Big Clits versus Small Clits

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From DysturbedSoul
I beg to differ with most of the women here about clit size being unimportant. It's important to ME. I am a female who's been having sex for 25 years but I've never had an orgasm or even pleasurable feelings from my clitoris or the area surrounding it. I can't find my clitoris head so I'm guessing it's miniscule. A urologist I went to see once said it looked "shriveled." I then had hormonal blood tests done, took testosterone therapy, saw a sexologist and other therapists, but nothing has helped.

I've looked at diagrams and photos of clits but that doesn't help me figure anything out. I feel so stupid, and cheated. I never developed masturbating naturally and I hate trying to masturbate now. It just frustrates me and makes me cry out of anger. Vibrators either don't feel good or like anything, and I don't enjoy fingering myself. I have no pleasurable sensations in the region of my genitalia. I have sexual thoughts, desires and feelings, can get lubricated by  desire, love sexy men and visual stimulation, but sexual acts are just disappointing, and somewhat pointless to me.

I just continue to have sex for my husband's benefit - to make him feel loved - and he's equally clueless about how to help me out. I would love to have just an average size clitoris, or at least one I could find.  Maybe then it would work! I guess I have a little big(ger) "clit envy" after reading the posts here. It seems to me that a female clit of some detectable size (average or large) is easier to find, manipulate and work with. Many of the women here who are proud of their clits prove that point by what they wrote. Wish I were you !

From Scared
I thought I was the only one out there with a abnormally large clit. I am so relieved to find out I'm not. But it is 2.5 inches and it sticks out like a sore thumb whenever I wear my swim suit. I never knew guys liked it so much. My ex. boyfriend I slept with was completely turned off by it and left and never came back.  :(

From TBR
I am amazed at the insight this has brought. I am in my late 50's and my girlfriend is early 60's. I was devastated when that old dog E.D. hit our love life right in the guts. We both have found oral sex to be a lifesaver now.

My partner has a normal size clit I believe, but most important she has a little stinger I call it that pokes me in the tongue now and then. The shaft of her clit gets hard and hangs out but this little stinger fascinates me to no end.

G-Spot stimulation (by an inserted finger) is getting to be a regular thing too. I'm glad her apartment has good sound deadening qualities cause she will get quite verbal on most occasions.

Where was all this info and technique 15 years ago?

From Sunshine4u
Hi there everyone, I am glad that I found this site. I am a 39 double plus size woman with a large clit. I have always been self conscious of it until a few months ago. I have been married a few times but my husbands never seemed to enjoy it. Recently, I visited a new ob/gyn doctor for my yearly physical and she was amazed at my clit. My left lip turns in slightly too. She looked at it, pressed on it, and even asked me did it hurt. I said no. Then she called a couple of other people in the room to look at it. I was really embarrassed then.

I am only 5"4. My friend introduced me to a guy she worked with who is 6"7. We hit it off and started dating. He is wonderful. We decided not to do the penetration thing but we would sway oral favors until later. He began foreplay and he got my clit all aroused and erect. I have never measured it but it almost two inches, and yes it swells up and hangs outside of my lips after stimulation. Sometimes it takes all day or night for the swelling to go down.

Anyway he got me all excited and it fell into his mouth and he had a fit. He jumped up and turned the light on and said "what was that? I snatched the covers up and said nothing. He pulled them away and opened my legs and looked at it. He immediately started again. Well he told me that I was just perfect and I cannot keep his lips and tongue off of me.

From Lore A
I am so glad for this proper authority for Big or Small Clits.

I can see from reading other participants that there are a lot of girls with oversized clits. I wondered how so many at the same time. But I think just going to myself. As many other it's quite common to be shy or insecure what people say or think about bigger ones. I think we all have been in such situations. Therefore it is very good to have a place like this were openhearted declarations about oversized clits or small ones can bee seen.

After reading the participants and had the honor to see my own words in this site. I will say have been much more secure about my big clit and from earlier shyness I have moved to bee proud of my big clit and I dont hesitant if I am at public bath or such to freely walk through. We all have what we are born with. Big or small.

From Rose
Well I'm so glad to have found this site. I'm kinda worried that I have a large clit, it made me self conscious about how it would look and what my partner would think of the way my genitals look.

I must say my clit is really sensitive and I wouldn't like to reduce it surgically, because that would change the sensitivity, I guess I should be happy with what I have.

I see that big clits are common and mine isn't as big as some of the ones commented here. Thank you so much for sharing , your comments made me feel so much better about my looks

From Lore A
I have a oversized clit measuring 2.5 inches erected. I am mad when I hear people talking about bigger clits as freaky or sickening. Get use to it that we are all different. No one talks about a bigger cock like that. I really enjoy what I got and I am happy no doc cut my sweet clit off. And I love to masturbate.

From Dr. D
In a synopsis I would inject my opinion as to a large clitoris being more easily stimulated and aroused than a smaller one.  Stimulation from early years would create a more sensitive bodily function.  But the ultimate decision would be the persons brain.

From Sugabrown
I am glad to find a forum about a subject that Ii hold close to myself. I am in love with very large clits and labia. It is a part of loving that deserve attention to detail in the highest degree. Multi-orgasmic squirters who are stimulated by clitoral stimulation are special women who deserve attention to their specific endowments. Any discussion concerning this subject matter will be greatly appreciated.

From Anonymous
During my teenage years, I was very self-conscious of my abnormally large clit. I knew there had to be bigger ones, and I was right. Still didn't change how I felt. I grew up wanting to have surgery on my clit. I wanted to try anything to make it smaller.

When I got my first real boyfriend, we decided to have sex after a few months of being together. My heart was pounding inside my chest as he unbuttoned my pants.

A few seconds later, my panties were off. I was scared that he would get freaked out and lose his interest.

Instead, he went down on me until I came. I later explained to him how I felt about my clit. He assured me that he loved it, and wouldn't want anything smaller. After that, my sex life has been great. My self-esteem has went up, as well as my ability to come.

From Wellwisher
Sexual pleasure is in the mind and mood and it has nothing to do with the size of the clit or dick. The intense desire, liking of partners, mood and method will result in orgasms and its intensity.

So enjoy the thing which is available to you and feel blessed.

From K
I am a 25/blk/f [black female] - I have a very large clit but I absolutely love it and so does my boyfriend of 3yrs. He compares my clit to Vanessa Del Rio but I am still in training he says (lol). I often masturbate with my bullet (on full blast) right in the middle of my clit. I have explosive orgasms when I am self pleasing and with my boyfriend and have squirted on him on several occasions, on his face and cock. I'm sure a woman with a much smaller clit could do the same. We were all made this way for a reason.

I will say that I did not think that my clit was this big 6 years ago - does the size of your lover affect the size of your clit?

From Anonymous
Like most women, I have never talked about my big clit because it's not the easiest thing to bring up in conversation. She is very big and though men never talk about it, they love it!

When I was younger I felt strange about it because I thought I was the only one.  Like I've heard people say, "They come in all shapes and sizes." I get an enormous amount of pleasure from men's curiosity about her and I just let them explore and check it out for themselves.  They leave wanting more. 

Couldn't be happier with my BC.

From Maria A
My clit is different, large and protruding (my hood does not cover it up) and as a teenage, I was very self conscious of my boy-ish figure (narrow hips and extremely small breasts). But, it was my extremely large and unique clit that worried me more as I headed off to college. My dorm was originally built as a men's dorm and had large open showers with about a dozen shower heads, so there was little privacy, and I had this big thing sticking out for every girl in the shower to see.

I liked to masturbate rubbing against things. My first favorite was straddling the arm of our couch and rubbing my clit - when I started to come, I would squeeze my legs together tight. I had my first lesbian experience in college with a girl in the room next to mine. We would get into a scissor position, puss to puss and grind till we had multiple orgasms - rubbing our juices on each other. But, her favorite was going down on me. I was very self conscious at first but I loved the feel of her mouth sucking my clit and her warm lips caressing my erect clit. She would make me come really quick, but kept sucking and kissing it till I could hardly stand it and I would have a huge dripping O that lasted, it seemed, forever.

I now consider my extra large clit as a major benefit to my lifestyle.

From Lilith
Small Clit, that's me. I can't say what is or isn't normal because in truth all I know is mine. I have a small clit and cannot reach climax through its stimulation. I actually had my hood pierced and this didn't, as I was told it would, help with achieving orgasm. In fact, when I went to get my hood piercing the guys, (yes their were multiple who wanted to pierce me and watch me be pierced) mentioned that my hood was almost too small to pierce. Fortunately there was just enough.

I have found that over stimulation of my small clit, can be painful and unbearable. Perhaps, I am frigid. Because I actually have to push some away if they have at it for too long. Kind of like sticking my clit in a light socket. Perhaps I don't orgasm because I don't allow them to continue but, my body will not allow me, to allow them the pleasure of torturing me, so I am at a loss of orgasms. I cannot even bring myself through masturbation to climax, in fact I have only ever climaxed through the actual act of penetration of a real penis during sex. In truth only one person has brought me to climax, and it was never a sure thing.

From Gia
I, like most of the people who have commented, feel that size does not denote ability to orgasm. However, I must tell you people, I love big clits. The girl who took my virginity had a clit the size of my thumb and I have been obsessed with oversized ones ever since! My own is a bit larger than average, but not "huge". I have another lover who's clitty is about the size of a peanut M&M, and she complains about it being stimulated all the time. I think its because her hood is too small for her glans.

My own clitoris is a little bigger than a green pea, and I am not only multi-orgasmic, I am a "squirter" as well. All in all, it comes down to a visual thing for me. It gets me going to see a big one. I have lived most of my adult life as a bi-sexual, and I only came out as a lesbian last year. I always preferred men with large penises, and I will always have a thing for girls with big fatties!

What matters most is to enjoy and be good to one another.

From Anonymous
Hi, its been fascinating reading everyone's entries. I always considered my clit hood as my "clit" and for it to be quite big. After looking at images of big clits though I've realised mine doesn't look anything like them, in fact it's hidden under a big clit hood.

So I think my clit isn't as big as I thought. What are peoples opinions on big hoods? *blush*, now I've realised how many people have big clits, I'm wondering how many have a longer hood...? are they sexy..?

From Anonymous
I just wanna know is there anyway you can determine the size of a girl's clit through her structure: i.e. men with big feet have big dick. How about girls?

