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Do people find it hot when a guy comes on a woman instead of inside her? And does it matter where he comes—on the face, on the breasts, etc.? Do women like being target practice? Are there a lot of men that like to play liquid darts? 

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From David
Rhonda, you sound like my kinda girl! [see Rhonda's entry below] I love the sight of a girl's face getting splattered with my warm ejaculate..it's like a show, isn't it? Also, on the tits is nice..it's just so naughty and dirty! I was seeing an older woman (she was 54 and I was 34), and she used to adore getting a sticky faceful, calling me a wanker while I was tossing off in front of her..nice!

From Rhonda
I think it's hot. It always makes me feel a little bit slutty, but in a good way. I never really got into that kind of thing until I was in my 30's. I went off birth control after my divorce, so my partners would just pull out and shoot their sperm on my stomach or up my back. I don't know. It just felt primal and naughty. If a guy is into that, I'm definitely game!

From Tim
When we were first married, my wife didn't like me to cum on her. She just didn't like the feel and mess and she put it. But then one night during sex, I got a cramp in my leg and pulled out of her. It was kind of funny when it happened. But as I was standing there stretching the cramp out, she moved over and started to stroke my cock. It felt good and I told her how nice it felt to get a hand job so soon after being in her pussy. She smiled at me and then she took my cock in her mouth and started to suck me off. I couldn't believe she was doing this with her juices still on my cock. When I told her I was close to coming, she took her mouth off my cock and went back to her hands. It wasn't long before I was shooting streams of cum and she was directing it at her tits. Then when I was finished, she took my cock and sucked the last few drops off and out of my cock.

Since then, she has at times told me to come on her and told me where she wants it. She likes it on her tits, stomach, or on her bare pussy. She does not like it on her face. I love to see my streams of cum land on her like this and never hesitate to comply when she asks. Sometimes I want to see it and will pull out of her and finish myself off watching cum shoot all over her. She enjoys the show of me stroking my hard cock and the expression on my face as I finish.

From Tom
Can't argue with Sharon's logic in this, compairing cum shots with the resulting wet face from cunnilingus is like comparing apples and oranges. I'm bi, experienced both and so I can say with no hesitation - there's significant difference in both acts for all parties invovled. Personally speaking, I don't like a face full of cum. I don't like the feel of it, and I don't like the thought behind the act -- it feels porny, not sexy. I do like rubbing my face in a women's wet volva, which means she's aroused because I'm doing a good job of it. Sexy.

From Sharon
Kingtone, you can't be serious! [see Kingtone's entry below] there's no comparison, and a world of difference. I'm assuming you haven't experience cum in your face, and that's why you can't make the comparison or realize the difference. First of all woman don't aim for your face, it's very much where you put your face. Rubbing your face into woman's vulvas is very different from getting shot in the face with spurts of cum. The  difference in texture is significant: Woman's sexual juices are more fluid, men's more viscid. Most importantly, woman don't have a choice where their fluids land, men do. Bottom line is if your lady (or perhaps you) don't mind facial com shots, that's fine. If your lady doesn't like it, there's plenty of other places to aim for.

From Kingtone
I would like to pose a question to the women who have commented on this topic saying that a man coming on you is degrading. I am a man who very, very much loves going down on my lady, who I've been with for 12 years now. When I do, especially considering that I nave a beard (which she loves) I not only pay attention to her clit, but her whole pussy, there has not been a time when my whole face, sometimes form forehead to chin, has been covered in her pussy juices, in fact some times she ejaculates from the pressure I put on her G spot and her clit, and I have no problem with this.

I have spoken to my male friends and while not all their girls ejaculate, the often end up with faces covered in wet juices and none of them feel degraded. My question is why is the reverse different. If a man decided he would go down on a woman because his face might get wet no woman would receive oral, so why the difference?

From Greg
My experience is I enjoy releasing my cum on a woman if she doesn't mind or enjoys it. A few woman I dated were disgusted by it and I tried to be respectful of their desires. Releasing a nice stream of cum on this type of woman just does nothing for me. But for those woman that love it or can enjoy it, I love to see my white cum shoot on their stomachs, tits, or pubic hair. Face shoots have not been a common request or experience for me, so I don't really have a huge desire to release only on the face.

My best experience was with a previous girlfriend. She had no aversion to cum and liked the variety of feeling it in many places. There were times she told me to come in her, other times she wanted me to pull out so she could watch me come on her, and sometimes she had a specific spot she wanted to feel that stream of cum. She also loved sucking cock and swallowing the cum.

