know why it is but I think the fatter you are, the stronger you orgasm ladies.

From Anonymous
When I come, I love it. It feels so good and I love to taste it. But my question is, how come my come is creamy, while other girl's come is thin and watery? Why is it different for other girls? I mean, I've seen porn before displaying creamy come, while others show squirting watery cum. What is the difference and why does this happen?

From Kate
Poor Dorothy..... she just hasn't found her "G" spot yet. YES!  Women do ejaculate (no, it's not pee, unless you have a bladder leakage problem). It doesn't always happen with orgasm, but with the right amount of stimulation in the right spot, certainly we lucky ones do!  I did not until I hit 30 years of age, and then I think only because I finally was out to please me ...not him, and he (a new partner) wanted so much to please me. Plus, it helps if your sweetie has a funny shaped cock....especially with a little crook in it....but, you can get a dildo to do the same thing. Go look for that "G" spot girls...it's the best. It usually happens for me when I'm on top, and just rock back and forth. If I am really, really turned on, I just gush fluid all over him -- so get a towel ready!! And, the best part:  GUYS LOVE IT when you come like that!

From Thea
I discovered it about ten years ago. I have always been very slow to reach orgasm. I also thought I had peed the first time. My gynecologist said that it is another type of lubrication, and the source is the uterus. She also noted that it requires a great deal of intense stimulation to reach it. She did not specify a place, although I could, before my hysterectomy, have them by myself with no vaginal manipulation or during intercourse. I have only had them in one position (on my back, perpendicular to my partner on a side). I suspect it has been around and that either it was treated as esoterica or that women are indeed suppressing them. I can, although it blunts the orgasm, which is distinct in flavor and presentation from an ordinary orgasm.

From Anonymous
It is very real... At the age of 18 a lover laid me down and said he was going to show some something. He proceeded to bring me to orgasm time and time again until we lost count, and the mattress was soaked! At first I was shocked, and then he explained it to me. My husband loves to do this. He holds my legs up against his chest and hits the g-spot- bam! I cum all over the place! It is very relaxing and sexy!

From Annie
I am proud to say that I squirt my husband's ankles on a regular basis! I find that I "ejaculate" the most when he takes his time to please me. Clitoral and vaginal stimulation work for me.

From Mr.Rhett
This phenomenon IS real, truly. And our experience of it is, shall we say, truly awesome. An evening with a lovely Southern lass in her boudoir led to us kneeling beside her legs as a finger deeply massaged her most sacred place. Suddenly she burst into orgasm and we felt the fabric of our jeans -- yes, don't ask, but we were still clothed -- became sopping wet. "Geez," we remarked silently, "the lady has pissed on us! Oh, whatever, we can put the jeans in the clothes drier soon enough." She insisted afterwards that she had not pissed, as we had innocently surmised, but had for the first time in aeons ejaculated. This was all new to us, obviously. And frankly we were dubious. She explained (bless her heart and other portions of her anatomy too) that for her it had only happened when she is digitally stimulated and, sadly she remarked, her own fingers aren't long enough to "do the trick." We had the pleasure of replicating the phenomenon for her a few more times.

This remarkable woman doesn't squirt, she gushes. And it is AWESOME! We haven't had the privilege nor pleasure, yet, of orally sampling this treat. But now that we do know it's not urine -- as an intrepid scientist-type found out above -- perchance we'll be blessed with the opportunity some day. Her anatomical and erotic talent has given a whole 'nother meaning to the term "wet spot"!

From alikat
I am sorry (or not) to disappoint you non-believers, but I have experienced this fantastic flow of ecstasy myself. You can too, with the correct patience and manipulation by your partner. So, for all you male or female non-believers, try taking some extra time and foreplay and believe you me, it will happen. I am not talking about a one-time experience either. And I am also not talking about an orgasm. This soaked the sheets and his face and chest and no, it is not urinating. (Believe you me, they would tell you if it is).

