Describe Your Orgasm

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From J.J.
From somewhere way, far away I felt a strange chill. Then it grew and grew, until finally it was an overwhelming wave that washed up from my vagina, across my breasts, leaving them flushed and swollen, and entering my mind, taking over everything.  I felt like I was screaming as I moaned at the orgasm.  I held my breath, quickly exhaled, then drew it in and held it as the next wave came over me just like the first one.  My body went rigid.  I spread my legs as wide as I could make them, sucking in all of his attentions. 

His tongue was magical.  I grabbed a handful of his hair and pulled his face into my pussy.  Don't you leave me now, was my only thought.  I was stiff and without breath for an eternity.  Finally I loosened my body and began to gulp air in huge gasps, accompanied by a sound that was part scream and part moan.

From Jen
I accidently "stumbled" upon this obscure, but exciting site. I was fascinated with reading the guys' descriptions and unexpectedly aroused by the female responses - so much that I cupped my breasts (an erotic zone for me) and instinctively rubbed the side of my clit - in 2 minutes I came to an intense orgasm.

From what I read, the description of intense contractions - basically in the crotch seems to match many of the descriptions the men made - except I enjoyed about a dozen equally pleasurable contractions - as apposed to 3-5 which a guy feels.  Then, I applied my electric tooth brush to the same area, and enjoyed another 5 orgasms - each longer and more intense feeling than the one I had with my finger.  I soon after relaxed and realized how fortunate women are when it comes to orgasms, as ours last way longer, are more pleasurable by far, and many of us can have many orgasms - unlike my ex who grunts and shoots 3 shots of cum and collapses - no comparison!  In fact, after typing this.. I ready to come again!

From z.a.c.
Orgasms to me feel like my whole vagina's experiencing an extreme earth quake. Mine usually goes on for minutes. If I'm alone, I usually have to stop before my body. When it's happening I have to hold my self still and I really can't think too well.

From Stacie
Sometimes when I'm having sex or masturbating (using a vibrator, water faucet, or my fingers), my orgasms feel good. But other times it feels like getting hit by a train. It gets so intense that my whole crotch hurts.

From Nervicula
The best orgasms I've ever had were self- induced.  I've had two lovers:  the first wham-bam, the second presently ill-equipped.  I was married when I had my first orgasm quite by accident when masturbating alone.  There is a heat that seems to build up from your very core that gets hotter as you continue to masturbate.  Once it physically gets to my head, I burst like a volcano in shaking high on the Richter scale.  And, although I am multi-orgasmic, I stop with the first one and am satisfied.

From Cindy
I've only had an orgasm once. I'm certain I've been close a few times with a partner, but the one I know for sure was of my own ministrations. I was a teenager and curious. I thought if you had sex, you orgasmed. Well I had a vibrator and I tried and tried. Only when I relaxed and gave up "trying" so hard did it come to me. It started feeling like pressure building up, my clitoris became very sensitive to the touch. I stayed on it and massaged it with the vibrator - it felt like I had to pee and when I least expected it I orgasmed and let out a stream of fluid. I had tremors afterwards. Even though I haven't since, it still doesn't intrude on my enjoying sex.

From Anon
Interesting topic, I've always wondered what it feels like for men.  I think it would be great if straight couples could switch gender for a day to experience the other's orgasm. Alas, I'm not in a relationship right now, so this is just from memory.  I miss sex!

I love that initial parting of my lips to let him in.  It just feels so good being filled up like that.  In between relationships, I use dildos & vibrators & while they feel good, it's not the same. There's something about the warm feel of his skin against mine and the fact that the pressure and depth of the penetration aren't determined by me.  Sometimes he just enters me and we quietly enjoy the feeling without moving and just feeling each other's skin against each other.  Sometimes, it's a slow and steady movement, other times hard and fast.  Each has its own advantage depending on how aroused we are and how we are feeling.

One of my favorite things to do is to kiss while he is inside of me.  It feels very intimate as well as providing extra sensation.  I've had a total of 8 sexual partners.  I have been able to come during penetration with 3 of them.   I try to squeeze my pussy against his cock to enhance it for him. I grab his ass to draw him deeper inside of me.

I love the feeling as he's about to come.  As one other poster mentioned, the change in voice as it gets deeper with desire, his breathing getting heavier and those guttaral moans are such a big turn on for me.  I supplement my drought periods with phone sex for that reason!

I feel his body tighten, then release as he comes. Then the wetness from him mingles with mine.  I agree it's disappointing when he has to pull out of me.

Emotionally, I feel a combination of vulnerable and powerful.  I'm letting him into me.  I feel especially vulnerable if he is on top or taking me from behind.   But I also feel powerful as I see him pleasured nearly senseless from the combined activities of our bodies.  That's one of the reasons I enjoy giving oral so much.  It's just such a feeling of power.

As for oral penetration, usually, I control how much I will take into my mouth so it's more about the enjoyment and power of giving him pleasure.  With a few trusted partners, I have let them control how much they can penetrate my mouth.  Usually letting them fuck my mouth while I'm lying back.  We generally ended up doing this as I let him fuck my breasts (he would straddle me), then he moved to my mouth.  The partners I let do this all  had nice tasting cum, so they finished off in my mouth and I swallowed. 

Again, this made me feel both very vulnerable and very powerful.  I was at their mercy for the pace, etc. of oral penetration.  But they seemed to really enjoy themselves and it makes me feel powerful to give such pleasure (they were barely able to speak afterwards as they were so taken away in the moment).  I've been on the receiving end of a few of those orgasms (mostly from oral or hand stimulation of my clit).  Though I did have one orgasm like that while being penetrated and it was the best one I've ever had.  It was a combination of clit stimulation and the angle at which he was hitting my g spot.  Amazing.  I literally couldn't talk, just moaning with pleasure.

From Sheila
In my late teens I had a strange orgasm where it felt like I peed all over the bed. I was embarrassed, and thankful that it only happened once. Only now, in my early 30's, have I come to the realization that I am able to achieve a g-spot orgasm that produces LOTS of female ejaculation.

Just yesterday, I was shaving my pubic area, and the combination of the shaving cream and my hands rubbing every sensitive part of me made me extremely excited. I rinsed, grabbed my small bullet vibrator and lay down for a clit orgasm. I continued to rub my hands over my smooth pussy, waiting...drawing out the sensitivity...the longing. I am so wet with excitement, that my vibrator just slipped right in. Pushing it further with my fingers, I found that spot deep inside me that sends jolts of electricity through my body when pressure is applied.

This spot has been hit and missed over the years, being hard to locate and harder still to stay on. I push a little harder, stimulate my anus, rub a little faster, vibrate a little higher, and...omg...heat just enveloped my entire being and I felt a hot wetness gushing out of me that did not stop until I lessened the pressure.

I have never been able to achieve this state of orgasm on purpose, and have been extremely hot and bothered since. I want to feel that again and again, and never stop...

From Jonnie
It was interesting to read the guy who said that his orgasms were the best if he came quickly. For me, it is just the opposite! So much so that I try to last hours now because when I do come the orgasm is so explosive. I also make more cum and squirt further. And I have an "afterspasm" too, sometimes several. And the feeling is so sexy that I get turned on again and in about 10 minutes I am ready to go again, all because the massive orgasm is sexually stimulating.

I have noticed that too with girls, if I do lots of foreplay and bring them to orgasm slowly, then they seem to have a wilder orgasm too.

From Anonymous
It depends on the type of stimulation. Clitoral orgasms can be fairly intense, but the feeling is localized, pretty much in the lower body area. G-spot orgasms, on the other hand, are an entirely different situation. When you first experience one, it almost feels like you're going to pee, but if you continue stimulation (best done with a vibrator specifically shaped to do the job—try Adam and Eve's g- spot rabbit [G-spot Worm works well also]—or your partners two fingers curved up as they slam in and out of you—it's hard to reach by yourself unless you have huge hands), the feeling builds into intense pressure, then dissolves in short, intense bursts from the lower abs and back, exploding outward (almost like fireworks) and reaching every nerve-ending down to the tips of your fingers and toes.

 The amazing thing about this type of orgasm is it's endless until the stimulation stops and I can seem to have them one on top of another—usually too many to count (I'm not kidding!). Once you locate your G-spot and understand the feeling it can produce you become almost conditioned to respond to it (think Pavlov). If I'm turned on enough through fantasy, I can actually contract against it with no manual stimulation and come that way. An image of my fave guy while I'm doing reverse crunches makes workout time a very consistent thing! Private joke when people ask how I keep my abs in shape; it's a win/win situation! 

