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From Jillian
A Report from the Field:  I've had a lovely set of ben wa balls for a couple of months now and haven't been real sure how to really use them. I've played with them on and off, working the kegal, but didn't know what to DO with them.

Earlier this weekend I was watching some completely unrelated movie and for some reason, the balls crossed my mind. So today, I started searching the web and found this site via Google. Wow -- everything I had wondered was addressed by various people's experiences and opinions right here! Naturally, an experiment was begun.

After reading everyone's postings (I'll apologize up front for not giving the proper references their props), I decided that instead of buying groceries on this rainy afternoon, I should instead replace my favorite vibrator that had died a few months ago, solely in the name of science, of course, so that I could check out the Female Ben Wa Ball experience. (Not to worry, I'm single and no children. Toyz are allowed to come before bread).

Off I go to the toy store and picked up several items, many I hadn't planned on purchasing, as I recalled random sentences from various postings. Fast-forward to home, where I can begin to check this all out. I dared to lay down and place the balls inside of me. I recalled one lady posted she had great orgasm just moving the ball in and out of the opening of her vagina, so I checked that out. Nice. Hypothesis #1; rolling the ball around the nerve endings at the opening of the vagina works. Very stimulating.

Then I used a dildo, which was kinda scary because I too have been concerned about the balls getting lost or me not being able to get them out. I thought of the gentleman who wrote about the experience of he and his wife. The idea of penetration with the balls inside of me never even crossed my mind! That was coooool. Hypothesis #2; not only could I feel everything moving inside, but the feeling of the balls clicking together, and being able to hear them!, was all very exciting.

After this, I admit I had slight panic when I checked myself and couldn't feel the balls. Then, I thought of the lady who talked of the pelvic floor and the exercise ball. duh, I'd forgotten part of my own basic anatomy! I chilled a minute, then raised up on my knees, pressed down, and bloop, there they were! Hypothesis #3; they really don't -- and can't -- "get lost" inside.

Finally, I let myself orgasm with only clitoral stimulation. Hypothesis #4; the feeling of weight inside seemed to make me more sensitive, and the clitoral orgasm was, in fact, ya know....fantastic!!

In summary, my theory is that many women, including myself, forget our basic anatomy and female design. Although the fear of something "disappearing" inside is real, it won't happen naturally. Yes, they're great for kegal exercises. To try and experience them sensually, rolling the one ball in and out of the vagina opening worked for me and was a great start to feeling more comfortable with them. They do enhance stimulation, for sure, at least according to this reporter.

As far as "comparative data"....I cannot say that it was in the spectrum of being one of the "best" orgasms I've ever had, even though it was very good. I may be spoiled right now though. My current boyfriend is an incredible lover. I, uh, still have yet to approach him with the idea of making love with the balls inside of me... *heh* But, I'm certain he'll be willing to at least entertain me so I can check out the "real life" experience!

This reporter intends to continue working with these nifty little balls in various ways. Thanks to everyone who posted and helped me form a more definitive idea of using the ben wa balls.

More from the field as warranted. Until then, over & out!

From Darlene
I am not sure that you understand the purpose of the ben wa balls. They are like "little dumbbells" for your keigal/PC (orgasm) muscles. This is also the muscle group that controls your bladder. Ben Wa balls are designed to help strengthen these muscles to increase bladder control and to increase the intensity of you orgasms, normally they will also make your vagina feel tighter during penetration. They can not get lost or wonder around, as your vagina has only one opening and that is out. If you are in labor and are dilated and if the ben wa balls are small enough they could possibly cause a problem during that time. I find it hard to believe anyone in labor would insert them then...

Ben Wa balls can be used during sex for extra stimulation, however you are not going to feel a lot while just walking around with them in. You should be able to feel them and for many women it will be a pleasurable feeling; however I would not go buy them to finish the job if you know what I mean.

From Jane
I agree that some women may get a response from Ben Wa balls, but I guess I'm not built that way. I think maybe they make you expect that they'll work and so you're paying attention more and feel more sensual.