From Fond Memories
Hey, female ejaculation definitely exists! My ex-wife was very much willing and able to squirt all over the place when she had an orgasm. I loved to have her on top and feel the warm juice (definitely not urine) gush over my balls...wow, sure makes the old jizz flow quick. I had also masturbated her and watched as it squirted out and loved the taste. We usually left a good sized tip after a night in a motel room!!!

From Quiverdance
It is true. I have one friend who has been doing this with all her orgasms, her whole life. When she was a teenager she too thought it was pee and was terrified. But she had and enlightened older partner and found out it was natural. I had only had clitoral orgasms and thought that 'squirting' was just something that happened to other girls. Then after 15 years of being married to a man who really thought I should have been someone else, I had a lover for a while who actually wanted to make love to me. When the bed was soaked and I was exhausted he laughed delightedly, because I am, apparently, a squirter as well. But only on the second or third time and my whole body had to be involved. I was a little surprised...after 20 years of sex to find this out. I went to my friend and she told me about herself. It's a good thing to have friends like that because after you have a couple of kids you never really know what your bladder might surprize you with...

From Steve
Not sure if this will help but the woman I am seeing does seem to ejaculate more than a fair amount . In the course of an evening (sexually speaking of course) my pubic area thighs and bed will be absolutely soaked . I am not negating my own contribution to the pool but my own are not quite as powerful or voluminous as those seen in some videos (oh but how I wish they were ). When she is on top I can almost feel it run out of her and it is quite thin and has a pleasant aroma (yes I did rub my finger in it to taste and smell) Hers seem to be stronger with each succeeding one I have slipped out several times due to the overlubrication from her as well as getting carried away . I cannot speak on her behalf or for women in general but I think it may happen more than most people think . She has very strong orgasms and I will be honest enough to write that my own feel great but could no way produce the "love slick" I simply could not produce as much as there is . But if I might indulge myself (boring I know but just my opinion) For a long time women were not supposed to enjoy sex and when feeling an orgasm and the accompanying wetness was probably attributed to the male out of insecurity or the whole sad history of a woman being the receiver and not a producer . She would never talk about this so I would like to hear/read if I might be right.

From Black Gull
It's real! And it's just now being "admitted" to by Western culture! It can be found in East Indian love/erotic poetry, so it's not new. I think that it's wonderful. All at once it's over the web and a lot of ladies who were ashamed of it, are now clearer about what's going on and enjoying it. I first saw it on the web in the BDSM web community about four years ago, as a part of a Doms reward system. And SHS has been doing workshops for quite a bit of time as well. Men are getting into it and some have even been known to bathe in the experience - I just enjoy the complete let go-ness of it.:-) With the right partner - you can't buy higher.:-) And if you're lactating at the same time - Oh my!

From Slohand
Ironically, I believe my wife and I experienced a rare (for us) encounter with female ejaculation (or squirting, if you prefer something less clinical, Dorothy) this weekend.

A couple of bottles of wine (and some fantasies whispered in her ear that may soon find there way to the stories page) had her hormones in high gear and she totally surprised me by rolling over and more or less demanding sex "doggie style." This was unusual because something about the angle of that act usually causes her pain, so it is a real rarity.

Well, there was definitely no pain involved this time. Lots of moaning, groaning, grunting, squealing and shuddering but no pain. All of this delightful noise was very unusual for her (usually a quiet lover), and she was extremely animated, clawing at the sheets, etc. (God, do I sound like a great lover, or what? Too bad all of this was out of the ordinary!)

Ashamed to say, the excitement of this unique treat got me to the finish line first. As I collapsed on top of her she was still panting, and blurted out, "Why are the sheets so wet?"

Before we explored the question much further, however, I began trying to repent for having left her behind, and within minutes we were both snoring contentedly.

Alas, Dorothy, this does not offer specific proof of female ejaculation, I mean I didn't actually see the gush. She didn't care to discuss it too much (a bit embarrassed at her loss of inhibition), but based upon things I felt and saw I would deduce that she had some sort of orgasm (there was definitely some sort of release, and sensations that she wasn't used to)and it was satisfying for her, but not the clitoral type she is used to and still craved. I very firmly believe that the extra large wet spot was the result of a squirt or two on her part, and it definitely wasn't urine because there was no such odor or stain in the morning.

