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From Anonymous
When I rub my girlfriends G spot I can feel her vagina swell up and she says there is an urge to pee. However she is embarrassed about letting go because she believes it is in fact urine.

From Anonymous
Female ejaculation is definitely real, it happens to me after my husband massages and plays with my gspot for long periods of time. As the poster below described, it is a whole body type of orgasm, I can actually feel it wash over me, giving me shivers and an intensely good feeling like nothing I've ever felt. If you "give yourself over" to it, it's absolutely amazing.

It's definitely not pee, and does not come from the bladder, but does flow forth from the gspot "gland", and is released through the urethra. There is nothing quite like feeling yourself gush warm, wet fluid. It's wet, hot and feels oh so good. Once you start to come like this, there is no holding back, and you'll feel your gspot continue to fill up, waiting to be released again and again. Mmmmmmm.

Men, do yourselves a favor, learn what it takes to make your girl orgasm like this. Ladies, do yourself a favor and give into the good feelings, don't hold back, and let it flow. You won't be sorry (just really, really wet!)

From Lumberjack
I totally distrust porn squirting scenes where the woman covers the top of her vulva with her hand, so you can't see if she's just redirecting urine with her fingers.  But if you see her squirting from her vagina... Hell, yes!

From Robin
Since the age of 15, when I began masturbating, I would have orgasms with lots of fluid. Creamy, wet fluid. God I was embarrassed! I was confused because, like Cat, the scent wasn't anywhere close to being pee, nor the color (it is colorless). Plus, afterwards, I often had to pee anyway, so where did it come from? [see Cat's entry below]

It wasn't until I stopped caring about what my body was doing when having sex that I could have orgasms during couple sex. Now at age 52, I find that I'm not the only one with womanly jism! Wht a relief!

From Anonymous
To Cat [see Cat's entry below] sounds like me you need to either get another partner or have a heart to heart with the one you have now. As for me, I personally would like it my lover produced milk and squirted. Either one is great but to have a woman that does both is a dream come true for most of us. He doesn't know how lucky he is and how envious most us guys are. Just a thought I felt you needed to know.

From Guy
I have had the pleasure of making love with a good number of beautiful girls and women. None of these dear ladies ever ejaculated, what a pity. I am sorry to read Cat's misfortune of having a man who doesn't like female ejaculation, or breasts that have milk. [see Cat's entry below]

If I wasn't married and a faithful husband to my beautiful wife, I should love to get together with a woman like Cat.  I should not mind her ejaculating all over me and in my mouth, a taste of mothers milk is delicious too.

From Cat
I squirt so hard I spray the ankles of my partner and we cannot sleep in the same bed afterwards. Even using towels does not help. I squirt so much and so hard I often throw my partner out of me and he really hates it when I squirt. I have had to learn how to have sex with him and hold it back.

When I first had the sensation of being about to squirt I thought I was going to pee, because the sensation is the same as when you get so desperate and can't hold your bladder. I managed to hold it and some time later on my own I masturbated into a jar. I also peed in a jar. I compared the two thoroughly and they are not the same colour, scent, texture or taste. the only similarity is the area they exit the body. Pretty much the same as for men.

It makes me extremely sad that my sexual partner hates it as I have to always reel myself back from the point of orgasm and hold it. All in all, I am potentially a multiple orgasmer, a classic squirter and it has done me no good with the man I live with. I love to squirt but when I do it puts my partner off sex so much that he won't go near me again for weeks, even months.

I have no penis envy. I do not pee on my partner. I have magnificent orgasms. If you do have them and your partner likes them, you are lucky. If you don't have them and don't know any better, and your partner is happy you are lucky. If you have had them and are likely to have them a number of times in a single bout of lovemaking, being compelled to hold them back is the most torturous experience and makes lovemaking into merely servicing your partner for his pleasure like a blow up doll.

From Leah
I didn't really know female ejaculation existed until I did it a couple of times and went searching the internet to make sure I hadn't just sprung a leak.  I don't know how or why I began doing it.  I'm a virgin but I masturbate every day or every couple of days and it had been years of the same routine:  I'd get quite aroused reading erotica, put off satisfaction for a couple of hours, and then come rubbing my clit.  I felt like I needed something more but I couldn't get much pleasure from fingering my g-spot or playing with make-shift dildos, so I got creative:  I'd stimulate my g-spot externally by messaging above my mons or arching my back and grinding my hips into my bed.  Then back to my beloved clitty and wow, was that GREAT!  It could have been the new technique that brought this all on. 

One night, I had this really FULL feeling beneath and behind my clit and I instinctively wanted to relax and just let go.  In the past, I'd worried I might pee if I did let go, because I'd begun to have very small amounts of watery liquid trickle out when I came.  Feeling rather naughty, I thought, 'eh, what the fuck, I'll just change the sheets.'  When I came, my orgasm was hot and intense but instead of going right into that oversensitive state afterward, several seconds in I felt a delicious release of muscle somewhere within me and a warm rush of ejaculate flowed over my vagina, sliding down my bum.  It was quite a bit of liquid and it left me blown away.  I felt so good.  But where could so much liquid have come from if not my bladder?  I tried not to cringe and to just luxuriate in the state of complete relaxation and satiation.

The tranquility was fleeting, laying as I was atop a rapidly cooling puddle, so after a few minutes got up to strip the bed.  To my GREAT relief I found I had definitely NOT peed myself!  I  googled up a feminist website and got schooled on the elusive female ejaculation.  What a gift that something so sought after had just fallen into my lap (no pun intended).  The whole experience was like discovering masturbation all over again and I was quite preoccupied over the next month or two.  It certainly put an extra swing in my hips knowing what I could do. 

I truly believe that any woman who is aroused enough and relaxed enough has the ability to let go and let it flow.  It's all about trusting your body.  Typically I prefer to prevent ejaculation by holding back with the kegels and using the toilet afterward for the sake of my sheets. 

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