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Big Clits versus Small ClitsDoes clit size determine pleasure?
From Baz Whoa, Unohombre "Small clitted un-horny females"?! No, no, no. [see Unohombre's entry below] I have a teeny, tiny little clit and I am far from a 'un-horny' female. Same with the other small-clit ladies who have responded here. I may have a small clit but sex is on my mind what seems like all day, every day and I have orgasms nearly every single day. News flash everyone--It's Not Just Size! In all aspects. 1. Small clits do not equal low sex drive or response. Like Ann, the very first responder to this subject, said -- Size...jeez, are we ever going to get over it? From Ann Personally, I think smaller would be better. All those nerve endings in a more compact bundle--yow! Anyway, if you want to drive me really insane, clitoral stimulation alone isn't the way to do it. I think the size of the damned thing is less relevant than how it is touched, when, and by whom and if all the planets are in proper alignment, nobody has to touch mine at all, at least not towards the end. Size....jeeze! Are we ever gonna get over it? From J. Corvo From Laila Only if you seek very hard and close you could find it. And she is the horniest of sweet goats you could meet. Believe me!I think I know what it'd all about. (It excites you!) Do admit! No harm in that. One of the participants somewhere on this lovely site said. "The brain is the horny part" or something like that. I agree!So honey, love what you see. Don't stop love if the clit is big or small.Excuse me folks if my spellings or word orders isn't correct. This isn't my mothers tongue. But the feelings is the same wherever you are. Love you all. From Unohombre You may notice more things, such as noticing that sometimes a larger clit is on a more muscular female who may also have strong looking hands or that a lady who is more forward and more aggressive sexually may surprise you later with a large clit. (testosterone is also an "aggressive" hormone) Finally, since testosterone is a key component to make us orgasm, bigger clits and more testosterone may work hand-in-hand to make a lady who is gifted in this area seem more sexy to men and women.I therefore have to say, I prefer a larger clit because since I am a man I would gamble that a lady with a larger clit is hornier and a relationship with her more in synch with male libido and more close in desired frequency. In addition I would think a female who has a very low testosterone level and is not horny or cannot understand male horniness and they end up thinking men are really from Mars. This all starts to make sense if you envision that men are from the planet Testosterone and we are glad some ladies join us there, and we wonder what planet those small clitted un-horny females are from, but we are all human and sex is only one part of our total lives and beings. When we die we are rarely remembered for our sexuality or testosterone level. From Shar Here, relaxation and the clit seems to be key. (Relaxation is another issue, I used to masturbate vigorously as a child and got a severe reprimand which unfortunately ended that activity for some time.) As for the physical side, I've been on the hunt for that little button, and I'm frustrated. My husband, with a much easier vantage point, has little insight to offer. I'm very happily married and satisfactorily mated, but sometimes I wish I could find some sort of sexual virtuoso of women (Dale comes to mind) willing to explore and to help me discover these hidden secrets. From Anonymous
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