From Anonymous
I have a very small clit, and I have wonderful orgasms. I'm able to squirt on my own with clit simulation alone. Size doesn't matter.

From Fire Girl
Have read a few of you participant out there. Funny reading!

It seems me like many of you must vindicate if you are small or big lips. Some have found out that size doesn't matter. That's true! Personally I like to read you all. It excites me quite good. Am I allowed to say that?

Big or small? I have a oversized clitoris. It can be frustrating sometimes. I have heard girls say when they see me in a sauna or somewhere else when the subject was coming up. (I whouldn't like to have one like yours.) Tactless! Yet they havn't seen me erected thou. But they don't know that I have a lot of fun when I'm playing with myself. 

Can I talk about the size? My sweet one is sticking out between my labia when erected 2 1/2 inches. I am able to pull my hood all the way over my gland. And I like it! And to be noticed is that I never have been taken any stereoids. I was born this way. We are all different. And after all. Who cares!

From Bob
I've been with a number of women, and my current girlfriend has by far the smallest clit of any girl I've been with. All of the girls I've been with, except her, had a shaft, that, when they are excited, extends quite a ways above the head of the clit, was covered by the clitoral hood, and is considerably hard when erect, easy to rub, and quite sensitive to stimulation. My current girlfriend has no shaft above the head, and the head of her clit is quite small.

My girlfriend was a virgin when we met, and she always thought that her clit was not very sensitive. This was because she has always had to rub her clit very vigorously with several fingers to achieve an orgasm when she masturbates. Even though she has been giving herself orgasms regularly since elementary school, a more gentle kind of rubbing won't bring her to climax when she jills herself. However, her masturbatory climaxes always came pretty fast, within a minute or so after she started rubbing, and she could always orgasm at least several times in a masturbation session.

When I first started licking her clit, it was unusually small and was actually kind of hard to find. It was also not that responsive to my licks. However, as I licked her over the course of a couple of weeks (after we first met), her clit head actually began to swell to a larger size, became more and more sensitive, and it became easier and easier for her to orgasm from being licked—now she loves the licking sessions that I give her so much, and always orgasms. She now enjoys this more than any other kind of sex, likes to lay back and enjoy the plateau phase during the licking (which lasts about 5-10 minutes before the orgasm, much longer than her masturbatory plateaus), and each licking ends with a screaming orgasm that leaves her worn out. I hope she reads this and knows how much I love her and enjoy giving her pleasure!

Her clit has also become more sensitive to the touch of my fingers, and she can orgasm easier as time goes on (I pull back the hood of her clit and rub the head directly with my finger that's wet from her juices). She also comes from consistent, hard thrusting when we fuck, which some girls that I've been with that had bigger clits didn't. Her clit head is also getting bigger after all this workout that I'm giving it—even when she is not excited she notices that it is considerably bigger. However, she still seems to have no noticeable clitoral shaft, even when she is very excited.

Does clit size seem to matter when it comes to sensitivity? Maybe, but it's not an unsolvable problem!

From Baz
Neither my wife nor I have any idea what size her clit is. We've never bothered to get the tape measure out. All we know is that I only have to touch it with a finger, lick it with my tongue, bite it with teeth, then she immediately breaks into a frenzied ecstasy of wriggling and moaning. She prefers my masturbating her with fore and index fingers and within ten minutes she will be very close to her first orgasm, her second will follow five minutes later and her third after another ten minutes. Only then will she push my fingers away, completely exhausted and semi-conscious, but not before I've been told off for being 'too rough' and lacking the firm but cultured touch of some of her men friends.

News flash everyone--It's Not Just Size! In all aspects.

1. Small clits do not equal low sex drive or response.
2. Large labia are not a sign that a women has had a lot of sex (like that would be anyone's business anyway.)
3. A large penis means very little unless the owner knows what to do with it.
4. A small penis is not the end of the world.

Like Ann, the very first responder to this subject, said -- Size...jeez, are we ever going to get over it?

From Ann
I hear ya! It has never, ever occurred to me to compare my clit size to anyone and if there's a better orgasm out there, I don't want to know because the ones I have are about all I can take.

Personally, I think smaller would be better. All those nerve endings in a more compact bundle--yow! Anyway, if you want to drive me really insane, clitoral stimulation alone isn't the way to do it. I think the size of the damned thing is less relevant than how it is touched, when, and by whom and if all the planets are in proper alignment, nobody has to touch mine at all, at least not towards the end.

Size....jeeze! Are we ever gonna get over it?

From J. Corvo
Well, seems to me that this thread has given a damn fool premise a lot of weight. It has always seemed to me that a woman's orgasm is the coming together of a great many factors, none of which are related to size. For starters there are desire, excitement, ovulation, comfort, discomfort, health, age, relaxation, stress, probably about thirty different kinds of chemistry at the cellular level, freshness of the relationship.To limit the entire experience to the size of a clitoris seems to leave out the rest of the woman where the orgasm really happens.

From Laila
Holy Moses! Dear "Onohombre" Please, Please don't move with your head into the wall. Cause that's what you are doing right now. [see Onohombre's entry below] I can admit that bigger clits in a certain way sometimes can be more or easier touchable. (But) it isn't necessarily so that the feelings must be stronger because of the size. To admit I am bi and I have had the honor to meet women with big clits how didn't have that much arousal feelings. But, I still have a really good friend with a big one who is a horny little chic. And, my closest friend which I spend a lot of horny times with, Dear "Onohombre" her clit isn't not really visible.

Only if you seek very hard and close you could find it. And she is the horniest of sweet goats you could meet. Believe me!I think I know what it'd all about. (It excites you!) Do admit! No harm in that. One of the participants somewhere on this lovely site said. "The brain is the horny part" or something like that. I agree!So honey, love what you see. Don't stop love if the clit is big or small.Excuse me folks if my spellings or word orders isn't correct. This isn't my mothers tongue. But the feelings is the same wherever you are. Love you all.

From Unohombre
Hello all, I hope not to offend. I do not mean to be "a bio-nerd" or a "scientific-sexualist". But clit size may matter more than most of us think. Here are some possible reasons:First, a key hormone to make our clits and penises erect and horny and come is testosterone. Yes women and men both have a certain amount of this hormone. Men may have more. Also, testosterone is the hormone that makes the clitoris and female genitals (male genitals and penises) grow larger when we are juveniles and adults. Therefore, some of the ladies who have more testosterone may in fact end up not only with a larger clit but also with more testosterone in their system; which may make them hornier.

You may notice more things, such as noticing that sometimes a larger clit is on a more muscular female who may also have strong looking hands or that a lady who is more forward and more aggressive sexually may surprise you later with a large clit. (testosterone is also an "aggressive" hormone) Finally, since testosterone is a key component to make us orgasm, bigger clits and more testosterone may work hand-in-hand to make a lady who is gifted in this area seem more sexy to men and women.I therefore have to say, I prefer a larger clit because since I am a man I would gamble that a lady with a larger clit is hornier and a relationship with her more in synch with male libido and more close in desired frequency. In addition I would think a female who has a very low testosterone level and is not horny or cannot understand male horniness and they end up thinking men are really from Mars. 

This all starts to make sense if you envision that men are from the planet Testosterone and we are glad some ladies join us there, and we wonder what planet those small clitted un-horny females are from, but we are all human and sex is only one part of our total lives and beings. When we die we are rarely remembered for our sexuality or testosterone level.

From Shar
Well, there certainly seems to be an abundance of women with large clits. I on the other hand am a sister to Anabelle and Mel. [see their entries below] I'm like them in that I have large labia, am quite sensitive, with plenty of natural lubrication and I certainly have orgasms. But, I do have one little problem, which is I can't achieve orgasm through masturbation. 

Here, relaxation and the clit seems to be key. (Relaxation is another issue, I used to masturbate vigorously as a child and got a severe reprimand which unfortunately ended that activity for some time.) As for the physical side, I've been on the hunt for that little button, and I'm frustrated. My husband, with a much easier vantage point, has little insight to offer. I'm very happily married and satisfactorily mated, but sometimes I wish I could find some sort of sexual virtuoso of women (Dale comes to mind) willing to explore and to help me discover these hidden secrets.

From Anonymous
I have a huge clit and I do have really great orgasms. But my problem is I have better orgasms than when I'm with a guy. I have perfected my technique and find it hard to deviate from that. I still come when a guy eats me though. I think it makes sense a big clit correlates with the amount and intensity of orgasms since there's more nerve endings.

From 2 inch damsel
I have been blessed with a 2 inch clit, I love it because if a guy touches it, he has to see it, and if I let him see it he wants to suck it. It starts out as an inch and grows to its fullness upon the proper stimulation. Yes it gets hard. I don't think there is a major difference in the a small one but I love mine, and so do a select few of my oral sex partners, past and present.

From Drew
I just love women with big clits, the bigger the better. I'd love to see a woman become erect in front of me and have her clit poke out thru her lips. For those women who are uncomfortable with the size of their clit, I assure you that many men (and women) just love it. I'd love to be able to find more pictures online.

From Marion
Nice for possibilities to participate. I love this site. I just saw this participant, Maria. [see Maria's entry below] She had a question if anybody else have a clit head as exposed. I have to admit that there are two of us then. Cause I have a clitoris which show too. 

I am not that big as a few participants so generously mentioned. I can tell mine is a bended little creature. This skin or hood which keep my clit down makes my clit bulge out in the upper part (of course) only when I'm erected. When I sit, for an example, and I have my legs wide spread I have seen in the mirror that my clit shows quite good as my pussy hair parts. And when I am in such position and become erect my clitoris sticks out very visibly. If I'm standing up when erected my clit head still is visible. That bothers me.

It have happened a few times when I am in the sauna or showering. I can have those horny feelings when I peep on other girls and I felt this familiar feeling going around inside me. I know by then that I have a visible erection. Most of the time I usually have a towel to hide in but it happened once I didn't have one. I saw in the corner of my eyes on my way out that at least one girl stared between my legs.

I know I have to ignore this and act natural. I always try to say to myself: It's just and erection, no more no less. We are all shaped a little different—aren't we?

From Maria
Glad to find this conversation. I'm 24 years old and I have always thought that I'm quite a rarity as I have got a very big clit and really big inner labia that hang down below the outer one's, which actually are just very slight. The clit is about 1 inch long when not erected and it sticks out so that the gland is always fully exposed. This means you can easily see it all the time as the hood doesn't cover it at all.

