Clit Notes

Playing It Her Way

Women, how do you like your clit played with? How do you tell a lover during sex, without making him/her feel uncomfortable, that the technique being used isn't working and to try other things? Some of my lovers jingle my clit like it's a bell. It doesn't work for me. I have this theory that men often approach a clit as if it's a wee penis they're trying to jerk off.

My husband is very good at clit play. He doesn't treat mine as a bell, but rather surrounds it with two fingers, and allows me to move myself against them. I like a slow, steady rhythm. Then he puts another finger inside me and I place my little vibe on top of my clit. That works. It takes a lovely, languorous time, but it is worth it. And of course he often adds his tongue to the mix. Which is fab-u-lous. I'm just curious about how others enjoy and approach clit play.   —Amanda

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From Lorie
So very nice to read about other women's way to satisfy their needs. Cause it is all about our human needs. Many of my friends can't admit that they are pleasuring themselves. OK it's a bit private but friend to friend. So here in this site Clit Notes I found pleasure just to read about our secret needs. I myself really love to masturbate and I do it almost every day to have a better joyful day. And I really love to have those horny feelings turning my emotions on. My clitoris is really my friend and I can't nearly wait to come home for my horny session.

At home I undress shower up and stroll around in my nude doing things. And it don't take long before I am good horny how crazy that sounds. All the time between my cleaning or washing up I take time to stick my fingers between my legs and give my erected clit nice needful strokes. I usually use two fingers index and thumb when I pull my clit hood a few times deep in as far as it goes. I love to feel the chillier air around the exposed clit gland. It kind of make it swell even more. And when my cleaning is done I always love to put some sweet music on, place myself in my bed with spread legs and transact my masturbating until the last convulsions is over. Honestly I am in love with my big clitoris.  Thank's for participation!

From Emma
It's so interesting to read these submissions because for me the light fixture flicking is what gets me off the best.  The lighter and faster the better.  It's almost too much to take it's so good. I still remember one ex very fondly cause his tongue was like a hummingbird's wings, so fast and light.  Rough, heavy, slow or languorous doesn't work for me. Goes to show how different we all are and the importance of communication!  

From Anonymous
My clit needs some time. Use long, languishing strokes on my lips until I'm squirming and moaning. Then and only then, touch my clit. And please don't tongue it - suck it. That's the best thing for me. Same with my nipples - don't tongue it (why do guys always want to tongue things?) - suck it. It is so much more pleasurable!

From Erica
My clit loves to get spanked and then chewed on. I love when it gets sucked and my partner's mouth covers all that clit and inner lips, moving his head up and down clit in mouth. Licking it and sucking on it until I can't take it no more! Can I say Oh YEAH! I love to hear the munch sound when he chews on it! It turn me more on!

From Angel
I've been having many amazing encounters with a sexy lady. And more and more it's a challenge to find out what works for us both. I found if I take my time I find exactly what she likes. Try nibbling on her clit with a little sucking action, don't bite too hard unless like me she likes a little pain and pleasure. It may not work for all. I'm just sharing what I like, and now I know she loves this. So happy days.

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