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Circumcision
From Steven I think one can easily look for things to blame one's inability to perform (circumcised or not) so rather get on with it and leave those of us happily circ'd guys alone. I'm sure as hell not going to want my foreskin back and neither does my girlfriend. From Anonymous We have 3 sons, all of which are also uncut. In the 80's when my first 2 sons were born, all the male babies in the hospital nursery were being circumcised. We live in Canada and circumcision was paid through our health care. I can clearly remember the day that the circumcisions were being done. The nurses and then the doctor came into my room to ask me why I didn't want my son circumcised. I explained to them that is the way they are born and nature must have intended them to have a foreskin. I was the only mother who did not have their son done. I was warned of possible future problems and was told that my son would probably have to be circumcised in the future and that it would be much more painful then. I still refused and told the doctor that "we would cross that bridge when we came to it". That son is now 22 years old and has had no problems so far and no complaints from his female partners. Two years later when our second son was born I was faced with the same pressure by the nurses and doctors. I still refused. When our 3 son was born in the 90's, things had changed somewhat. I was asked if I wanted him done, I said no thank you and that was it. I was left alone. At this time our health care no longer paid for this procedure and I thought that it was about time. Because it wasn't free anymore maybe some parents would be too cheap to pay the $160.00 to have their son done and more babies would be spared. I have pondered my/our decision these past 22 years and hoped we had made the right decision. Our 2 oldest sons are sexually active now and they are happy with the way they are and their girlfriends keep coming back for more. I don't think parents have the right to make a decision like that. I think boys should be left alone and after they reach the age of majority then they can make their own decision and if they want to be circumcised then they can. At least it would be their choice and not what society dictates. From Anonymous So I was the ONLY kid I knew with an uncut penis, at least until high school (13 yrs old). My dad was an Englishman and was uncut. Many of my friends were circumcised because their dad's were and they didn't want them to look different. I was constantly teased by other boys, and I hated the smell from the smegma that collected ("cheese"). I wished I was circumcised and used to pull back the foreskin as far as possible to expose the head and pretend I was circumcised. It was a big problem for me and I was quite penis-focussed when young. Eventually I realised that a circumcised penis was not 'normal', and my girlfriends were unaware of the difference - my foreskin is quite small anyway and now I am an adult does not close over the glans even when not erect. My penis is therefore never dried out and is still not smelly like it was when I was a child. Masturbation is easy - the skin moves over the head and I don't get friction problems yet I never use lubricants. I have often thought that maybe the head could have grown larger if I was cut but reading the accounts above makes me reconsider that. My wife's brothers are circumcised, but she didn't want our children to have unnecessary surgery so my son is uncut and I think he will one day thank me for explaining it to her. Parents, if you are going to have your son(s) circumcised because of 'hygiene' or 'aesthetics' or because you are, please do the research first. Except in very unusual cases, even phimosis (which is relatively rare) is not a sound medical reason to do it unless it is quite severe. Don't let your vanity influence your mind, as you don't have the right to mutilate your children just for the sake of it. If they want to do it as adults, let them do it themselves (and suffer the pain). Don't take the choice from them. From Alchemist My circumcision was too tight. It hurt when I was extremely aroused during sex. The skin on my penis was so tight that the skin on my pubic area pulled up and tented around the base preventing further penetration effectively removing 1+ inches from my penis. Using gentle stretching methods similar to those used by the foreskin restoration folks but manually for only a few minutes a day, I was able to stretch the skin enough over about a 3 year period that my penile skin now reaches all the way down to the base when I'm fully erect. My girl friend was surprised when she noticed the difference one day. I'm still the same measurable length but able to penetrate more than a full inch further without any of my pain. While Dr Kellogg suggested that the circumcision should be tight and painful back in the 1880s in order to "make them work for their pleasure", it's still afflicting people 125 years later. With the pain in mind 20 years age I said no to the knife for my son. From Anonymous I was watching Montel one day and a mother had her son circumcised and the doctor cut too deep and sliced the artery. Poor little kid. There is just too much risk, so just keep it how it is. From Anonymous I have thought of being circumcised because my ring is a bit tight but I have come to like that too. If I am doubtful about whether I