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Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
What do you think about?


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Fantasies

Blasphemous Fantasies
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Could You, Would You?
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Taking Care of Business
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Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
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Keeping Abreast..

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Enduring Ménage
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Is the grass really greener?

Younger/Older Relationships
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Inquiring Minds

What do Men Want
Hint...it rhymes with 'vex'

What do Women Want
Hint...it's not size

Female Ejaculation

Penis envy or truth?



Female EjaculationWell, I've heard about female ejaculation. I've read about it. Hell, I've even written about female ejaculation. And now, thanks to video rentals, I've seen it. But I don't believe it. It just looks like peeing to me. I also find it hard to believe that this phenomenon has suddenly been discovered after centuries of non-existence. So, is there anyone out there who has experienced female ejaculation (and why do they call it that, anyway? I think maybe half the reason I don't believe it is because it smacks so of penis envy) who is willing to have a go at convincing me that female ejaculation real?   —Dorothy


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Female Orgasms

From Audrey
Who would believe that at the ripe old age of 63 I started experiencing vaginal orgasms for the first time with my new found lover. While having intercourse once, I felt the flood gates open and began laughing uncontrollably. He told me I was squirting all over him and my bed until both were sopping wet. We found it extremely erotic to feel and a bigger turn on. Little did I know that practice makes perfect. He would hoast himself up on his arms in order to stimulate my G spot and I would lift my legs in the air while we were in the missionary position. Can be boring but was very effective here. Before I knew it I was having multiple orgasms as many as ten in one session. Live and learn! Sex had never felt this good before for either one of us. Here I am 63 and have turned into a squirting queen, wow!

From Kenna
When I first met my partner and we started having sex, very early on in the relationship I had this experience. Like many women, at first I thought it was pee - I had to go search the internet, lol.  This was my first and only relationship with another woman (we were together for 8 years) and she was as surprised as I was at first. Once we realized what was going on, she was THRILLED that she could do that to me.  I have squirt so much fluid that it has completely soaked the bed, her shirt, and anything within range!  

When reading the responses, someone, I think (shejaculator?) said you have to remove the "toy" or whatever - however, if my partner had removed her fingers I would not be able to do that - I don't know if it's different with a toy or not. I do know that for me, I have to let that sensation build for a bit, have to be physically very open, and relax for it to happen. Completely different kind of orgasm though! My partner says she can feel it, can feel it swelling and the fluid start to flow just before it happens.

From Betty
Me too, Stacy. [see Stacy's entry below] But don't be overly jealous, as I understand it, that are more women who don't experience female ejaculation than do. There's a good primer at the following URL, which says right off the bat: "Not everyone ejaculates, but if you want to try and learn how, follow these simple steps," How To Female Ejaculate by Alicia Guinn. Also note that a great deal of the female ejaculation hype comes from sex toy shops, who sell a great deal of g-spot toys to women like you and me, who are willing to try everything. Need I say more!

From Stacy
I am SO jealous!  I have been trying and trying to experience this but it still eludes me.  I keep hoping practice makes perfect but I haven't found perfect yet!

From Anonymous
I had always thought it was more to do with the woman having such an intense orgasm that she couldn't hold her bladder. Now I know it's not that at all. I have recently regained my sex drive after having my first child a few months ago, and my boyfriend is absolutely loving giving me oral, something he didn't have much liking for before. I had told him my fantasy that I pictured a woman licking me sometimes while I had my vibrator on my clit. Soon we were horny as hell and I buzzed my vibrator on my clit as he circled my hole and licked my lips...soon I felt my orgasm sweeping over me, the strongest I have had. After he looked up at me and made a loud gulping noise "mmm i just drank your cum" he said....needless to say I was shocked.

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