Guys, please, read Cosmo, Playgirl, whatever; just learn how to find a G-spot. It's on the front wall of the vagina, about 1-2" in and is small, about the size of a bean when you first feel it—play with it—it will expand and you'll be like nothing she's ever had. Nothing better!

From Tina
When my husband gives me an orgasm it feels so good. I don't want him to stop I just want him to do me harder while he is licking my nipples. He is just great like that.

From Maya Ownand
Well folks all the descriptive language and imaginative writing on this site has blown my mind. And my little clit. I just let myself go in my bed here in my apartment. I live in a California courtyard with a balcony made for voyeurs. Not being one to disappoint, I was out sunning in my super small tank top. Pretending I was reading, I would inch down the fabric until my nipples just stopped short of popping out. Thinking I made a few eyes pop out got me good and hot and so did reading the story by fellow suntanned guilty of similar self pleasure.

I fondly recalled, also, my first memorable time in France alone and far from home in a strange bed. I had a little pen with a big old knob I used to write my boyfriend. He taught me so much about sex I remembered him and started to rub, rub with the blue plastic end until it did the job. Gives new meaning to the term pen pal. I'd better stop, I could write a book!

From Steve
As my orgasm approaches, I feel a stiffness/clogged sensation between the base of my penis and my scrotum. Then I feel a tingling on the underside of the tip. The tingling turns to throbbing, and than I kind of see stars like when you stub a toe, only it feels good, and at about the same time I start spurting.

If I'm with a partner, I clamp down really hard on her and push all the way in, and it's an overwhelming urge - she's keeping it all for sure. If it's gone on for a while, with myself or a partner, I spurt a lot of times--10 is not unusual--but the flow decreases for each one.

Vocally, I am loud. There is a grunt/sob noise like I've been speared or something, like "ahhhh" more than "ohhhh", often timed with the spurts, and then it tapers off to heavy breathing. I don't say partner names or real words.

There is a tremendous feeling of relief, like I can more easily go do something else for a while without urges crowding my mind, and this is much greater if there is a partner involved than with masturbation.

From Diana
My first G-spot orgasm. I travelled to the east coast for a friend's wedding and ended up having a one night stand with a very nice guy who was a friend of the groom. The sex was wild. I didn't even know I could have orgasms through intercourse, but his cock was slightly curved back at the end and this allowed him to hit my G-spot with every thrust. 

What made it even better was that he had great stamina - he lasted almost an hour even though he did all the work. He must have made me come 4 or 5 times, but the first was the most amazing because it hit me by such surprise. It was so different from the clitoral orgasms I'd had before.

From Eleanora
Most of my orgasms are pretty typical, but the other night I had one that was amazing. I had been aroused and slowly playing with myself for around three hours, and finally I just went to town with my vibrator. I was completely unaware of my surroundings for a few minutes while I came. Imagine the worst itch you have ever felt concentrated in your clit, and having it scratched to complete satisfaction over and over again constantly. It was irritating, painful, and heavenly all at the same time.

From WC
This is actually about an orgasm I had that was kind of odd in a way. My girlfriend at the time & I were 17. My parents had a social gathering downstairs for their friends and we each had a few drinks. We wound up upstairs and eventually had sex on the floor with me on top. It was my first experience having sex after drinking and remember that the sensations were different - I had to really work at getting close to orgasm. I made sure she came first - which wasn't the hardest thing to do. 

Eventually, I felt I was going to come. I pulled out maybe a second or so too early - the result I felt was a somewhat weaker muscle contraction that just continued steady instead of throbbing. We both heard my cum "trickling" on her stomach. I looked down and saw it just running out of my semi-hard dick, like I was gently 'peeing' my cum. I didn't feel & see the usually distinct spurts. That was the first & last time that ever happened to me. Any other guys experience something similar?

From SS
I remember a particular orgasm I had when I was about 22. My girlfriend & I were going at it missionary style. When she knew I was getting close, she started to thrust her hips upward in a kind of an arc that felt incredible to me. The combination of my in and out motion and her tight pussy pressing up on the underside and down on the topside of my cock made it feel like she could snap it in half if she wanted to. This feeling resulted in a most fantastic orgasm for me, and I do remember her squeaking out an "ooh" a couple of times when she felt my cum spurting into the sides of her pussy because of the angle I was at inside her. Haven't quite had an orgasm like that since.

From SouthernDeepImpact
I'm a guy, so I'm describing a guy's orgasm.  The orgasm itself is really pretty short. There's a lot of build-up, and most often I'm pacing myself so as to last long enough for my partner to "get there" also.

But there is definitely a "point of no return." Once I start to feel that electric tingle around the tip, there's no stopping it. Even if I stopped completely, I'd come in just a few moments - either in or out!

A guy's orgasm intensity is very closely related to the time it takes to achieve it. The quicker the more intense. That means, for the absolute best orgasm for me, I have to get right to business right away. Needless to say, this doesn't do much for her. So if I want to do that, I usually opt for going down on her first - only then do I go in for mine.

Also, the orgasm is very closely related to the "scenery" for me. It's one of the reasons that porn does almost nothing for me. Porn is all about the close-up, and I'm more interested in the "wide angle." I want to see position, and appendages, and limbs in action. I want to see the action from a bit farther back than most porn provides. I want to see legs around the back. I don't care at all for seeing the "cumshot." A "cumshot" is wasted cum.

For that reason, for my purely selfish orgasms, I like doggie-style (nice view of the entire back and ass), or her on top (nice view of the breasts bouncing about) or if I'm on top, I like to be arching back a bit so I can see her whole body moving.

Given all these things, the orgasm is a mind-blowing experience. But lacking these things, it can be a "ho-hum" experience. I've had partners who just wanted to get on and get it over with. And that's about what I get - over with.

Take some time. Make the positions. Get involved in the experience yourself and I will have no problem getting a massive orgasm for myself, even if I have to wait for it.

And once it's over, I'm VERY sensitive. The best way I can describe it is if you have ever had an arm "go to sleep" and then when blood starts flowing again you get those "pins and needles" feelings? That's what my dick feels like in the moments right after an orgasm.

From Anonymous
It starts with me rubbing my cock, then I start stroking it and I'm in full boar jacking off then I get a great feeling. It is an orgasm, then if I am lucky I will have another before ejaculating. Then it happens, I get a real great orgasm and I blow my load. It is even greater when I am horny.

From WC
The tension keeps building in my groin, my breathing gets heavier and my heart is racing as I get close to coming. Right before, the most pleasant feeling starts at the base of my cock—kind of a very tingly-warm-electrical feeling—and spreads out to the rest of my body. I know that I won't last more than a few more seconds. After thrusting really deep just a couple more times, I quickly pull out of my girlfriend and she grabs my cock and strokes it better than I ever could. I moan "Ohh, yeah, baby" just as the first squirt of spooge shoots out of my cock. As I keep squirting, I moan ""Ohhh....Ohhh....Ohhh...." with each squirt. It feels great squirting all that cum through my cock. She gradually slows the stroking to more of a milking—the puddle of cum on her beautiful stomach is huge. The feeling is still very nice in my cock for a short time after I come. My heart & breathing go back to normal after a few minutes. I am totally spent of energy by now.

From Submiechelle
It starts with this strange tingling heat in my clit and spreads into my vagina then the tingle and warmth spreads down my legs and up into my stomach. I can feel it getting closer, my heart races and the deeper I breathe the closer I get. 

As I get closer to coming it seems that enough pressure cannot be applied to my clit but once there only the lightest touch can be handled although in restraints continuous heavy pressure sends me to a place that is almost beyond human consciousness to something between shock and absolute euphoria, where I cannot control any of my actions or responses it is as near to heaven as a living person could ever possibly get. 

My uterus contracts, warmth is consuming my whole being physically and emotionally, I feel animalistic gratification and complete surrender to that which I crave at all times. I feel my heart slow my breathe returning to normal, and the throaty sounds slow and fade away. I want it again and again, given the chance I would spend the rest of my life in the cycle of climax rest and climax again it is true bliss.