will get a hard on or not, the pinch of the retracted ring ensures it. And, as for masturbation, I can not imagine that it would be easier or even possible without the foreskin. Howe do men manage? Do they oil it. The foreskin is the gift of a benign God who understands that men want to wank. From Yessica I love sucking cocks, and (I will have to email them and ask!) think that the extra skin makes it easier to wank a guy off. I have to admit, I am a little baffled as to why I don't remember, but that says something doesn't it! I don't care if a man is done or not done, as long as I have a cock in my mouth, I am happy. By the way, this site is excellent. From John McDougall My reason for this query is because when I get massaged in other areas where a lady is also in the nude, then it's a different story because it goes hand in hand. From Jonte Later on with girls I had (and still do) have lots of compliments about my cock. More than one has said it is nice and thick, clean and good shaped helmet! Also when been given head the girls say they prefer it. Nice to look at, no prospect of 'cheese' and no smell! I have never had a problem and a mate of mine who is uncut once had the same girl, she told me that although it was good it was not as good as mine! He too admits that once his foreskin is rolled back his cock his very sensitive and he can only last a couple of minutes. I have managed a lot longer! I suppose there has got to be arguments for both but my own experience tells me I am very lucky! From June Sex with hubby is superb and I have no doubt his circumcized cock is a major factor and while I am also no expert, having been married to the same guy for almost twenty years, my experiences of other men in recent years numbers just two but both left me believing that the un-cut penis is very un-satisfactory. From Anonymous I've really always been happy with my uncut penis but I've as well really wished not to have the skin, and it wasn't until these last couple of years that I'm a lot more sexually active and happily gay married that I've thought about getting in off. But now I don't know! Should I change the great sensitivity that I have now for just lasting more with less of it? What a great tricky question did I put you all thru eh!...But I'll tell you what. I'm 21 y.o. and I think that I will enjoy my skin until my early 30's and then I will go for the uncut look. Sounds Good?... From Matt From Mike Yes, I miss the extra skin. My wife liked to play with it, I liked to play with it. From Jessica I have never understood the concept of whacking off a natural, and sensitive portion of a baby boy's manhood. What a horrible way to come into the world. Besides the male organ truly is an internal organ when left natural so there is more protection and sensitivity in uncut men. When a male is circumcised, you remove the natural protection God gave him which leads to more problems with dryness, chafing and chapping. As for those men that say they want their boys to look like them, grow up and realize how much has been taken from you... Allow your boys to keep their manhood in tact and lets stop this horrible practice of mutilating our boys in America. This society thinks that female circumcision is barbaric and inhumane yet we whack our baby boys everyday... What's the difference? Please help stop this practice. From Wayne Noble From Anonymous I don't like this culture of judgement. Girls here don't seem to get that natural is beautiful. That's why so many get breast implants and cosmetic surgery. I would never suggest a girl get a labiaplasty because all shapes and sizes of vaginas are attractive to me, and if you were to suggest to a girl who is put off but a natural penis to get some form of plastic surgery she'd be furious and hurt. But that is the culture here, so I'm either considering the cut or moving to Europe. European women in my opinion are hot From John It happened to me (in UK) before the dawn of enlightenment (post-war when they stopped circumcising kids here). I hate it, I've always hated it. And I will NEVER forgive my parents for doing it to me. Leave your kids' bodies alone! If they want to cut bits off it, fine, but it should be their decision, no one else's! From Ghost Rider The ladies seemed to like it when I would tell them before I reached orgasm. They would go wild with their tongues on the underside of my cock. It was almost as though an electric current was running through me the way my cock would feel as the cum burst out and it would feel like the hair stood out on the back of my neck. I never heard them say as which preference they had as preferring an uncircumcised cock over a circumcised cock, or vice-versa. I got the impression that it really didn't matter to them just as long as they had a cock to give head to. Also, I really never thought to ask them, because I sure wasn't going to run out and get circumcised just to give them that preference. I just hope that when I returned the favor that it felt as good to them as it did when I was on the receiving end of things. I never told them but Thanks Ladies. From Eldon From Anonymous From Anonymous From Claire Willson To be fair a bell-ender is much better for actual intercourse. Although I’m loathed to admit it. It does give more feeling, leading to faster and stronger orgasms, for use females at least. But as most women will tell you for a female, orgasm although important is not the be all and end