It's always been quite big but as a teenager it grew so that it would pop out forever - I guess the hood was left too small to hide it. For that reason it's very unprotected which sometimes annoys me. Yes, it's used to the friction it receives all the time, but it's still quite sensitive.

I basically feel it all the time when I'm walking or sitting or what ever. Sometimes I think it would be cool if it could hide even for a while, but it's always there bare naked screaming "here am I!" I wonder if I'm the only woman with a clit like this?

I love it when it's sucked, and it really blows my mind. You just have to wake it up a little bit because it's used to all that rubbing it gets everyday in my pants just when I walk and so on. Normally I take about 30 min to come... so I think it's quite slow. But when it's there it's really strong.

From Ashely
I honestly love from all of my heart to read about you participants. I don't know if it's to rude to ask you (Kitty) But, can you tell about your size. Maybe this forum don't allow such questions. But for the sake of Big Clits vs Small Clits I will open my heart. As I am shaved, my clitoris even not erected is visible with it's head between my labia. Not that much. But erected and with my hood pulled in I'm measuring 2 3/4 inches. Everything is in a relative matter.

Even if I in public places like sauna bath can see that my size is noticeable by someone. It don't worry me. I am more then happy with what I got. And my erection I'm able to save for home.

From Kitty
I love my Kitty and you would to! Wow! Seems like big clits are more common than I thought. A doctor told me at 18 that I had an "abnormally large clit" which made me start comparing it to others. I've searched several sites and found pictures of "huge clits" and still can't find one as big as mine. Not to mention my inner lips are fatter and longer than normal. You can see my clit through my panties even when I am not aroused. 

I have never felt insecure about it or questioned my sexuality, in fact, I love the fact that my Kitty is special and different. Men and women have both enjoyed my Kitty, it's easy to locate and stimulate, and when I come it is earth shattering! On a rare occasion I have even squirted love juice while climaxing. 

For those women who are self conscious about there clits, take it from the biggest clitted woman I know, love every part of you no matter what shape or size and others will love it to! Happy love making!

From Don
I am a very sensual lover. (Oh, and did I mention, humble!) It is most important to arouse the women I am with. I simply find a large clitoris exceptionally stimulating. I feel it is magical to wrap my tongue around a large clitoris and slither it down around and behind the clitoral shaft down the little hole the shaft protrudes through. A large clitoris is wonderful to pull in my mouth and ever so lightly gum and make it swell. 

I have a strong feminine side (shish, don't tell the guys) While I am still very much a true Gentleman and virile spiritually, I sense what a woman feels and wants. A large clitoris is simply more to love and fondle. I do not believe sensations are governed by size. Fortunately I am large. I do feel large is just a little more fun and leaves one breathless.

From Ashely
We are big and we are small. We all have different ways to behave when the sexual excitements hitting us. Some of us don't have the big urge and some like me can't have enough.

I am bi with a slight tune more for women. My clit is quite big. I am shaved cause I like to see when I'm erect, my clit head sticking out between my pussy lips.

This girl I am with has a small clitoris even not really visible. (But) I can tell she is a goat horny girl. More horny then me and my clit is visible for sure and showing quite good when erect.

So to be honest. I think being satisfied with what we are born with and to enjoy every arousal excited moment in our lives is something to catch and hold on to.

From Don
Gosh. I've never known there were so many clit experts. Guess I'll add my male observer comments. I've been with any number of clits. If they have one thing in common it is that they almost all responded to proper stimulation (with concomitant erection, swelling, dilation, and lubrication), and especially stimulation with my tongue. Just how they responded was quite different. In almost every case it was a learning by feedback process, i.e., asking what felt good and watching response. 

I do find big clits exciting, and I love women who can strip their hoods back leaving their clit glans open to my tongue and eyes. BUT, with proper stimulation they all come, and I have recognized no effect of clit size on number of orgasms or how fast they happen. Good technique, feedback, and patience seem to be the keys to orgasms.

In the area of for what it is worth - I see my love of big clits as being related to them being the homologue of big cocks.

- I love intercourse, but have learned that most women like/need clitoral stimulation to come while having it. Cocks are a poor instrument for such, and her or my finger work oh so much better.

- clit glans with the hood pulled back can often be way too sensitive

- sucking on any size clit and the adjacent lips is often a sure fire way to a come.

Just my experience.

From Halo
I am tiny. My ex called me half tac because I am half the size of a tic tac, and I love it.

From Bi-girl
I have a large clit and I tend to like other girls with large clits too. I met a girl at a party with a small-ish clit and it wasn't good. I sucked her for what seemed like hours and could not make her come. The worst part was that she bucked around a lot and because her clit was small, I couldn't keep it in my mouth. I felt that if I could keep in contact with it longer, she would get off. Oh well.

I think my clit being bigger does make it easier for me to orgasm. I don't know if it's responsible for the intensity of my orgasms though.

From Alan
What a profound website! First, I happened upon the penis size letters and discovered the different shapes and sizes and how they affected the women and men. I'm 64, married 36 yrs the first time to a beautiful woman with a very flat chest, lots of pubic hair and a small hidden clit. I loved her because of how she enhanced my life. Unfortunately, she was terribly insecure about her body and wasn't able to be sensual and sexy and being married was a struggle. I learned to give her lots of foreplay and tonguing to bring her to orgasm, sometimes even inserting a finger into her anus, but when she did come, it was a quiet event for her. 

After the divorce and at 59, I found an abundance of women dying for sex, literally. I am not large, about 5.5", cut and of average thickness. Women would give me unasked for oral sex on the first or second date. However, I went with one lady in her early 50's who had a 3/4" clit. It was just beautiful and she knew what it did for her sexuality. I attended to that little clitty like it was a jewel and made her feel comfortable having an enlarged one. However, like men with extra large penis's.....there's more to the size. I found this woman the most difficult person to ever be with. Psycohotic, smoked to excess, filthy home, animals on the tables and counters and in the bed. She'd been physically and emotionally abused in her first two marriages and was ruined as a lover. 

I recently married a loving and sensuous woman who has a smaller clit and has orgasms with little difficulty. I've learned to use my finger, my precum or lubricant to make things more slippery. What a joy being with a person who responds. The clit size is absolutely immaterial to me. We men just adjust to whatever our lover has. Thank you

From Dyane
Wow.. at last a site worth it's name. I think I have just a bit bigger then average clit, no more no less. But I admit that really bigger one excites me quite good. However this is only my opinion. I was sauna bathing which is a regular habit for me. And last time I was really amazed from what I experienced.

Right in front of me was this girl. There was only two of us in there for the moment. We chatted a little one thing and another. A few minutes later the heat was heavy but good. Then she spread her legs and leaned her back to the wall. Nothing unusual with that. But my eyes without letting her see me peeped between her legs.

Her clitoris was huge! Sticking all out. The gland was half uncapped and from what I saw her clit wasn't erected. My face was probably red from the heat but that sight made me blush even more I felt.

Can I be free to say, from what I saw did make me feel very horny and excited. And if she wasn't erect, I can tell, right in front of her I became that way. So Big Clits vs Small Clits, it's absolutely only one way for acknowledgement. It needs to be talked about. Loved what I saw!

From Deborha
So nice I found this site. I read with pleasure feeling more calm from (you) participants. It's easy to feel uncertain when it comes to such delicate subject as clit sizes. I haven't done any comparing stuffs lately since school time. I think I was a bit bigger in clit size already then but it didn't show that much those days as it does now. 

I don't know but I think I am happy for having a bigger clit. It shows quite good when I am really horny and erected. Anyhow I am not so much for inserting anything in my vagina. It always hurts and I'm not that big either. But instead I am well favoured with the size of my clitoris. When erected I can have a nice grip from my fingers and I like pulling my hood when I masturbate. 

I am always worried when I meet a guy. First I do not enjoy intercourse because of that hurting feelings. And I don't dare to say, if you want to masturbate me instead. This have made me a little uninterested of guys. (But) I'm not complaining as long as I enjoy to do it the needful way I like best. "My Way"

From Kasey
I have a large clit, about 1 1/2 inches. I have always been extremely self-conscious even though my boyfriend says he absolutely loves it. When looking at Playboy or other nude models I never see large clits and always envy the way other women look "closed" and "compact", where as my clit pushes open my lips and basically screams "here I am!"

I'm so glad I found this discussion, reading about other women with large clits so I know I'm not a freak or a hermaphrodite as I have joked about with my boyfriend (which he doesn't like because he says I'm beautiful). It helps a lot knowing I'm not alone, and that other men actually like/prefer them! I think I want to start a support group for women with large clits who are insecure.

Oh, and on the debate on whether clit size effects orgasms, I doubt it. I'm big and so are my orgasms, but my friend is tiny and she has big ones too. I don't think it matters at all but I just know my pleasure center is easier to find.

From Adrian
I have just read the posting by Angel [see her entry below] who tells us that she has only had one boyfriend her whole life because she has a big clitoris, labia and squirts upon orgasm. All I can tell you Angel is that there are many many who desire that and never get the opportunity to meet such wonderfully blessed women as yourself, so take heart. I am thirty six and still waiting to meet a lady that has your gifts. Be strong and confident if the guy/girl doesn't love all of you, they are not the ones for you.

From Tom
Dear Ladies, I Don't know what all the fuss is about I don't care what size her Clit is as long as I can find it  I've been with several women and only 1 that I couldn't find hers. It was tiny and just a hard lil bump under her hood. She didn't seem to mind when I was licking and sucking on it. I just wanted to make her feel good. 

I love giving pleasure and even though I do like a big clit, I like lil ones also , as long as she likes what I'm doing I'm happy. 

From Mel
I'm the same as Annebell [see entry below]. I have large inner labia and a clit that I can't even find. I'm not sexually active, but I masturbate regularly and I'm multi-orgasmic so I know the clit is there. It's too sensitive to touch directly, which makes it harder to find.

I've looked with a mirror and tried pulling back the hood, but I don't see anything. It just won't come out of hiding. But as for sensitivity, having a smaller clit has worked for me. I've never had problems reaching orgasm.

[ Mel, just so you know this is perfectly normal, read the following "Disappearing Act" at our favorite website:  www.sexdictionary.info ]

From Graham
I don't believe that the size matters, as long as it's not buried under the hood so it can be stimulated properly. It sometimes helps to have it pierced, with a ring or barbell which holds it out and makes it easier to find, but why would you be with a man who doesn't know where to look?

