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Blowjobs: pleasure or powerIn the book How to Write a Dirty Story by Suzie Bright there is an exercise you could call "Could You Would You?"  The exercise is designed to free up your imagination. I invite you to read the following 3 questions, and share your answers with us. —Chris Garcia

1) Explain a sexual fantasy about an experience in the  real world you would jump on in an instant if you could have it, no questions asked. Something you would have no reservations about actually doing.

2) Explain an experience you would like to have but only under certain conditions, otherwise not. Under those conditions you'd definitely give yourself to it, otherwise no way.

3) Explain a fantasy you'd love to do in your imagination, something that excites you and maybe gets you off but you'd never in a million years do it in the real world, either because its impossible to perform or too squicky to endure. But something that excites you to play around with in your fantasies.

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From Allen (UK)
1) In Real Life: I would love to make a HD video of my wife dressed as a secretary doing a slow striptease. At first showing her best lace underwear before she finally gets naked. Then she runs her hands over her body and plays with herself before finally fingering her own pussy. There would be close ups of her touching her nipples, sliding a finger inside herself and such like, and these would be have other close ups cut in. The tip of my cock pressing against her nipple, of my cock unloading on her breasts, her nipples, sliding in and out of her pussy; you never see me, only my cock. Finishing with a close up of my cock between her lips as it spurts it's cum into her open mouth.

2) Under Certain Conditions:  I would love to have a threesome with my wife's cousin. She came to stay with us recently as the two of them were going to a party, and I was to be the taxi driver. Prior to the party there was much walking around in underwear from the pair of them, the wine started flowing, and this led to much innuendo about threesomes and me watching, and I was hoping by the time I went to pick them the barriers would have come down even further. But alas this proved not to be the case. I did learn one thing though, her cousin is not blonde all over, even though she is naturally blonde, and she did seem to be sporting quite a thick dark bush as viewed through her see-through lace knickers.

 3) Only In My Fantasy: In my fantasy I catch my mother-in-law having an affair with someone at her office, but I find out before she's actually been to bed with her new lover.  So it's naturally a case of of "I'll do anything just don't tell my husband." So my mother-in-law becomes my sex slave, I can make her strip and show me her body, I can fuck her when I want to, I can have her suck me off, I can come on her if I want to, and I usually do, and she usually gets it on those georgous breasts of hers, or on her pretty face. Of course she'll have to get rid of the bush of hers. I want to see her pussy shaven, how do I know she's not shaven already? I know because I've seen up her skirt, it took a little while before I realised that it wasn't black underwear I was looking at!

From Bill
1) In Real Life: Have my wife go out to a local club wearing a short skirt with no panties on and a nice low cut blouse without a bra. I would follow and watch her flash some of the guys in the club.

2) Under Certain Conditions: I would act like I was picking her up and would have a nice time dancing with her and letting my hands wander all over her body. Then watch her in the club dancing with other men and letting them feel her nice ass and look down her blouse at her gorgeous tits. I think it would a turn on to watch some other man take her to a secluded spot in the club and watch him rub her tits and then give her a finger job. To finish the night, I would want to watch her give some guy a hand job there in the club.

 3) Only in my Fantasy: To have her invite a man home and watch as he strips her clothes off and suck on her tits and pussy. To watch her give him a blow job and to watch them fuck each other. After he leaves, I want to do the same things to her and fill her pussy with cum.

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