From Nathan
Well this is quite a subject, how dose it feel. You are in total bliss for around 10 seconds but I've found a way to make it last longer. I've been masturbating since I was 5 am now 22. I was lying in my bed one night and wanking for a while until I was almost going to come. Then with my fingers in a way right on the head of my dick I'd just stay at that critical moment when your right at the peak, my heart was pounding and every 20 seconds I had to stop again. I could feel it right down my legs I couldn't even move until after about 10 minutes of this torture I gave in and had one of the biggest climaxes I've had. wow

From Anonymous
Mmmm, I love the guys descriptions so far; just reading through them was enough to make me excited. As for the women, I'm a bit envious of some of their descriptions; especially those who are able to achieve great orgasms while masturbating. For me, it can take a LONG time to make myself climax —approx. 45 mins at best—although with a vibrator (particularly one for clitoral stimulation) that time span is shorten to about 5 to 10 mins.

As I near orgasm there's a wonderfully achy feeling in my stomach that becomes more and more intense. By now I'm very wet and my fingers (or vibrator) feel incredible as I rub them over my sensitive clit. Rubbing the moisture around and inside my sex causes the heat I'm feeling to get hotter until there's a strong sensation in the pit of my stomach. Soon I feel the spams of my inner walls and if I keep the stimulation on my clit it will induce a really pleasurable orgasm. It's like a really hot feeling flowing through me until it gathers and then bursts in a moment of complete rapture. My clit feels really good if I continue to rub it -- like electric current flowing through it. I gasp, my legs tense, my hips thrust upward, my back arches and I feel contractions as if trying to utterly milk the come out of a twitching cock.

From Anonymous
I lay on my back, spread my legs, pull my lips open with 2 & 4 finger and let 3 do the stimulation. That is just to start. Then I touch slow and push a little then rub a little, then stimulate again with fast 3 finger. I am wet. I feel a tension building, my legs tremble, stomach tightens, pelvis raises. After a few minutes of this I feel an insatiable urge to rub harder and harder, circular, straight, but harder, two hands, one hand, two hands, my legs raise almost on their own - I know it's coming. A lot of wetness. I'm all pulled up, my head tilts back, the pleasure is overwhelming. 

It's almost a heated tingle rush the starts from my clitoris and ends at every ending of my body. My face feels hot, fingertips, toes, all over. It's an incredible rush of eroticism - sensual self-loving. I lay there for a moment all tingley. Amazing release. Afterwards my clitoris is so sensitive I cannot hardly touch it. But who knows - maybe there is more if I keep going.

From Jim W
I somehow found this forum and find the lady's descriptions of orgasm frankly wonderful and varied, and I must admit I am surprised as to how well scripted the guy's experiences are; I'm turned on. I suppose there is no great surprise with the climax I just experienced—tissues, believe me were used to clean up the ejaculate. 

I grabbed my erect 6- 1/3" penis, stroked it up and down (no surprise I bet); I briefly clutched my sack and felt the nuts within, but this is not a primary pleasure zone, and ex-girlfriend argued it was more of a "pain zone" instead—whatever... The strokes increased pace a couple minutes into the session; the area right below the head is emphasized—obviously my #1 pleasure center, also the rapid fist stimulates the bottom ridge of the penis head and sorta pushes it up—as this registers true penile pleasure. 

I suddenly reach that FAMOUS, FABULOUS point of no return, here by myself, I give an "undignified" grunt—with my ex, I would announce "I'm gonna come!", as I reflect, it appears this pleasurable state—focused in penis, lasts awhile, but in fact I discovered it only lasts a second or two—then I shoot my wad as the rope of cum lands faraway, 2nd and 3rd shots/contractions reflect penile pleasure, after this, as the pleasure fades (as well as volume of ejaculate) I instinctively pump that dick faster, as to milk out the remaining semen; but by now the intense orgasmic pleasure had since faded. 

Sheila labeled my experience as "short and sweet"; I estimate approx. 6 seconds of orgasmic pleasure—ccentered in penis, and after 1 climax, the dick soon goes limp. That describes the orgasm I just had today!

From VI
My mind starts to wander. The words I try to speak make no sense. Deep heavy sighs escape my lips, and I feel like I've gone to heaven

From Anonymous
I'm an older man and divorced, and I wish to describe the orgasm I have experienced with a special method of masturbation. It's natural for men to want to thrust the hips forward in sex with a woman or in masturbation, but with my method I experience a wonderful, mind-blowing oozing sensation that precedes a very powerful series of ejaculations. 

I lie on my side and bend slightly at the hips so that my butt is sticking out in back and, as I stroke my penis, I concentrate on relaxing my PC and sphincter muscles. When I get to the point of loss of control, with those muscles relaxed I can feel the semen oozing slowly up my penis and out the tip, an incredibly erotic sensation. Then the intense muscle contractions take over, but I still resist assisting them by concentrating on relaxing. I experience extremely strong contractions along my penis, in the anal area and down to my knees. Oddly enough, the pleasure is more intense if my penis is not entirely stiff.

From Anonymous
My breathing gets ragged.
My whole body is shaking.
Nerve endings awaken and demand attention.
Bright flashes of stars
A sea of itchy tingling
Standing at the crest of the hill
Just standing there and experiencing
Then running down the other side yelling your heart out.
Muscles quake
Oh my god oh my god what have I done to deserve so much
pleasure
ahhhhhhhhhhhhh
satisfied emptiness coming back to earth

From Abskure
Like magic and sprinkles and stars and sparkly things emanating from my pelvis and expanding out to the tips of my body.

From Chris
Well, the answer to how an orgasm feels is simple fucking fantastic! For me it seems to start in the perinaeum, spread into my balls, and then it rips through my cock like a steam train. The feeling is one of an ever tightening coil in my pelvic area which reaches a point where it just has to spring back to normal.

It starts with a delicious tingling, then pulsating waves, then wild convulsive contractions which all work to whip me along a kind of roller coaster ride in my crotch. If I'm tensing other muscles (eg my leg muscles if I'm standing spread eagled getting my cocked suck by another guy) then those muscles also quiver and tremble and come along for the ride. The feelings are hot, tingling, lusty and manly.

The best part is when the first phase of the orgasm has begun and it's time to shoot a load. Spurting out the cum provides the final release. There's nothing like that feeling of getting rid of all that juice that has been churning around my balls for so long. And of course the intensest feelings are along the shaft of my cock - which feels likes it's being enveloped in the most fantastic tingling, throbbing and pulsating waves of release, bursting to exploding point.

While it doesn't always come naturally, I can give my whole body over to the convulsions and thrash and bounce my arse on the bed and in general flail my limbs around. Keeping the pumping going after the immediate orgasm and speeding up the tempo also maximizes and prolongs the experience, which can leave my whole body, anchored to my pumping fist at the cock, convulsing and writhing for quite some time. And when I really far gone I don't give a damn what the neighbours think as I pant and moan and groan. I expect it inspires them to get down to it themselves.

When I cum with a cock up my arse the feelings seem to start deeper in the pit of my arse where my prostate is located. Being prodded by a nice fat cock spreads the area over which the orgasm takes place. It's like my insides, my lover's cock and my pelvis are as one and riding the ecstatic waves in unison.

The more foreplay and delayed gratification the better the finale. Sometimes I experience mini orgasms with only a little cum dribbling out. These are both pleasurable and very tortured as you do get some release and delicious teasing tingling and a few faint contractions, but you need to discipline yourself not to go the whole hog, not if you want to experience the ultimate orgasm still to come. Under these circumstances the experience is the most cock-centred - I feel like I'm all cock, wound up, hot, and bursting to explode. Not much else exists in the world at such a time!

And the final pleasure? The sticky mess - some guys find this a curse but I guess being gay I'm pretty cum friendly. I like not knowing where the cum will fly - on me, my face, my stomach, the sheets, the head board if I'm lucky, or my partner's chest or face if he's lucky. And I love to feel the spray of another guy's cum on me - it's all part of the rich delicious tapestry of the male orgasm.

Phew! I almost feel like I've just experienced a crotch burning orgasm just writing this. Best sign off and get the real thing.

From Becky
I too, can't emphasize enough the benefits and mind-blowing pleasure of my orgasms since I began doing Kegel exercises at age 45. Dennis hit the nail right on the head [see Dennis' entry below] with his recent comments (which by the way sent chills up my spine and got me dripping wet while reading them). I am also fortunate enough to have a great lover who has wonderful control and timing which is what mind-blowing orgasms are all about! 

My female doctor got me doing the Kegels 5 years ago to help with a lower back problem. At the time she also said they would help with my love life if done regularly and perhaps I should encourage my husband to do them with me. She didn't tell me that together, we would become explosive and passionate lovers who would give new meaning to the word "orgasm". 