I can think of two or three other times in our lives when we have had similar occurrences. While I have never seen her have the explosive gushes that some women seem to experience, I am quite convinced that under the right circumstances, and in the right position, my wife is indeed a squirter.

I have also read too much on this topic to believe it doesn't happen - in fact, I think the ITEM section on the ERA page has an excellent discussion on this. And, if you do a little research (the book the G-Spot is a great source) you find that for many cultures, it seems that squirting is rather routine, and has been considered a natural part of sex for hundreds or thousands of years).

From Quiverdance
Ok, here I am on a bright snowy Tuesday morning, dissecting the best sexual experience of my life. In my experience it did not squirt out and shoot my man in the eye. It came like your own lubrication comes, but it is thinner and waterier. IT DOES NOT SMELL LIKE PEE...thank god! It is definitely clear and dries on the sheets without a stain...but it's far too wet to sleep on that spot so you are changing them anyway...or getting a towel. I don't recall the taste especially, I guess because it gets mixed up with all the other forest aromas and tastes of sex...and because my mouth was probably somewhere else.

I believe that it is related to the G-spot but I am not certain on this, except that it was only when I experienced a vaginal orgasm that I ever had it at all.

From Slokiss
Dorothy, it is indeed real. I've seen it up close and personal. I found that it does not happen until the female is fully aroused. Prolonged oral stimulation is a good primer. Combine a generous tongue on a bursting clit and a finger or two stimulating the g-spot, and bingo. Thar she blows...but not until she's half lost her mind. I think it is a bi-product of temporarily insanity that is sexually induced. *g*

It does indeed look like she is urinating, but it's not urine. What I've experience is whiter in color, almost a milky straw-colored liquid with the consistency of cream. I was rewarded with about a teaspoon of this nectar. I actually saw her squirt in two short pulses into the palm of my hand that was working her g-spot with two fingers. The action of walking them back and forth set her free. I had never seen it up until that point. I'm a believer. The taste was not remarkable, but it was not offensive in any way either.

This is kind of like seeing UFOs. If you haven't seen one, it's hard to believe that the truth is out there...

From Ashley
I'm 19 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and he's the first guy I have experience with. When I was younger I masturbated but then it just stopped cause I guess I wasn't that much in to it but now I am. I never heard of female ejaculation expect for the last 9 months, and I've been interested in ever since. Don't get me wrong my boyfriend has been giving very good orgasms and all but I've always wanted to "squirt" on him.

Well, I was reading all of these stories about people's experiences and what nots and it made me hot so I masturbated but I wanted more cuz when I feel that intense feeling I automatically stop so I got a vibrating toothbrush and I put it on my clit and no more than like a minute I gushed like a water hose all over my bed and fingers and thighs...everywhere. And right now I feel so good that all I can do is laugh and smile.

So to answer your question about female ejaculation...it does exist...believe me. I suggest all women try it or experiment it at least once in your life!

From Anonymous
We have been married 25 years and recently we have found that if my wife uses the flexible shower head to spray her clit while I watch when she comes. She then invites me into the shower and turns away from me putting her feet on the shower tray edges - so she is higher up. I then thrust into her against her g-spot and she can often come a more couple of times.

From Anonymous
I can ejaculate purely from clit simulation. And let me tell you, it is VERY real- and it is definitely not urine. The sensation of female ejaculation is amazing, at least ten times more intense than a normal orgasm. The liquid is very clear, has no odor, and very little (but sweet) taste.

From Monica
I'm 43 and I'm just now learning so much about my own body. Until recently, I had never heard of female ejaculation, but have almost always felt the urge to pee during sex, which freaked me out. I am hopeful I can overcome these fears and be able to squirt. 

Right now I'm reading an excellent book on the subject, trying to learn and train myself to achieve what is rightfully mine. I highly recommend this book Female Ejaculation & the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl for those who are interested in the subject. It covers every issue on this topic, including female ejaculation in history and other societies.

