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From Louise
One sure way to enjoy clitoral stimulation, for myself, is when my husband takes his time stimulating my clit. He uses his mouth and fingers. Once my clit is swollen and hard, he holds it with his thumb and middle finger and jerks it off. These type of orgasms are without a doubt the most intense I've ever experienced.

From Patty
If I'm masturbating, I like to rub my clit, covered by the hood, back and forth with the index and middle fingers of my right hand, feeling the hard shaft under my fingers. If I press down hard I can kind of make the shaft "snap" as I rub back and forth. If I keep doing that for long I'll explode into orgasm. I love to rub it back and forth like that, and I can literally do it for hours. It's easy to keep the sensation at the right level that I want it, to slack off or make it more intense so that I can start my orgasm. 

I also like to pull the hood back and gently touch the head with my wet fingertip, rubbing gently back and forth. As soon as my fingertip (or his tongue) first touches the head, I'll let out a long sigh because the feeling is so intense. I can't last long doing that until I have an explosive orgasm. 

I like for my guy to also suck my clit, covered by the head, into his mouth and lightly chew on it. I'll groan from deep in my chest as he does that until I scream bloody murder as I come. Sometimes I just beg him to chew on it and not stop until I explode.

From Cindy
My clit is easily accessible once I have played with my nipples. It sticks out and I can touch it thru my pants or just push my shorts or skirt to the side and let it jut out to get rubbed. I like to do this often and I do, sometimes getting carried away in semi private settings outside. I come easily, but getting there secretly stroking my clit and nipples is such a thrill. My G spot is not as easy to get to, but I like that too, laying down. I guess I like my clit best, it swells and looks and feels so good when big and hard.

From Cindy
I love to have my clit played with a lot. I recently got some clit jewelry with beads hanging from it and love to get my clit super hard and sticking out, slide that clit clip over my swollen clit and just enjoy the erotic waves of pleasure. I either play with myself while doing porn or my husband does. I wear it during the day alone and horny. 

We both appreciate the fact that my clit not only stays huge and sticks out so much it is easily seen, but I start to come each time it is teased. Worn all day will drive me crazy, and worn in public is tricky, just walking around I am so horny. Especially in public. But I love it. The body rush is so good. The orgasm is almost too strong. Touching my nipples during the long time I am wearing the clit clip makes me throb, I think my clit thickens. It is insane, but wonderful.

From Ms Suzie
Ladies, be careful! Think twice and get full disclosure before piercing your clit. Like Soraya, [see entry below] I had my clitoris pierced 5 years ago, but my experience was the completely the opposite. It was extremely painful for a very long time, and once it healed, my clit was partially numb and still is to this day. I removed the ring after 8 months, and still my clit is partially numb. 

Now it takes considerable clit play before I start to feel anything much. Pity I couldn't leave a perfectly lovely clit alone, I had to go fuck it up with a damn piercing. Oh well, live and learn.

Anyways, back to the topic on hand - I like it when my guy rubs my clit on either side, pulling the lips a bit also. It's so very nice when he pays attention to my entire vagina area, not just my clit. 

From Soraya
I agree with Iris! [see iris' entry below] I got my clitoris pierced 10 years ago for my 37th birthday and I LOVE it! Just to be absolutely clear, it is actually my clit that is pierced, not my hood. It was incredibly painful for about 1 second when the needle went through my clitoris, but after that it just a tolerable ache. However it was sensitive - almost unbearably sensitive for the first month - but after it healed, the sensations settled down to being merely exquisite.

And like Iris said, just walking can be a thrill if I focus my thoughts. I usually feel at least a little tug, twist, or pinch when I sit down, and that is nice! It is nice to get a little erotic reminder during the humdrum work day!

I have a rather prominent clit, and I wear a rather thick 10 gauge ring in it (which is equivalent to a bit less than 1/8" thick). I love to have it pulled and twisted aggressively (that is how the hole got stretched from its original 18 gauge, which is about 1/32"). Tugging it really gets me going!

It is hard to describe the sensations during clit play other than WOW! I like to have it tugged, and also love the sensation of having the ring rotated back and forth through my clit. It is like having your clit massaged from the outside AND the inside at the same time.

It is the best sexual aid ever!

From Barbra
I don't know if I am a lesbian or what. I have been with guys earlier, no problems with that. But lately I don't know what happens with me. From this lovely sites of Erotica I found out that I really enjoy reading participants experiences. And what's excites me more then anything else are those written by women.

Can I be frank? What they say they do with their clits, big or small excites me more then ever. So, I masturbate while I read them. And my imagination have no limit at all. If I could watch it fore real would be heaven. But I am satisfied with reading. This make my day worth living for. No harm in that?

My clit really likes when I pull my hood forth and back. I simply like to do this better then have anything inserted in my pussy.

From Anonymous
Whoever posted that one about the wet tea bag is an absolute legend! ooohhh! Just like a real tongue. I used a teabag in long strokes then got quicker and quicker on my clit, until I came.

From Anonymous
I like to masturbate laying face down. I rub my clit through my knickers and open and close my legs quickly and repeatedly as this intensifies the pressure. I absolutely love tongue though. I love it when my girlfriend slowly licks my clit. I like her to spit so there's lots of saliva, but just concentrating on the clit getting faster. Mind-blowing. Has anybody used a warm wet teabag on their clit? That also does the trick it feels like a tongue when I'm desperate.

From Anonymous
My clit needs some time. Use long, languishing strokes on my lips until I'm squirming and moaning. Then and only then, touch my clit. And please don't tongue it - suck it. That's the best thing for me. Same with my nipples - don't tongue it (why do guys always want to tongue things?) - suck it. It is so much more pleasurable!

From Anonymous
To all you girls who join this lovely Erotica Reader & Writers Association: I read that many of you have as me, an oversized clit. Lovely! I use my two fingers when I masturbate. I have my index under and my thumb over my erect clit (like a little penis) moving my hood (jerking) it over my clit gland. I can press my blood inside my erection to the tip and the feelings are just wonderful. Then I work my hood faster until I reach my climax.  It works wonderfully for me.

From Jessica
I really like to masturbate lying down on my stomach. I really can't get off rubbing my clit directly, although when my husband and I have sex I love to rub his dick on my clit, because I get so wet, it really gets me off. I can't get off from regular intercourse either, not even with rubbing my little clit with my hand while we're doing it. My clit is small, but responds to the right stimulation.

From Stiletto Heel
As I get older and more familiar with my clit I find better ways to please it. I examine it and watch myself masturbate in the mirror. I pull back the hood to intensify my self-stimulation and the orgasm to follow. 

My clitoris responds in a variety of ways to so many different forms of stimuli. I think this the benefit that women have over men when it comes to sexual climax ­ a plethora of different orgasms each one slightly different. Anyway, I can almost anticipate the intensity and duration of a clitoral orgasm just based on the form of stimulation whether it’s water, a vibrator, my fingers (standing laying down), a pillow or my partners fingers. 

With that said, I’ve surely developed a preference for the form of stimulus I like the best ­ because I know it the best and have perfected it for myself. My index finger and middle finger rubbing with a moderate amount of pressure in a circular motion over the very tip of my clit while the palm of my other hand rests on the top of my vagina as the fingers pull my lips and skin taut. By holding the skin taut the hood is pulled back to reveal the source of incredible pleasure and an intense orgasm will follow. Ahhh, it’s a good thing. With that done I’m ready to face the day…now off to work.

7/11/07


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