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From Mark
To Anonymous (see below): It's not a matter of which place, pussy or ass, is tighter, it's simply all about the thought of putting ones penis in a 'forbidden' hole, so to speak. In other words, it's a mental thing, not an actually 'how it feels. thing. What alarms me is that you said "if I had a choice". Please please never forget you always have a choice. If your guy is a decent person, he will not pressure you into doing something you don't like. 

On the other hand, if anal sex does give you an orgasm, then perhaps now and then a little anal play that doesn't involve his penis might be fun. Some women, like my wife, don't like the feeling of a penis in their ass, and especially don't like the thrusting motion. Try a small anal sex toy, or a little finger play. Often a little pressure right there is sexy as sin, but too much is a turn-off. 

Bottom line is, if you don't like it, that's fine. There's nothing wrong with letting your guy know that anal sex is not your thing.

From Anonymous
I tried anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time. It started out so painful and I hated it. I asked him to pull it out but he refused and told me to relax. It wasn't as bad after he kept it in for a little bit. He was really patient about it. I ended up trying it another time with him after that, and it wasn't as bad the second time. I can't say its my favorite as opposed to him putting it in my pussy. I like when he puts it in my pussy more than anal.

The thing I don't get is this... He says I have a tight pussy and that's why he likes sex with me. Yet he says he liked trying anal sex twice with me because I have a tight asshole...so, if both are tight why does he have to want anal sex? I don't feel right doing it, the thought of it sounds so weird, but it can bring an orgasm. But I have soooo more of an orgasm with vaginal sex. So if I had a choice I would choose that one over anal any day...

From Gram
When my wife suffered a vaginal discharge a few months back regular sex was off the menu until the antibiotics cleared things up.  Yes there was an alternative - anal. 

We had tried it before and enjoyed it but that was many moons ago before the children were born.  She researched anal on the net and I bought six tubes of lube.  With lots of our normal foreplay she was up for it, me lubing her ass and my cock.  I eased myself in, slowly so not to hurt her but with every new inch inside her she gave out a gasp and in a few minutes I was fully in.  I then went in and out but the sensation was mind blowing.  My cock was super sensitive and I felt every centimeter of my wife's anal canal and she said my cock inside her felt like it was the size of a wine bottle. The two of us were moaning and shouting in a crazy ecstasy so loud the neighbors must have heard us! 

It was an amazing experience for both of us and an activity we have repeated almost nightly since then.  To help us achieve improved satisfaction my wife now has a colonic irrigation three or four times a week, and I acquired a 12 inch strap on to give her longer ecstasy.  I suggested that the time was right for her to experience cocks other than mine in her ass (and mouth and pussy) and we should think about inviting a suitable young well hung guy (we are in our 50's) to join us at which my wife was very excited so we are currently searching the net for him.

From Anonymous
Since the first time I have played with my ass have I envisioned a woman taking me.  I am not gay, but I love to have dildo in my ass.  A few years back I bought a dildo and lubed it up and slipped it into my ass.  I was immediately aroused and have enjoyed it ever since.  I wish my wife was into and would like to convince her to find another guy so we could all have some fun.

From Mark E.
It's awesome to read the stories of other couples who enjoy anal sex as much as my wife and I. Due to a violent rape when she was young, vaginal sex was never pleasurable for her due to her injuries. The only way she could experience an orgasm was through oral sex.

The very first time we tried anal sex she experienced an incredible orgasm. As some others here, we no longer have vaginal sex. We have anal sex about three to five times a week with a little oral sex now and then. Or sex life is better than ever. We are both glad we tried anal sex, as we now experience orgasms together.

From ~*A*~
My husband and I have been engaging in anal sex throughout our entire relationship. I think you have to have complete trust in your partner before you proceed in order for you BOTH to enjoy it. Make sure you have enough lube and you are good to go. 

Let me tell you women... to have a man gently, deeply thrusting in your ass while playing with your clit is amazing. It's not something you can do each and every day, but he and I do it at least 2 or 3 times a week. I have the most intense and amazing orgasms I have ever had like this. Not to mention he very much enjoys it too!  Men - all I have to say is be gentle, work it in slowly, and listen to her. You'll reap the rewards of the labors you sow!

From Anonymous
I have always thought anal was gross. I have started an affair with a coworker. The other night he was licking my back, starting at the top of my spine. He had always stopped at my tailbone, but for the first time he started softly licking my anus. It drove me absolutely wild. Maybe it was just the enthusiasm he has for eating me out, but I loved it. Although I don't think I could actually tolerate penetration, I was absolutely surprised by the fact that I found analingus so enjoyable. I guess it is true when they say "don't knock it until you've tried it!"

From Rob Calvert
Anal sex takes getting used to. I've had anal sex with my wife of 52 years now 3 times. The first time we were about in our mid 30s. She said she was sore for days and it felt like she had less bowel control. The second time we had been to a party and they played a film with John Holmes sticking his monster cock up a playboy bunny's ass. She couldn't take all of him but my god she was gorgeous. Well that film must have turned my wife on because the next day she was outside weeding the vegetable boxes and called me to come out there. When I stepped out the sliding glass door she said to my surprise; "I want you to fuck me up the ass!" Well folks she thrilled my dick to instant stiff and we marched into the house and I took her right there on the living room floor on her knees. This time it was better and there was not that loose bowel feeling she had before. 