From Alarista
I love my Ben Wa Balls. I would put both of them inside me, then get on top of my boyfriend. It would take just a few minutes before between all the stimulation I would climax, it was awesome to have the feeling of them inside me with him. The only down side was I could hear them clacking against one another as we moved, that was kind of a weird noise.

From Raz
I've heard that you should practice with them and get used to one ball inside first before you leave your house with both in. I just got my first set of ben wa balls tonight and I'm wondering how long I should practice with them before I can wear them out for extended periods of time. I guess this is just something I'll 'know' after a time, but I'm wondering if anyone else can comment on this and let me know your evolution of ben wa ball usage!?

From Luna
If you are afraid of them wandering or disappearing, or having problem expelling them a trick is a condom. Please them in a condom, tie it shut and you can just retrieve the end. It also keeps them dry, and easier to sterilize later. The condom does not hinder or change the way they affect the body, it just makes them easier to expel later on.

From Kim
I don't know if im using them wrong, or my vagina is weirdly shaped...but I put in the ben wa balls, and I could jump around with them inside me and they didn't fall out. I literally had to get on all fours and push like I was in labor to get them to come out. I'm 23, so I'm still young and have a tight vagina, but I also had sex with my boyfriend this morning so I can't imagine im really really tight right now. Has anyone had a similar experience, or can offer any help?

From It's Joss, again
I decided to come take a peek here after six months, this to the lady who has the kids and feeling loose. It'll come. You just have to keep pulling that muscle. Don't give up. I also think it's a good idea to start exercising this. My mom's uterus fell out because her muscle was too weak after 3 kids. It'll be worth it. If you can pull this muscle tight just think what you can do pushin' it...oh yeah.. that's the shit. A woman's gift from God...

The chick who had the anxiety attack, chill... drink some wine, don't think so much... enjoy the ride. Over and out team.

From Anonymous
Yes! I have used ben wa balls and they are a big turn-on for me. Sometimes I get so wet that they slide out of my pussy. I like to insert the balls when I go out clubbin and I'm feeling horny. I first tried them 10 years ago on a dare from a boyfriend - he was really curious if they worked. I probably never would have tried them otherwise and boy am I glad he recommended them!

From Krinna
Wow! I've been interested in these little guys for some time and finally got my hands on some. The metal cloisonné version that clang and bang. BANG! is an understatement. I've only used them solo, can't wait to surprise my honey in our next encounter!

From Trixie
Oh dear, ROFL at all your stories. Some Lesbian friends suggested to my partner and I that it would be worth trying but so far haven't taken the step. Now, after reading your stories, I don't think I will - I just can't stop laughing!

From Krissy
I have tried theses recently (well rather one of them). I had run out of batteries for my vibe & was feeling rather horny so I tried out my enameled dragon cloisonné stress balls to which purpose have used as since sold to me. Imagine if you can the wonderful surprise I received! Just rubbing the ball on my vaginal opening & gently popping it & out of my vulva while rubbing on my clitty made me come really fast! Yum!

From Joss
I went into a sex store to seek some ben wa balls. Already having pierced my "hood" I was looking for some more "selfless" pleasure.

After buying them and returning home I had put them in. They fall only fell out a couple times. I was pretty impressed with myself. Anyways at the end of the day I was starting to wonder, "how long is safe to keep these in."

So, I went to take them out. What I experienced within the next hour can only be described as blissfully orgasmic. I decided to give myself a little rub and my goodness, I saw fireworks. Being the little perve that I am I had to do it again, and then once more to top it off. So, whatever, I'm all done taking care of myself and go to take them out. They were gone! I searched my bed sheets- couldn't find them, but I could feel them. Ahhh. I was a little nervous about the whole thing so I ran downstairs to my husband," Honey... I'm in trouble. I lost my balls."

It's kind of funny, eh? He told me to relax. With the birth of my child I really know how many ways a simple exercise ball can open up your pelvis floor and make a baby fall out. So I straddled it, wiggled my hips, and pushed. Ahhh. I would have never have thought that I could actually come like I did without clitoral stimulation or penetration. 

One was still missing in action though. I went to my bed, got on all fours and searched. I found it. I kind of had to work it out with my finger and every time I touched the ball, I blew my load. Like another 3 times. When I finally retrieved the second ball all I could do is stare at them with awe and roll them in my palm. Who would have thought? Not me, I under estimated these tiny things.

