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Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
What do you think about?


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Fantasies

Blasphemous Fantasies
Why are they so titillating?

Could You, Would You?
3 fantasies to try on

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Women dare to share

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Masturbation

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Taking Care of Business
On the sly...or so you think

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?


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Faking It
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Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
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Keeping Abreast..

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Erotic Lactation
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Men, are you into it?


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Enduring Ménage
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Sex After Marriage
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Why Do People Cheat?
Is the grass really greener?

Younger/Older Relationships
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Inquiring Minds

What do Women Want
Hint...it's not size

What do Men Want
Hint...it rhymes with 'vex'

Butt Plugs

Are They Up Your Alley?



Butt PlugOkay...I've only ever tried a butt plug once in my life, and it sure as hell was troublesome! Damn thing wouldn't stay put! I suspect that's because it was a rather slender one (a beginner butt plug, so to speak). But did it ever feel good! I liked it! Wanna try it again! So...are butt plugs prone to popping out if you don't hold them in?

I see many butt plugs have rather wide heads and narrow necks. Will those kind stay in regardless of other activities? They look rather intimidating to me, but I'm willing to give it a try if the end result is worth it (living and learning).  —Anonymous

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From Gary
What will they come up with next? I never cease to be amazed at the selection of butt plugs when I visit my local adult toy store. I recently bought the Anal Pacifier (advanced) and, while not huge, it hits the prostate just right and I highly recommend it for anyone wanting to enjoy anal play. It will absolutely stay in place and you can wear it all day without fear of it coming out and embarrassing you.

From Anonymous
I'm another female that likes anal stimulation with butt plugs very much. I have a lover who inserts a well lubed finger in my butt while he licks my clit. The feeling of fullness is incredible. I introduced him to anal play and he is now addicted. I started out by rimming his butt, then lubed a finger and inserted it, making gentle fucking motions. I also fucked his butt with a butt plug. He went crazy. I stroked and sucked his cock which was incredibly hard until he exploded! 

When we can't be together, we indulge in email erotica. We both self pleasure using butt plugs, dildos, vibrators, etc. and write to each other how it felt and how we imagined each of us was using the toys on the other. When I'm self pleasuring now, I insert a dildo in my butt, one in my pussy, then I "ride" both of them in a squatting position, while I hold a vibrator to my clit. The orgasms are so intense, I feel like I could pass out! Great site, thanks!

From Teresa
I have never used a butt plug, but now, after reading some of the comments here, am thinking I might try one. I have had anal sex, willingly, and I do like it, but it is very bad for the rectum. I had to give it up. That part of the body really wasn't meant for fucking!

From Mike
The difference between a butt plug, and being buttfucked:  The butt plug fits snuggly. It leaves you feeling full. It stimulates very sensitive membranes. BUT it doesn't do anything unexpected. Once it's in, it stays in. It doesn't move in and out. The butt plug has a waist shape that allows the anal ring to close behind it, taking the pressure off the muscle. The butt plug will also compensate for loss of strength in the pelvic floor during sex, making the vaginal penetration more effective.

Compare all of this to being buttfucked. No control. Constant stretching of the the anal ring. Lots of friction - even with a condom. Not the same thing at all.

From Dave
My wife occasionally likes a small one in her butt as we screw doggy style. It seems to heighten her orgasms. For variety, we frequently masturbate each other and I enjoy having her stimulate my prostate with one of her vibrators as she pumps my cock. Creates a huge orgasm.

From Gilbert
I just wanted to comment briefly on an observation I made.  Why is it that so many guys (about 10 up to this point), feel it necessary to begin their submissions with something along the lines of "I am completely straight", "As a totally straight male", "mostly straight"?  I find it interesting that anything inserted into the male anus is still perceived by so many as a gay thing.

[Gilbert, you're not the only one to ponder such things. We have an entire forum that focuses on the perception that to penetrate someone is to feminize them: Anal Sex for Straight Men: A penetrating question]

From Mr. B
I read all the anal toys men use and can't help to wonder how this affects one with hemorrhoids, and what about fecal matter. How does one clean himself to ensure no fecal matter gets in the way? What about pain while inserting toys in the butt? I can not get over the thought of pain while inserting them. Please comment.

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