From Angel
I have only ever had one boyfriend because of the size of my clitoris, and I'm too afraid to have another relationship. My clitoris is about 1 1/2 inches long when excited and resembles the head of a circumcised penis, and to make matters worse I squirt when I orgasm. My boyfriend laughed at me in a kind of nervous but nasty way and looked shocked.

I think I would rather be normal, whatever that is. I guess I'm going to be spending the rest of my life with a dildo for a friend as I can't bring myself to have sex with another man. Since being on the internet I've tried to find a forum for people who appreciate large clitoris's but there is nothing, only websites where the women are treated like circus freaks. I'm very unhappy and wish I could find someone who accepted me for what I am and, what I've got.

From Relief
I was wondering all about the size of clits seeing that I have a big one myself! And after reading this I know I'm not the only one with a big clit... but how do you tell the guys you have a big clit - do you just let them find out for themselves or warn them?

From Annabelle
I have large inner labia, and a teeny, tiny little clit (not hidden by my lips, just small on it's own). I'm single and celibate, but still have orgasms every other day or so. Notice I said orgasms, plural! My little clit works just fine and I'm multi-orgasmic, always having at least three orgasms each time (without a vibrator), so I'm happy with it, whatever the size!

From Natedog
Big clit, small clit, a good lover knows where the clit is and how to work it. Education is the key.

From Younisa
This site make me so very curious and excited. To you "Big Clit Sista" I thought mine was quite big. And I am so lucky to hear that there are more of you Sistas with big ones. I am so satisfied with what I got between my legs.

The matter about big or small clits and which ones gives must satisfaction, I think depends only what your mind is up to.

From Big Clit Sista
Well readers honestly I wonder regarding the large clit issue. I have an extremely large clit and I have been sexual since childhood for some reason. I can usually masturbate several times a day but one thing I have noticed is when I have reached orgasm my clit can sometimes hurt and I have to wait. 

I am also bi so I enjoy pleasing a women but I have found that I prefer women with larger clits I love to suck on them as well as rub my clit against theirs. So for the record large clit or women with large clits appear to be more sexual.

From OTE
From my limited experience, clit size means nothing. It is what is going on inside her head. Make love to her mind and the rest just has to become memorable.

Aesthetically, I prefer a big clit, but my current lover has a clit 1/2" and multiple orgasms are the norm.  So forget size and concentrate on technique. For the guys, make sex memorable for her and never worry about having an eager lover again. Ladies, quit fretting over clit size and teach your lover what you need. If your lover isn't trainable, get one that is.

Lastly, guys be as Eve Ensler calls it: a Bob.

[Oh my! We adore men who read Eve Ensler's Vagina Monologues, and understand the erotic potential of being a Bob.]

From Younisa
This is for you Stacy [see Stacy's entry below]. I read your message. Please don't be annoyed what so ever. There is no limit of clit sizes. Average clits from what I know is still clits and it don't have nothing with hermaphrodites. You are a normal women even if your clit is bigger then many others. Mine is almost 2 3/4 when erected and I am as normal as any women. My clit is very sensitive and I can tell I have a lot of fun by myself doing a lot of funny things with this my sweet honey clit. So, enjoy what you got, be proud.

From Anonymous
Like the debate on penis size, the size of clit does not matter. The technique of stimulation is the main issue here. A larger/protruding clit may be better for cunnilingus act, otherwise, smaller or a modest size clit is sensitive and brings about voluptuous orgasm with right techniques applied.

I personally view a modest size or hidden clit is more feminine and such a vagina is more aesthetic to look at. Even though who are worried about smaller clit, do some regular exercise by, first washing it with warm water and then rubbing and tugging the clit with vaseline or olive oil for about five minutes at least twice a day. In 6 to 12 month it will come out of the hood. You need not venture plastic surgery.

From Stacy
What is average size for a clit and what is too big for a clit? After watching porn I became really self-conscious about my clit cause I think I have a big clit (about the size of a pea when aroused). Like someone said, I read somewhere that you're a hermaphrodite if you have a large clit. This annoyed me so much I asked my family doctor about this. She took a look and said I'm normal but I feel like she's lying to make me feel better.

Can someone tell me what is too large and average for a clit?

 [Stacy, you can find info about clit size at the following URL: sexdictionary.info/clitoris.html]

From Angela
My clit is small to start and then pops out the more it is played with. I find that the more I rub it myself, I feel it swell and then pull on it to pop it out of the hood.

I have a long large hood that really swells up and then my clit sticks out at the end, but I get plenty of stimulation from rubbing the hood alone. I have been this way since I used a sucking sexual aid on my clit and it showed me how the clit pops out when it is swollen and played with more. Now my clit is my friend and I love it very much.

From Alchemist
First let me say that I have liked every clitoris with which I have become acquainted. My ex-wife had what seems like a pretty average size clit. My girlfriend's is somewhat larger. They were both fun to play with leading to plenty of orgasms. 

My girlfriend is a little quicker to get started. Is that size related? Who knows. After an hour or three of orgasms they each had sufficiency and the ten minutes difference at the beginning makes no difference at all to anybody. 

Visually I would have to say that I like both larger labia and larger clitoris. But regardless of relative size I am very pleased to pet the pussy until she purrs and purrs and purrs.

From John
I've been with many ladies during my life. A year ago I married a lady with a much larger than average clit (who was a virgin, by the way). It looks like a baby penis almost, especially when aroused. I have never seen anyone able to reach orgasm as fast and as often as she does.

Compared to the ladies that I have known with much smaller or hidden clits, some of whom came easily enough after five or ten minutes of stimulation, my wife can come within minutes and she can come again after ten seconds if I resume stimulating her. And that can go on forever until I tire. 

So, there is no doubt in my mind that, all other things being equal, having a large clit makes the woman able to have orgasms more quickly and more frequently. Of course, I have no way of knowing the comparative quality of the orgasms (even though they all seem big). That's my input. Hope it helps.

From Carol
I separated from my husband for a short period end of 2004 but we got back together again April '05. He's circumcised and has a great cock that I've always enjoyed sucking. While apart I had two sexual partners, both uncut, both younger (they were in their thirties, I'm early fifties) but uncut I did not enjoy sucking their cocks one iota! 

Probably more to do with being married to hubby for twenty years or more (and being used to his cock almost exclusively) but sucking on uncut cock and jerking off uncut cock was very unappealing with too much lose flesh, although I admit that both uncut cocks in either my pussy or anus was an experience really no different to hubby's cut cock.

From Ghost Rider
One of the Anonymous posted statement was wanting to know what is the best method to use when having intercourse with his uncircumcised cock. The one thing I can tell you about entering a woman's vagina with an uncircumcised cock (as I have one) is when you encounter a lady with a really tight vagina is: First make sure she is well lubricated (wet) before trying to push your cock into her. Second, as the vagina is tight, it will be hard to push your cock into her. Pull the skin out over the head of your cock and start it in this way. It seems to make the head a little smaller and the skin helps the cock slide in easier. Let her adjust to your size before starting the dance of love. This is an advantage over the circumcised cock as they don't have this skin to help the cock slide in. 

As far as the other tricks and techniques are concerned, you and the lady just have to experiment and find out what suits you the best. What one person likes may not be the next person's cup of tea. In case your foreskin is not where it will slide back over the head of your cock, you may have to go to the Md. to get it modified enough so it will slide back without causing discomfort or pain. Unless absolutely necessary, I wouldn't have or let the Md do a circumcision on it if I were you. Besides, if you are into piercings, this is one piercing you can get that a guy with a circumcised cock can't get. If you should happen to go for a piercing, it may be painful to the lady and you may have to remove it to have intercourse.

From Anonymous
I really just wanna know how to "work" my own uncut cock during sex. Do I just put it in with the foreskin over the head or do I pull the skin back and if I pull it back, how far?

From JJ
Twelve reasons to be happy to be uncut. The foreskin has twelve known functions. They are:
1. to cover and bond with the synechia so as to permit the development of the mucosal surface of the glans and inner foreskin.
2. to protect the infant's glans from feces and ammonia in diapers.
3. to protect the glans penis from friction and abrasion throughout life.
4. to keep the glans moisturized and soft with emollient oils.
5. to lubricate the glans.
6. to coat the glans with a waxy protective substance.
7. to provide sufficient skin to cover an erection by unfolding.
8. to provide an aid to masturbation and foreplay.
9. to serve as an aid to penetration.
10. to reduce friction and chafing during intercourse.
11. to serve as erogenous tissue because of its rich supply of erogenous receptors.
12. to contact and stimulate the G-spot of the female partner.

The above list was compiled from various sources by George Hill, from the following site
www.cirp.org/pages/anat/   

I'm 22 and uncut. I'm very happy to still have my foreskin. Of course, I didn't always feel that way. Living in the US, I'm in the minority. (However, I know I'm in the majority in the world.) Going through puberty and high school, I wished I was like everyone else. Well, I started doing some research on the internet about circumcision and have since changed my mind. I cherish my foreskin. Mother Nature knew what she was doing when she designed the penis. Mother's, I urge you to keep your son(s) the way they were when they were born whole.

From Elvira Wong
"Kayla" [see Kayla's entry below] - after working as a surgical nurse for the past 25 years I can state emphatically that your tale of a 3 year old boy's circumcision scar tearing apart is ridiculous. As for the assertion that a doctor - (assuming that this very tall tale is true!)- merely gave him a topical analgesic combined with antibiotic/anti-inflammatory as treatment, no doctor would risk a malpractice suit by doing so! The child would have been admitted to hospital immediately and sutures would have been applied under anesthetic.

I myself am neither for or against circumcision. it's a parental choice and should be left to them to decide without being subjected to harassment or propaganda one way or the other.

From Jon
Contrary to some views expressed here, there ARE significant health risks to be considered. Uncut males are four times as likely to contract AIDS from an infected female than a male who is cut ... the reason is that the skin behind the glans of an uncut cock is far thinner and it can be penetrated by the AIDS virus while the thicker skin of a cut cock resists the penetration of the virus. This has been scientifically demonstrated in the laboratory in addition to being proven by comparing African Tribes who cut all males at puberty versus neighboring African Tribes who forbid the practice. Due to the endemic conditions on that continent, efforts are being made to have all Tribes cut their boys, either at birth (preferable) or at puberty (ouch!!!)

