Big Clits versus Small Clits

Does clit size determine pleasure?

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From Baz
Neither my wife nor I have any idea what size her clit is. We've never bothered to get the tape measure out. All we know is that I only have to touch it with a finger, lick it with my tongue, bite it with teeth, then she immediately breaks into a frenzied ecstasy of wriggling and moaning. She prefers my masturbating her with fore and index fingers and within ten minutes she will be very close to her first orgasm, her second will follow five minutes later and her third after another ten minutes. Only then will she push my fingers away, completely exhausted and semi-conscious, but not before I've been told off for being 'too rough' and lacking the firm but cultured touch of some of her men friends.

News flash everyone--It's Not Just Size! In all aspects.

1. Small clits do not equal low sex drive or response.
2. Large labia are not a sign that a women has had a lot of sex (like that would be anyone's business anyway.)
3. A large penis means very little unless the owner knows what to do with it.
4. A small penis is not the end of the world.

Like Ann, the very first responder to this subject, said -- Size...jeez, are we ever going to get over it?

From Ann
I hear ya! It has never, ever occurred to me to compare my clit size to anyone and if there's a better orgasm out there, I don't want to know because the ones I have are about all I can take.

Personally, I think smaller would be better. All those nerve endings in a more compact bundle--yow! Anyway, if you want to drive me really insane, clitoral stimulation alone isn't the way to do it. I think the size of the damned thing is less relevant than how it is touched, when, and by whom and if all the planets are in proper alignment, nobody has to touch mine at all, at least not towards the end.

Size....jeeze! Are we ever gonna get over it?

From J. Corvo
Well, seems to me that this thread has given a damn fool premise a lot of weight. It has always seemed to me that a woman's orgasm is the coming together of a great many factors, none of which are related to size. For starters there are desire, excitement, ovulation, comfort, discomfort, health, age, relaxation, stress, probably about thirty different kinds of chemistry at the cellular level, freshness of the relationship.To limit the entire experience to the size of a clitoris seems to leave out the rest of the woman where the orgasm really happens.

From Laila
Holy Moses! Dear "Onohombre" Please, Please don't move with your head into the wall. Cause that's what you are doing right now. [see Onohombre's entry below] I can admit that bigger clits in a certain way sometimes can be more or easier touchable. (But) it isn't necessarily so that the feelings must be stronger because of the size. To admit I am bi and I have had the honor to meet women with big clits how didn't have that much arousal feelings. But, I still have a really good friend with a big one who is a horny little chic. And, my closest friend which I spend a lot of horny times with, Dear "Onohombre" her clit isn't not really visible.

Only if you seek very hard and close you could find it. And she is the horniest of sweet goats you could meet. Believe me!I think I know what it'd all about. (It excites you!) Do admit! No harm in that. One of the participants somewhere on this lovely site said. "The brain is the horny part" or something like that. I agree!So honey, love what you see. Don't stop love if the clit is big or small.Excuse me folks if my spellings or word orders isn't correct. This isn't my mothers tongue. But the feelings is the same wherever you are. Love you all.

From Unohombre
Hello all, I hope not to offend. I do not mean to be "a bio-nerd" or a "scientific-sexualist". But clit size may matter more than most of us think. Here are some possible reasons:First, a key hormone to make our clits and penises erect and horny and come is testosterone. Yes women and men both have a certain amount of this hormone. Men may have more. Also, testosterone is the hormone that makes the clitoris and female genitals (male genitals and penises) grow larger when we are juveniles and adults. Therefore, some of the ladies who have more testosterone may in fact end up not only with a larger clit but also with more testosterone in their system; which may make them hornier.

You may notice more things, such as noticing that sometimes a larger clit is on a more muscular female who may also have strong looking hands or that a lady who is more forward and more aggressive sexually may surprise you later with a large clit. (testosterone is also an "aggressive" hormone) Finally, since testosterone is a key component to make us orgasm, bigger clits and more testosterone may work hand-in-hand to make a lady who is gifted in this area seem more sexy to men and women.I therefore have to say, I prefer a larger clit because since I am a man I would gamble that a lady with a larger clit is hornier and a relationship with her more in synch with male libido and more close in desired frequency. In addition I would think a female who has a very low testosterone level and is not horny or cannot understand male horniness and they end up thinking men are really from Mars. 

This all starts to make sense if you envision that men are from the planet Testosterone and we are glad some ladies join us there, and we wonder what planet those small clitted un-horny females are from, but we are all human and sex is only one part of our total lives and beings. When we die we are rarely remembered for our sexuality or testosterone level.

From Shar
Well, there certainly seems to be an abundance of women with large clits. I on the other hand am a sister to Anabelle and Mel. [see their entries below] I'm like them in that I have large labia, am quite sensitive, with plenty of natural lubrication and I certainly have orgasms. But, I do have one little problem, which is I can't achieve orgasm through masturbation. 

Here, relaxation and the clit seems to be key. (Relaxation is another issue, I used to masturbate vigorously as a child and got a severe reprimand which unfortunately ended that activity for some time.) As for the physical side, I've been on the hunt for that little button, and I'm frustrated. My husband, with a much easier vantage point, has little insight to offer. I'm very happily married and satisfactorily mated, but sometimes I wish I could find some sort of sexual virtuoso of women (Dale comes to mind) willing to explore and to help me discover these hidden secrets.

From Anonymous
I have a huge clit and I do have really great orgasms. But my problem is I have better orgasms than when I'm with a guy. I have perfected my technique and find it hard to deviate from that. I still come when a guy eats me though. I think it makes sense a big clit correlates with the amount and intensity of orgasms since there's more nerve endings.

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