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From Suzie
I have some and I love to wear them when I go to get groceries just to be naughty.

From Steve
Back about 15 years ago when I was working as an Elevator man, I was finishing up lubricating an escalator in a shopping mall.  I had just put in the floor plate and had taken the 'Do not use' flag off at the the lower end, when a young woman asked if she could use the escalator.  Well, I said sure and as she got on, I remembered the flag was still on at the top end. So I asked her to remove it. She started walking up a few steps and I heard a loud clank then a bouncing sound as this silver ball bearing was coming down the step train. I walked up the steps and retrieved it. It was 3/4 inch in diameter. 

Well she was highly embarrassed to say the least and was about ready to run when I convinced her into the coffee shop right there.  I smelled my fingers after handing her the ball, and she blushed even more.  The coffee shop manager was a good friend of mine and we enjoyed a 20 minute coffee break and I learned a little about women and their Ben Wa Balls.

From Raz
I've heard that you should practice with them and get used to one ball inside first before you leave your house with both in. I just got my first set of ben wa balls tonight and I'm wondering how long I should practice with them before I can wear them out for extended periods of time. I guess this is just something I'll 'know' after a time, but I'm wondering if anyone else can comment on this and let me know your evolution of ben wa ball usage!?

From Luna
If you are afraid of them wandering or disappearing, or having problem expelling them a trick is a condom. Please them in a condom, tie it shut and you can just retrieve the end. It also keeps them dry, and easier to sterilize later. The condom does not hinder or change the way they affect the body, it just makes them easier to expel later on.

From Anonymous
Yes! I have used ben wa balls and they are a big turn-on for me. Sometimes I get so wet that they slide out of my pussy. I like to insert the balls when I go out clubbin and I'm feeling horny. I first tried them 10 years ago on a dare from a boyfriend - he was really curious if they worked. I probably never would have tried them otherwise and boy am I glad he recommended them!

From Krinna
Wow! I've been interested in these little guys for some time and finally got my hands on some. The metal cloisonné version that clang and bang. BANG! is an understatement. I've only used them solo, can't wait to surprise my honey in our next encounter!

From Trixie
Oh dear, ROFL at all your stories. Some Lesbian friends suggested to my partner and I that it would be worth trying but so far haven't taken the step. Now, after reading your stories, I don't think I will - I just can't stop laughing!

From Krissy
I have tried theses recently (well rather one of them). I had run out of batteries for my vibe & was feeling rather horny so I tried out my enameled dragon cloisonné stress balls to which purpose have used as since sold to me. Imagine if you can the wonderful surprise I received! Just rubbing the ball on my vaginal opening & gently popping it & out of my vulva while rubbing on my clitty made me come really fast! Yum!

From Joss
I went into a sex store to seek some ben wa balls. Already having pierced my "hood" I was looking for some more "selfless" pleasure. After buying them and returning home I had put them in. They only fell out a couple times. I was pretty impressed with myself. Anyways at the end of the day I was starting to wonder, "how long is safe to keep these in." So, I went to take them out. What I experienced within the next hour can only be described as blissfully orgasmic. I decided to give myself a little rub and my goodness, I saw fireworks. Being the little perve that I am I had to do it again, and then once more to top it off. So, whatever, I'm all done taking care of myself and go to take them out. They were gone! I searched my bed sheets- couldn't find them, but I could feel them. Ahhh. I was a little nervous about the whole thing so I ran downstairs to my husband," Honey... I'm in trouble. I lost my balls."

It's kind of funny, eh? He told me to relax. With the birth of my child I really know how many ways a simple exercise ball can open up your pelvis floor and make a baby fall out. So I straddled it, wiggled my hips, and pushed. Ahhh. I would have never have thought that I could actually come like I did without clitoral stimulation or penetration. One was still missing in action though. I went to my bed, got on all fours and searched. I found it. I kind of had to work it out with my finger and every time I touched the ball, I blew my load. Like another 3 times. When I finally retrieved the second ball all I could do is stare at them with awe and roll them in my palm. Who would have thought? Not me, I under estimated these tiny things.

So, that's my first go with them. An experience that I will never for get. I look forward to using them more and using them during intercourse with my husband. At first, I didn't know if what happened to me was normal, but now I realize these balls are truly a martial art, and me, well I plan to perfect it. Cheers.

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