In addition, unless a man with an uncut cock thoroughly cleans the area under the foreskin several times a day, waste will accumulate from sweat, piss and cum ... head cheese, if you will ... and it can be more distasteful than any Limburger you ever encountered ... not to mention that it is very prone to infection.

As a gay male, there is nothing worse than anticipating giving head to a gorgeous guy, only to find his cock is caked up with head cheese ...

From Frank
I have had the advantage of both worlds. I was uncut until my late 30's when because of an illness my foreskin shrank and began to split and bleed every time I had intercourse. I was married at this time (still married to the same lovely lady) and there were no complaints about sex. My wife liked to play with the foreskin before intercourse. After the operation to circumcise me we had to abstain until the scar tissue had healed. Sex, which had been good up to that point, became better as a result of the operation. My wife says I look better since I have been cut.

From Anonymous
I am a man living in the UK, and I am cut. I was not cut at birth, but at 7 years old, because I had had an infection. In the UK, and much of the rest of Europe, Jews get cut, and so do people that have medical reasons, but it does not happen as much as in the US. As I was pre-puberty when I was cut, I do not know what having an uncut cock feels like, but I think that a man with a cut cock will be able to last longer, due to the constant stimulation of the man's clothes. However, it stands to reason that the extra skin will allow an uncut man to slide more easily.

From Anonymous
Just to add to the other comments, the usage of hygiene reasons for cutting a male's penis is nonsense and comes from a time when masturbation was considered "dirty" and it was thought that cutting a boy would stop him from masturbating in later life. 

It is not cleaner to have a cut penis (they need washing just as much as a natural penis !), so if you are thinking of cutting your child because it is "cleaner" you are actually subscribing to the belief that masturbating is dirty and you want to prevent them from doing it !

From Dave Pierce
It is a long proven but not widely accepted fact that the hygiene factor related to circumcision is a load of nonsense. It is not accepted because Daddies tend to want to give their sons what they have had and they don't want them to be any different. 

Also a load of nonsense is that the cut penis is more sensitive than the uncut one. Those that say this have never experienced sex with an uncut penis and common sense tell us that a penis that is protected by its natural skin is going to be more sensitive and more sensual and the way it is supposed to be. Why interfere? 

Jewish and Americans are the main groups who tend to routinely cut shortly after birth...the Jews for cultural reasons and the Americans for misguided hygienic reasons but becoming more cultural. There is no good reason to cut your boys penis, there are lots of good reasons to keep it intact.

From Brulee
I am lesbian and my partner has a much larger clit than I do. Mine is tiny, and when I saw hers for the first time, I was thrilled. Hers is so big and juicy. It is true, she comes easily, but who is to say it is because of the size of her clit? All I can say is that large clits are incredible to look at and fun to suck. I wouldn't want a girlfriend with a clit my size...

From No Name
Well. I think it is a good thing that the girls with big clits are proud of them and can come easily. My girl has a very small clit that hides under a hood. However, it swells up when it gets excited and I am always able to make her come. I personally prefer the smaller clit because it is a challenge for me to make her come and when I finally do make her come it is a huge turn on! She is so hot and her pussy is so sweet!

From Magikhands53
I have had 2 lovers that had what I would classify as big clits, about the size of the tip of my little finger. Both were extremely sensitive and were easily brought to climax through oral, manual manipulation and intercourse. The lovers I have had with small sized clits took much longer to warm up and did not orgasm as easily or even at all no matter how much time was spent stimulating them by any means.

From Candi
My clit is a little above the normal size, I think, its about one and a half to two inches long, and it's so erotic to see it swollen and hard. Sometimes I think about how it would be to suck on a huge clit making it hard and engorged, licking it till it pops! 

But with someone with an average sized clit I can say I still have huge orgasms multiple orgasms and blow your mind orgasms. Is it about the size or the amount of visual, mental, and physical stimulation? Who knows. I know I enjoy playing with mine!

From LabiaLover
There was a girl used to work at one of the massage places in Edinburgh. She was from Sudan and she had a HUGE clit. It was easily 2 inches long when erect and it sort of curved downwards so in fact you had to push it to one side to enter her. (I'm not kidding.) She certainly seemed to come in huge doses, especially in response to oral. She had really powerful contractions which were as much fun whether you were inside her (ever been inside a girl when she sneezed? Like that but repeatedly) or whether you just had a finger or two in while you tongued that monster. Certainly she was really good fun, and I know one thing-- I'll never forget the moment I first saw it.

On the other hand I had a girlfriend a long time ago who had a tiny clit and to get her to come we had to position ourselves carefully (I'm not going to describe it in case she could be recognised) but boy when she got there she sure got there. So I don't know if it's about size absolutely so much as contact.

From Silverado
Hey, big clits small clits you are all beautiful. Personally (I'm a guy) I like long fleshy labia. It just looks so sexy. I heard it described once (by a female) as a cunt with attitude. Mmmmm

From Mavrick
I gotta comment on this subject because it has certainly come to my attention over the years that I have noticed some difference with woman and the size of their clits. I am a late 40 year old man and have been told all my life that I was handsome and in good shape. Working as a single Commercial Pilot I have had sex all over the world with probably hundreds of woman. From personal experiences I have noticed that ladies that had unusually large clits seamed to have stronger and easier orgasms. Not to say that some woman with normal or even smaller ones couldn't come  nicely. Just noticed that the smaller clits seamed to take longer and more professional attention to have the respond the same. 

My own idea on this subject is contrary to what anyone thinks about it . From someone that has had hundreds of sexual encounter with ladies in all shapes and size, I certainly noticed that girls with big clits could come easier than most ladies with undersized clits. The fact that it is easier to access it may play into all this. Take it for what its worth but I would say its a fact.

From Voluptuous
Well, although I don't believe size in general affects function, I could see how extreme cases of "micro clits" could pose a problem. Nonetheless, I think I have a slightly larger clit and developed lips. I matured at a very young age and I even have vivid memories of masturbating at age 3. I absolutely love being orally pleased and fingered at the same time.

I wish that more guys would take the time to really lick and suck my inner and outer lips and of course my clit. Sort of like really long, wide, slow licks, with moderate pressure. Unfortunately, I'm a bit self-conscious about my pussy because it's darker... What do all you fellows think? I have a friend that says he despises a woman with lips he can see even slightly hang. Gimme some feedback!

From the editor: Read the excellent feedback about the size and shape of vaginas at Designa Vagina

From DB
My wife had a very small, but serviceable clitoris, until she began taking a hormone replacement pill containing testosterone. The instructions warned against 'clitoral enlargement'. Sure enough, over a few months, it swelled to the size of a marble when erect, and the increase in sensitivity was huge. She climaxes easily by all methods, but her climaxes from oral worship now last over a minute or more, in part because I can now get the rough flat of my tongue underneath it.

From Micko69
Yes l am to into big clits. But of all the girls l have been with only one had a really huge clit. l would of married her but l don't think husband would agree to share the prize, pity.

From Anonymous
I just noticed the size of my clit about a couple of weeks ago while watching porn. I always thought I looked like everyone else down "there". But I realized that my clit is big and I kind of got scared. I did some research on big clits and I found a website that says that if you have a big clit then you're a hermaphadite (which is total bullshit because clits come in all sizes) I got scared! I thought I was different and I felt totally self-conscious about my body. 

Then, I found this website and it made me feel good! I do have a bigger clit, Its easy for me to have an orgasm. I should be proud of my clit... and I am! Yes, having a bigger clit does make a difference. How do I know this? well I'm straight but I have gone down on a girl with a small clit and it wasn't easy to find. Mine is totally easy to find and totally yummy. My boyfriend loves my clit.. he loves going down on me because he thinks my clit is cute. he calls it the clit-pop. To all the girls out there with big clits... Be Proud!

From Klarysa
I am a 45 year old woman, with a relatively small clit...but let me tell you, it works wonderfully. Not only am I multi orgasmic, but when played with right I ejaculate. My husband is in heaven.. I just tell people it's not small, the rest of me is just to big. 

When I turned 39 I decided to get it pierced, the person piercing it made the comment to that it was small.. So I mentioned the above and we all had a great laugh. The piercing did enhance sensation even more. So it really isn't size it is how well you know your own body and how comfortable you are. 

Just like with men, I have had big and small and ya know what ... they all fit and they all work and it was all fun... live laugh and love.. that is what it is all about.

From Anonymous
I want to thank the men who posted that a woman's clitoral size has nothing to do with the degree of pleasure achieved and didn't claim that bigger clits are better and sexier.

Although this discussion concerns the size of a woman's clitoris and how that may or may not affect her ability to achieve pleasure, many men seem to have posted just to express their preference for super-sized clits over small to average ones. They also implied that a large clitoris is sexier and more beautiful than small to average ones indiscriminately, no matter who the clitoris is attached to.

I feel that a man should find most beautiful and sexy the clitoris attached to the woman he admires. I don't think that the beauty of a clitoris should rest solely on its size.

From Looker
I am a man who loves to see large clits. There is nothing better than giving a woman pleasure and the sight of a large swollen clit leaves no doubt when you are getting started. Women with smaller clits come just as hard, and I love to feel their muscle contractions during orgasm. I guess the large clit for me is a wonderful visual addition and treat.

From Anonymous
In ancient times, large clits were thought to be a sign of witchcraft or the devil. "Foul wand" or "King Moloch's Sword" were some typical terms thrown around in text.

For me, large clits are angelic - like a young frisky puppy on a Summer's day.

From Anonymous
Large clits taste better. When you get your woman to orgasm in your mouth, I have found that a large clit tastes "sweet" while the small, or hidden clits are "bitter."

From Sara
This discussion has made me feel way better about myself. I have a large clit, and I always thought I was weird. I was so self-conscious about it. My boyfriend never cared, but I always thought it was because he loved me and didn't want to criticize my body. This is the first time I've heard guys say they actually like big clits.

Are there any guys out there who really don't like big clits, or am I just being paranoid? I want your honest opinion.

From DBK
My wife has a very large clit. She keeps her pubes shaved and smooth so her clitty is very visible when she's nude. In addition we are also nudists and go to a nudist resort for swingers I love seeing her nude with her long clitty. When she gets aroused it gets hard and sticks out quite a bit. I absolutely love swabbing my tongue all over it and sucking on it like there is no tomorrow. 

I have been with ladies who have tiny clits and I don't think the size really affects their orgasm. Well it's easier for ladies to get off if they have a big clit to grab on too.

