Big Clits versus Small Clits

Does clit size determine pleasure?

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From Mike
My wife has a very big clit and large pussy lips.  She is still a bit self conscious about it, but I absolutely adore it.  Her pussy floods when I get her clit aroused and capture it between my thumb and index finger.  I circle and pinch with my thumb and she comes loud enough to wake our neighbors.  Ladies, enjoy your large clit and lips.  They are a true blessing!

From DysturbedSoul
I beg to differ with most of the women here about clit size being unimportant. It's important to ME. I am a female who's been having sex for 25 years but I've never had an orgasm or even pleasurable feelings from my clitoris or the area surrounding it. I can't find my clitoris head so I'm guessing it's miniscule. A urologist I went to see once said it looked "shriveled." I then had hormonal blood tests done, took testosterone therapy, saw a sexologist and other therapists, but nothing has helped.

I've looked at diagrams and photos of clits but that doesn't help me figure anything out. I feel so stupid, and cheated. I never developed masturbating naturally and I hate trying to masturbate now. It just frustrates me and makes me cry out of anger. Vibrators either don't feel good or like anything, and I don't enjoy fingering myself. I have no pleasurable sensations in the region of my genitalia. I have sexual thoughts, desires and feelings, can get lubricated by  desire, love sexy men and visual stimulation, but sexual acts are just disappointing, and somewhat pointless to me.

I just continue to have sex for my husband's benefit - to make him feel loved - and he's equally clueless about how to help me out. I would love to have just an average size clitoris, or at least one I could find.  Maybe then it would work! I guess I have a little big(ger) "clit envy" after reading the posts here. It seems to me that a female clit of some detectable size (average or large) is easier to find, manipulate and work with. Many of the women here who are proud of their clits prove that point by what they wrote. Wish I were you !

From Annabelle
Whoa, Unohombre "Small clitted un-horny females"?! No, no, no. [see Unohombre's entry below] I have a teeny, tiny little clit and I am far from a 'un-horny' female. Same with the other small-clit ladies who have responded here. I may have a small clit but sex is on my mind what seems like all day, every day and I have orgasms nearly every single day. News flash everyone--It's Not Just Size! In all aspects.

1. Small clits do not equal low sex drive or response.
2. Large labia are not a sign that a women has had a lot of sex (like that would be anyone's business anyway.)
3. A large penis means very little unless the owner knows what to do with it.
4. A small penis is not the end of the world.

Size...jeez, are we ever going to get over it?

From Unohombre
Hello all, I hope not to offend. I do not mean to be "a bio-nerd" or a "scientific-sexualist". But clit size may matter more than most of us think. Here are some possible reasons: First, a key hormone to make our clits and penises erect and horny and come is testosterone. Yes women and men both have a certain amount of this hormone. Men may have more. Also, testosterone is the hormone that makes the clitoris and female genitals (male genitals and penises) grow larger when we are juveniles and adults. Therefore, some of the ladies who have more testosterone may in fact end up not only with a larger clit but also with more testosterone in their system; which may make them hornier.

You may notice more things, such as noticing that sometimes a larger clit is on a more muscular female who may also have strong looking hands or that a lady who is more forward and more aggressive sexually may surprise you later with a large clit. (testosterone is also an "aggressive" hormone) Finally, since testosterone is a key component to make us orgasm, bigger clits and more testosterone may work hand-in-hand to make a lady who is gifted in this area seem more sexy to men and women.I therefore have to say, I prefer a larger clit because since I am a man I would gamble that a lady with a larger clit is hornier and a relationship with her more in synch with male libido and more close in desired frequency. In addition I would think a female who has a very low testosterone level and is not horny or cannot understand male horniness and they end up thinking men are really from Mars. 

This all starts to make sense if you envision that men are from the planet Testosterone and we are glad some ladies join us there, and we wonder what planet those small clitted un-horny females are from, but we are all human and sex is only one part of our total lives and beings. When we die we are rarely remembered for our sexuality or testosterone level.

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