So, that's my first go with them. An experience that I will never for get. I look forward to using them more and using them during intercourse with my husband. At first, I didn't know if what happened to me was normal, but now I realize these balls are truly a martial art, and me, well I plan to perfect it. Cheers.

From Candy
I just got a set of Ben Wa Balls. I didn't expect to get any pleasure from them and I was right. I was so scared they wouldn't come out easily but it was very simple, as long as I didn't freak out about it and get nervous. After wearing them one full day my fiancé was amazed by how tight it made me, almost too tight. I am in love!

From Anonymous
Oh my goodness, if you are going to use these, be EXTREMELY careful. I tried earlier in the evening and had a panic attack because it wouldn't come back out. I actually had to deal with the unpleasant situation of getting my hand way up there to pry it back out and I had cramps from that for a few hours later. Watch out!

From Anonymous
My wife and I just got a set of ben wa balls. I can't wait to use them! I have read some of the postings on here and am excited to try out our new little toy!

From Anony
Ben-wa balls cannot, I repeat cannot set off shop anti-theft or security systems. Absolute hogwash whoever told you that. Shop anti-theft systems all use some form of RFID technology and there is no such RFID trigger componentry or tag in Ben-wa balls. The metallic quality of Ben-wa balls (and indeed any other metallic items - coins, jewelry) will not set off such systems. 

On the other hand if you wore Ben-wa balls through the security system at an airport (which /is/ just looking for concealed metallic objects) it will almost certainly set the system off and um.. you'll have an interesting time with the airport security folk -P

From Eclipse
I got a set of 6-in-1 ben-wah balls as a free introductory gift from a major 'sex catalog' years back and I found them a real challenge. With plenty of lube, it was easier to finally get them all deep inside me and they felt great, even making me semi-hard. I left them in for a few hours and they felt even better as my ass muscles dealt with this new 'invasion.' 

The next day, I decided to wear them all day—to work—and they felt even better, making a nice package in my slacks. I wore them off and on for a cheap thrill and got all different sizes and varieties until one day I wore the 'plastic coated metal ones and you could hear me 'rattling' all day long. Yes, I'm a guy and they also help me shoot longer and farther than without them.

From Kassie
I got some ben wa balls the other day. I haven't really got any sensation from them yet but I am hoping that it comes soon. If all else fails my pc muscle will get a good work out.

From Anonymous
I just started to use them recently. I was first afraid that I would not be able to get them out but after using a few times I turned out great. Just put them in and go.

From Kalifa
I've always used ben-wa balls and they've being great for me! the stimulation! I get the biggest orgasm, but when I don't have them with me, I use marbles, they work the same except of the clagging inside them. I've never had them lost, and if they do stay inside for a long time, in a few hours they slip out easily!

From Kayla
I have recently purchased a pair of the Ben Wa Balls but have yet to use them. I tried but felt very concerned about not being able to remove them from inside. I need help!

From Dee Ann
I was a little nervous at first when my husband inserted them but as I calmed a bit the pleasure was great. First use we went to a movie and setting there the balls moved clanging each other making me very warm. I found myself rocking in the seat and bringing on a powerful orgasm. Now as a practice he places the balls just before we go out on our private evenings and we both enjoy the results!

From Ramparts
My wife has tried them twice and each time they fall out. The last time she even tried getting dressed after I put them in. What are we doing wrong? She thinks her muscles are not strong enough to hold them in. Please can someone help us?

From Megan
During my last visit to the sex shop, I spotted a pair of Ben Wa balls and decided to try them. When I took them up to the counter, the woman working asked if I had ever used something similar before. When I said that I hadn't, she suggested that maybe the Duo-??? balls would be easier to start out with, as the Ben Wa's were quite heavy.

After taking a look at what she was describing, I decided to go with the little golden Ben Wa's, without the string, as opposed to the larger, white, plastic Duo-?? ones. When I got home and had a chance to try them, I found out that they were actually not that hard at all to hold in, and they were comfortable.

