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From Judy
Oh my god, Anonymous [see entry below], I could just hug you for being brave enough to tell it like it is. There's not one single mention of the dastardly after effects of anal sex other then yours. Shame on the rest of us for not being so up-front.

As enjoyable as anal sex is (and remember, not everyone enjoys such stuff so if your partner isn't into it, please don't nag, coerce or pressure them into something they don't want), there is a price to pay, and the after effects are damn lousy. Cum & lube dribbles out hours later (which is really yucky, let me tell ya), then there's the real possibility of urgent diarrhea the next day, due to all that slippery stuff that was so necessary during the deed. Like Anonymous so aptly said, lube and cum does a number on bathroom habits. Alas.

From Anonymous
I love it, but the day after is another story! I find that all that lube and cum does a number on my bathroom habits! Best to do this Friday or Saturday night so as to get "regular again." A big reason why I am not so crazy about anal sex is it can cause a little bit of bleeding and cramping. I experienced it. I did not tell my boyfriend because I was to upset to even talk about it. I don't see why its so important to him, especially when he talks of how he likes other types of sex with me. 

There was a little bleeding even after using a lot of lubrication etc. I am just not a big fan of it. I don't think its bad for other people. If someone else likes it, I applaud them on finding it enjoyable. I just don't think its for me.

From Mick Ale
Hear of pussy whipped? Well I am ass whipped. My gal is a black lass with an ass to die for. I am so so into her butt I think I will die wanting to go to hell. She is very short and thin waisted and half my age. She is actually aware she has a disproportionate rear end to the rest of her petite body. I am so lucky, when we get into bed and she just lays on her tummy her posterior is sitting up like a giant bubble arse, round and enormous I literally have to climb aboard and mount her like getting on a horse.

We don't use contraception so we prefer anal sex and when my huge cock is inside her massive round rotund derriere I hold her hips and pump her form behind and she squeezes her butt cheeks together and clamps my cock. I come inside her and just collapse in a heap resting wrapped over her butt. It is like doing yoga on a big ball it's so bubble ass and round.

I do it doggy all the time but for some reason vaginally it is not the same. Her ass is so big I can't get into her as easily so its rectum rear ending all the way. She gets so juiced up and it's so tight and hot I think I am a beast sometimes and my mind explodes because something so nice and natural yet it seems so primitive and animal and lusty. I feel like a high priest of magic performing the rites of the back passage on a virgin every time its so tight.

From K
I enjoy anal sex a lot. I was interested in it at a young age but too afraid to act out on it. Now, we do it very often! One time, my boyfriend laid me down on my back, put my ass up so that he could slide his cock in and then inserted Carmen's fun cock (the blue one) into my pussy. It was the best feeling I have ever had. I came everywhere and before long he was slamming in and out of my asshole as if it was a pussy. I had my DP without all of the drama of an actual person. We live in a small town so we are careful. Does it hurt at first? Hell yeah but it gets better!

From Tam
Hi Dale [see Dale's entry below]- I can put a female perspective on a few of your questions. Yes, anal can be a bit smelly and messy. That can be avoided if you know you're gonna do it (quick trip to bathroom for a wash), but if it's a spur of the moment thing...well. I think if you're really into it, and the moment, then its not an issue. Keeping a towel by the bed (at all times) isn't a bad idea and all it takes is a quick wash-up afterwards. 

If you're gonna be fussing about things like that then you won't enjoy the moment. It took me a while to get used to not worrying about 'is there a mess' but with the right person it's not an issue. My lovely man just brought in a warm wash cloth to clean me up and that just brought home what a special guy he is.

I've seen men penetrated and can't say the hair issue ever seemed to be a problem. Yes, one guy can feel the other guys cock in a DP. That's one of the things my guys loves best. While we're on the 'ass' track, are others out there as enamoured of licking and being licked? Looooove it.

From Dale
Ok, ok, I'm glad we're all talking about this, because I've had a million questions for a hundred years. Count me in as one who's not interested in actually performing anal intercourse, for a variety of reasons. However, After having read all the comments here, my curiosity is peaked a little more than it ever has been before. I don't know if I'll try anal sex, but I do know that it's extremely arousing to read about it here.

From Debbie
I tried anal sex years ago. The guy was very gentle, and no lube was used. It was great. After that I tried it again and it hurt like hell, and well, I just could not relax and the pain took over so it was unsuccessful. Recently, unexpectedly it was tried on me again (without lube). My partner really took his time and even though it was painful, it was as though he knew when to stop...insert more...stop...insert more, etc. Finally, in it went and I felt as though I was in "hog heaven." He was sooo patient. 

I dream of the next time we are together just so we can try it again. I hear a lot of people mention lots of lube, but on the other hand I hear of all the messiness it can create the next day or two. I didn't have that problem with my partner just going in and using the lubrication that was already there from the two of us, and because we were so hot and horny, I believe my body just created its own wetness. I say to anyone who hasn't experienced it, go for it. It's great! I'm glad I did it! (Patting myself on the back)

From Bi-girl
I like it on occasion, like when I'm very very horny. Right after an orgasm is good but my man is usually done for the night after I come. I love it when he fingers my asshole when he's going down on me. Nothing in the world like it. It makes my orgasms that much more mind-blowing.

I was with a guy once who was obsessed with my asshole. He peeled a banana and tried to stick it in my butt hole. Of course it was too soft to work but he kept doing it as he ate the banana. He also kept sticking his fingers in and would suck them afterward and say "Ummmm..."

I also had a guy who wanted to eat my ass while I slept. It drove me crazy because I was dog tired and I needed to get at least a few hours sleep so I could get to work on time later that morning. Otherwise I would have been all for it.

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