From Liz
I am definitely a late bloomer, but better late than never! I am 5 months pregnant, and with every pregnancy I get hornier. I orgasm, but just this afternoon I actually sprayed cum. I laid out a towel on the bed and put a ribbed condom on a unskinned banana. I used a vibrator on my clit over my silk panties just to get wet. Next, I slipped off my panties, poured some lube over myself and shoved the banana deep inside while vibeing my clit...I had a small mirror between my legs so I could watch. 

Just as I felt as I was ready to come, I grabbed my ankles and pushed like I was having my baby---oh God. I could not believe I was squirting. It was warm and wet and made that awesome squirting sound. I soaked though my towel...it was wetness mixed with creamy cum.

The only thing that makes me sad is I wish I could be giving a girl oral and be squirted and taste that sweet juice! Yum!

From Brad
Most women in porn act like every time they ejaculate they have an orgasm. Now, Im aware that they are faking and not even squirting but instead pissing and stuff. But, as some people here claim (and I believe them), squirting is possible. 

Now, what I want to know is do you reach an orgasm every time you squirt? Can you even squirt without an orgasm?

From Anonymous
Yes, female ejaculation is real, and no, it isn't urine. There is nothing like g-spot play to get the juices flowing. Just when the pleasure gets so intense that you think you can't take it anymore, let the feeling overwhelm your whole body, relax, push against his fingers just a bit, and you'll spray this wonderful, warm, wet fluid all over. Once it starts, it's hard to stop, and you'll want him to keep pumping that spot until you're completely empty and totally fulfilled. Try it, practice it, learn about it, and love it.

From Robin
Well.. I must say, those of you who disbelieve in the Female Ejaculation, or even that it exists at all, (due possibly to the fact that mostly male ejaculations have been the main target/focus of genital emissions) - have much to hear and learn. And Honeychile, lemmetellya...it is a very big deal!

When I first experienced this wonderful gift, I began to understand why men, generally speaking, seems to appreciate sex more than women have or many women even do. I too at first, thought it was urination. However, after closer assessment, I have been urinating long enough to know that, although the emission itself is basically clear in color, it contains very little odor, and presents itself with a totally empty bladder. Not to mention the release of a full bladder (urination) presents a totally different feeling in total contrast to the release of ones' sexual bodily fluids, in this respect...cum! And let me say this men absolutely love it! I am certain Lesbian lovers have no issue with it either! Don't wish to omit the Gay Sisters here!

I am a copious squirter, and the only downside to this extraordinary gift that I can glean, is that I must always make certain to include very thick towels on my mattress, because I will soak a bed! Aside from that, it is a very big deal to be a woman who ejaculates, my dear! All women should be so fortunate to experience such a feeling; there might never again be the word "frigid" to describe us in that respect. In a phrase, "You have to be there" (or experience your own squirting) in order to appreciate the total experience - because that is precisely what it is; not merely physical, by a true total body and mind experience. 

I'm almost 53, and have been a squirter for the past 15 years or so. If you're not a squirter, then how can you possibly reduce it to a function as mundane, necessary and routine as "just urinating"? Just wanted to clear up any misconceptions about the "pee thing" and the "real thing".

From Nicole
I beg to differ with those who thing female ejaculation is a thing of make believe. It exist and I know first hand because I am a squirter. The first time I did it, I was a teenager. I was masturbating and decided that I was just going to totally relax and let go, and it happened. I came so much that I thought I in fact peed but I smelled it and it wasn't urine. 

I am now 26 years old and still can ejaculate in copious amounts. Just last night, I came so much that my entire bed was soaked, but it turns my lover on to the fullest. He was like a kid in a candy store.

From Jack
To those of you who do not believe there is such a thing as Female Ejaculation you are just plain wrong. No it is not new, I am 55 and when I was 16 an older woman introduced me to the pleasures of a woman who squirted. Suzie taught me how to give a woman oral stimulation coupled with g-spot stimulation and she squirted all over me. This is where I was introduced to water sports and have enjoyed a very wet woman all my life. Not all women squirt I believe because they are so freaked when they feel that about to happen to them. They think pee and think gross. It is not. Anyway I try to explain and sometimes they understand and other times they do not. Since I am very into pee and anal play a little liquid has never freaked me.

