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Blowjobs: pleasure or powerIn the book How to Write a Dirty Story by Suzie Bright there is an exercise you could call "Could You Would You?"  The exercise is designed to free up your imagination. I invite you to read the following 3 questions, and share your answers with us. —Chris Garcia

1) Explain a sexual fantasy about an experience in the  real world you would jump on in an instant if you could have it, no questions asked. Something you would have no reservations about actually doing.

2) Explain an experience you would like to have but only under certain conditions, otherwise not. Under those conditions you'd definitely give yourself to it, otherwise no way.

3) Explain a fantasy you'd love to do in your imagination, something that excites you and maybe gets you off but you'd never in a million years do it in the real world, either because its impossible to perform or too squicky to endure. But something that excites you to play around with in your fantasies.


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From Robert
1) In Real Life: I would like to see my wife masturbate and bring herself to an orgasm using her fingers or a dildo. I would then masturbate and shoot cum all over her tits.
 
2) Under Certain Conditions:  To give my wife oral sex on the beach and then have her return the favor before enjoying full intercourse. I would even like it if someone caught us and took a peek at our fun action.

3) Only in my Fantasy: To do some swinging with our friends. We enjoy going to their house and climbing in the hot tub with them and she wears the nicest skimpy bikinis I have ever seen. She doesn't mind showing off her body and it is very nice. I have had some fantasies of taking her and enjoying her nice body. He has started to wear a thong in the hot tub and I catch my wife checking out his ass when she has a chance. I know he has a nice cock since we go to the gym together. I think my wife would love the feel of his cock in her pussy and I would love to watch him fuck her and shoot his cum in her pussy. It is so hot for me to think of them together. 

From Mark
1) In Real Life: I would like to see my wife bound, ankles to wrists, and then I would spend an hour or more giving her oral sex, making sure that she has many orgasms before I fuck her, cathing all on video.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Bring a female friend into the bedroom and have sex in the doggie style position with her while my wife licks her clit, then sit back and watch as my wife takes care of the creampie I leave in our friends pussy.

3) Only in my Fantasy: Public sex with a group, my wife being the center of attention and being taken by three at a time.

From Jon
1) In Real Life: Go to a motel and give my wife oral sex at the hot tub and then have her give me a blow job sitting next to the hot tub.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Go to the beach or park and fuck with my wife.

3) Only in my Fantasy: We have some friends, Dave and Susan, that we both find attractive. It would be fun to watch them have sex and also have them watch us. Susan has a great set of tits and I would love to titty fuck with her before tasting her pussy. I would love to bury my cock in her and feel how good she would be. I would also like to watch my wife suck on Dave's cock and watch him fucking my wife. I think it would be so hot to watch his cock pumping my wife's hot pussy.

From Steve
1) In Real Life: Now that spring is just around the corner, a nice picnic outdoors would be nice with my wife with a slow strip tease between eating the picnic. I would like to remove her blouse and bra and enyou her topless and sunning her nice tits. Then finally remove her pants to see her sexy panties underneath. Finally removing her panties to get a full shot of her pussy. I would remove my clothes at the same time. For desert, I would eat her pussy and finish with a nice fuck session outdoors.
  
2) Under certain conditions: Go to a nude beach and enjoy time on the beach with other nude people. It would take some convincing to get her to go, but I think she would be open to giving it a try at the right time. She has such a hot body and I would love to see it with no tan lines.

3) Only in my fantasies: I would like to take a movie of us having sex and trade it with other couples. Then at some time meet up with one of the couples and enjoy some swapping. I would really love to see my wife ride another mans cock and suck his cum from him. I would also like to take another woman from behind and penetrate her pussy with my cock and at the last minute, pull out, and then shoot cum all over her ass.

From Debra
1) In Real Life: I've only been married a few years and things sexually are getting a little boring. I know we need to expand things and try something new and different to add some excitement. Last weekend I surprised my husband by wearing a short skirt and a nice blouse which isn't too uncommon for me. The surprise was the fact I didn't wear any panties or bra. I unbuttoned a few extra buttons when we were out for drinks and it gave him a nice look at my tits. I also made sure he noticed my no panties by giving him a few nice flashes. What was nice was I noticed a few other men stealing glances and I was excited to flash them also. One the way home, we parked the car and had sex in the car. We hadn't done this for years and it was more than just the fingering or hand jobs we used to do. He and I were totally naked enjoying a nice fuck. 

2) Under Certain Conditions: To have sex outdoors somewhere. I would like to try a picnic at a park or at the beach and if it was secluded enough, to have him fuck me from behind.

3) Only in my Fantasy: I kind of enjoyed flashing the other men in the bar and I started to fantasies about doing some more flashing. I got so horny thinking about meeting one of these men as I came out of the bathroom and he complimented my on my nice pussy. I would give him another look and he starts to finger me making me all wet with one hand and has his other hand on my tits. I return the favor and give him a nice hand job. When I get back to my husband, we leave and I fuck him right in the parking lot because I am still so wet and horny. 

From Lara
1) In Real Life: I am a bridesmaid for a friend of mine in a few weeks. I showed my dress I'm wearing which is shorter than my normal dresses. I modelled it for my husband without any panties on and asked what he thought. He told me it looked hot but I should be careful since I gave him a few nice shots of my pussy and ass. I was glad he noticed since I was showing off for him.  I told him I had some nice panties to wear, but now want to  surprise him by going commando and flashing him at the wedding when I get a chance.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Before going home, I would like to go out to a bar or dinner and wear this bridemaids dress again. I plan on being less reserved and want the dress to ride up so my husband has a great view and see if other people notice. I'm hoping I can also give some nice flashes of my ass to some other men around and to have my husband finger me under the table.

3) Only in my Fantasy: I would like my husband to get so turned on fingering me, that when I go to the Ladies room, he follows me and fucks me in the hallway or Ladies room. Even when someone else comes along, he just keeps pounding his cock in me and we give them a nice little show. I don't think he or I could really ever do this, but it would be nice to be so horny that we would do this.

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