From Pat
I had plenty of girlfriends that didn't care for cum shots on them. A few sure enjoyed giving hand jobs and watching my streams shoot all over. I think they found this the best way to enjoy some sex without the bother of cum either on them or in the mouth.

I dated Lisa awhile and she just loved cum. She gave me a hand job after just a few dates and it wasn't long before she was giving me a blow job and finishing me off with her hand. She just seemed to enjoy watching the cum squirt out of my hard cock. Then she had me cum in her mouth and swallowed the from the very first time she took me all the way with oral. She seemed to enjoy the taste and satisfaction from swallowing my cum. Even when we had sex, she liked me to pull out, pull off the condom, and have me shoot cum all over her stomach and tits. Lisa really did love having semen on her, around her, or swallowing it. She never did let me ejaculate in her since we always used a condom. Even when I did fill the condom, she loved to pull it off and see the mess on my cock. A few times she would clean me up my licking it off. The only girl I've ever been with that liked cum so much.

From Debbie
My dating in high school and earlier in college was very tame. Lets just say my tits and pussy were virgin from the touch of a man. This guy opened me up to the enjoyment of physical pleasures. Once he had fingered my pussy a few times, I decided I needed some equal play, but really didn't know what to do or even how to do it. But as I grasped his cock, it felt so fun to wrap my fingers around it. What really surprised me was when it started to shoot fluid. I didn't really know what was happening but could tell he was sure enjoying it. So I was introduced to my first cum shoot which was all over my hand and onto his clothes. I then realized what had happened and was proud of myself.

For the next few days, I kept thinking about his ejaculation and couldn't wait to do it again for him. The next chance we got together, he gave me some breast play and my nipples were nice and hard. So I moved in and took out his cock and started to stoke it with my hand. This time I also took a nice look at it while I stroked it. I pulled his pants all the way down so I had a full view and he just let me go and before long he started to squirt cum all over. I have been enjoying cum shots ever since this and find it very erotic to watch and to now enjoy having it shoot on my body.

From CleanFace
Getting shot in the face with a blast of sticky cum is not my idea of a sexy good time. There's no pleasure in getting it in my hair, dripping into my eyes, clumping into my mascara. I like a little powered blush on my cheeks, not viscous white stuff. If a guy isn't into getting his face creamed, he shouldn't expect to do so to his girlfriend or wife. And girls, if you don't like it, speak up. Don't feel you have to let him to the deed because you think you should. Most guys respect a women's likes and dislikes. If you have one that doesn't, then he's not worthy of you.

From Greg
My wife and I have had a variety of sex including oral, vaginal and anal.  She enjoys watching me masturbate while kneeling over her.  She talks dirty to me and tells me to cum all over her titty's.  Depending on the mood we are in I could end up rubbing it over her beasts and nipples,  sucking her nipples afterward and ultimately kissing her.  It's a turn on in our bedroom.

From Mary
I hate hate hate getting sprayed in the face with anything at all, never mind sperm. Good grief, there's a whole body to come on, or in, why the big deal about coming on your partner's face? It's a porn thing, is the only real reason I can think of. You know the look; the chicks looking adoringly at some prick shooting on their faces. Go figure.

What in the world is so sexy about cum dripping off the face, getting in eyes, hair, whatever. Honestly, it's pretty damn funny rather than sexy, like the slap-stick comedy - you know, cream pie in the face while the entire audience laughs hysterically. Maybe it's a left over boyhood 'food fight' thing. 

Some women say they encourage their men to come on their face when they just want to get it over with, like alright already I'm done let's get you done also and this will do it like nothing else (porn dream come true, or some such). They say it's also better then a mouth full, or vagina full if their going out and don't want to drip. Personally speaking, I'm a little appalled at that type of thinking, but to each her own. 

Bottom line is, I hate hate hate getting sprayed in the face. Is it degrading? Possibly, like a slap in the face is much more insulting then a slap on the arm, or on the butt. Could be a cultural thing, like the scene of a man  slapping another in the face with his glove; a classic insult and challenge. Also, it's often common in Dom/sub scenes. And the expression, 'in your face', which certainly is uncomfortable. So yeah, I guess it could be interpreted as degrading. 

As for the rest of the body; yeah, it's sexy. And not at all degrading. It's a visual, the money shot, so to speak, and that's sexy.

From Ray
My wife doesn't really enjoy the taste of cum so she prefers to have me cum on her face. So I pull out and see a very erotic scene. How is that degrading?

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