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Describe Your Orgasm

How Does it Feel? Don't be Shy...

Describe Your OrgasmI have just finished a story, and after reading it, my mind started to wander south, and from there I pull this question for the group. What are they like? Can you describe the feeling from beginning to end—I'd love to hear your description without the usual explicatives. Be wide ranging, and all-inclusive in how it feels, where it comes, and from whence it comes. I will do the same, but first, I must do some research....  —Zombie Ferguson

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From Rick Woodlands
If I'm masturbating: I'll have been jerking it for as long as I can, and built up a very pleasant ache at the base of my cock and a big load in my balls. (I know my balls are swollen from blood, but it's more fun when I'm horny to imagine them full of cum.)

Physically, before I start to squirt, I have a wonderful melting sensation at the base of my cock---halfway between pissing, scratching and stretching, but far better than any of them.

I think, "There it is, I'm coming"---then I stop thinking completely. (I know, when I'm capable of thought, that many parts of my brain devoted to higher thought processes shut down for a moment.) I'm only dimly aware of where I am, who I am, or anything but the melty feeling of the cum moving up my cock and shooting onto my belly or into my shorts, the melting sensation gradually diminishing with each jerk. Forget speech, unless you count animal moans or obscenity.

With my wife: Only very rarely do I have the earth-shattering physical sensation that I get from masturbating. Physically, my cock gets really sensitive just before I start to squirt, enough that I have to stop pounding her for a second, burying myself inside her and holding still while I empty myself.

Mentally?...the rest of the world still disappears, along with rational thought, but during the moment I forget myself I'm completely aware of her. Looking deep into the eyes of the one I love and who loves me as I come deep inside her---that's the pinnacle of human experience.

From Stacie
Sometimes when I'm having sex or masturbating (using a vibrator, water faucet, or my fingers), my orgasms feel good. But other times it feels like getting hit by a train. It gets so intense that my whole crotch hurts.

From Toby
Just suspect though that women get the better deal in this orgasm thing...a long slow come-down after climax with the possibility of more orgasms to follow quickly. Can never happen with a guy, as far as I excitement dies immediately after ejaculation ('petit mort'?) and I just want to roll over and go to sleep (altho' I struggle hard to be considerate). So I fight the impending climax, knowing that will be the end for me.... Big sob.

From John
I read about a study several years ago that seemed to me extremely interesting.  A writing class at a university asked to write a paragraph describing their sensations of orgasm, anonymously and revealing only whether the writer was male or female. Researchers then edited out references to gender (e.g., "penis" or "clit" or "vagina" were replaced by general, neutral terms), and they had the handwritten descriptions typed, and the "M" or "F" encoded.  Later they handed the neutered, typed, coded descriptions back out to the students.  Each read several and tried to guess the sex of the writers.  When they broke the code, nobody had been able to tell reliably whether the writer was a man or a woman.  We feel the same things! 

From Jen
I accidently "stumbled" upon this obscure, but exciting site. I was fascinated with reading the descriptions. From what I read, the description of intense contractions - basically in the crotch seems to match many of the descriptions the men made - except I enjoyed about a dozen equally pleasurable contractions - as apposed to 3-5 which a guy feels.  Then, I apply my electric tooth brush to the same area, and enjoyed multiple orgasms - each longer and more intense.  I soon after relaxe and realize how fortunate women are when it comes to orgasms, as ours last way longer, are more pleasurable by far, and many of us can have many orgasms.

From Debbie 
Sometimes it feels explosive and quick, then not so explosive, Sometimes it puts me in touch with emotions that I haven't looked at lately; as if is a doorway to deep emotional states. Sometimes I have cried. Sometimes it feels like a little "Blip". Other times afterwards it feels like a fire slowly burning itself out and still pleasant.

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