Just recently I met a woman on the net and in our talks I discovered that she wanted the freedom to totally let go when she comes. She told me if she peed she peed if she flooded she flooded and if she pooped she pooped. Well I was not sure about the later but she didn't know that the urge to pee was part of squirting. She was not sure. Well on our first meet I had her pee and I tasted it to prove to her it didn't bother me. That turned her on so that we being 55 and 40 acted like teenagers. 

I began to eat her pussy and she would come and come from clitoral stimulation. When I use my two fingers and found her g-spot she did pee and I never missed a beat as I lapped it all up. Then as she moved on to g-spot orgasms she began to flood my face and then as she tensed and pushed she squirted like a fire hose. Sweet, thick cum. So clear and so sweet tasting that I felt like she had just sprinkled her pussy with sugar. We continued for almost an hour until she was almost dehydrated and worn out. That is when she curled up in my arms and fell asleep. Oh and by the way we used large bed pads to collect the overflow. Works great if you do not have plastic sheets. 

Most women I have been with can squirt once they are able to let go and not worry about what is happening; I mean guys seam to want to squirt on their women. I treasure each and every drop.

From Anonymous
When I rub my girlfriends G spot I can feel her vagina swell up and she says there is an urge to pee. However she is embarrassed about letting go because she believes it is in fact urine.

From Julia
Hi, I'm Julia. 48 years old, happily married to Philippe, 2 children, and regardless of what some of your correspondents think, I ejaculate!

I have always been aware that I had this ability to produce copious amounts of fluid during a climax, even as a teenager I could produce a wet patch the size of a dinner plate when I masturbated! However it wasn't until I was in my late 20s that I found out about FE. It all fell into place then.

I find manual or oral stimulation of my clitoris is the way to go. A light but persistent "flicking" action with fingertip or tongue tip will usually induce 2 or 3 ejaculations. The first contraction will induce a spurt of clear fluid that can travel for 10 to 12 inches. Subsequent contractions usually produce a trickle of fluid.

Around mid-cycle, I am at my most rampant and have on several occasions experienced multiple ejaculations, Philippe has counted 15 separate climaxes, each producing the customary spurt then trickle. They usually start several seconds apart but by the time I reach my 10th or 11th climax, the contractions come in rapid succession, merging into one continuous ejaculation that just dribbles out.

Philippe tells me the fluid is mostly tasteless, sometimes slightly bitter. It is colourless, odourless and does not leave a stain on white sheets.

I have on rare occasions been able to ejaculate through G-spot stimulation, but I need to be very aroused for that to happen, as G-spot stimulation with either finger or penis can actually be annoying!

So folks, don't believe the sad individuals who claim FE is a myth, it is real and enjoyable!

From Star
I am another believer! I'd never heard of such a thing. I've had, perhaps, a dozen sexual partners in my 65 years. I became involved with a female physician several years ago. She's been the only one to exhibit this ability.

Like Sara has previously stated, my lady friend presses down and outward within her vagina when she experiences orgasm. [see Sara's entry below] So much so that I have some difficulty holding the correct angle of penetration and even find it awkward to remain inside her. She goes thru the same routine whether she's on her back, when she's on top, or when I use my tongue. When she is about to come, she presses down and outward and when she actually comes, it as though someone poured a cupful of fluid.

It runs out of her, down between her legs. If she's on top, which is most frequent, it runs down over me, down between my legs and over my genital area. I've never actually seen or felt her squirt. I cannot tell you the quantity, but it's enough to wet the towels under us. It is definitely not urine and not excessive amounts of natural lubrication.

When I'm using my tongue, as she approaches her orgasm, I usually gently insert two fingers into her vagina. That brings her on almost instantly! I can sense the coming of the fluid, taste it, it's real. It has a distinct taste. It's not a particularly pleasant taste, but neither is it objectionable. She's capable of multiple orgasms. She doesn't ejaculate with every orgasm, but usually once during each session.

She is also the only woman in my experience that can come during the act with only my penis inside her. All my other partners have required manual and/or oral stimulation to get 'over-the-edge.'

