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From Sparklekat
I am 60 y.o. Sex at this moment is a complete disappointment. I've always been active sexually and so has my husband. But in the past few years I do nothing but fight with him about this. He says he doesn't feel like it. Once in a while I get him to but I think it's because I bug him enough. So that makes it not the way I know it can be.

To make a point whether it was right or wrong I disappeared for a couple days and prior to that I stopped doing anything in the house. He was really upset and wanted to know where I was, I did not tell him. He went to Dr. for his yearly physical and asked the Dr to check his testosterone level. I'm hoping that this will be the beginning of us regaining our love making.

Touch is the most wonderful thing that shows you love someone, and makes your relationship better let alone feel absolutely delightful!

From Anonymous
The short answer is that it's gotten better. Many years ago, an older person warned us that if we wanted to keep our marriage alive, we had to work at it, and always make it top priority. We took that advice seriously. It doesn't hurt that the Warrior Queen is a creative and imaginative lover, who initiates things at least as often as I do, and has very definite ideas of what she wants from sex. She tends to be the dominant one, and sex for both of us translates into making sure that her pleasure is maximized. Not surprisingly, this tends to keep me pretty satisfied, too.

We must be doing something right, since it's 43+ years for us (plus a couple of years before marriage), and the mere sight of her still gets me all hot and bothered. The main differences between now and then:

We're down to once a week, sometimes twice, but the quality of each encounter is much higher - more concentration on oral sex, especially for her; more little casual gestures of affection, touching, stroking, etc.

From Todd
Has sex changed for me over the years?  Well yeah, I think about it more now and do it less. Gone are the carefree days of youth and the ability to get it up and cum numerous times a night. Gone are days of being able to take the top off it and still be able to shoot a healthy load.  Gone are the dreams of youth where you thought it was all there was and an unending supply would be before you. Sigh.

As we get older our tastes change and that influences what we expect from our sex life. We are less likely to be adventurous and try something a little different because we get used to the life we have and accept the status quo. I know that this does not happen for everyone but for the majority it is so and many bemoan there fate but change is a little more difficult because we now see the repercussions of our actions and how they effect others.

From Gussy
I was married to a lovely lady who just passed away, she was 27 yrs older and was  a lovely woman. Ben Franklin, America's 1st electrician, was right when he said,"Prefer older ladies to younger ladies." And for a guy with a fetish for ladies in 1/2glasses like for reading, well this lady did a lot of great things with hers, which she kept hooked to a string of pearls, and her heels too! She was so loving and willing to mess with her hubby's fetishes. I miss her dearly.

From Marilyn
I'm 66 and as horny today as I was when a teenager.  Hubby and I have sex in one form or another every evening and weekends.  We are not swingers but if our friends are in the mood then we'll invite them to ours for the weekend, enjoying some very satisfying couples sex.  I also have my figure and looks and a regular model for lingerie sessions at hubby's photographic club, the younger guys stunned I can exude sex appeal at my age.

From Jessi
I'm 34 and recently had sex with a 66 y/o work colleague.  Although retired he works as a consultant at the ad agency I'm with.  After the Christmas party  I went back to his apartment.  When he fucked me he shot so much cum I began to wonder if he was some form of sex freak, his stuff was still running out of my pussy five minutes after he'd shot.  The second time was a lot less, I was giving him head but didn't want to swallow so he shot over my boobs, just a few blobs.  Still, a great experience but it had me wondering if old age did really mean less cum.

From Ted
We're both 59 years old and having a better time than in past years. We've got the house to ourselves, fewer distractions and definitely fewer inhibitions. Neither of us is bashful about what turns us on and gets us off. Being more open is proving to be very erotic.

From Dan
What sex?  Several years ago my wife announced she was not going to suck me anymore as it gave her a sore throat.  I checked with my Dr., found no problem so problem had to be wife's.  Several years later I became impotent, tried the various cures, etc. nothing helped.  I have discovered I can still have an orgasm via fellatio but of course that's not happening now as my wife suffers a non - existent sore throat afterwards.

I can of course bring her to an orgasm via use of my hand or mouth, but with no reciprocation it ain't happening. I repeat, what sex?

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