all to good sex. Far more important is the build up. The foreplay. Sorry to all you boring pole guys but this is where the foreskin rules. It's just so much more fun to play with, circumcised is just there nothing moves you may as well be using a dildo. There is another point which no one seems to mention cut cocks on average look so laughable small when flaccid compared to the natural normal penis. Please America stop mutilating you boys you know it’s wrong and totally unnecessary. P.S. Read the facts. Most English men, and I do mean MOST, go from cradle to grave without ever experiencing the slightest problem with there foreskin. From Sarah From Derek Now don't get me wrong all my plumbing works wonderfully. But I still don't understand why anyone would believe that permanently altering a innocent child's genitals for no other reason than a parent's personal preference is an okay thing to do. From Ian I can see how some impressionable minds are easily convinced that they have been seriously wronged. I've read some of their comments here with understanding and pity, perhaps those who feel aggrieved by their "loss" should focus upon the real underlying causes of their own emotional trauma and not let themselves be manipulated by those with a hidden agenda. It is currently fashionable to look elsewhere to lay the blame for any number of problems. This does not belittle the suffering that these folks go through, - far from it! My concern is that in focusing their sense of grievance on one issue then they may not find the resolution that they so obviously long for. Good luck to them in their endeavors to find peace. From Lizbeth My problem is what to do if we have a son. I do believe that regular washing would take care of any nastiness, so I don't see the point in causing an infant any unnecessary pain and discomfort. however, my husband takes a different view. He wants his son's penis to look like his own. I've asked him why it's so important to him. His arguments is this "it's dirty and he'll be confused that he doesn't look like me." I say that doesn't hold any water. I tell him cleaning makes things "undirty". He says he wouldn't know how to clean it. He's learned how to properly wipe and clean my daughter without ever having a vagina, I'm sure he could figure out a foreskin. Looking different? If a boy can handle looking different than his mother, why shouldn't he be able to handle looking a little different than his father. Besides, we want to teach our children to appreciate the differences of others. Why not start here? Anyone else have an opinion? From Jack I believe that circumcision is only relevant for those with a medical problem. Other than that, I can tell you that sex is brilliant and much better with foreskin. How do I know? Because a man with foreskin can feel both sensations, with or without. He can roll his foreskin over his head and feel how penetration or oral sex feels as the head moves up and down during the motion, or he can peel it back and feel it as if circumcised. The difference is noticeable and so I want to keep my foreskin exactly where it is thank-you very much. If a girl doesn't want me because I've got foreskin then she has a problem, not me! From Aaron Cleanliness? - It has never been a problem for me. And I am notable because I shower whenever I feel like it, usually every few days and still there is no problem. There is often a small build up of tissue and fluid all around the head and inside the foreskin. But I find personally and I have read that this acts as a lubricator for the head to keep it soft and sensitive. Which is a great plus. There is even a name for the build up that I forget. Social Stigma? - There's the few comments about cleanliness which I easily abate. And comments about appearance, but that is totally a preference. Which For a long time has been influenced to think that circumcised looks better. IN that regards, I have to say that with the foreskin pulled back it barely looks much different than a circumcised penis. Except it looks more stately and natural. Kinda like the penis is wearing a tuxedo and the bright and bulging head is out for the night. I have seen many circumcised penises that look like bananas and just messed up. The frenelum their head the upper shaft all distorted by a mutilation at birth or in latter years. Pleasure? - Tons! My penis is highly sensitive. I couldn't imagine it being more sensitive. I have read plenty about circumcised men (and this definitely makes sense) having a rougher in-a-way callused penis head because it is uncovered (as it was NOT meant to be) and allowed to rub against clothes and simply be open to air and dryness. As for pleasure in penetration? Intense! With my head being so much more sensitive than a circumcised mans I conclude that I get generally more pleasure in all sexual situations. As for her pleasure? In my experience it is not lacking whatsoever. My head bulges bigger than the rest of the shaft so it is giving the most sensations but of course there are tons of other factors that contribute to overall sexual pleasure and yes they are just as important as having a 'capable dick'. Also there has been no problem for fellatio here either. I think like the other men highlighted.. that this area is especially good for us than for cut men due to our far more sensitive penis. And the foreskin doesn't get in the way at all! I hope I didn't leave anything out, damn I always