From Anonymous
I too agree that it is true. When my girlfriend and I have sex, she squirts 2 to 3 times and I love it when she does that on me. It feels so warm and inviting.

She squirts in every position we have sex in: on her back with her legs lifted, doggy style, spoon and other positions.

From Anonymous
I thought I was broken, I've never orgasmed during sex, even if it was great sex. I got a toy that I use to play with my clit and I almost thought I had peed myself. However I used the bathroom before playing. When "it happens" it doesn't take long just hold that toy right there and I can "ejaculate". Strange and a little bit embarrassing, but if that's how its done that's how it's done, and I did this several times in a row.

From Moira
For those women out there who have never experience Female Ejaculation, and still think it is a myth ... let me assure you that it is real! The first time I experienced this I thought that I had a weak bladder and the pressure of my orgasm was making my bladder release urine. I was embarrassed and my husband at the time had never experienced a "squirter" and didn't understand what was happening.

Over the years I have learned to control my ejaculation, leading to multiple ejaculations. I have always been very wet during sex, and this little delight drives my partner to distraction. I find that if I ejaculate during my first orgasm, the next orgasm will come very fast, and stronger.

So ladies who are still waiting to experience that first "squirt", I suggest that you stop thinking and worrying about it happening, and just let it happen!

From Bill
My girl friend ejaculates almost every time we have sex. It is awesome when she squirts, because she squirts very far, because she does the exercises with her pelvic muscles. The quantity of her ejaculation at times, can be very large, and we always lay down towels. Her orgasms when she squirts are very intense, and when she is done, she begs for penetration. Only rarely will she ejaculate while I am penetrating her, and that is usually from behind.

From Dale
Out of the dozens (or hundreds?) of posts here, women need to pay attention to a common theme: men love this! I read only one post from a man who said he didn't like female ejaculation; 99.9999999% of the others were in favor of it. There's something extremely erotic about having a woman come all over the place, especially in our mouths and all over our faces. Unlike the debate of whether or not to come in a woman's mouth/face, men love it when a woman does it to them. Even the women have posted positive comments on this topic, so if anyone out there hasn't yet tried it, make it tops on your list of sexual things-to-do.

One post asked whether or nor there was a correlation between heavy-set women and the ability to ejaculate, and I say there isn't. My wife is a petite Asian woman, and when I go down on her, she drenches me with a shower of girl-come. Before I was married, I have had other women come, but it's been over 21 years since then, and I can't recall any mind-blowing examples, but I'm sure they existed.

With my wife, the best position for us to be in to make this happen is with me flat on my back and with her sitting on my face. It's almost a 69 position, but since she doesn't suck dick (see my posts under that topic), she's really just lying across the top of my body. It usually takes a long while for her to get there, which is great for me, because I get to eat her longer and longer. I love the way it shoots out of her when she finally comes.

Like one guy wrote about his experiences, she wants my dick inside of her pussy within seconds of coming like that, and even though she doesn't come via intercourse, the sex is great after she's just gotten through exploding in orgasm. There are some occasions when I'm eating her and she knows ahead of time that she's not going to come, so she has me stop, and we move on to intercourse, but if I had my druthers, she could shower my face every single time.

I agree with those of you who talked about the taste and smell of it, it's great. It is hard to accurately describe it, but I know I like it. The warm, wet, oozing sensation is out of this world.

There is that factor of the woman being embarrassed about this, especially the first time (or first few times) it happens, and it is really, really messy, but none of those cons outweigh the pros. If you're a woman who's feeling a bit apprehensive about it, and you either hold back or you won't allow it to happen at all, please don't, because you're missing out on a great sexual experience. 

Listen, maybe this will help: we know you're not peeing on us, ok? So don't feel embarrassed. We want you to come on us, ok? We like it when you do it, ok? We don't care about what a mess it makes, as long as you feel good, which you will.

