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From Lilith
Small Clit, that's me. I can't say what is or isn't normal because in truth all I know is mine. I have a small clit and cannot reach climax through its stimulation. I actually had my hood pierced and this didn't, as I was told it would, help with achieving orgasm. In fact, when I went to get my hood piercing the guys, (yes their were multiple who wanted to pierce me and watch me be pierced) mentioned that my hood was almost too small to pierce. Fortunately there was just enough.

I have found that over stimulation of my small clit, can be painful and unbearable. Perhaps, I am frigid. Because I actually have to push some away if they have at it for too long. Kind of like sticking my clit in a light socket. Perhaps I don't orgasm because I don't allow them to continue but, my body will not allow me, to allow them the pleasure of torturing me, so I am at a loss of orgasms. I cannot even bring myself through masturbation to climax, in fact I have only ever climaxed through the actual act of penetration of a real penis during sex. In truth only one person has brought me to climax, and it was never a sure thing.

From Gia
I, like most of the people who have commented, feel that size does not denote ability to orgasm. However, I must tell you people, I love big clits. The girl who took my virginity had a clit the size of my thumb and I have been obsessed with oversized ones ever since! My own is a bit larger than average, but not "huge". I have another lover who's clitty is about the size of a peanut M&M, and she complains about it being stimulated all the time. I think its because her hood is too small for her glans.

My own clitoris is a little bigger than a green pea, and I am not only multi-orgasmic, I am a "squirter" as well. All in all, it comes down to a visual thing for me. It gets me going to see a big one. I have lived most of my adult life as a bi-sexual, and I only came out as a lesbian last year. I always preferred men with large penises, and I will always have a thing for girls with big fatties!

What matters most is to enjoy and be good to one another.

From Anonymous
Hi, its been fascinating reading everyone's entries. I always considered my clit hood as my "clit" and for it to be quite big. After looking at images of big clits though I've realised mine doesn't look anything like them, in fact it's hidden under a big clit hood.

So I think my clit isn't as big as I thought. What are peoples opinions on big hoods? *blush*, now I've realised how many people have big clits, I'm wondering how many have a longer hood...? are they sexy..?

From Anonymous
I just wanna know is there anyway you can determine the size of a girl's clit through her structure: i.e. men with big feet have big dick. How about girls?

From Bob
I've been with a number of women, and my current girlfriend has by far the smallest clit of any girl I've been with. All of the girls I've been with, except her, had a shaft, that, when they are excited, extends quite a ways above the head of the clit, was covered by the clitoral hood, and is considerably hard when erect, easy to rub, and quite sensitive to stimulation. My current girlfriend has no shaft above the head, and the head of her clit is quite small.

My girlfriend was a virgin when we met, and she always thought that her clit was not very sensitive. This was because she has always had to rub her clit very vigorously with several fingers to achieve an orgasm when she masturbates. Even though she has been giving herself orgasms regularly since elementary school, a more gentle kind of rubbing won't bring her to climax when she jills herself. However, her masturbatory climaxes always came pretty fast, within a minute or so after she started rubbing, and she could always orgasm at least several times in a masturbation session.

When I first started licking her clit, it was unusually small and was actually kind of hard to find. It was also not that responsive to my licks. However, as I licked her over the course of a couple of weeks (after we first met), her clit head actually began to swell to a larger size, became more and more sensitive, and it became easier and easier for her to orgasm from being licked—now she loves the licking sessions that I give her so much, and always orgasms. She now enjoys this more than any other kind of sex, likes to lay back and enjoy the plateau phase during the licking (which lasts about 5-10 minutes before the orgasm, much longer than her masturbatory plateaus), and each licking ends with a screaming orgasm that leaves her worn out. I hope she reads this and knows how much I love her and enjoy giving her pleasure!

Her clit has also become more sensitive to the touch of my fingers, and she can orgasm easier as time goes on (I pull back the hood of her clit and rub the head directly with my finger that's wet from her juices). She also comes from consistent, hard thrusting when we fuck, which some girls that I've been with that had bigger clits didn't. Her clit head is also getting bigger after all this workout that I'm giving it—even when she is not excited she notices that it is considerably bigger. However, she still seems to have no noticeable clitoral shaft, even when she is very excited.

Does clit size seem to matter when it comes to sensitivity? Maybe, but it's not an unsolvable problem!

From Anonymous
I have a very small clit, and I have wonderful orgasms. I'm able to squirt on my own with clit simulation alone. Size doesn't matter.

From Fire Girl
Have read a few of you participant out there. Funny reading!

It seems me like many of you must vindicate if you are small or big lips. Some have found out that size doesn't matter. That's true! Personally I like to read you all. It excites me quite good. Am I allowed to say that?

Big or small? I have a oversized clitoris. It can be frustrating sometimes. I have heard girls say when they see me in a sauna or somewhere else when the subject was coming up. (I whouldn't like to have one like yours.) Tactless! Yet they havn't seen me erected thou. But they don't know that I have a lot of fun when I'm playing with myself. 

Can I talk about the size? My sweet one is sticking out between my labia when erected 2 1/2 inches. I am able to pull my hood all the way over my gland. And I like it! And to be noticed is that I never have been taken any stereoids. I was born this way. We are all different. And after all. Who cares!


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