write a lot. All in all I am proud to be an uncircumcised male today! And I couldn't be happier with my penis. From Anonymous From Anonymous When the more mature boys had competitions to see who had the largest penis and who could achieve an erection the quickest the next game would inevitably be 'lets pick on Malcolm' and I would be forced to masturbate in front of the other boys (never to orgasm as you can imagine with 10-15, 13-14 year old boys watching) some of the boys would make comments like "he can't even wank himself off properly with that scrap of skin". On leaving school I found that girls didn't know what to make of my cock or how to give me a hand job (I couldn't carry lube with me now could I!) they did however appear more likely to perform fellatio on me than the other boys (my lack of a foreskin was public knowledge due to the earlier episodes). The formative years of my life have been ruined by my circumcision. In the US where this procedure is 'normal' there is obviously no problem but here in the UK I think that it should only be performed in severe cases (mine was due to a mild case of phimosis). My penis is now quite insensitive and I find that I cannot achieve orgasm through intercourse and have to masturbate to climax which makes my wife feel inadequate. I also spend a lot of time searching through web sites for items on circumcision and foreskins (I'm reading this one RIGHT) In short, don't do it to your sons. From Ralphy How do I feel afterwards? I feel pretty good. First, because the last 2 or 3 months of sex with my wife were horrible. I had to overcome pain most of the time and my wife was worried I could start bleeding from the little tiny cuts that appeared scattered around my foreskin. Second, because the doctor who performed the procedure did a magnificent job. Instead of performing a tight circ, he did a very loose one. Advantage. There is enough skin in my penis so that when it is not hard it rolls forward and covers at least 2/3 of the glan. That keeps the area sensitive and lubricated. Only when my cock is hard do I have my dickhead completely naked. My advice if you need a circ done, ask not to make it tight but loose. It can mean a great difference. This comes from someone with an extremely sensitive glan. From Confused 21 year old After reading these comments, and not coming up with a definite decision I have decided to not go through with it... I am content with myself and hopefully so will she! From uncut and loving it! From M From Bob So now I'm 55 I think it's better to leave everything like it is as you are born. I have a lot of problems the last years whit my situation. I am not a member of the anti circ movement but I must be honest. It was a failure for me. The doctor cut about 75% of my skin and that was much too much. From nlj From Paul From Anonymous My intact penis has never caused any distaste with the ladies I've been with. Most have been grateful for it, in fact. Anyone who slices their own kid, knowing what is lost through the mutilation, is an ignorant fool. As for the perverted doctors who perform the worthless mutilation, don't get me started on them..... From Julius From Kay Our son is also uncircumcised, and we were shocked at the issue it was for my wife's obstetrician. This was a new doctor, as the woman who delivered our two daughters had moved away, but we expected the same basic "Fine, whatever you want" attitude that the previous OB had. Instead, we got a *huge* lecture on the hygiene angle--oh please! I've managed to keep myself scrupulously clean for more years than I'm going to admit to; and besides, one adhesion from a botched snip, which is very common, and you've got yourself a dandy little bacterial hiding place--and then a big rigmarole about how awful our poor little boy would feel if he didn't look just like everyone else in the locker room. Needless to say, we were both extremely upset and irritated. I am not usually very confrontational with doctors, but this is one instance where mild-mannered Kay stepped up to the plate and took a mighty swing; the upshot of which was, the doctor said not one more word about it, and our son is both intact and has no problems whatsoever; not even now that he's a senior in high school, where all the guys are *really* eyeing each other's dicks. From Michael From mikey I can honestly say that: 1.- it makes no difference to the sensations you can feel, (once it heals). 2 -Most women I have met (inc my wife) much prefer to go down on a circumcised penis (even if you do your best to be clean!) I also find that many women prefer the look (no silly vestigial flap of skin) Personally it was the best thing I ever did. If you never have medical issues the case may be less clear cut (excuse the pun) but for me plentiful blow jobs - that sells it right there! From James From Adam I can remember much of the operation, or at least the parts of if where I was not anesthetized, and also I can remember having to take a bath in my underwear the next day, because blood had dried them to my still sore penis. I'm not going to say the operation was traumatic, but I would frankly rather of had it when I was a few years younger. As for now, I can honestly say I don't experience high degrees of sensation along my penis, and especially on the head. Pleasure from fellatio is more psychological than physiological. Now for me, I don't know any real difference, I'm just aware that my experience