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From Anonymous
I have just recently been interested in bondage. It took several requests for my hands to be tied before my husband would do it. I am very turned on with my hands being tied above my head with a silk scarf. Now I would like to take it to another level and have my hands and legs tied spread eagle. Can't explain why I enjoy it. Maybe just being submissive and letting him be totally in control.

From Bill
My wife and I have been married for 15 years. We have not been very upfront with each other sharing thoughts on what we like to do in bed together. I'm always afraid of freaking her out.

She has said she likes me to talk to her during sex about what I like, so a while ago, I said I'd like to tie her up during sex. Her shocked reaction was enough for me to keep my sexual thoughts to myself for years.

To my surprise, recently during sex, she held her arms over her head in a bondage position. She said it turned her on to have her arms together that way. And the other day, she was lying against my chest as I stroked her nipples from behind, she said she'd like to be restrained while I played with her nipples.

Well, I didn't need any more encouraging. I got out a few neckties and tied her up. Both of us were tremendously excited. She took my cock in her mouth deeper than she ever had before I returned the favor by screwing her hard and then licking her clit to a fantastic orgasm!

I think we've opened a door to a whole lot of activities that I had thought were off limits to me for the rest of my married life.

I now need advice from other people, what types of restraints are the best for ease of use and for giving the right in bondage feel?

She has also told me that she's turned on by the thought of having someone shave her pubic hair for her. My prim and proper wife!! It's amazing how you think you know your spouse and then they surprise you - in a good way!

From Mary
I am definitely into it, but I don't (yet?) know how to handle it. I discovered I love being spanked. The slaps go right to my clit. Not knowing when the next one comes turns me on. Most of my lovers I've been with liked or at least didn't mind spanking me. But that's as far as it goes. I'd like being tied up and blindfolded, whipped or caned maybe. I'd like to try and find out if that's really my thing.

But as much as I'd like to put myself in someone else's hands, I refuse to call anyone my master. Giving away control, fine, I am a control freak and being able to put that aside feels like a kind of relief, but equality is important for me. I wouldn't mind being in control either. If I can make someone else feel good, stretch their boundaries, give in to their deepest desires, I'd lovingly put my mind, body and soul to it. And that's what I'd like someone else to do for me too. Now the only remaining question is where to start...

From Donnie
 My wife asked me to tie her wrists and ankles to the bed for sex, she dressing up in basque and stockings. Our 'game' was her wriggling to stop me from entering her vagina and how long it would be before I became more determined and, running out of patience, thrust my erection into her. It was very enjoyable for us both, she not being tied too tightly to the bed, and we repeated it on a number of occasions.

Then she asked if the next time we could do it with one of our male friends. I had no problem with that since I had asked her previously if she'd consider a threesome. Our friend was a little self-conscious but after a meal and lots of vino he relaxed and helped tie my wife to the bed and, naked, joined in the game.

He wasn't in a rush and was willing to play as my wife wriggled to stop his entry, occasionally taking his cock in her mouth, he doing his best to ensure that she enjoyed it, she of course minus use of hand and fingers around his erection. It was only a game and she relented and he eventually went into her vagina and produced a fuck of about five minutes before climxing in incredible moans. I was inside my wife's mouth, climaxing in her throat soon after our friend had shot inside her vagina, an incredible amount of semen my wife asked me and our friend to suck away, which we both willingly did in a double 69, my wife sucking both our now limp manhoods.

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