From Ash
I find the idea of licking and sucking on large clits very erotic... I love giving cunnilingus anyway, but my partners have all had small or average clits. I wonder is there any where on the web that I might be able to meet someone with a larger than average clit?

We suggest you try Adult Friend Finder the online personal sites where anything can happen, and often does. 

From Jinny
Its seems a bit ridiculous to me that men and women would believe that a larger clit would equal a more intense orgasm and or both more orgasms per session. That's like saying men with bigger dicks get off better on account of their size. Nobody really believes this do they? 

I have a relatively small clit and it works fantastic. I can come vaginally, clitorally, and anally. I find that the intensity of my orgasm has little to do with the stimulation I'm receiving or giving myself but has everything to do with how turned on mentally I am. Your brain is the biggest erogenous zone that anyone has

From Bob
This is an interesting discussion. I guess I'm sort of a clit, semi-virgin, guy. I've only been with one woman (for 30 years). Her clit is there, I think?

It feels like only a slight swell if even I can find that. Yet with straight intercourse (and my penis isn't huge, more smallish) and doing it right, she nearly always had at least one orgasm, usually two to three.

It'd be nice to be able to find it, but doesn't seem to have made much of a difference.

There is breast stimulation too.I wonder if there is any relationship to sensitivity of the breasts and clit size? Her nipples are very sensitive. does that make up for the nowhere to be seen clit?

From Philip 2
Large clits have always turned me on! They're sexy! The thought of sucking and licking that sensitive bit of flesh is strongly arousing to me...

Fortunately, I've had a couple of lovers over the years with fairly large clits, and they sure did enjoy direct stimulation. Other women with smaller clits seemed to have more sensitivity and needed a light touch to reach orgasm. So, it seems large or small doesn't predetermine one's ability to orgasm.

From Neurotica
I am a highly charged, very sexual and sensual woman who has been masturbating for...forever. It takes me about 20 minutes to come--at least--with my own knowledgeable fingers. So you might imagine that I have tough time coming with my sexual partners. Part of it is definitely a psychological trap of worrying about how long it will take me to come, and then, getting tense.

I'm working on my g-spot orgasm, which hasn't happened yet. But even to get the clit rolling I must retreat into total fantasy.

Recently, a partner was going down on me for the first time and he said: "You have the tiniest, most precious clit."

I had never thought about size, but now you've all got me wondering. Perhaps some of my difficulty also pertains to my little bean. I think I'll go home tonight and take another look in the mirror. Also, I'm going to try to go easier on myself about how difficult it is for me to come. I should do that anyway giant or tiny.

From Nikki
I have quite large inner lips and I find that when I pull and stretch them I get a similar feeling to that of flicking my clit. Does this mean the clit and lips are connected in some way? My clit is like a piece of sweetcorn and is heavily hooded like a man's foreskin I guess. I prefer to use two fingers either side of my clit as opposed to actually pulling up my hood and directly flicking my tip, I don't see how size can affect orgasm we must all feel the same sensations even tiny clits can be exposed and given direct stimulation. 

I'm 27 and I don't remember my clit growing from being a teenager like boys cocks do but my labia are much much bigger I'd say that's from all the pulling. I wonder if boys who wank more have bigger cocks? It's the same pulling effect so why not?

I personally think a pussy that is smooth and closed looks the nicest not messy skin dangling around.

From Anonymous
My wife has a fairly small clit and it's bit too sensitive at times. It seems as though I could never get it right with her. She also has low desire, in fact she told me she no longer needed sex at all. We have since discontinued it because its no fun for me if my partner has no zest for it. Before we were married all I had to do was kiss her and she would come, but after our third kid it was mostly over. It must have been hormones.

My first girl friend had a nice clit, a little larger then average. The thing I loved about her was that when she would come her contractions reached all the way up to her clit and they were very strong, just like a guys dick. I loved feeling of that sweet little thing going crazy! She and I were both virgins at the time but the first time we had vaginal sex and I just got the head of my dick inside her vagina her clit exploded and I could feel the strong pulsing contractions in her vaginal opening right behind the head of my dick. 

My wife never was able to come near to the sexual passion of that girl. I kept in touch with my old girl friend over the years and in the end it seems that I married the right woman after all.

From Anonymous
I have an average size clit ( I think)..about the size of my little finger finger nail. I have a very difficult time achieving an orgasm, either with penetration, oral or any type of masturbation...any ideas to help me with this?

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From Enlightened
Hmm, here are my thoughts on clitoral size, my preference is definitely big is best. I find the sight of a large clitoris a massive turn-on. My partner has a well- developed clitoris and is also further blessed with large inner labia. There is nothing more delightful and erotic than sucking her love bean between my lips and feel her clitoris become engorged and stiff. As I explore her vagina and stimulate her digitally and orally, it is wonderful to massage her G spot and feel her G spot swell prior to her gushing copious amounts of female ejaculate

However, my previous partner’s clitoris was so small that it was invisible, yet she was also multiple orgasmic so from a females perspective size does not seem to matter, clitorally.

From Leta
Maybe women with smaller clits (the visual nub) have more nerves in other areas where the clit extends to, and in the vagina. The more male hormones a girl has the bigger the clit gets till it can become like a penis, So maybe the smaller clit gets more nerves are in the vagina and around the opening, more female.

From Cwclit
I have a huge clit which measures a little over an inch. And that not "erect" if you will. It's the first thing most women notice when I'm naked. They say they've never seen a clit that big. I'm able to have multiple orgasms quite easily. I love my clit!

From Ed
No clit too big! That's my motto...as a male who was spoiled at one point in my life by having sex with several women who possessed enormous clits...I will never be the same. Nothing in this world excites me more than an oversize clit. Old, young, long, thick or thin...size matters to me.

From Self-satisfied
You guys/girls are unbelievable.. I can't believe you're comparing your clit sizes like guys do their dicks. I mean sheesh it makes no difference unless the person is dysfunctional to begin with.

I have a long yet average width clit and I can get off like crazy.. heck I am a squirter .. not a trickler I mean squirt as in projectile and oh my god big mess clean up after. Wow what a feeling... erm anyway..

From Andy
I have to agree with the "size is irrelevant" crowd on orgasms, but I have to admit as a guy who loves to lick and suck that it is a much more interesting going after the large ones. Of course, it's not so much the destination as the journey!

From Harry
I would have to say that big clits are the way to go. They look beautiful and as soon as you see it you can't wait to suck on it. My girlfriend has a large clit and she couldn't be happier with it, when I'm pleasuring her her orgasms are intense to say the least. All in all big clits look better and are better to suck on than little clits.

From Prittyinred
I have a huge clit, and it always bothered me a lot. Thanks to my darling hubby because he really likes it and he strokes it so nice and gives me huge orgasms. I guess big clit is just the thing of the moment.

From David
I don't know what all this fuss is about. I personally find big clits very erotic and would love to meet the woman with the thumb sized clit! However, I am married to a very orgasmic woman with the smallest clitoris I have ever seen. I have a hard time finding it, but I always do, much to her pleasure. So long from love em big, but satisfied with tiny.

From Flicking The Bean
As a guy whose been in several relationships, I have to say that larger clits do make a difference. One girlfriend in particular who has a large clit, coupled with my talented hands, would orgasm so many times that she would literally throw me out of her apartment. One particular girlfriend who did not have a clit at all, squealed that I was tickling her and would tell me to to stop, but never got hot and bothered by this. She would take forever to come by intercourse. 

My last girlfriend (the luck of finding another large clit girl) would get really, really wet when I played with her clit. That was so much fun. It was so much fun that she ruined one of my car seats. Where does all that stuff come from? Guys, if you find a large clit woman, KEEP her!

From RS
As someone who is older and has had experience with many different women, I must say that size doesn't matter. And this is from one person who does like them large. I might have better results with larger ones just because I pay more attention to them. But the little ones seem to work just as well. Large ones are really lovely and feel so good in your mouth. They are so pretty, like a flower. Yipes! The thought alone has me going.

From Danielle
Hi, Just happened on this discussion and found it amusing. My girlfriend Anne has the largest clitoris in I have ever seen in reality or any picture. I am a normal woman with average clitoris. There is no comparison of my sexual drive or capacity to Anne.

From Philip
Well I have read some of the comments made and I am of the opinion that a lot of my fellow males need a tutor or a road map of the female anatomy .... shame on you .... how on god's earth do you expect to enjoy a woman's company when you are worrying about the size of her clitoris? 

The point or art of sexual stimulation is to totally immerse the woman you are with in HER own desires. You, my male friends, are secondary. That's how you interest a woman, not by gauging her by the size of her clitoris, and by the way they are NEVER too small to find. Maybe yours is, have you ever thought that maybe this particular woman isn't turned on by you shoving your hands down her pants and saying WHAT'S WRONG? There are women that don't like their clit being played with.  I could go on for hours but I hate typing so bye and good hunting

From Chaza
Hello there I'm a lesbian and I have a larger clit than my partner. If you tease, lick, suck and stimulate a woman's clit the right way - take what ever time it takes, no rush, whispering the right words, big or small clit they come like a bomb every time. That's our personal experience. So we say although larger is easier (to play with) its not necessarily better.

From Elongcerv
I don't think the size of the clit matters as long as it is accessible (can be found). Though I suppose the larger it is the easier it is to locate and stimulate. Is mine large or small? I haven't the faintest idea. How would I measure it? I do know that when I masturbate I rub along the shaft of my clit and not the head, which is far too sensitive. 

Another matter, and perhaps it should be a different topic but does anyone one have any thoughts on the length of cervixes? Mine is quite long and tends to poke out a bit when I'm on the loo. When I was pregnant twenty years ago a doctor commented on it and even called a colleague to have a look. Should I be worried about this protruding? It doesn't at other times. Anybody else like this?

From Bill
The topic of clit size caught my eye ... my response is the same as it would be for size of dick -- it doesn't matter! My source says that the clitoris is made up of an inverted "Y" shaped organ. Each 'leg' of the "Y" contains about 800 nerve endings and there are approx 1,600 nerve endings in the clitoris itself. No matter the size, the number of nerve endings sending pleasure messages to the brain is the same.

Bad news, guys ... the same source numbers the nerve endings in a man's penis at less than 1,000 ... total! This information was part of an interesting 90 minute doco on the clit shown on Australia's ABC television recently. A 'must-see' for every male!

Size only matters in your imagination.