I want to share with everyone a little "kegel" trick that we discovered that gives me the most mind-blowing orgasms imaginable. After having been inside me for about 15 minutes of soft stroking my husbands swollen cock is usually ready to explode. He is fairly average length (about 5 3/4"), but he is 5 3/8" in circumference and has a very nice stimulating tip that gives me a nice feeling of fullness when he penetrates. When he is about a minute from ejaculating I take hold of his cock and have him begin very strong contractions of his PC muscles and only keep the tip of his cock in me (about 1 "). I gently massage my clit with one hand while softly stroking his cock with the other. His PC contractions get me very close to climax. I tell him to let his cock explode, but as he begins to shoot I pull him out just enough to get his warm cum squirting all over my clit and continue to stroke him with the other hand. Between his PC contractions and the hot cum squirting all over my wet clit and fingers, I transition into the most unbelievably violent orgasm that you can imagine! I then pull him against me and my dripping vagina swallows his wonderful pulsing cock. 

Women, you have to try this! But get your lover doing Kegels with you first. I have never stopped thanking my doctor for getting us started on them. She laughs every time I go for my appointment. She can see the smile on my face and she knows why! Love to all. Becky (age 50 and very happy).

From Dennis
I learned the art of extremely explosive orgasms by training my PC muscles to EXPLODE at just the right moment. I do Kegel exercises daily (about 200 contractions per day) and so does my wife. The strength of our PC's allow us to better control the timing and INTENSITY of our orgasms. The longer that I delay and control my ejaculation the more intense the moaning and wetness we both feel. 

My precum begins to flow one drop at a time and my wife responds with moans of pleasure enjoying her growing nipples and intensifying wetness. I give her timing signals (1 minute or 30 seconds) as to how close I feel I am to orgasm. At that point she will tell me to slow down or go deeper or possibly hold still for a few moments so that we can build up more anticipation and time our impending explosions together.

As we approach the last 10 seconds she will signal me and I plunge deep into her and do several powerful Kegel contractions with my cock throbbing and ready to explode but no longer going in and out. She contracts tightly around my pulsing shaft and I begin to feel my huge load mixing and slowly flowing up from the base of my cock. As it begins to mix, I tell her 5 seconds and we both push deeper as my powerful PC muscle explodes the first shot of cum deep against the back of her powerfully contracting vagina. We both scream in ecstasy as our powerfully trained PC's contract and the remaining 8 to 10 shots of cum explode into her and she tells me she senses each warm shot. 

Her contractions are often so powerful from her daily kegels (which she does sitting at her desk at work) that she literally triggers my explosion that I have been trying to time together with her. I just sit back and enjoy the power she has over me and let her know how wonderful her powerful contractions feel around my exploding cock. I savor each and every shot of warm load that I can fill her with until we both lay their holding each other tight until we drift off to sleep. She is the best that I could ever dream for! 

She also enjoys seeing how powerful my explosion can be by bringing me to orgasm using her thumb and a few fingers to make me start dripping as she rolls my balls very gently with her other hand. If I let my load build up for about 5 days before, she is able to build the volume of cum up with her gentle hands for about 20 minutes and with one or two gentle perfectly timed rubs across the tip of my dripping cock she watches me explode for 10 or 12 seconds as she aims the sometimes 24" or more shots wherever she wants (sometimes on me, sometimes on her). 

DO YOUR KEGELS, believe me you will both enjoy unbelievable orgasms after a few months!

From Anonymous
The main focus of my orgasm is in my penis. As I either fuck my girlfriend, or masturbate, I can feel my orgasm start in my balls. It runs up though the shaft of my dick and then to cock's head where I explode with a geyser full of cum. It feels great to ejaculate because it makes my dick feel good as the cum is being pushed out.

From Pearl Amber
Centre? Am quite sure that all orgasms are triggered in the clitoris, but that's not the whole story, far from it. Think that it's true that our brain, in a sense, is our greatest sexual organ, in its ability to imagine and fantasize about sexual encounters, priming us for the sex, but nor is that the whole story and far from it.

Intensity? Ranges from a nice little explosion in the pubic area to a near-death-experience and with all the different levels in between. 

With age - am 52 - my orgasms have become increasingly intense and draining and at the same time my ability to be aroused and orgasm once and again has increased as well. When the orgasms abate I sometimes/often cry, it's not because I'm sad or happy, the tears just roll without any conscious emotion attached. However, this feeling of deep satisfaction, complete relaxation and energizing fulfillment is one that I, personally, can only find in love-making. Glorious euphoria!

From Mike
I have just cum; I love the intense orgasms my cock gives me. When I am alone it turns me on so much to play with my big cock. It is always for the end result; to Orgasm and squirt cum every where.

From James
This was so appealing that I had to experience an orgasm myself during reading these fine entries and here is my experience As I increased stroking my penis (my #1 pleasure area) , my nuts tighten, body stiffens and I let out a grunt of pleasure, knowing ejaculation is soon due. These precious couple seconds are the highest forms of pleasure and are focused in my groin. 

The 1st ejaculation is accompanied by a grunt (extreme pleasure felt) and the shot goes far; a 2nd shot (very pleasurable) is accompanied by a verbal "oh" and a third as well. Later contractions feature the come oozing out as the pleasure tapers. I project it was about a 10 second orgasm. Of course the best pleasure felt before the ejaculation.

From Victoria
It's amazing, like a boom and an explosion, except you loose you mind for a few minutes and your writhing in bliss.

As I am not a guy, I don't go all floppy after one orgasm, and I can go on and on having lots of intense, spectacular orgasms.

Damn its great being a woman

From Jim
That's quite a HUGE subject. I have gotten a lot from reading all the ladies answers.

My orgasms are very centered in my penis. Initially, there is a tingling in my balls, which, as I get closer to orgasm, rises up along the shaft until, when I come, its very intense right at my cockhead. Ejaculation sensations run the gamut from there & gone to feeling like my insides are being squirted out my cock.

From Emily
I had to think about this question for awhile. I thought this could be easily described but then it occurred to me that I have two types of orgasms.

One, the basic "get off", is nothing more then mechanics. You touch a certain place long enough and I will respond. Then there is what I call the "the total package". This includes the build up of sight, sound, smell and the physical. All these elements combining to create a feeling in my mind and body that continues to build until I reach a point of climax. 'Fuck my mind, then fuck my body' is the best way to explain this orgasm. Now let me describe how this feels.

I will be in a state of heightened awareness due to whatever acts are going on. The touching, the kissing, the feelings involved all prime my body and mind for the "moment". I can feel my body become hot, from deep inside to the outer layers of my skin. I begin to want to be touched a little harder, kissed a little deeper. Its like these little signals shoot off in my head that make me want to FEEL everything. It is as if my brain and body become frantic to feel. Then suddenly, something will happen to take me to a peak and dangle me over the edge. It could be anything; smelling myself on his face, something he says to me at the right time or as simple as his breathing. I feel all the muscles of my body tighten, often times to the point that they ache because they are so tense. Then the shaking begins, violent trembles that race through the lower half of my body. 

At this point, I find my thinking process shuts down to everything but what is happening. I think about the shaking, about the sensations that, as silly as it sounds, make me want to curl up my toes so tight. I concentrate on the sensations and they intensify my excitement to the point that I can now smell the sex, hear the wet sounds. If I am not being penetrated at that point, then I am going to ask for it because that is what this makes me want. I don't want it to end so I try to think of something else but I can feel it so strong that I can not possibly try to stop it. It the just happens. It's like holding your breath for as long as you can then having to suddenly let it out in this burst of air. That's how the orgasm feels. It just explodes and in that moment I have no control. My voice, my hands, my mouth..I am grabbing anything I can to hold on to and ride it out. I feel my pussy contract, aching muscles and sometimes, the feeling is so intense that I cry because its like I can't get it all out of me or maybe it scares me a little because it is so strong.

After that, there's not much I can do but lay there until I get my sea legs back and can stumble to the bathroom. I feel like I have run a marathon, and I am no runner so that says something about it how it feels to me. Exhausting!

From Kalliannassa
Well, lets see. I agree with many of the other ladies who mention the differences context can make. Masturbation is good in its own way, a guaranteed destination on that route. However, the trip is often quite short. My best orgasms always involve my partner. There is just something so much more satisfying about the feel of another person, before during and after. A really good orgasm leaves me in need of an anchor, unfortunately for my lovers back, (I have rather sharp nails).

But you asked for a detailed description, there are three kinds:

The oh my God I'm so horny fuck me now whew, which is basically my pussy demanding attention and getting it and exploding,.

Then there are the personal ones, not quite as intense as the above, mostly just to take the edge off.

