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I see many butt plugs have rather wide heads and narrow necks. Will those kind stay in regardless of other activities? They look rather intimidating to me, but I'm willing to give it a try if the end result is worth it (living and learning).  —Anonymous

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From Gary
What will they come up with next? I never cease to be amazed at the selection of butt plugs when I visit my local adult toy store. I recently bought the Anal Pacifier (advanced) and, while not huge, it hits the prostate just right and I highly recommend it for anyone wanting to enjoy anal play. It will absolutely stay in place and you can wear it all day without fear of it coming out and embarrassing you.

From Chris
I have owned 2 butt plugs now for over a year. They do make my orgasms much more intense! I own one glass butt plug wich is very comfortable for wearing through out the day(or night) and a larger rubber one wich I can only wear for maybe a couple of hours at a time. The larger rubber bp is better to intensify an orgasm and since I am single it is great to wear when I masterbate!

People that have not tried butt plugs are really missing out! Start out small and work your way up to a larger one!

From Gilbert
I just wanted to comment briefly on an observation I made.  Why is it that so many guys (about 10 up to this point), feel it necessary to begin their submissions with something along the lines of "I am completely straight", "As a totally straight male", "mostly straight"?  I find it interesting that anything inserted into the male anus is still perceived by so many as a gay thing.

[Gilbert, you're not the only one to ponder such things. We have an entire forum that focuses on the perception that to penetrate someone is to feminize them: Anal Sex for Straight Men: A penetrating question]

From Gary
Always thought I had to use a large plug to get any anal satisfaction but, at a recent visit to my Hustler Store, I saw one (I think it's called the Twister) that caught my eye and I bought it. It's only about 5 inches long overall and hits my prostate just right. Also, it is tapered such that it stays in place. Sitting here with it inserted right now and squirming my ass against my leather recliner causes a super feeling inside my asshole.

From Babeland
Mr B [see entry below], there is a right way and a wrong way to go about anal sex. The wrong way involves ignoring pain and "pushing through" it to reach the goal of anal sex. Our butts are made of sensitive, fragile tissues, and pain is a signal from your body that something is going wrong. Anal sex should never, ever hurt. If it does, your body is telling you to relax, slow down, and be patient. Practice makes perfect. Anal play is a learning process. Education is crucial. Here's a few articles that will answer your questions and guide you into enjoyable and safe anal play.

From Mr. B
I read all the anal toys men use and can't help to wonder how this affects one with hemorrhoids, and what about fecal matter. How does one clean himself to ensure no fecal matter gets in the way? What about pain while inserting toys in the butt? I can not get over the thought of pain while inserting them. Please comment.

From Ms Michelle
I have enjoyed anal stimulation since I was a little kid at the doctor's office. When I got married, my wife completely understood and it occasionally becomes part of our sex play. I bought my first plug about three months ago and it's great! I bought the small one and was disappointed in how easily it comes out.

When we went to buy a medium my wife found a wireless remote controlled one! Now she'll put it in me before we go to the grocery store and "buzz" me several times here and there around the store. Her favorite is to "buzz" me when I'm at the deli counter or the checkout. It's hard to keep a straight face in front of a stranger when your back door suddenly gets vibrated. Thank goodness the motor is quiet enough to go undetected.

I have been searching EVERYWHERE for a wireless vibrating anal toy to use on my boyfriend. 

[Adult DVD Empire has 3 wireless vibrating anal toys to choose from, along with an amazing variety of anal toys.]

From James
For all of you out there who haven't worked up the guts to buy a real plug, here's a suggestion. Rather than walking around your house looking for good objects, why not walk around a drug store (the shampoo/bodywash area is usually best suited)? I have found that if I go in to the store with a means of measuring the circumference I want I end up happy with my purchase at home.

As with anything you would find around the house, make sure there are no sharp edges on anything you intend to put up your butt. I also find bottles full of warm water are best because they don't deform as easily under pressure and the warmth is a nice sensation.

I am 20 and have been into anal since grade school, so I did my share of exploring in the area of plug-alternatives. Right now I'm looking for a reasonably priced harness, so if anyone could help me with that, I'll go for anything <$40. I really want to try wearing huge plugs around all day, the thought to me is really hot, but then again, I'm into extreme stretching back there. Whatever.

I love anal, my one and only (long term) girlfriend has a huge aversion to everything anal so I have to keep my activities private, but someday I really want to explore my desires with a girl whose into the same thing. Why aren't girls as into anal stimulation as guys are, at least they don't get labeled as being gay for even bringing the idea up!

[Uh oh! Be kind to your colon and don't mess with bottles, etc, which can easily slip into the rectum and cause serious and embarrassing  problems. The flared base on butt plugs prevent that from happening. And, the price of butt plugs are reasonable. Try Butt Toys at Adult DVD Empire]

From Anonymous
I'm another female that likes anal stimulation with butt plugs very much. I have a lover who inserts a well lubed finger in my butt while he licks my clit. The feeling of fullness is incredible. I introduced him to anal play and he is now addicted. I started out by rimming his butt, then lubed a finger and inserted it, making gentle fucking motions. I also fucked his butt with a butt plug. He went crazy. I stroked and sucked his cock which was incredibly hard until he exploded! 

When we can't be together, we indulge in email erotica. We both self pleasure using butt plugs, dildos, vibrators, etc. and write to each other how it felt and how we imagined each of us was using the toys on the other. We are also into rimming each other. I'd like to see some comments about analingus from other readers! 

When I'm self pleasuring now, I insert a dildo in my butt, one in my pussy, then I "ride" both of them in a squatting position, while I hold a vibrator to my clit. The orgasms are so intense, I feel like I could pass out!

Great site, thanks!

From Slohand
I see a lot of talk here about satisfaction from the sensation of insertion and the sensation of fullness. I agree on both counts, but am I the only one who enjoys having the plug tapped while it is inserted. Sends the most delightful sensations as it nudges the prostate - different than thrusting. Before this discovery, butt plugs were okay, but I actually had trouble maintaining an erection with one inserted. Now...not so much.


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