From Spiky Wench
I have no idea if I possess a small or large clitoris. I do know that it works damn well. Large clitorises equal easy orgasms? Sound like bullshit to me.

From Anonymous
I can't say whether women with small clits don't have orgasms as intense as women with big clits. I suppose you'd have to have one of each to really decide the question. Let me say this though, although medically the clitoris is defined as that little ball under the hood, I prefer to regard the whole length of what leads up to that little ball under the hood as the Clit Proper, because it's all very arousable. 

I have a very large clit. When I get aroused it becomes engorged and hard, just like a dick. In fact, if you squeeze it gently between you thumb and forefinger, you can feel a hard little shaft and that little ball under the hood is like the head of a penis. And like a penis head, my head is extremely sensitive. One of my fondest ways to get off is to jerk my clit off just like guys jerk their dicks off. It drives my boyfriend crazy...

From Mark J
To J. Corvo, you're right, I don't believe size influences a woman's pleasure much more or less than the other hundred things that do. A big clit is...fortunate! It certainly is more permanent than those other things. It's convenient and beautiful!

I'm glad my wife has a medium-large, but it would be great if it were bigger, so I'm gonna buy or rig up a clit pump right away. Hope she likes it, Frederique! Thanks, Y'all!

From Doc Input
Medically, clit size should not matter but there is a deeper reason behind it. Generally, women with slightly higher androgen levels, will have more sexual desire, larger clit size and earlier and frequent climax. For this reason, even though it is very difficult to increase penis size in men, clit size is easy to increase! Ask your doc, he may agree to help with one treatment although not recommended for obvious reasons. The rest I leave to your imagination.

From Dr Di
Well surprise, surprise ladies, didn't you know? You all have a big clit! How so? You are talking about the glans clitoris which is that lovely little (or big) nub of pleasure, but the clitoris itself actually extends both sides of the vulva, and surrounds the entrance to the vagina. The clitoris proper can therefore extend up to, wait for it, 9 inches! Penis envy? I don't think so! And the so- called vaginal orgasm is actually clitoral in origin! So enjoy, whatever size you are.

Oh, for the record, I have a lovely large, responsive glans clit!

From Dianne
While I agree with most who have stated that size shouldn't matter; I believe that it has huge relevance in regards to the clit. Mine is tiny. You have no idea about the hide & seek games it likes to play. Therefore, a clitoral orgasm for me is extraordinarily rare. My only other girlfriend who also has a tiny clit concurs. For all of those who have medium to large - you are extremely lucky - have lots of clit orgasms for us!

From Christian L. Ambrose
I have never really noticed the size of my clit and it never occurred to me to compare my clit with other women's... However, I do know that my clit works really well. The intensity of my orgasm usually has to do with my mood, how often it gets stimulated...

At least I have a lot of pleasure when it does get stimulated by either myself or my boyfriend. Let's just say he's very good with his hands.

From Allie
I don't think it has anything to do with size. as long as one knows how to use it. I am blessed with a very orgasmic clitoris and I thank my lucky stars. mine is not miniscule, but not a grape, either. as long as you and/or your partner knows how to get to your orgasmic ability, more power to you both. it's all about communication and experimentation...size DOES NOT matter as long as you have one, ladies.

Have some safe fun! Peace out!

From Firemermaid
I suppose mine is medium to slightly largeish, & I don't think it has much to do with the intensity or speed of my orgasms. Hormonal levels & a number of other factors have much more to do with it. I've never been a fast climaxer, & I need direct stimulation, but once I get there, Ooooh babyeee!! I can ride those waves awhile.

I suppose if one has such a tiny bud that it's tough to locate & stimulate, that could be a problem... otherwise, who the hell cares?

From Jojo
I don't give a monkey's, as long as it works..

From Karen
As the owner of a medium-small clit, I'd like to suggest that size has nothing to do with the amount of pleasure that one can receive through stimulation. My little clit has served me amazingly well. I can climax within a couple of minutes when pleasuring myself, and have never had a problem having clitoral orgasms with any of my partners. In fact, a few of my lovers have insisted that I must have been faking after I have had a VERY real orgasm because it came on so quickly!

From Cindy
I don't think clit size influences a woman's ability or inability to orgasm. I also do not think it influences the intensity of her orgasm. I have neither a small nor a large one. It's just right for my body, I guess. But I'm able to orgasm multiple times either by my own hand or someone else's and my orgasms are very powerful...sometimes spraying/shooting for several feet.

From Jasna
I am a 20 year old student. I have an average sized clit. I have been clit frigging since my 11th year. Now I masturbate once or twice a day. My orgasms come in between 3 and 30 minutes and are very intense. My room mate has a bigger clit, but masturbates only 3 or 4 times a week. She is rather quick giving herself the big release about 5 to 10 minutes.

I cannot see any difference in clit performance and I haven't heard such stuff from other girls. And we speak often about sex or masturbation as we are living in a kind of celibacy. There is much rubbing in the evenings and we know a lot about our pleasure spots.

From Trish
I'm average-sized. I have fantastic orgasms. They vary depending on time of the month, hormonal levels, lubrication, stimulation (visual, literary, oral, auditory, or otherwise), mood, partner, etc. I can come easily, but the most deeply satisfying have definitely without a doubt depended more on one factor than anything, HORMONES. When they're 'up', I go crazy....

From Anonymous
I have to speak up for the tiny-clitted among us. Mine is quite small, if I compare to pics I've seen, and I'm told she is also quite "shy". But that does not seem to prevent me from having truly mind-blowing orgasms when all conditions are right. Even a "typical" orgasm is pretty damn powerful. I mean...what's not to like about an orgasm? Even a bad one is good.

From Anonymous
I have been with a lot of different types of women. To me it doesn't matter the size of the clit, although I like a bigger clit (one that is over 3cm). I like to have the clit inserted in my ass, the women like it to (or so they say) it gives them power. Once I had a girlfriend that had a small clit and she seemed to have smaller and less frequent orgasms. My last girlfriend had a massive clit it was 3.8 cm, she loved for me to suck on it then lick it with my tongue, she didn't really like my cock (7 in.) inserted in her pussy she liked for me to stick it in her butt. She also liked to have other women with big clits involved. She didn't mind have a 3 cm clit in her pussy she loved that.One time we had a friend over with a big clit and as I ass fucked her our friend stuck her clit in her pussy. She also liked to have a cock in her butt while my girlfriend stuck her clit in her pussy.A little advise to you guys out there: women with big clits aren't freaks. Be careful, their clits are really sensitive so rub it gently and try new things. Let the woman penetrate with it, feels so good. Suck or lick the clit and be spontaneous.

From Jon
I have had the great pleasure in life to experience both smaller and bigger clits. First I have with great pleasure and satisfaction had sex with a girl whose clit didn't show at all. But her pussy were conditioned with such sensitiveness and her orgasms were huge, one after the other.Two other girls I enjoyed completely had great oversized clits. But one of them was just big and seemed not to become erect and her sensitivity were more placed at her butt hole. The other girl with a huge clit and her clit got really hard when erected. It was sticking out between her labia like a little penis. About 3 inches I can say and her hood slid away from her clit. She didn't care so much to have my cock insert in her pussy. She had more and greater feelings in her erected clit and her butt. So we always masturbated together with great pleasure. She did mine and I did hers. But each of the girls had huge orgasms every time.I don't think the size really matter. I think to be opened and sexual free to enjoy what you really like is the main thing. That's mine opinion.

From Bob
All the women I have been with have had small clits. I absolutely love the look of big ones and can't get enough of looking at them on the web. If I could have my choice of any woman I would chose the one with the biggest clit. You girls with big clits should never think that you are freaks and that men don't like them. Any guy who makes fun of you for having a big clit is just plain ignorant in the first place, and stupid besides. I have talked to quite a few guys about this and they all are nuts about the idea of having a gal with a big clit. I know that clit size doesn't have much to do with how strong your orgasms are, that depends on a lot of other factors. As far as your erect clit showing through your clothes goes, my last girl friend had a very high pubic arch and when she wore a swim suit she looked like she had a cock in there. That mound with its large lips was a fantastic feeling when I cupped it in my hand, and she was the most fantastic fuck I have ever had, partly because of it. Unfortunately she developed breast cancer and died two years ago. God, how I miss her. So that is partly why I would like to have a woman with a big clit, to feel that size down there; but aside from that, the look of a big clit really turns me on something fierce. Have you ever seen a video of Lotta Top? She has monstrous tits and also a really huge clit! Now that is a winning combination!I sure wish there was a way I could tell if a woman had a big clit so we could get past any embarrassment right away and she would know I would not make fun of her or think she was weird.

From Monika
Nice to read about other women which have also a big clit and are proud about this fact!I have a huge clit too and I have something like "phallic pride". I like to see if it gets stiff and how it grows. If it is full stiff, the foreskin is going back and my big glans is full to see. Mother nature gave me a big clit and I used for some time ago testosterone for to maker it even bigger. So it has the size of nearly 7 cm. I also make clit pumping for to have much pleasure, but also to enlarge my huge clit even more. By pumping it grows to 4 inches. I will try to enlarge my super organ still more. I will see.I have a boyfriend with a small cock, what I like. If his dick is flaccid, it has only the size of 2.5 inches. This makes me randy. I fuck his small cock with my penoris. I put, during fucking, one or 2 fingers in his ass hole. So I`m in this moment the "man" and he is the "woman".My dream is to be together with a man, which stiff cock is smaller than my pumped up clit, which I want to fuck.Ass fucking with a big clit, is surely a good thing. To penetrate anyone and push this body with your stiffy first this is a real fucking of anyone. Than your the real ruler.My clit is very big, but not so much stick out for to penetrate, what a pity. But I will make clit pumping for a long time, may be I can penetrate too. Also I will look for a small cock ring, perhaps it will stick out my cocklet more than just now and than I will see what will happen.

From Ella
I am so glad to read this participant like the sister (big clit) "anonymous". How enjoys her 2.75 lovely clit. [see entry below] Mine is about this size too and sticking out between my labia when I'm erected. I really like to masturbate my oversized clit. And even become excited when looking at my hard erection in a mirror. I have a lot of nice feelings in my clit more then I like to insert something in my pussy.So I have to admit that I'm satisfying myself more or less most of the time by working my hood over my swollen gland. I don't dare really to meet guys because of my big one. I have bad experience from that and was called freak. So no way I like to have such words about my big clit who I like so much.Therefore I am so glad to hear from you (anonymous big clit). Your words gave me some hope. It would have been nice to have more of this which I can name pep talk at least for me it is.Best love to all of you Big or Small participants.