From Steve
Oh yes it is true. We discovered this on a vacation 9 years ago .We were playing around some when I went down on her, I decided to spice things up. I inserted a finger in her ass, she came right away, squirting enough to soak me completely. It has a sweet, slightly salty flavor depending on what she had eaten. (by the way, if you are going to try to help your woman squirt, have her avoid onions for a day or so, or you will be crying)

From Tam
Just a small correction Boneman [see Boneman's entry below]. Female cum doesn't come from the same 'hole' as urine. It gushes from the vagina. The urethra, where urine comes out, is a very small opening, connected to the bladder, located above the vagina.

Sorry to be so pedantic but I think understanding each other's bodies (and our own) is important.

From ssmarc
Oh My God, it is so true! I have been married to my wife for 2 years now. Just prior to dating her she had a hysterectomy. My wife squirts like major big time. I mean when I suck her off she can squirt a stream of cum that soaks my whole face. 

I have found that it will often taste different based on her diet, but, the consistency is pretty much always the same. For us it is not urine as well because it does not smell like urine and it comes out kind of sticky in a way. I think of it as natures lube. 

Damn I wish I could return the favor with such vigor. Anyway, she comes probably 10 times every time we have sex and the first 2 or 3 are real squirters. I love it. An added plus is that it naturally lubricates her anus for easy penetration. And yes she comes and squirts from anal sex as well. It is totally awesome.

My wife tells me that before her hysterectomy sex was never that good for her and she never squirted. Now she is absolutely unbelievable, I am so lucky. 

From Sara
I can also attest to this being true. It does not happen to me unless I am 'pushing down/out' with my inner walls during an orgasm rather than 'gripping/pulling in' with them.

There are two ways to know that it is not urine. 1.) There is no smell of urine and 2.) Just as a man's urine system shuts down so that the sperm can pass through the same 'tunnel' the woman's urine system also changes.

I for one, have a really hard time urinating on the toilet just after I've experienced orgasm... until those muscles relax.

While female ejaculation makes quite a mess it does heighten my experience! I tend to hold it back however, because I find it embarrassing and so messy - it's wets half of the mattress!

From Boneman
It is completely true. It's not piss although it comes out the same hole. If you've never seen it, it is something to experience. I read an interesting article that taught you how to make women squirt. Lo and behold it happened. Women can squirt up to five feet and sometimes over a cup or two. It's a great turn on for your women to squirt while you are fucking—don't knock it till you try it!

From Bill
Once with my ex wife, during serious wild intense sex, she ejaculated. I had never heard of such a thing and suspected her bladder had let go, though she seemed to know differently.

I am now seeing a woman who ejaculates fairly regularly, often beginning somewhat before she actually reaches orgasm. We always take the precaution of having pads or towels handy, trying to save the bedding and such. It is delightful.

From suziQ
I have experienced it twice now. With my fiancé. He is very well endowed, and I am a larger woman...so, as some of you have mentioned one or the other of these factors, maybe it does have something to do with it. But both times I have experienced it during intercourse. 

Once, we were doing it with me lying on my back on the hood of my car (don't knock it!) and he was standing between my legs. And he was like, DAMN! You just squirted! And the other time, I was on top, with him lying on the floor, and I was riding him hard and fast and it just seemed to run out of me. 

So, even though I haven't squirted it across the room or anything, I definitely believe it exists!

From Anonymous
It's real, let me tell you. I was teasing her clit with my tongue and using two fingers in her pussy. I was definitely getting the g-spot. When I felt the dampness on my chest hair, I thought it must be sweat, cause we were really tearing it up. But then I felt it in pulses and it was getting on me, not coming from me. 

I thought she had lost control and was peeing on me, so I was surprised and a little offended, but then I could tell it definitely was not urine. Then it dawned on me at how lucky I was to be experiencing a squirter. She was a little embarrassed, but after gulping down some of it and smearing a lot on my face, neck and chest and smearing it all in her inner thighs with my face, I reassured her it was a treat for me. 

Let me tell you, that woman can soak the sheets. Its a mess, but its the most rewarding aspect of sex I know of. I like getting a facial and drinking her nectar more than I like squirting my semen all over her face and boobs, since she tends to gag and spit when I ejaculate into her mouth.


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