of sexual sensation differs from that of my friends, but I sense that my girlfriend worries that she does not provide me pleasure. It must be easy for her to wonder why this partner is not stirred by her in the way previous lovers had been. It is nothing she is doing wrong, I just don't feel anything much. I have been told that had I been circumcised at birth I would not have lost so much sensation. Obviously I can't speak for the accuracy of this statement, but I would say that IMHO, circumcision is not a good thing unless necessary. I also don't think that hygiene is a real issue either since there is still a rim in which bacteria can form between the head and the remains of my foreskin. From Panda I come from a medical family, so I've had the opportunity to hear both sides of the debate ad naseum. There seems to an emerging medical consensus that babies should not be circumcised unless it is required by their culture. Anyway, I was never circumcised, for which I am thankful. The foreskin is pretty important for my sexual pleasure. And I don't think that the sanitary argument is terribly relevant nowadays when there is running water in every house. From Clipped Willie My exquisitely sensitive foreskin was gone, never to transmit sensations of pleasure again. My frenulum was gone, never to be flicked by a lady's tongue again. (Damn, Damn, Damn the son of a bitch who stole my pleasure!) In time my glans toughened to the life of an unshielded unlubricated dickhead and I lost most of my sensitivity there to boot. Oh, I still have orgasms of an intensity that can go off the Richter's scale but I miss a lot of the pleasure that I remember having along the way. When I insisted on being present in the delivery room when my children were born the doctors were incensed. Lamaze was not yet in Vogue. When I explained that my sons were not to be circumcised one doctor became angry. I discharged him and found a younger doctor with more sense. Now my boys are sexually active young men now who choose to keep their entire penile structure intact as God created it in the first place. My hindsight is their foresight. "If it ain't broke, don't fix it"! From Spiral The barbaric practice of penis reduction by fore in a non-consenting and fully trusting infant seems to me like one of the most outrageous thefts of personal freedom because it takes place on an institutionalized basis on those whose only way of objecting is to scream and cry. They are not able to defend themselves, and this all done to someone who has no choice but to trust that an adult won't harm them. Of course I support freedom of choice, but isn't that being violated to a deeply psychological degree when imprinting is taking place? I would love to see a psychoanalysis of men who were circumcised without anesthetic versus uncircumcised men. What is the level of confidence? Trust? What about the willing relinquishment of personal freedom? Truly we continue to live in the dark ages as long as practices like this continue. P.S. I say this as a man and a caring parent. From stu From vic There are both advantages and disadvantages to being cut. My extensive research has led me to conclude the following... Pleasure is increased in some ways (men with a loose foreskin often slide in and out of the foreskin whilst making love, effectively just wanking inside their partner, whilst the foreskin remains relatively immobile reducing sensation for their partner)... but reduces it in other ways... a cut cock is less sensitive... but (according to my current girlfriend) it allows more direct stimulation which builds to more powerful orgasms... The foreskin is a sensitive structure so removing it removes nerves, thus there's less sensitive area... But there are many, many ways of cutting a cock, whether the frenulum is removed and how much of the inner lining is preserved... There are advantage and disadvantages to each of the different styles... the favourable cut these days seems to be of the high and tight variety, where as much of the sensitive inner lining is preserved as possible, but the less sensitive outer skin is removed. (for more info I recommend the site www.circlist.org ) I will never experience glans covered stuff... uncut men don't experience the pleasure of a tightly cut shaft. I must've read hundreds of accounts of grown men who've been cut in adulthood and said it was the best thing that ever happened to them... and hundreds who say it was the worst. I was circumcised at birth here in the UK because my mum said, she thinks 'it looks better'. When I was growing up it was an issue of major concern to me... circumcision isn't currently as popular here in the UK as it once was and I was the only circumcised boy in my class at school. At first it used to worry being different... but after many favourable reports from the girls I've been lucky enough to go out with I now enjoy being different and the different pleasures it brings me. At the end of the day, ask yourself one question.. does what you have give you pleasure?... if the answer is yes, the you really have nothing to worry about. People will always like to go, 'mine is better than yours', but this is to make up for their own feelings of inadequacy, they try and put down others who are different. From Tony Well, the procedure was really no big deal AND she was correct! Being circumcised is great! I had it done to please her, but boy, did I end up benefiting. I would never