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Is it possible to find true love in cyber-space?

Is it possible to find true love in cyber space? Perhaps...

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From Sister Midnight
I have to throw in my skeptical two pence here. The one thing that's important to me in both sexual relationships as well as friendships is honesty. And that's the problem I have with people on-line. You never know who you're really talking to on the Internet. They could be lying to you about their gender, sexual orientation, likes and dislikes, personal philosophies and beliefs, and everything else. You have to take their word for it, and trust them to tell you the truth of who they are IRL.

And quite frankly, why should I trust some complete stranger halfway across the world to tell me the truth about him- or herself? It's not that I care much whether they say who they are (what's it to me, after all? I have my own life here, and my own friends and lover), I'm just saying that I do not get emotionally involved with people I meet on-line. I simply enjoy having conversations and debates with them, purely on an intellectual basis.

So if you combine my views on cybersex and on emotional involvement with people on the Internet, you can probably imagine that I don't believe in 'cyber love'. The whole concept of "falling in love" with somebody you don't even know, or have never met, seems entirely ludicrous to me.

From Expanding Mind
This topic interests me greatly because I have been chatting with a woman in Thailand for over two months. I will give you some background information first: I have been married for 17 years and have 3 children. I love my family and will not leave my wife. We could have a little more spark in our love life, but it is not bad either. The woman I have met online is single and 13 years younger than me (she is 29). She works in a health care clinic there and because of the time difference (12 hours), I usually chat with her from 11 PM to 2 to 4 AM.

Neither of us discussed love or sex...the chats we have had have centered around differences in cultures, what our lives are like, our work, our vacations, etc. I have sent pictures of myself, leaves changing colors, my workplace, Halloween and Thanksgiving decorations, etc. She has sent pictures of herself, her workplace, Buddhist temples, and surrounding countryside. Intellectually, our conversations are very stimulating and we share similar senses of humor and interest in various things. We consider ourselves close friends. If we could meet, I would, but I would be a little afraid of what might happen if we did. It is probably good we live, literally, on opposite sides of the Earth. If I was single, I would probably fly there to meet her if she was willing, which I think she would be. I do not know how this will end, but I do know that it has broadened my horizons regarding differences in cultures. With the internet, it really is a Global Village.

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