From Anonymous
I have a very big clit, about 2.75 inches when it is stiff. The most part of the glans stick out by arousal. It can stand up in an angle of 90 degrees and more of the half of it stick out. If I see my big erection, I'm very proud, because my woman "cock" looks powerful. (more like a cock than an average clit)With this I'm able to fuck other women and also men. Both I had made and this is wonderful! I like to penetrate with it, so like men do. By sex I am always the active part - women or men and this especially with my clit. Since I fuck with my "good piece" in an active kind (clitoral penetration) my self-confidence is growing very much.

From SG
I totally agree with Don...the clit we see on the outside of a woman is the glans of the clitoris equal to the glans of the penis...the most sensitive part. Most of the clitoris actually goes inside the body and surrounds the vagina. Size makes no difference to the pleasure of the woman. [See Don's entry below]Also, at least from my perspective take your time with all of the female genitals. Don't go right for the clit (on the outside) and just rub it hard. Ouch! How would men like it if we just went right for their most sensitive spot (the glans or head) and rubbed it hard in just that one spot and nowhere else. Build up to it. I too am one of those people that I don't want my clit touched roughly or hard until I'm just about to come.

From Ella
I only want to say:  why can't we girls have fun as guys have when they play with their cocks. Small or Big. I know many people care absolutely too much if a girl has a big clit. I know quite well cause I have a big one. Pointing, sticking out so proud between my labia. And I really like to play with my oversized clit. I know about comments especially from men disliking big clits. But who cares!When I am erected my big clit show easily. But I'm not walking about erected in public. Guys don't usually do that either. So what's the problem. I have lovely orgasms playing with my (little) man. Or shall I name it (big).Girls and boys have fun!

From Lizzy
Humans have probably been hung up on size forever. Does clit size determine pleasure? My guess would be no. I've never done any visual size comparing, never even thought about doing any. In fact, before reading this thread, I had no idea how diverse the size range can be! All I know is, I love the size that I am, and I love my capacity to feel good, whether to the point of pre-orgasm, full orgasm, or multiple orgasm (yeah, baby).In the final analysis, pleasure begins in your head (the one on your shoulders). If the size of your body part (pick a part, any part) affects the level and amount of pleasure that you experience, it does so only to the extent that your mind allows. If you think your tiny clit concentrates the feeling and provides stronger orgasms, then it does. If you think the greater surface area of your large clit offers a greater opportunity for pleasure, then it does. It's in your head, not between your legs, and you are in control.

From Anonymous
I worry about this topic, because if we indulge in bigger = better, nearly all women are losers, because few women have large clits. The sex partners of women will simply have to accept with a smile that most women have small clits, and quite a few women cannot even retract their clit foreskins. My spouse tells me that she can retract but has never managed to give me a demonstration. She has no difficulty reaching orgasm from masturbation, oral, or intercourse (which she combines with masturbation in a very helpful way).I worry that the rare woman with a large clit will think herself a freak and be deeply ashamed of it. I recently stumbled on the one-woman porn site of a woman whose clit is 3" when hard. She has been married all of her adult life to one man, has had several children, and shows her age. She has a sense of humor, and has happily made money for 20-30 years from displaying her huge clit, which is larger than the penis of a prepubescent boy. I have no idea how she went through summer camp and high school with a clear bulge in her panties. But I can easily conceive of a woman with a huge clit having to spend thousands of dollars on therapy to recover from it.I would conjecture that a large clit turns most men on, and would conceivably be a very hot time among lesbians. But I go further and suppose that clit size is not all that important for a woman's pleasure. If anything matters, it is a lack of adhesions between the clit glans and the clit foreskin. Such adhesions can be very easily eliminated by a doctor.

From WG
My wife had a very small clitoris which was sensitive enough for most purposes even though it was sometimes hard to find. I would sometimes have to lick and suck alternately for several minutes to make it large enough to see.Fifteen years ago, after a hysterectomy, her doctor put her on hormone therapy. Instead of the usual brew, she prescribed a Canadian product, Estratest, which was estrogen plus testosterone (rather than progesterone). One of the listed 'side effects' was clitoral enlargement.Inside of two months, her resting clit was the size of a pea, and would swell to twice that size when excited. More importantly, she became vastly more sensitive to oral and manual stimulation, and even to external pressure on her labia, inches from her clit.It revolutionized our sex life. She went from permitting cunnilingus from time to time, to wanting it all the time. I wasn't about to argue. I wish we'd found that pill three decades before.

From Mike
My first wife had a really pretty large clit. I could put the head and shaft between my thumb and forefingers, covered by the large hood, and basically masturbate her like she was a guy. She loved this, and would have very strong orgasms from this type of masturbation. She would have extremely intense orgasms if her clit was licked, manipulated, or stimulated with a vibe. She absolutely could never orgasm from intercourse alone, unless she or I manipulated her clit while my penis was inside her.My second wife had a much smaller clit - she absolutely always orgasmed every single time we had intercourse, with no clitoral stimulation at all. In fact, the few times when we were fucking that I tried to manually stimulated her clit, she yanked my hand away and said that if I stimulated her clit during intercourse, it would take away from the buildup-to-orgasm feeling that she had in her vagina and would spoil the feeling for her. Otherwise, she absolutely loved to have her clit licked, even sucked and chewed, and could come many times through cunnilingus. Her strongest orgasms of all, though, were from intercourse with no clitoral stimulation at all. In my experience, I would have to say that size doesn't matter, as my second wife with the much smaller clit was definitely the more orgasmic.

From Don
Can we get a grip here. The 'size' most people see, maybe even feel, of any clit is about 5% of what is there. How many ever get past the clit hood (foreskin) that hides the clit glans. How many ever stripped it back to find an even more sensitive glans. And behind that is the shaft which can go on way more than any hood or glans. How many know that the clit extends way beyond that nub of a hood, or glans, or shaft. It has 'arms' that go down both sides of the vulva and around the vaginal entrance, i.e., probably a prime cause of any vaginal orgasm your partner finds. And did you ever notice how when she "gets close' her clit seems to get smaller? It isn't. It is actually getting bigger, BUT, it is so extensive that as it gets bigger it pulls its head up.Just for starters watch Betty Dodson's "Viva La Vulva" and quit worrying about how big it is. Just know it is way, way more extensive than you ever imagined.

From Shay
Okay, I feel I have to reply to this. As a proud owner of a small clit and a large labia, I have to say, unohombre upset me slightly. [see unohombre's entry below] I have a higher sex drive than most men I know and I am able to have multiple orgasms, within 30 seconds of each other, for hours on end. I would not ever classify myself as unhorny, nor would any man I have been with (not that that number is high, only 3). For all women out there, it isn't the size that matters, its how the guy can play with it. And for men, size doesn't matter for you either. I'm with an average sized guy now and have had many more orgasms per session with him than I did with a guy who was nearly 11 inches. Its again all in how you work it.

From Velvette
I have a large clit, it too pokes out from between my lips when erect. I have found that most men enjoy this and like actually looking at it. They seem to be fascinated. This pleasures me.

From Jürgen
Though living in Germany I found this great site with its serious discussion forum. Some years ago I had a girlfriend with a 2-inch clit. I have to admit that my sexual desire was overwhelming and increasing when I looked at her protruding clit. I didn't know that such a small difference to other girls could give a stormy effect in sexual stimulation. But I still think that clit size must not be too important in sexual life because I see the woman as a whole. There is no guarantee for satisfying sexuality depending on the special performance of body parts. I had girlfriends with smaller clits and sex life was fine too. Looking back to the one I had, I would love to know a woman with a big clit again today - but how to do?

From Stephen
I'd be put off by a female who was not "showing", it is (or at least should be) a sign of sexual excitement. Cliped "lips" -uh, no thank you please.

From Benzy
What a site! Lucky to find it! I notice that a lot of differences are represented here appealing to Big or Small Clits. Anyhow, may I declare that from what I read it absolutely make me feel so excited. I hope that's part of the reason to participate. To give ourselves a little credit to what we feel and to what we have down there. Big or small.I have to admit that I'm much in to Big Clit. I have had the opportunity to meet a girl with a quite Big Clit. It was so great. But I hate to see when porno sites use words like freaks when they show Clits which is bigger then average.Listen girls which have big clits, average, or small clits: the person of you is the main thing what you are or what you ever think. Love is something nice. Big or small. Believe me, you are all wonderful!

From Anonymous One
When I'm horny I like to touch or to be touched quite directly at my clit. My clit is, from what I have seen compared to my friends, (not any deeper comparison though) bigger then average I think. I dislike to insert anything in my vagina. But I have very sensitive nerves around my asshole. I use to play with my erected clit and do some touching at my anus at the same time. I am familiar today with this little odd way of teasing.As my clit is bigger then average and there are a lot of nice nerves connected I really prefer to masturbate my clit without any inserting at my pussy. And I simply adore to feel when my erection start and make my clit stone hard until I reach for what I am longing for most of all. Orgasm.

From Baz
Neither my wife nor I have any idea what size her clit is. We've never bothered to get the tape measure out. All we know is that I only have to touch it with a finger, lick it with my tongue, bite it with teeth, then she immediately breaks into a frenzied ecstasy of wriggling and moaning. She prefers my masturbating her with fore and index fingers and within ten minutes she will be very close to her first orgasm, her second will follow five minutes later and her third after another ten minutes. Only then will she push my fingers away, completely exhausted and semi-conscious, but not before I've been told off for being 'too rough' and lacking the firm but cultured touch of some of her men friends.

From Annabelle
Whoa, Unohombre "Small clitted un-horny females"?! No, no, no. [see Unohombre's entry below] I have a teeny, tiny little clit and I am far from a 'un-horny' female. Same with the other small-clit ladies who have responded here. I may have a small clit but sex is on my mind what seems like all day, every day and I have orgasms nearly every single day.News flash everyone--It's Not Just Size! In all aspects.1. Small clits do not equal low sex drive or response.
2. Large labia are not a sign that a women has had a lot of sex (like that would be anyone's business anyway.)
3. A large penis means very little unless the owner knows what to do with it.
4. A small penis is not the end of the world.

Like Ann, the very first responder to this subject, said -- Size...jeez, are we ever going to get over it?

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