Then just a few years ago she showed more foresight than I could have mustered when I developed prostate cancer and had to have it removed. So in her thoughtful and mature nature she came into the bed room and whispered in my ear; "Honey, fuck me in the ass one last time." So I did with relish and this time she had a crashing orgasm with me as a fitting close to our last time. So those of you that still can, and want to, please stuff her beautiful ass full of hard cock, and give her one for us.

From Anonymous
One woman's point of view: I've read some comments about all the lube and semen causing a change in bathroom habits the next day. I would suspect you're either using the wrong kind of lube (astro-glide is very nice and actually tastes good) or using way too much. You really only need to coat the cock with light but consistent coverage of lube and some around the woman's anus, massaged in for an inch or so if possible with the goal being no skin against skin which is what causes the friction. Personally, I've found too much lube lessens the sensations I feel.

I do notice I may need to go more easily/readily the next day but surely have never experienced extensive 'leaking' or bowel problems such as those described by some of the females here. Not to say they're not telling the truth either, ok grrrls? I'm not picking at any of you.

I've tried anal with and without lube and got nowhere with the second option, Way too painful. With lube, I ask my partner to just position himself at entry, then I work myself onto him at my own pace. and, oh, by the way, he may find that he enjoys that quite a lot. If your mate wants to do you without lube, ask him first to let you stick your finger in his ass with no lube so he can gain an understanding of what he's asking. 

First feller who tried it without lube, just kept saying, it's ok, it only hurts getting the head in—well, I had news for him. Then told him he'd only get to try that again if I could do him with a full sized dildo with no lube first. (hint to fellers here—in case you haven't really gotten the point yet, if you really want your woman to try it, do yourself a favor and use lube. The incident I'm describing is as close to rape as I've ever gotten since I told him no repeatedly but he insisted— needless to say, it was a while before I would try again and I never ageed to see him again anyway.

From Lorrie
To the ladies who complain about the oozing of semen and lube afterward and the following day of anal sex, I recommend taking a small enema afterwards to clean out the colon and thus eliminate the dripping problem.

From Blak
Now I've been able to have this girl do anything I want. Before her I never stuck anything in anyone's ass, but to my surprise after we were anal fucking for a few weeks I noticed she was coming. But I'm in her ass, was going through my mind. But since im a cockhound i kept going and going and she liked it, except for the first time she cried.

From Love-It-Wet
I'm a guy who loves giving and receiving anal sex. I never realized it until my now ex-girlfriend's hand got lower and lower until she was playing with my asshole. I loved it. It was so sensitive and tickled so much but was extremely erotic. It moved on to fingering myself and using a dildo. The feeling is intense on the outside but the emotional turn on in the inside. I really don't feel much inside but for some reason I liked that she was there.

When giving, it's not all that different from vaginal sex. A little tighter but not much. It's the kinkiness that does it for me. My girlfriend would question my desires at times. My wife did at first too but I think she's over it now.

From Micky
I love anal sex its the best tight and hot . The less movement the better, just the thought of being up there in her ass as well as from behind - it's a double whammy. I love being inside a women's arse, I can't think of anything I like so much. I am big and inside is best it's sooo tight and unbelievable. 

Once you find a girl who likes it you won't do anything else. It's so god damn HOT in there its like a raging furnace, no wonder it was the work of the devil years ago and taboo. If it's the arse or vagina, I take the arse every time. 

My cock just fits in my girl's ass and it touches the walls. I come and nearly pass out with all that lack of space in there and its never flaccid, I come again and again, it's so muscular and clamps the whole penis. Slow and hardly any movement no need the tighter the better and the look on your partner's face slightly painful water in her eyes and holding her breath she loves me in there. I can masturbate her and we explode in a frenzy. I like to teach the rites of the back passage.

From An Anonymous Lady
My boyfriend and I tried anal sex in the missionary position. I hate to sound sheltered but, I did not know about that position. I always figured anal was just with the guy behind the girl. Well, in the beginning it really did hurt like hell! 

After some time I was surprised to find that I was actually having an orgasm that felt so good and so powerful that I started crying. I felt embarrassed afterwards, because I did not think I could actually come from that. I always thought that type of sex was dirty and unacceptable, but I see it a little bit different now.

From Anonymous
The first time I tried anal sex I was pretty nervous. I'd had several boyfriends before who pressured me to try it, but I never trusted them enough to go with it. I'm glad that I waited (like the way some people feel about losing their virginity!). My wonderful partner was and is very loving and patient (don't underestimate the importance of lube). I have to say that not only can it feel fantastic, I love the all-over feeling of relaxation that needs to happen in order for anal sex to be comfortable (for me, anyway). I just give myself up to it. A vibrator or a dildo in your pussy at the same time can be a turn on for both—he can feel it through the vaginal walls.

I am contemplating buying a Strap-on because it's my fantasy to give him something like the pleasure he gives me. I like to imagine myself thrusting into him. He's the first man I've been with who I sometimes want to trade places with sexually, just to know what it's like.

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