ever want that foreskin back. no way. From Kay From Martha Hubby was already circumcised when I met him and I can still recall today, 30 or so years later, the very first time he penetrated me, the wonderful feeling as his smooth, flesh-free head entered me, that breathtaking moment, my vagina feeling every single centimeter of his erection. I recall, too, what a magnificent sight it was, I remember my mouth falling in love with his large smoothness, totally free of any skin, sucking just the head for a good five minutes before he was ready to enter me. I am not promiscuous by any means but have experienced one or two men over the years but none were cut and all were a bitter disappointment. From Steve Likewise, a guy who is intact can't really comment on how their dick would feel if it was circ'd. My feelings are: the only guys who can really tell whether being cut or uncut is "better" are guys who remained intact until the age of 25 or so, and have had the full range of sexual experiences (masturbation, blow-jobs, intercourse) and then were circumcised, and have now experienced sex with their cut cocks. Those guys would have a real valid opinion on whether being cut or uncut is "better". Unfortunately, if they decided that it's better to be uncut it would be too late to go back! From Kurt I've never had any problem being circumcised, and am glad to be. I think the sensitivity issue is believable ... but if my penis is desensitized that just gives me a while longer to enjoy whatever sexual activity my dick is engaged in! From Michael From Chad I really enjoyed reading all the articles. From Igor From Anonymous From Cody After the circumcision was done I noticed a small bump on the bottom of my penis, when licked in oral activities it causes great sensations, it is very hygienic and has a ribbed texture, I believe that a circ' penis gives more pleasure while in intercourse with longer and harder thrusts, which lead to a faster and greater orgasm for the girl. From Martin When I was about 15 and examining my cock I actually discovered the bits of the stitching from when my foreskin was removed. The whole thing makes me very angry and it is hard to forgive my "long dead" parents. Recently a firm has produced and artificial foreskin to enable circumcised men to regain some sensitivity. I just do not believe the people who say there is no difference. I have been trying this new device for several months and the increase in the sensitivity of the glans makes me realize that I have been denied the real joys of sexual pleasure all my life. Needless to say I made sure that none of my sons were cut and I cannot understand the arguments used by Jews and Moslems. The Koran does not mention circumcision and it is very probably that the method used in biblical times just removed a very small bit at the tip of the glans. I fail to see why large numbers of people object, quite rightly, to female circumcision and do not object equally to it being done to males. They are as bad as each other. From Anonymous I was terrified at the prospect of phys ed, of having to change in locker rooms and shower in the presence of other boys. The reality proved bearable because I discovered at age 15 that if I pulled my foreskin back, it would stay back long enough for me to shower. To this day, nobody who knew my in high school or college knows that I am intact. I was 19 when I first read that intact was not necessarily unsanitary. I was 31 when I first read that American obstetric practice had no scientific basis. Still, I was so embarrassed by my foreskin that I did not lose my virginity until I was nearly 37, to the person who is now my spouse. She arrived in my life already very experienced with the foreskins of several foreign born lovers. I can confirm from personal experience pretty much all of the sexual advantages of the foreskin claimed here and elsewhere on the web. The foreskin also serves to spread around the lube made by the Cowper's glands. When I have been sexually aroused, I become wet under the foreskin in a way that is delightful ot discover the next time I pee. My spouse tells me that this male lubrication is a wonderful plus for intercourse. The foreskin also enables intercourse between the thighs, an activity my spouse learned from an intact bi lover in her past. If you shower daily, odor and cheese are never a problem. My spouse has never complained about my foreskin while giving me oral. I was well into my 40s before I came to appreciate the extent to which the foreskin makes for kinder and gentler intercourse. A dirty secret is that many women do not reliably enjoy intercourse. My spouse does, but only because she masturbates while I penetrate her. I predict that, sooner or later, American women are going to adopt the view that the foreskin makes for better sex. When that happens, routine infant circ will come to an end very quickly, and Americans will go from being the most pro-circ to the most anti-circ culture in the world. From Nic Also, I wish people would stop saying uncircumcised men smell. You must have met a man that doesn't know how to shower. There is absolutely no bad scent coming from my man, and I have spent lots of up-close time with it - sucking his delicious dick is my favorite hobby. As for intercourse, I have never felt so much pleasure. He is the only man that has ever made me cum from penetration. Coincidence? Possibly, but I doubt it. Un-cut men seem to have