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From Anonymous
I was skeptical. Out of amusement, I place a discreet ad on a dating site, not expecting too much, just maybe some commiseration. What I found was the love of my life, living less than a half hour away. Was this fate? You bet your booty it was. I thank God every day for him finding me. We are best friends and complement each other perfectly.

From Shelly
I met my fiancé on the internet. So, yes, I do believe that you can find love in cyberspace. Even though we live 3000 miles apart, we have managed to fly to see each other several times, and we talk on the phone 2-3 hours every day. We spoke on the phone for a couple of months before we met. And when we met, wow, we were instantly attracted. 

I was surprisingly comfortable when I first met him because we had been talking and sharing our thoughts and feelings for a while, and this strengthened the intensity of our attraction. What was so nice was the fact that the physical aspect was not an issue at first. We didn't have cybersex before we met; we concentrated on getting to know each other on a cerebral level. We hinted around as to our desires and fantasies, but we waited until we physically met to explore things further.

From Jenna
It is not only possible to find love through internet interaction, I contend that it is likely. I fell in love with a guy I met on an online site. I truly fell in love with him; first his mind, then everything else. And he fell in love with me. Too bad I wasn't completely honest with him about who I was. To make a long story short, I lied to him. (Who hasn't pretended to be someone they're not in chatroom encounters?  Role playing is fun.) But everything I told him about me was true with the exception that it all had taken place 10 years before. Everything I shared with him was from my life back then. It was fun and exciting to  revisit my past and to embellish things a bit, just to live out fantasies about how I would have liked my life to have been different 10 years ago.

Everything would have been fine IF we hadn't fallen in love. This was a particularly sticky situation as I have been  married for 10 years now. I love my husband dearly and had no intention of leaving him for anyone else...including Mr. Internet. But I was wholly compelled to not only meet my internet love, but to consummate our relationship...and we did, indeed consummate our relationship. He never suspected that I wasn't who I said I was. And the time we had together was very special.

Aside from  the guilt I've experienced (infidelity and lying, to name  but two reasons), I now have the daunting task of somehow getting out of this relationship (the internet one) without really hurting this guy. I can't be with him: he believes me to be someone I'm not. The truth would crush him. AND there's the little detail that I'm married.

Now that I've left the confessional, let me hop up on my soapbox for a minute, I only want to say be careful! Guard your hearts by using your heads. It's easy to fall in love through internet interaction but be wary of someone who seems "too perfect." Chances are if someone seems too perfect to be true, then he/she IS too perfect to be true. If love is your objective, I say you'll experience fewer complications if you stick to those within your own village, rather than the global village.

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