The really good ones start slowly, sometimes when I'm not even in the mood, With the area behind my ears and at the base of my hair line. A kiss or breath there just so sends this cold shot of electricity down into the small of my back, which gradually migrates further down and to the front. The same sort of thing happens with my breasts except that every thing is warm. The heat and tension builds until it shoots down into my core. Clitoral stimulation is like jumping up and down on a fault line, there is only so long before an earthquake cuts loose. Actually having an orgasm is this spasm that starts in my cunt and bowls over the rest of my body, spine arches, nails claw whatever is handy, and my thighs clamp down to keep whatever made me this way there.

I suppose there is a fourth, the after thought orgasm, say a second or third time, or right at the end of a quickie. Those kind are small but sweet, especially with a quickie because I was able to drive my man that wild that fast, and the final tremors of his orgasm, plus that amazing look on a man's face when he is totally losing it, so nice.

From Harpyer
Before I could ever allow myself to experience the Heaven on Earth feeling of orgasm, I had to remove two barriers. The first was a sense of people up in Heaven watching me during masturbation or intercourse. The second was a sad, sick feeling born of guilt that I was hurting God by indulging in this behavior. When these two barriers were removed, I was then free to explore my body and allow the love of my life to explore me also. 

Orgasm became possible when I fully surrendered to this wonderful gift of God. The warmth of fingers and hands finding their way into crevices of mystery and majesty begins the journey to the center of sensations. I am swept along at first as if by gentle breezes and then the winds shift and a slight chill cascades down my body and then I am thrust into bright sunlight and the heat intensifies and radiates an unquenchable thirst and hunger within my entire being. I close my eyes and sounds without names pass through my lips as I am immersed in a glorious rush of water and speed and the most brilliant flashes of rainbows. The final words I speak are, "oh God, oh my God!" I have been transformed and for a moment in time I am in the Heavenly places and the only sound I hear is the joy in my heart.

From CB
I've never had a male induced orgasm, although I think I've come close. I agree with the opinion that they border on pleasure and pain. It feels so good sometimes I can't let him continue!! I guess I have to learn to relax enough for it to happen.

From Lisa
This is NOT easy! I read over what everyone else had to say and was surprised to find that my orgasms - varied as they are - aren't like any of them. I agree that women have the advantage over men when it comes to sex. I can have several orgasms, and then jump out of bed completely revitalized.

Hmmm. Women are able to have different types of orgasms. In 1971 Aphrodite's Child (rock band) conducted the 3 female orgasms. It starts slow and a bit clumsy, almost unsure. But pleasure does come, however haltingly. The second orgasm is more free, but also more urgent. It's more animal, dirty. The third is the finale short gasps, nearing hyperventilation, grunting, panting, a little begging whimper, then aroused to an operatic singing that sounds high and free.

As for the physical sensation, I find that when I'm sustaining a peak, I like it hard, almost painful. I get a bit light-headed, and like to increase that feeling of dizziness by changing positions. I do tend to hyperventilate. The G-spot, clit, and the nipples vitally important, obviously, but totally different in the type of joy I get when one or the other is aroused.

Nipples I always like them sucked hard so that they turn a deep rose color, completely erect. That shoots this sort of hot chill feeling through my breasts. If I'm really horny, I can feel it in my spine, and my bush starts to... I don't know how to describe this... it's like my bush is windblown or breathing heavily. That's not quite right, but it feels good in an annoying sort of way that makes me want more.

Clit Fun stuff. It is like a painful tickling that starts very focused, the size of a pen point. When my juice is brought back up over my clit, that silkiness seems to increase the intensity of the moist-tickle-burn. I can feel pressure building from the inside... it really is a pressure, as if water is being damned behind a wall that is built-up brick by brick to keep it in. And then there's a tie, a connection formed between the g-spot and clit, as if a cord is running from one to the other. A hand or penis can stretch along that border, again intensifying the feeling. And then the damn breaks - and my back arches more severely, head back, mouth open, eyes shut tight. My arms and legs cannot move in that moment.

G-spot With a cock deep inside of me, if I'm on top (or if my legs are wrapped around his neck), I can feel it getting stroked with every thrust. It is like a joyous pain. I especially like holding onto the cock while it thrusts because I am so much more aware of my own juice and just knowing that excites my clit.

From yesiwill
Lying on the bed, tangled in the sheets... I feel the link from my nipples to my clit as an electrical charge.. I rub my clit and pull the lips open so I can reach it more easily. My breath is short.. I almost hold it . As my clit gets more aroused, I touch and pinch my nipples . Then I forget myself.. climbing .. higher .. gripping the sheets.. moaning lifting my hips a bit to find my fingers rubbing harder and faster.. then stopping to lick my wet fingers just to taste myself. Then climbing again.. harder.. fast and wet and my mind is yelling yes.. you can now .. yes don't stop please more harder faster now now... my body is tense and screaming and I poise on the edge for a second or so.. then take myself up to the TOP and YELL over the edge......... so fast so hard so sweet ! If I keep touching my clit after the first wave, I will have hard short aftershocks. Delicious!!

From Mark
An orgasm seems to teeter on the boarder of pleasure and pain... the pressure you feel as it builds up in a males genital region. Specifically the testicles until climax can be almost maddening if allowed to go on to long... I know that sounds kinda weird. It kicks in a primal need for satisfaction. Your muscles, in your back, legs, butt and stomach all tighten.... your heart rate increases. Your breathing becomes more labored. (See aerobic activity can be fun! and not work) with all the hormones running through your body you can be actually considered legally stoned during sex. (Ain't the discovery channel great!). You loose some of your higher cognitive functions.

As a male reaches the point of no return (And they wonder why pulling out isn't an effective form of birth control) it really does border on pain until actual orgasm and ejaculation happens. It quickly dissipates with each spasm of the PC muscles.

From Nikolai
Mine are just a large, but single explosion and a very small part of the total pleasure I get from sex. If I could still ejaculate without an actual orgasm I wouldn't be that bothered. For me the rush from filling a woman with sperm is much more important than the physical pleasure part of the orgasm.

From Debbie 
Orgasms. Sometimes the more aroused I am getting it feels like I am expanding and opening from between my legs and I must open them to make way for this fullness to have room. It feels like an imperative need. A mouth to my breasts and nipples create sensations that appear to have a direct line to the animal between my legs. Climaxing begins from my mouth. It's as if it shoots sensations to all nerve endings and travels out my mouth, as if it has a language all of it's own. . Where does it really begin I don't know it's like riding a wave. Surfing my own climax.

Sometimes it feels explosive and quick, then not so explosive, Sometimes it puts me in touch with emotions that I haven't looked at lately; as if is a door way to deep emotional states. Sometimes I have cried. Sometimes it feels like a little " Blip". Other times afterwards it feels like a fire slowly burning itself out and still pleasant.

From Ciera
To describe it without referring to Gray's Anatomy, I'd say it is like a roller coaster. You stand in line, anticipating the thrill, even though you have been on other roller coasters. Then you finally get in the car and the attendant locks you in--too late to change your mind. You climb that first hill, anticipation building, stop for that brief second when you reach the precipice and whew! You are out of control, hanging on until the end of the ride. The bar is raised, you get out of the car and stagger around for a few minutes until your heart rate normalizes, grinning like an idiot and saying, 'wow, that was awesome! Can't wait to do it again!'

From Jules
I think the feelings obtained from reaching orgasm vary greatly. It all depends on what is being stimulated when orgasm has been achieved as well as if it's reached through masturbation or with a partner. If orgasm comes with a little self-love it is right there, right there, high point and gone. Just like using a vibrator it takes the edge of but just not the real thing.

If my partner is stimulating my breasts and orgasm is achieved, 'bar the door Nelly' (can you tell it's my favorite?). The sensation begins in my mind/nipples and takes the direct route to my g-spot. I become filled with the most wonderful need to arch my back and feel the electricity run down my spine and eventually ending in my toes, causing them to curl. It also makes my face incredibly hot for a moment. But I don't want it to end there. After this I really need more.

Now, if I reach orgasm through oral sex (grin) that is a totally different thing all together. It starts with a need to grind against the partner followed by lots of wiggling, moaning, and sometimes crying. The feeling is that of a tremendous rush, I feel the liquid build and then geyser. The most wonderful thing is that it can occur multiple times this way. I know it's over when the tickling sensation is too much to bear anymore.

Seldom have I reached them with through other methods for me. But when I have it is the mind numbing, back arching, electrical current along with the faucet reaction that come most to mind. Jules

From Julius Caesar
Well folks, I think this orgasm thread is one of the best I've seen here in my year. It's a rare and sweet privilege to hear about how it really feels for the fair sex.