to ram away at you for their pleasure. What's so pleasurable about that for a woman? To me, that was always quite painful and unsatisfying. Lastly, just a quick comment about woman saying a circumcised penis is more attractive, or men believing that women prefer a man to be cut. Growing up in the USA, you don't see much else, so, many woman here may think they prefer that. I was one of those women. I'm so glad that I have learned otherwise. Natural, un-cut is so much sexier. My man has the most gorgeous cock, and I am happier and more sexually satisfied than I ever imagined I could be. From WD What a horrible, barbaric idea circumcision is. OK, there are medical conditions that require it, but that's a treatment after the fact. There's no good reason for removing a healthy part of the body when there is no problem. Circumcision of a baby is nonconsensual surgery. Little boys are subjected to surgery without anesthesia, which may have psychological effects on them, as well as potential loss of sensation. This is unconscionable. Besides, as others have said in this forum, the foreskin protects the glans, gives pleasure in itself, and has its own aesthetic appeal. I love my penis. That includes loving how it looks when it's not aroused, especially in cool weather when I take it out and see the head wrapped up all tight. I love watching the skin peel back and the head peek out as my penis becomes erect. Nature made me this way, and I'm so fortunate that I wasn't tampered with. From Josef I keep my cock-head clean, and don't have any problem with the build-up of smegma. None of my sex partners have ever complained, so my lack of an exposed glans penis is really not an issue. I have a couple of daughters, but if I had a son he would probably remain intact. From Russ I really think that shows how ridiculous it is that people say women prefer it. Most women are completely ignorant of it at first and then are swayed one way or the other by talking with their friends or by sexual experience. I really saw the inferiority of my penis from that night. A circumcised penis may "get the job done" but it is no fun to play around with and not nearly as fun to masturbate with. I am lucky though, I still have my frenulum! I found out that when I tug on my penis shaft it stretches the frenulum and I get crazy orgasms. I see that this, plus what uncircumcised men get from the foreskin itself, make the circumcised penis seem like a dry toothpick. I only get one life to live and my foreskin was taken from me without my consent now my dry chapped small dick is all I have to come at girls with, Great! Seriously, if you are considering circumcision or circumcising your sons DON'T. Not only is it pointless but it makes everything less. I am one of the guys from this side of a circumcision saying hell no don't do it. Guys who think it is a good idea are either too embarrassed to say that their penis is inferior or they got circumcised recently and haven't gotten oven the "new look" and haven't felt the loss in sensitivity yet. Circumcision is a no-brainer—just say no! From Anna From Jennifer That was 12 years ago and it has been great ever since. My husband is genuinely pleased with the results and I appreciate a nice clean smelling cock. By the way, I have found that cut men do indeed tend to thrust harder and last longer. From Annmarie Then, during sex, no lubrication needed...and the sensations were deeply intense. He had a sort of passionate grinding action...the circ'd men seemed to need to pound away to climax, and this was COMPLETELY different. I could go for hours with a man with a foreskin. They glide in a way that doesn't irritate you. 20 minutes of pounding from a circ'd man leaves me sore for hours. Having been with both intact and circ'd men I have to say, once you've had a man with a foreskin you can't go back! The foreskin just makes men super sexual, and I have been with enough to know the difference. From Ralph From June Now in our early fifties hubby and I enjoy a very active sex life and big in our one-on-one sex is my fellating him. I've been giving him a two or three times a week 'bj' for thirty years and am still in awe of his beautiful large and long penis, spending what feels like hours sucking, licking, kissing and loving that sleek, cut head and shaft he offers. From Lucky in Louisville This year, I met a new man. The first time I explored him in darkness with my hands, I couldn't believe what I was feeling. Smallish and no familiar silhouette. But with an earnest firmness begging to be straddled. For 45 minutes I enjoyed riding and squeezing the extra girth of foreskin and feeling him lengthen inside me. And for four more times that night in different positions. So, I'm definitely keeping my unsnipped guy and am glad that my ex is proven wrong. From Anonymous From Chris Long story short, I researched circumcision and decided that it would probably help me and if it didn't it was not likely to cause me much more pain than the inflation. But as it turned out it did help me, and I have not looked back since. If I have lost sensitivity it is not by any measurable degree and I enjoy sex much more now than I ever did. Sure the surgery was painful ( I would not recommend it for babies) but it was not that bad. I've certainly experienced worse pain. Anyway if there is anyone else out there like me I hope this has helped. From Joe
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