After wearing them for some time, not experiencing any of the stimulation I had heard some people receive from wearing them, I had chalked them up to being nothing more than an exercise tool. Then I discovered something by accident while wearing them at work... I had forgotten I was wearing them, and one started to slip out, while the other was still fully inside... the rhythm of walking was making them move and bump against each other, and it felt AMAZING! Now I love them... they make work so much more enjoyable... and no one even knows they are there!

From jo
When I tried them, they were called love balls, so I think they were a variation on the original. Maybe this is why they didn't have the desired effect, I don't know. They were IMHO quite large (for me) and didn't do a damned thing. Of course, instructions are not the norm with sex toys, and I wasn't at the stage where I could go and ASK! So, I remain, like the other contributor.... ben-wa challenged!

From Charlie 
I bought my wife her first set in '75- '76 when they first hit the little secret adult places. When I gave them to her and told her about them the first thing she wanted to know was how to get them out. I told her I didn't know, squat down and sneeze I guess. She started laughing and said go get the pepper shaker, and she headed for the bedroom. It was 'coool' night.

From Sandaidh
No, they didn't "wander" or disappear. They did fall out the first time I put them in. Try again, this time laying down on the bed and inserting further in. Video in the VCR, finger at the ready...let's go. I didn't know what to expect. What I got was, in a word... awesome. It was much better (personal opinion here) than using either a dildo or vibrator, or even both combined. Afterward, I had to use the bathroom, and was worried about (a) them falling out on the way there or (b) them falling out in the toilet (horrors!). I needn't have worried. They stayed put. In fact, they stayed put for another half an hour - my inner muscles had contracted that strongly. It took that long for them to relax enough to "let go."

The second time was much like the first, although I wasn't able to wait for my muscles to relax enough to let go. I don't recall exactly why, I prolly had to go somewhere and didn't want to have the "plop plop" at an inconvenient time and/or location. I was able to...er...'speed up' the process by standing up, leaning waist up across the bed and hitting another "high point." When the contractions hit this time, them little things shot out like cannonballs. 

Yeah, I still use them, although not as often as I'd like

From Chocoholic
I have a set but haven't used them much; they don't seem to affect me in that special way... maybe I need more practice!

From Beth
I've tried them but I've got to be doing something wrong because I didn't feel anything like what had been described.

Do you worry about them "wandering" or disappearing?

That was a concern but didn't turn out to be an issue for me. They came out easily. Then again, maybe they should have been in deeper? I think I'm ben-wa-ball challenged...

How long can you safely have them inserted?

Not sure but I would think they'd work their way out naturally before it would become a problem (I hope).

From Suzie
I have some and I love to wear them when I go to get groceries just to be naughty.

From Curious
I don't know how true this warning is. After being warned, I decided that I didn't need the chaos. Several people told me this.

Warning!! You should never go shopping with sex toys inserted inside of your body. No matter how fun you may think this will be. When exiting the store, you could set off the metal detectors, scanners, and other security systems. Just imagine trying to explain & having to prove, that you are not shoplifting!

Way more stress than I need. Could be a bunch of shit, but I am not going to try it.

I use & love my Ben Wa Balls.

From Lesly 
A Ben Wa (the "Greater Ben Wa") is a mythical creature. The male of the species is said to have been hunted by female inhabitants of Toyland because its balls had the power to excite a woman into having an orgasm when inserted into a vagina and left there for a while. Many women reported a feeling of fullness and arousal when the ben wa balls were in their vaginas. Their greatest use is reported to be by women going solo, if you get my drift. (Statistics reported from various sex toy shops.)

Unfortunately, the species became extinct because so many males were castrated in order to harvest their balls. Thus, today we have the inferior product offered by sex toy shops - made of metal and having a mass inside each ball which can move around and thereby excite a lady.

A smaller creature, the Lesser Ben Wa, is rumored to have once existed. It was a much smaller creature whose balls were quite smaller than those of the Greater Ben Wa. Those balls were commonly strung together and used as ANAL BEADS - quite nice for men or for women. Insertion and removal of the modern version is also a special sporting event, by followers of the "Back Door Method." A partner is usually involved, rather than doing this by yourself. Pulling out the 'necklace' is considered quite a sport by some 'perverts', which means most of us.

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