I've always wanted to swap places with my lady to find out WHAT IT'S REALLY LIKE. Also to know what I'm doing right and what I'm doing wrong, she says I'm a good lover but I'd like to be better. And damn it could I survive those earthquakes of hers? And to have more than one!! Jezz, what magic that must be. And the different sorts, different causes.

AND ........... then I could put real female orgasms in my stories instead the "what I think they must be like" sort.

As for mine, my orgasms, erm ... Problem is I'm not really sure I'm "in my head" for mine!!! Sometimes I manage to see one coming (pun?) and remember to try and observe the thing as it happens but the moment always overwhelms me and really it becomes an "out of brain experience". Lord knows they're beautiful, wonderful and delicious. I honestly think I "experience" her orgasms more than I do my own but I think the foreplay offers more in terms of enjoyed experience (or experienced joy??).

Is the male orgasm a wonderful BEFORE and AFTER with a inexplicable MMOOMMEENNTT in between???

The only sensation I can honestly describe is the (not every time) feeling that somewhere between anus and cockhead things are turning inside out and I'm actually going to lose my secret inner being, out through that tiny hole in the end, scary but sweet!!

I shall continue to try and watch/experience my explosions in detached fashion but I haven't managed it yet. But it was/is a wonderful thread. And I loved the "roller coaster" description from one wonderful lady.

From Ann
The low end is a sort of genital sneeze and it's over in seconds. It's the sort of thing that works great to deal with stress/congestion, but it's not terribly memorable. Probably not the kind you're after.

The really good ones, though, start with this moment of suspended panic. It's like a fire about two seconds before it really takes, where everything is glowing just a bit more, or a very large, dangerous cat about to spring. It really is a bit frightening because it feels like I'm not going to survive it. Then I simply lose it. The contractions take over my whole body and I'll often grab for my partner as a sort of anchor, something to hang on to until the storm blows over because that's what it feels like. For a while, and it can seem like a long while, I'm not entirely myself. Coming down from it is almost as intense in its own way, sometimes enough to make me cry. I also get aftershocks, which feel like my nervous system is just firing randomly, a bit like electrical shocks in my groin. Sometimes I'm just worn out afterward and sometimes I can come again on the tail of it, not quite as long but almost as intense. They are inevitably the result of simultaneous penetration and clitoral stimulation, which can be oral sex with a few fingers inside or some form of clitoral attention while fucking. I like the latter best, but the former has much to recommend it. I also have to be mentally locked onto something that seriously turns me on. With the really strong ones, especially the double ones, I'll fall asleep afterward before he does. They leave me peaceful and happy, but drained.

Most orgasms fall somewhere in between. I'm one of that handful of women who can sometimes come on penetration alone and those are very nice, but a lot milder, the sort of thing one can actually handle on a regular basis even if they don't happen all the time. The anticipation stage on those is a lot easier, too, mellower. They're fun because they almost always set my partner off, too, and there's a definite psychological kick to simultaneous orgasm. In fact, I can only have them when I'm with someone. When I'm by myself, the range is just as wide but the options are fewer.

From Toby
Just suspect though that women get the better deal in this orgasm thing...a long slow come-down after climax with the possibility of more orgasms to follow quickly. Can never happen with a guy, as far as I know...my excitement dies immediately after ejaculation ('petit mort'?) and I just want to roll over and go to sleep (altho' I struggle hard to be considerate). So I fight the impending climax, knowing that will be the end for me.... Big sob.


From Jill
I have tried to mentally go through what happens physically for me at that time, and it isn't easy!

My hubby says there's a little noise I make, something of a gasp, right before it happens, that I'm not aware of doing. I have heard myself do it on video...and recognized the moment that it happens. But at the moment itself...there's a wonderful warmth that starts from deep inside that whole area, sort of a radiant feeling that grows outward. Once that begins, there's no turning back, and that part of my body, from my clit outward, takes over the rest of my being. Every sensation is centered there, and once the intensity reaches its high point, I stay there for what seems like a long time, though I know it's probably no more than ten seconds from the initial jolt until it starts to fade.

I'm more vocal than I used to be, but I couldn't tell you what sound I actually make...mostly a series of loud "Oh" sounds I think.

Physically, I feel as if my pussy is trying to pull everything near it as deep inside it as possible, and hold it as tightly as possible. I have also recently discovered that if I take a deep breath just as I start to climax, the intensity is multiplied and I am much more likely to be out of control. If I lose touch with reality at that point, so much the better!

And reading over what I just wrote, I still don't know if I have captured it entirely, but that's as close as I can get!

From Zombie Ferguson
Mine starts as a rumble. I can feel it almost past my calves. It encircles each of my legs, and rises up my buttocks. I can feel the release almost through my stomach, and as it approaches I experience great flexibility, and an incredible sense of breathing and alertness. It makes my body shake, and my cock gets harder, and feels hotter. At the summit, I can't see except for a gauzelike vision, and there's a drumming, though quite quick that goes through my head, and rests in my ears, but only for a moment. My whole body feels like detaching and exploding in all different directions, and it's amazing how "fully engulfed it feels, My mouth is open and taking in so much air it feels criminal, and at the explosion, all time stops for a brief instant, my thighs stiffen, my toes curl, and then there's an explosion at the point of my shaft. Whoa! Then the ride down begins, fast furious, yet smooth. I feel like I'm landing in room filled with all comfortable things. For a while, I 'm completely, drooling and happy. I can feel the throbbing of my heart, and my sated penis as one continuous thud.

It's blissful. The only feeling I have is I gotta get back up that hill again...

From Barbara
As I approach my orgasm, my pussy starts to tingle. I move faster and faster. Having my breasts sucked or tweaked at the same time intensifies the sensation. It feels like my breasts have a direct link to my pussy.

When the orgasm occurs, I start moaning. My moan starts real low, then the pitch goes higher and higher in conjunction with the peak of my orgasm. My vagina starts squeezing and squeezing. The sensation is indescribable. It feels like a long continuous burst of pure sensation explodes from my pussy and my anus. Afterwards my pussy and ass keep squeezing and continue to tingle for a few minutes and my moan changes into a grunting sound while I grind my hips after the last scrap of the orgasm. Finally, it's over and I collapse.

From I.M. Guess
Basically all my orgasms feel rather similar, it's the intensity that differentiates them. This intensity is what makes the difference between a 6 or 7 or whatever and a 10, of course there are times you have that ultimate 12.

How do they feel? It's the first touch or kiss that starts the beginnings of my arousal. It all comes slowly, at a rather steady pace, building. I get this tingly feeling in my clitoris along with warmth that starts to spread through my body; where it exactly starts I'm not sure, feels like it's from my inner being. This sensation continues to heighten and my breathing rate changes, breaths becoming raspier, labored, louder as I become more aroused.

I start to experience this incredible feeling in my clitoris and inside my vagina. My kegels tighten as I strain to meet with whatever is stimulating me. I can feel my heart rate quicken. I want the feeling to last forever and yet I want so fucking badly to cum. At this moment I don't care what's going on around me, a million eyes could be watching. Finally with some regret and yet with such want, I have to give in. I want THAT explosion of orgasm where my body is out of control, where I feel that my clit is a volcanic explosion of sexual release. My cunt contracts involuntarily, releasing my female ejaculate. I try to ride it as long as I can... pant like breaths and whimpering moans accommodate my arrival.

My body more or less collapses and I sink into this euphoric high as I slowly ebb. It's at this time that I love the sharing of afterglow, the cuddling with soft touches and words of endearment.

That to me folks, is an orgasm!

From Bad Dog
First, a take on Will Rogers - I never had an orgasm I didn't like. (Of course, the same could be said for a pizza).

But they have changed over the years and so has my focus. Love making is no longer the destination, but the trip that is more important. Stroking a woman for twenty minutes and having her climax, then switching to different stimulation for her to have more orgasms is what gets my mind off. When she is reaching the frustration, then play with my nipples and it is time get my body off.

From Brett
I love my orgasms powerful intense to the point where I draw the sweet pleasure out for up to 2 or 3 hours during masturbation feeling my whole body pulsate nearly blacking out. The longer I tease myself pulling my foreskin back rubbing my precum over the purple helmet sends every nerve ending on the tip to cause a mixture of pleasure and agony because of the extreme sensitivity of the purple glans.

From Jake
Orgasms vary, yet the best ones during and after ejaculating is the intense heart pounding and total surrender to the flood of emotions that come with it.

I used to be a IV drug user years ago and an orgasm and the rush received from shooting cocaine are very closely related as far as what happens physically in the initial seconds and first few minutes of orgasm or shooting the drug. 

Of course people just having sex don't have the problems that drug use cause.

From Mangogirl
I feel my orgasms over my whole body; my toes curl, waves of pleasure wash over my whole body beginning deep in my pussy, my whole vagina clinches, hard...over and over...goes on for a few minutes, then the aftershocks...slowly lessening in intensity...while I howl...then moan..

From Kasual
When I am hot, I begin to rub myself all over, my pierced nipples erect, my pussy in a flood and my will is eager. I feel sensations all over. My eyes strained, my breath simmering and steady. My body in need. My clit becomes enlarged and ready to release, my vagina pulsating open and closed waiting in anticipation, my mind in constant gyration. I center my fingers to run along side my clit to sedate the eagerness, and fill her with anticipation.

I slide my dildo just barely inside to tease and give just enough to tantalize her more, my pussy seeping yields of pleasure. I slide a finger along side the dildo to rub and manipulate my pussy to take the dildo. To feed her with pleasure. Once I glide the dildo all the way in and move it about, I begin again on my clit and vaginal lips to soak up all the desires of pleasure I can find.

Now I am fucked , and filled with pleasures abound, a steady increase in motion brings forth the most erotic and sensational aberrations I can ever have. My eyes, strained, my breath stolen, my mind vexed and my pussy is pulsed and my clit galloping to the occasion. All the muscles in my body giving to her pleasure. Release of all tribulations and a soul freed.

I know quite traumatic, but really I cannot find a better pleasures on earth. Truly profound.

From Charles
I feel the sensation begin somewhere in the energy that goes between the glans of my penis and my backbone. Like the ripples in a pond when you drop in a pebble, it radiates up to the base of my skull, while simultaneously reaching the region of my prostrate. An overpowering wave races across my brain, forcing my eyes to roll back into my head and my throat to exhale air emitting a moan that precisely expresses the mind and body’s surrender. Then with increasing urgency, my body goes into a locked spasm that throws the hips forward and arches the back. 

Finally, I feel my groin muscles load and shoot through the urethra, in jerky spasms. This, of course, is ejaculation. I am in this involuntary state until she stops…and sometimes she doesn’t.

From Shar
It starts with a throbbing ache (pleasurable ache though), as I rub my tits, my nipples get hard and tender, sending waves through my body until they reach my clit. As I get wetter I finger myself, making my ache all over, I writhe with ecstasy. I continue to rub my nipples between my fingers, as I fuck myself with my purple vibe. 

I move my hand up and down, slowly, from my tits to my clit. The throbbing gets harder and harder, my breathing gets harder, my back arches, and a rush rips through my body that sends my head spinning and weakens my legs. In all my orgasms feel like nirvana. a gift from the gods.

From Xiaoyan
When I masturbate, (I have not yet experienced the pleasure from intercourse) the feeling of pleasure is very strong, almost painful in my clitoris (as I rub it), and radiates into my vagina. The strong, almost painful pleasure deep up in my vagina radiates up to my tailbone and makes me grab my buttock with my left hand, as if to soothe the ache (pleasurable) in that area. 

As the orgasm approaches, the pleasure in my clitoris and vagina increases in intensity until it is so incredibly strong that I cannot endure it, for about 5-10 seconds, and my head raises up towards my stomach as I moan because of the extreme pleasure. 

I don't experience the contractions or waves that I've read that many women experience with orgasm, just very, very intense pleasure that is steady for 5-10 seconds. After that the pleasure slowly goes down and radiates through my pelvis, and it takes me a few minutes for me to catch my breath.

From Sue
Chrissy, I think you're average. [see Chrissy's entry below] I've worked in a local sex shop in Manhattan for 10 years, and in various forums, classes, and gathering we've hosted over the years  women often agree that all that moaning, groaning, tossing, and such stuff tend to mimic porn rather then reality. In other words, women 'learn' to make their orgasms visible and audio (so to speak) so their partners get the picture. Many of women claimed they do the visual audio thing with a partner, but when they masturbate in private, that's hardly if ever the case. 

Of course this is all from a relatively small cross section of women, however it does ring true. It is unfortunately that women like yourself think your orgasms are weaker, less intense then other women's. The bottom line is that you have orgasms (many women don't), and the point should be that you enjoy them, and not how they compare to other women's orgasms. 

From Chrissy
I think my orgasms are weaker than most those of most women. If I'm masturbating, or if I'm being fucked, the 'sweet sex feeling' will quickly rise, maybe in 5 to 10 seconds, and then will be very intense for just a few seconds - I'll have a couple of vaginal contractions and kinda say 'ohhh' and then it's over.

I used to watch my friend have an orgasm when we masturbated together, and she would moan and moan for maybe fifteen seconds as she came, and be quite worn out when she was finished. She would close her eyes and her face would be all contorted as she went through the orgasm - me, I don't even close my eyes.

Sometimes, when my husband is fucking me, it's hard for him to believe that I've come, as I don't even close my eyes as I orgasm, I just go 'uhhh' as he's pounding into me, and he can't feel my contractions, but I have to assure him that yes, I have had an orgasm. He, on the other hand, closes his eyes tight and screams as the semen pours out of his penis as he orgasms. I wish I could have orgasms that are real intense. Oh, well.

From Bill
When I was a kid the sweet feeling in my penis would get progressively stronger until it was extremely intense, and my entire penis felt like it was dissolving in this incredible sea of sweetness. When I reached puberty and started to ejaculate, the feeling of the semen flowing through my urethra was very pleasurable, even more than the 'sweet' feeling deep in my penis. Each gush of the semen would make me say 'uhhhh', and usually I would stay hard after the orgasm and just keep going. 

When I got into my 40's, the orgasm got progressively stronger, and the 'sweet' feeling deep in my penis has got to where it is so strong at the point of orgasm that it makes me scream for half a minute or so, and the feeling of the semen being ejaculated isn't as strong any more. The older I get, the more intense my orgasms are. I'm not sure I can take them if they get much more intense!

From Anonymous
The best orgasm I ever had was by myself, on my back in the bathtub, with my clit under the running water. I always thought people were lying when they said they had orgasms that made them nearly pass out. But the second time I tried masturbating that way, I had the longest, strongest orgasm and I came close to passing out - everything went black for a few seconds, and I remember the feeling of coming out of that, like I had lost consciousness for a moment. I was just screaming too, not caring that I could hear my neighbor in his bathroom upstairs. 

Afterwards, I crawled to my bed and just slept for hours. Funny, soon after that, my neighbor started catching me outside, trying to make conversation with me, always with a little smirk on his face.

From Anonymous
I have only had intense orgasms two ways. One is while dreaming. Another is using a short Rabbit Pearl. I am a virgin, by most modern definitions. The orgasm is hard to describe. When I get excited, from making out, the dildo's rotating head, etc., my vaginal muscles start contracting in a slow, rhythmical way. It feels pleasurable, but not too intense. I usually open my legs more and it's like just dying to feel fuller, to feel something overpower me. 

If I'm making out with someone I want to be dominated -I struggle without knowing words to communicate this. With the rabbit I want to shove the dildo part of the vibrator in farther, even though it hurts. After the smaller, rhythmic slow contractions have gone on for awhile, I feel my clitoris become especially sensitive. As soon as the vibrator gets close its like dying it's so sweet -and my mind is just gone. It's like the feeling of a massage when the masseuse hits the right spot, but stronger. A few seconds of the vibration feeling becoming more intense on the clit and I know I'm there. And the orgasmic vaginal contractions are faster and more intense than the ones I have when I'm just excited, and they're much sweeter and travel all the way up my vaginal canal, and I can tell when they are getting ready to stop and I'm always disappointed, mentally willing it to go on. 

During the actual orgasm it's much like being alone. Just me, and this strange sweet/intense feeling while I feel my muscles contracting inside me but it's almost like the muscles aren't me. I'm just the sensations.

From Velvetine
Some people say it's like waves, some people say they convulse but with me it is oh so different. With me I kind of wave to orgasm. Because I'm a virgin I'll probably have a completely knew orgasm when I'm with a cock but here are my 2 masturbating orgasms.

1. I feel it start just below my clit and I feel a pressure go up to my collar bone. Then it all goes back down, swiftly, to my clit. That's about when I start humping really hard. Then it suddenly releases itself through my entire body.

2. It's like a pressure from my pubes to my ass. Usually I can only fill my cunt with my finger then it all swells just above my pubes and then I can stop myself from humping so hard and high until the orgasm's over.

The only thing in common about both of them is that it releases itself in the most blissful fashion.

From Karen
When I'm masturbating or if I'm having my clitoris licked, this extra-sweet, delicious feeling fills my clitoris and goes deep into the muscle/bone beneath it and the area around it-sometimes there is a dull, delicious pain up in my vagina and stomach. When I start to rise toward orgasm, the feeling gets progressively stronger, and right as the orgasm begins, that feeling shoots down into my vagina, and it feels like this strong, sweet vice is gripping it and letting it loose. With the grip of each contraction this incredibly strong, delicious pain fills my vagina and belly and makes me groan very loud. 

When I younger and used to masturbate before I started having my period, when I would come, that delicious feeling would rise very, very high and I would kind of say "ahhhhhhh" and then it would slowly ease back down. But after I started having my period, I started having contractions with the orgasm and would moan with each one of them. 

If my husband is fucking me it's different. When he enters me that delicious feeling is centered in my vagina and seems to travel along the area where the ridge of the head of his penis contacts the vaginal wall. I feel it the moment he enters me, when he slides in it makes me let out a long sigh-and then the feeling keeps rising until my belly explodes and engulfs his beautiful dick. I never need any help from my hands, because when he's fucking me, that feeling is centered in my vagina/belly and not in my clit.

From Tam
Ah the eternal question. I write erotica, read erotica and am yet to be able to put the right words to the feeling. All I can manage are 'abstracts' like all-consuming, other-worldly, intense, mind-blowing.

A lover who knows where to find and how to stroke the G- spot is the stairway to heaven. So often I lament how men are ripped off in the orgasm department. While my man loves my long blow jobs which keep him teetering on the brink, and can come again more often than not, the orgasm itself seem to be a relatively fleeting thing. 

For women (well the ones I know) being on the brink endlessly results in so much intense pleasure that I honestly fear sometimes it will kill me (just ask the neighbour who constantly bangs on the adjoining bedroom wall yelling for me to shut up).

I still can't find the words. My mind shuts down and my body takes over, pleasure consumes every molecule.

From Tigerlily
It's like being thrown off a cliff and as in a dream, you are not afraid because you can fly. The moment I really cherish is when I reach that plateau, that point of no return, the run up to the edge of the cliff, that falling backwards down a long tunnel, when I know that I am going to come in about 5 seconds, is sweet.

And then when I come it's like a 20 foot wave breaking and crashing. It rips through my body and is sweet torture as it courses along my nerves and muscles spasm here and there and I shriek as it hits and moan and then drift down down down through it and then up on to the shore - like the wave. Wow, love that feeling.

I have orgasms in my sleep too sometimes. There is a huge mental part to orgasms for me. My brain basically has to get out of the way. Took me a long time to train myself to let go. To get in that mental place for orgasm I go into my body mentally. And I give myself over to my lover and trust him with me. I have strong boundaries and a strong intellect so this took a little doing before I really understood my sexuality and knew how I responded and how to get out of my own way! Yes, I am very aroused by my lover and what he does to me and what we do together, by fantasy, toys, - all those things. But in the end before I come I go mentally into my body and I just feel.

From that post orgasmic plateau I can come again several times with just a minute or so rest, not too much so I don't come off the plateau. You can just keep throwing me off that cliff. It's amazing really. I remember the first time I discovered I was multi orgasmic (I was masturbating) and I just kept at it in amazement to see how far I could go. I stopped counting after 10 or so. But that was extreme! My clit or anywhere around my pussy - it's all so sensitive and engorged by then - and I come again very easily. 

One of my favorite turn-ons is heightened anticipation. Lots of playing and kissing me everywhere but he makes me wait so that I am so wound up and focused on that moment when he does go to my pussy with his mouth or his hand and his cock that I just start spiraling down when he does and soon - over the cliff I go.

From dn
Hi, I once feel what I could call "super org" . I was trying a technique I saw in a book about Tantric sexuality, and woow it was incredible. I press in an acupressure point upon right nipple while I masturbate. I feel a incredible sensation, I cannot say with words.

A only one thing more, I tried "LJ method" [see LJ's entry below] but it did happen nothing. I am unwilling to trying that.

Thanks for you web

From Anonymous
Its simply the greatest feeling in the world - better than any kind of high I've ever experienced. My testicles tingle and my anus contracts. My penis feels like hot wood and is so hard it hurts. I shake all over and try to hold back, but when the first blast of semen spurts out, its all I can do not to scream in ecstasy. I like to whimper and grunt real loudly when I have orgasm and that seems to make it more intense. I also like to tickle my scrotum and squeeze my testicles. 

Sometimes I slip on a latex glove and try to get my prostate too to milk more spooge out, but I'm still sorta new to that and it's not as easy as it would seem it should be. One time I was filming myself masturbating and I used my left hand (I'm normally a right-y) and when I started to spew, I could hear it splattering all over the array of magazines I'd spread out. It took me about 40 seconds to finish the first orgasm. I was so excited, I just kept stroking and about 4 or 5 minutes later achieved an even more intense orgasm with more forceful ejaculations. Believe it or not, I did it again and ended up accomplishing four separate, mind-blowing orgasms. These were the best I've ever experienced, alone at least. 

From Gordon
One of the side effects of my major surgery for bowel cancer some fifteen years ago was that the seminal nerves were severed and therefore I could not ejaculate (but I was still able to get an erection and did get an orgasm when having sex or masturbating - this is medically known as a 'dry' ejaculation). However, the psychological effects of "not being able to come" were very disturbing - I felt I was 'inadequate'. The surgeon wasn't very helpful either - he commented "one of the most messy things about sex is 'Jacco'(sic)". Things became so bad I began to wish I hadn't had the op. and at least would be able to die whilst still 'being a man'.

One day I happened to pick up a book about Tantric Yoga and from this learned that what the surgery had given me was something Yogis sometimes took years to achieve by mental exercise - and that they were able to 'perform' for hours by 'holding it in' - to the great satisfaction of their wives/concubines etc. I then found that women very seldom feel male ejaculation anyway because of their own juices and orgasm(s), and to a very large extent the magazines/books/films etc of 'buckets of spunk' are indeed just pure fiction. 

After putting this information to the test (with the cooperation of some very understanding women), I finally 'broke the spell' and found life was wonderful again. I offer this to any male reader who has been in a similar situation - and to those who have been diagnosed with bowel cancer and are awaiting surgery. I just wish someone had been there for me all those years ago, and is a poor reflection on the lack of psychological assistance for cancer patients in the UK (is it the same elsewhere I wonder?).

Perhaps some women can give their comments on this problem?

From Sally
oh wow I love orgasms. Actually I think my first orgasms were in my sleep and it's so weird and embarrassing but I would wake up while I was orgasming (if that's a word) and be moving in my sleep as if I was having sex. I would have them often but I don't have them too much anymore probably because I masturbate a lot now. 

When I masturbate I just rub my clit not even directly just over my pants or underwear at the least and I get off and I can get off as many times as I like, I think my record is 8 or 9 times in a row but it could be 20 if I wanted but at that point I usually fall asleep or my hand is too tired. 

I've never had sex so I wouldn't know if I'd get off during that, but I've never had a g spot orgasm. A guy would be fingering me and get me really excited and then rub my clit for like 15 seconds after and I'd get really intense orgasms (much more intense than anything I can do to myself) but I don't really know orgasms are just tingly and explosive and that's all I can really explain.

From LJ
I have occasionally had what I call "super orgasms", My ex wife would get on top of me and she would grab the headboard and ride up and down as I thrust into her. The orgasm would start and would just keep coming and coming and coming, to the point where when I finally ejaculated it was almost a let down. These would last about a full minute. Luckily (note the ex above) I recently discovered that by masturbating where, if I was a woman, my vagina would be, I can achieve the same thing, as long as I avoid stroking the penis. Has anyone else experienced this?

From PandaBear
I envy most every single female. I am 22 and have two children, yet I have never experienced the pleasure of an orgasm. I've tried everything I can think of, I can't get myself there. I am ashamed that my husband doesn't know, but I don't want him to think that he isn't doing it right, because I love the way I feel, I just hit a wall when it comes to orgasms.

From Bobo
At the end of a masturbation session my dick suddenly feels electrified in this awesome way and there's this really nice tingle going up and down my legs. I grunt and groan like hell and it feels awesome!

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